>be me>have fat parents>been going to gym for 2 years now>have reaped hypertrophy handsomely>say to my parents i'd like to just eat chicken, veg and greek yogurt everyday and eat whatever to get up to 2700 cals a day to lose fat>parents freak out about muh youre insecure about yourself muh you think youre fat youre not fat>mock me for wanting to look like a bodybuilderwhy are normies like this?
>>76681842My mother is/was exactly like this, its the age old crab mentality.
Don’t pay any attention to your parents. You’re doing the right thing improving yourself. See if you can make any fitness friends
>>76681842Welcome to the club, have a seat it was the exact same for me.My mom reacted as if I insulted her when I started to cook my own meals. All of them were mocking me and trying to get me to fall off the diet, so I moved out. After losing ~20 kg they suddenly stopped mocking and wanted to know what type of magic I used to achieve that. Of course eating less garbage and being more active is not possible lmaoHope it works out better for you than it did for me.
>>76681842tell them you want to change from belly dominant fat to all-around fat. don't forget to have 21" arms on the side.
What your parents eat doesn't make you shit
Tell them if you don't start losing weight it's going to go all to your breasts. Give them an ultimatum: you will either embrace the male or female form, their choice, but you refuse to become a genderless potato blob.
>>76681842Just explain to them what bulking and cutting is and that it is a very normal and healthy method for building strength and muscle when done properly. Let them know that you are not making an absolutist or moralist judgment about your body (I.e. “I’m too fat and that is bad”) but rather it’s part of a long term plan to improve your strength and health.
Have you tried getting a job and moving out lil bro
>>76683984i have a job and do not want to move out.
>>76684451Ok then stop complaining.
>>76684453oh let me guess am i an ungrateful spiteful little zoomer who takes shit for granted all the time and is ungrateful and spiteful? fuck off
>>76684480You chose to not move out and you whine about consequences of not moving out.
>>76684482the consequences of not wanting to move out should not involve my parents ignorance preventing me of wanting to better myself. not even remotely related.
>>76684486You can just move out and live alone and live by your rules.
>>76681842Ignore them, sometimes our parents are our worst enemies or/and what keeps us behind. Especially today now that boomers and gen xers got bodied by internet brainrot, most advices coming from them are dog water
>>76684488>just move out bro
>>76684493Yes, the solution is simple, but I digress, humans aren't magnets, that's why like attracts like.
>>76684498yeah, real simple solution.
>>76684500I missed the part where that's my problem.
>>76681850So was mine. I just ignored her long enough to move out and now she wonders why I never visit and we never speak.
>>76684506And how do you know what she wonders?
>>76684504no one asked if its your problem. its the reason why your advice to 'just move out' is retarded.
>>76684513Make more money instead of blaming the system and your parents. Find a roommate. Stop mooching off your fat ass parents, obviously they're unwell and you are taking advantage of them.
>>76681842Dis nigga asks his mom to cook for him
>>76684527not him but you should kill yourself
>tell mother I want to eat better>she says she wants to too
>>76682792Or just tell them they’re fat and retarded and you don’t want to be like them. Ya know, the truth.
Lead with example anon. Proud of you, do what is best for you
>>76685069Also neither of those assholes but it's a binary choice. Either live with your parents and accept they're still going to try and micromanage your life well into your 30s or move out.>>76684500Nooooo I can't afford a 5 bedroom mcmansion by myself like boomers could it's ogre! You and other poor anons in your situation could rent a place together. Or you can whinge online. It's really up to you.At my last job at a state park there were volunteers who got to stay there for "free" if they helped out a little. Some of them were quite rich and were simply choosing to be there instead of having to be there. Meanwhile my coworker in her 30s still lived at home and would complain about her Mom micromanaging her and wanting her to hang out with her 10 year old son instead of bailing all the time to go get dicked down by random greasy brown guys.You can't have it both ways.
>>766818421. move out2. do better than them3. don't give them money if they ask (not common with parents, but can happen with siblings - trust me)
>>76681842fat fuckin crabs in a bucket
>>76681842>grown >man>mama, dada, please prepare me this food insteadpathetic
>>76684488>just waste money on the rent jew goyim
>>76681842if you can't move out, at the very least buy and cook your own food, they should at least be happy you're trying to become self sufficient. But you should still try to have a meal with them once a week, just don't expect them to buy food and cook for you
>>76681842Leave them behind anon.
My mother is skinny and obsessed with eating healthy but she still complained about me going to the gym and wanting to look jacked. I just jokingly called her a glowie sent by the government to steal my gains and kept going. She stopped trying to convince me when she found out she wasn't going to change my mind.
>>76681842It's better to not share your goals with anyone.Having ambitions just makes other people jealous and insecure, and entices them to sabotage you.
>>76686233trvth nvke
>>76681842It's an eternal struggle anon
>>76681842Ignore ignore ignore
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>>76681842Success breeds resentment, sounds typical. Normies especially freak out if you do any kind of extended fast, so don't mention it if you do.
