>32>can't even bench 225>can't even squat 3pl8s>still in college for a masters in accounting>little work experience>networth of barely 5K>never had a girlfriendIs it over? How could I salvage this?
>>76688413Wont accounting basically disappear because of AI?
>>76688413This is me but with a gf and 70k 5 years later.Keep trying nigga
>>76688413>34 >can’t quite bench two plate>can’t even squat two plate>can run a marathon in under 3:30>net worth of $3M>marriedfeels good man, no one cares about how much you can lift
>>76688413gonna be so funny when you get one shotted by an emo groupie hoe lmao
>>76688413At least you're not me.> -50k net worth> Unemployed> Bloat Lord (270 ibs. 6'3)>Ma's garageI'm a little above 1/2/3/4, but given my size, that's not much
>>76688413>Is it over?Yes, I'm 25 and have a decent job but life will never get better. We'll never be normal people. We were never meant to be happy. All I can do is keep going day after day until my brain degrades just enough for me to lose my survival instincts and finally be able to pull the trigger.
>>76688562Oh and 27. 27 year old unemployed guy who took loans to go college after high school.Maybe I'll become one of these warfighters Hegseth is talking about
>almost 34>emaciated>kissless virgin, think almost every girl I see in public is cute, never talk to anyone>live with parents still and barely talk to them>worthless job where I've wasted my life>no social connections outside of my hobby>can't even put into words how miserable I am, barely speak, never laugh, never smile>do nothing to change because I see no point, I'm so humiliated by getting to this point that there's no point to try to fix anythingWhy would a woman want to be with a loser? Why would people want to be friends with a loser? Why would any decent job in this horrific market want a pathetic loser in their company? What's the point of living on my own when I'm not going to make anything of it anyway, and completely humiliating myself living with roommates in my mid 30s, and they'll see what a loser I am? Every night I pray to die. I pray on my hands and knees for a heart attack, aneurysm, cancer, anything to end this.
>33>2pl8 bench x 5 reps>2pl8 squat x 8 reps>only 30k in the bank>broke up with girl i was about to marry in may>Live next to parents and have to pay 300>still have my hairHow bad would you rate my situation?
>>76688587a philipino wife would fix you drop the ego and get your passport
>>76688438accounting degrees are very versatile and can easily transition into roles related to tax planning, finance, mergers and acquisitions, valuations, internal audit, IT audit, advisory/consulting, etc.>>76688413the only troublesome part is no gf, start dating apps asap its a numbers game you need irl XP. 1 year of 2 different dates per month should give you the rizz you need to earn a 8/10+ gfits mind numbing and soul crushing but if you persist you will be rewarded.
>>76688413>masters in accountinghuh? what's to master? tax laws?
>>76688589Fairly weak on the squat given your bench, but not bad life wise
>>76688606>1 year of 2 different dates per month should give you the rizz you need to earn a 8/10+ gfmost retarded post I've read today
>>76688577The drill sergeants are going to beat your ass. US military culture is going to copy russia so expect ass rape, beatings, and having your pay stolen.
>>76688612I'm assuming he isn't ugly, just socially autisticyou can learn to be charismatic and charming by exercising social skills on dates, training to failure (women not wanting 2nd dates with you) where am I wrong
>>76688438It's the same as in programming. Everyone is asking "Won't programmers disappear because of AI?" until you realize AI is a bubble and just a scheme of big tech to get more capital and hype up their "AI products".Accountants won't disappear, AI might overtake some very basic operations which are a bother to do manually anyway.>>76688607It opens the door to tax advisory or CPA exam. Also pay is automatically a lot better with a Masters if you look at lifetime earnings.
>>76688621>I'm assuming he isn't ugly, just socially autisticI am not even socially autistic. I just never try because I am a loser and as a result have zero self-esteem. What girl wants to date a 32 years old broke loser with no life, career and dating experience?
>>76688621>where am I wrongthe idea that your life will improve if you "train" basic shit 99% of people are simply born witha 13 year old boy doesn't make friends and lose his virginity because he planned and executed a step-by-step routine to achieve basic social milestones, it just happens naturallywe don't have gfs or friends because we're mentally defective, nothing will ever change that
>>76688634Normies have their minds programmed like you're swapping out floppy discs in their head. We're not the defective ones
>>76688632other girls who have little/bad dating experience and are panicking at the age of 30 something (for obvious reasons)selling yourself is a skill. don't give off beta energy and ensure you have that ambitious career around the corner.>>76688634>planned and executed a step-by-step routine to achieve basic social milestones, it just happens naturallyeveryone has seen that picture and parroting it is unoriginal and retardedit's like any skill, it will come easy to some, others will need deliberate effort.>we don't have gfsspeak for yourself, I'm just sharing what worked for me.
>>76688634Bullshit. We are on /fit/ so let's just look at lifting. The people who try to just go through the motions at the gym either make no gains at all or stall after getting some noob gains. The guys who really build muscle are the ones who follow a plan, research, get their nutrition and sleep right, implement periodization, always reflect on their training as well as results. These actions are done CONSCIOUSLY. You don't just stumble into a good plan, you don't just naturally attract optimal exercises, it doesn't just happen that you become a good cook etc.It's the same with every other aspect of life. You want to become good at dating? You consciously put in effort. Chads are out there trying to figure it out, reflect on their actions, collect experiences, talk with their (female) friends about dates, relationships etc.Post skin because I am suspecting you are a jeet incel who doesn't lift.>good morning saars
>>76688657>panicking at the age of 30 somethingI know I am not in the position to be picky but would it really be smart to rush into a relationship with a girl who doesn't actually love you but just wants to settle down asap out of desperation? Sounds like a recipe for a 2 year sexless marriage and then messy divorce.
>>76688657>everyone has seen that picturewhat are you even talking about, nigger?>it's like any skill, it will come easy to some, others will need deliberate effortit's not lmaoyou obviously haven't spent much time around normies>speak for yourselfkek yeah, as expected you pretend like you're actually succesful while wasting away on 4chanyou haven't achieved SHIT in your life and you think you can give others adviceat least you're still trying, good for youmaybe it'll actually work, who knows
>>76688610>Fairly weak on the squatI'm gonna get it up, did 102.5 x 5, like 2 days ago but i'm on candito 6 week and i will get my squat up fast
>>76688413You just need to try THIS bench. Its unique, the feature of it is that your spotter does all the work for you. You'll come out looking better.
>28 >81 kg, 180 cm (i guess around 180 lbs/5'11?)>lift for 8 years>literally not able to bench more than 110 kgx1 or 100kg x4help me bros please
>>76688678I'd much rather try this bench. It looks uncomfortable but after a few minutes all your problems are gone. Like you will be free to do whatever for the rest of eternity.
>>76688659>Chads are out there trying to figure it out, reflect on their actions, collect experiences, talk with their (female) friends about dates, relationships etcHoly mother of copeif it gives you solace believing everyone else is going thorugh the same hardships as you that's great, just don't pretend like deluding yourself is good advice - just shut the fuck up and do what you want>muh liftingapples to oranges, brainleteveryone is born with shitty muscle mass and low liftsmaybe 0.1% of guys are freaks of nature who can bench over 2pl8s after a week but that's itwith dating it's the exact opposite, it comes naturally to virtually everyoneif you went through your entire teenage years, leat alone young adulthood, without having a single real relationship THAT makes you the freak
>>76688681Find out the limiting muscle. Whether that's your chest or triceps or shoulders
>>76688672>you haven't achieved SHITbrutal projection, keep it to yourself. I'm doing great.I only post to drop truth nukes in my few areas of expertise. my dating xp peak had me overwhelmed with options.
>24yo>used to do super well with women some years ago but because of autism fluked all chances>age faster because of stress, ocd and sleep disorder>now get told I look 5 years older than I am, probably 6+ now (adjusted for aging since last time I got the remark)>can't talk to people my age anymore>can't talk to women my age anymoreI literally don't know what to do bros. Other than just hoping for a miracle, I don't see anything I could do to remedy this.I feel like I spent all this time trying (albeit enjoying it, but with the added feel-benefit of potential returns), lifting, eating healthy, only to be hamstrung by my own body like this. When I go outside I feel out of place, like I have the mannerisms of and dress/behave like a 24 year old person still partly in university, but to other people I probably look like a 30+ year old crackhead with dark under-eye circles, eye bags and a ghoulish visage. I often wonder what they think.
>>76688686That is quite the cardio.
>>76688728anon stress and sleep issues cannot age you that much in such a short timespan. Start applying a PA++++ sunscreen daily. Look up retinol/tretinoin, only apply at night. If you experience hair loss try finasteride
>>76688743I think it can my sleep was actual shit tier, I could sleep for 10+ hours and still wake up extremely tired, actually feeling worse than when I had gone to sleepI'd wake up like 40 times a night I reckon.But thanks for the tips, I have bought a "night" and day creams, only issue I have is I wear a sleep mask (still sleep shit lol) and idk if it's good to wear that over the night cream as it could rub off on it and then potentially into my eyes.
>>76688758have you checked for sleep apneayou don’t have to be fat to have it, it can be due entirely to the way your throat is genetically formed
>>76688782I haven't, I wanted to go to a sleep lab but my GP refused to write me the recommendation paper thing that'd be required for it to be paid by my insurance, so I never went, and that was over 5 years ago. I think I also have UARS because my nose is really thin and my airways get mega closed when I lie down in bed, sometimes it's so hard to breathe through my nose and believe me I've done all the mouth taping shit.
>>76688809>GP refused to write…why? It’s a genuinely cheap test considering how impactful it can be
I am 26, my lifts are nothing particularly special, I’m moderately competitive in endurance sports, I had a military career which was on paper impressive and in practice middling. I work a job at which I am mediocre. I don’t see the friends I once had anymore, and while I am amicable with any acquaintance there is an aspect of nearly any person which causes me to not want to spend my free time in their presence. I have about 150k. I dropped out of college. I spend my days rotating between daydreams of producing children better than me and disappearing into the wilderness. I have at times been a homosexual or nearly enough. I enjoy watching birds. I never had a girlfriend as an adult, I never fully knew if I really wanted one. I was at one point invested in recondite studies, I found them in the end artificial and pretentious. I like to say I’m going hunting and then space out for days. I enjoy thinking that I am better than other people within a certain context. I usually am, but I am never the best. I am a miser. My interests are fleeting. Sometimes I have great bursts of energy. I am preoccupied with my own self image. I would have liked to die in a war if there were any cause which resonated with me. I would like to go to a new frontier. I enjoy creating art. I think there are too many people. My only ambitions are vague and my only goals are diversionary. Purpose often eludes me. I have a great capacity for suffering. I enjoy complaining. I like it when things suck just so that I can complain about it to myself. I dislike embarrassing my family any more than I have already. I do not drink. I do not smoke. I do not dip. I do not take drugs. I have done all these things, but they lost their novelty. None of my days have enough hours. I drink coffee and look out my window.
>>76688932>I don’t see the friends I once had anymore,I got bored of my friends, basically we are not on the same frequency anymore and i came to the conclusion that they are more of a burdenMy best friends dad died this summer from cancer and i was there for him everyday since january and helped him a lot, but after his dad died he inherited the house and got two brand new cars and he was bringing mid girls in his house. Pretty degenarate stuff. He knows that i'm in the faith of Jesus Christ aswell but he is ignorant despite being well educated and somewhat smart. Also he got like 800k and he is looking for job instead of chilling a bit.
>>76688893Idk, we had a few disagreements really, she just sent me to a psychologist appointment that I never went to. Admittedly the kinds of issued I'd described were of a slightly different character (iirc taking extremely long to fall asleep or something like that? But maybe waking up was also included in what zi reported but not sure, think maybe at the time I either woke up less because of less total sleep time hence even more tiredness, or I just didn't notice/thought it was normal). But I'm going to definitely get it done now soon.
>>76688932>I enjoy complaining. I like it when things suck just so that I can complain about it to myself.you described almost all of my friends. bunch of faggots, man. they go like>baww this thing sucksand I'm like no it doesn't suck it's a very easy problem to fix just do x y z. they used to give excuses but now they're just like "yeah whatever I'm retarded lol". so I stopped trying to fix their problems and just call them faggots. most of the time they don't even care but sometimes they have the audacity to double down on their retardation and be upset at me.
This thread is r9k vibes
>>76688711Not him but I am struggling. I need help senpai, how do I get a fucking gf on these shitty apps.>inb4 bee urself
>>76689022/fit/ is probably 30% r9k regulars
>>76688413Norwood status?
>>76688699how do i do that? ohp is 60 kgx5 triceps 45 kgx8 french press
>>76688689>if you went through your entire teenage years, leat alone young adulthood, without having a single real relationship THAT makes you the freaki never talked to woman before i was 24 and got my first gf soon after its easier when you know what to do and saylook up books for that such as 92 tips and tricks for relationships or so by leil lowndes
>>76688562You’re made for construction jobs bro. 1000 years ago you would be sent to raid some poor fuckers and feast on their burning bodies, but nowadays you’re basically a bricklayer or pipefitter.
>>76688728Stop smoking weed
>>76688569are you a 14 year old girl listening to evanescence by chance?
>>76688438People just call everything computers do "AI" these days but that said, most government workers and shit could have been automated starting 20 years ago easily.
>>76690106Haven't in over 3 years and even back then never did regularly
>>76688758anon you need to remember that 99% of "skin care" products are snake oil, you should focus your time on things that are proven to work instead of spending money & time on flashy useless stuff.UVA exposure (sun damage) is the cause of more than 80% of skin aging that the average person experiences in his lifetime. By regularly applying a PA++++ sunscreen you effectively reduce 80% of the damage your skin experiences. If you are an amerimutt you need to do your research because most of your sunscreens don't have adequate protection against UVA rays (the ones that cause skin aging and wrinkles) but only UVB rays (the ones that cause cancer and burning). I am not trying to shill for any jew company but la roche posay is a safe bet and its the one that i also use as a eurocuck because they have a patent for mexoryl which keeps their competition out regarding UVA protection efficiency.Retinoids are proven to work for anti-aging, but you need to remember that if you start applying them it becomes even more important to apply sunscreen during the day because they make your skin more sensitive to sun exposure, and remember do not apply under ANY circumstances a retinoid on your face while the sun is still up
>>76688758and do not apply retinoids on your eye area it can fuck you up both regarding your eyes and regarding the skin around the eyes. there are some jew "retinoids" for the eye area but they are most probably not effective and i do not use them
>>76688413I can do both for reps, but at least you are in your masters, I am 32 and still in university for my Bachelor, at least I will graduate next year tho, but I ain't even in a master program.
>>76690380bro we pressed post at the same time >>76690379
>>76690385Based fellow no-lifer.
>>76688589>2pl8 bench x 5 repspretty good.>2pl8 squat x 8 repsnot bad, imo.>only 30k in the bankfall short a bit but i assume you're debt-free so it's not too late to save and invest as long as you start budgeting.>broke up with girl i was about to marry in maynot ideal but I think you have your reasons, care to elaborate?>Live next to parents and have to pay 300pretty good, your parents are alive and well and your accommodation expense is significantly lower than most people which should leave you some money to save and invest more.>still have my hairincredible.overall, I'd say youre doing well, perhaps what you really need is to take time to review what you coulda done better and come up with plans then execute em, WAGMI
>>76688606>start dating apps asapNot him but I'd rather just stay single lmao. My brother is way taller than me (6'1, I'm 5'8) and a completely normal normie, and he got like three matches when he tried tinder
>>76690373Thank you anon I appreciate the info, but is it even possible for the sun to have aged me this much when I'm only 24? It's like everything just somehow went downhill the past few years. I did go outside and stand in the sun to dry myself after showers during summer etc. but I thought I'd have to be doing like 8 hours a day in the sun to get aging this bad this early. I literally got approached at festivals and stuff just 2 years ago and then boom now people actively avoid looking at me. Wtf.I heard good things about la Roche posay, right now I have the CeraVe night cream and 50SPF day cream and their cleanser and that's it. I'll figure out a way to do the night cream with the face mask.
>>76688413I started lifting at 30+ and am 10 kg away from a 3pl8 bench at around 80 kg bodyweightEverything gym related is easier if you're a chronic failure in other areas
>>76688438No. An AI hallucinating in your balance sheet is the stuff of nightmares. Also imagine the amount of scams you could pull if an AI was in charge of approving invoices and sending out wire transfers imao. You could casually steal millions with the right prompt injection, and if you have no real auditors or internal accountants on staff to figure it out, you might never know...
>>76689022/fit/ had feels general before /r9k/
>>76688413>31>never been able to bench 225 since I never did it consistently>got to a 4pl8 deadlift and stopped, never bothered going over 2pl8s with squat>165 OHP for 3 reps>more of a runfag, got to an 18:30 5k two years ago and a 5 minute mile last year, was thinking about doing marathon training>dropped out of mechanical engineering over a decade ago, transferred to a shittier school and got an econ degree, never got a real job with it since I didn't go for a masters and wasn't social enough at second college so I didn't make any connections there, it was a huge waste of time>take civil service exams because I figure there's no way that I'm fit for corporate culture anymore due to years of being bitter and unemployed>get into air traffic control after passing all the entry exams>one year in and already making six figs and the work is fun and the culture is very dudes rock>match with rich asian girls on hinge constantly but now have zero time to actually go on datesI miss being unemployed
I get told im handsome (by male friends lmao) but I cannot fathom any woman being attracted to me. I have severe dysphoria to the point it takes me a good few seconds to recognize myself in the mirror. I've dealt with self-loathing my entire life. Worked on it for some years but at 30 I think im too far gone. I simply do not like myself. Never had a gf. Never will. Could be worse right bros
>>76688587>Every night I pray to die. I pray on my hands and knees for a heart attack, aneurysm, cancer, anything to end this.anon, don't hold yourself to the same standards as everyone else. That is likely what is holding you back. Focus on yourself and building yourself up. In my early 20s I felt much the same as you. I wanted to end my life but I was too much of a pussy. Basically I would work, play vidya and that was it. It was my own fault. Now I am about to graduate with a BS in CybSec, am in the best shape of my life, have friends, have money, have a gf and most importantly have a relationship with Jesus Christ. Jesus loves you and He wants you to succeed and bear fruit. I pray for a breakthrough in your life, but you have to be willing to trust him and give up bad habits and read his word for direction. I promise you and everyone ITT it's not too late. The devil is holding you back and wants you to fail. Every day he pulls you further from Christ, he succeeds in his mission. Don't allow that to happen, you have free will, you can change
>>76690101Warriors weren't obese
>>76688413love showering like dis, so comfy
>>76690858Don't listen to the sunscreen freaks, thats literal lookism/r9k bullshit. Standing in the sun for a few minutes didnt make you age rapidly in your early twenties. It is much more likely to be your diet, stress levels and quality of sleep.
im 32 as well and my entire life is just spent in endless rumination about how ive wasted everything. im so ashamed and humiliated with what ive done to my life. i cant even explain how i could let this happen to myself. how i can make it to 32 and have no friends, no sexual experience, never got a worthwhile job or career, never moved out of my parents house, never even driving a car. every person i see in public, im so self conscious, i just think aobut how much better everyone is than me. every moment i spend thinking about how far behind i am in life, and i dont even care or try to improve anything because whats the point? im never going to be happy. im never going to be successful. im never going to have a family. im never going to have friends. its not even like i look at rich influencers and want their lives. even the most basic, boring lives that most people have i am envious of. lives where someone has a relationship, maybe kids, their own place, a decent job, doing just normal activites, even thats a pipe dream for me. and here i am on a beautiful saturday crying on 4chan as a 32 year old "man" who should be spending a beautiful weekend with my wife and kids. most people even on here wouldnt even be able to comprehend how someone can end up like this, how do you not get any motivation to change for so many years? i truly hate being alive. i hate waking up every day. i hate having to go through every day. i hate having my evenings alone. the only time i feel any peace is after i turn out the lights before i get to sleep. how is it possible for someone to be this miserable
>>76688413You're we all on your way to being 35 with a 255 bench and a 6 figure income. Quit crying.
>>76690626Very kind words brother, WAGMIBroke up with girl because she was desperate for marriage and thought that she would fuck me over when i put that ring on her, basically it was an act.
>>76688413You CAN lift weightsYou CAN finish your degreeYou CAN find a jobYou CAN get a girlfriendThese are nowhere near impossible goals for you, but you can only actualize your potential if you believe you can. Stop waiting for it, you just have to do.
>>76691585Take the first step to doing something fren, also quit being a retard and see an escort asap. That's one tick off your list. Also expect your peener not to work the first few times.
>>76688413You can't bench 225 a single time?
>>76691585You have 8 years until 40. In 8 years you can achieve a lot. And by that point, youll be at half your life. I was 27 and a virgin, now at 30 ive been with 25 girls, had a 1 year relationship too. Its not too late. imagine being 45 and being in your situation. Think you have pain now? Start small. Baby steps. Its possible to change your life.
>>76688438No lol.
anons ITT tell me and be brutally honest. How bad it is for a man to never have a gf? To never be in any relationship? I'm 25 and practically gave up on women. To be honest I never even tried getting one. I was always the guy who ghosted everyone and wanted to keep the distance. If it wasn't for government trying to flood my country with niggers maybe I wouldn't be so pessimistic about my future
>>76692023I was more or less in your situation until 26. My issue was that I was deeply addicted to porn and jerking off. Even browsing lust provoking image threads on 4chan was enough to make me horny and jerk off. My second issue was that I did not see value in women and really was an incel and hated them. But after Jesus intervened in my life through YouTube videos on Christianity and how relationships are important, it sort of changed my perspective on the whole thing. Look up Father Moses on YouTube, he has a lot of great videos even if you are not Catholic. I decided one day to pray and ask God for a woman in my life and if he did I would do my best to avoid porn at all costs. I've been seeing this girl now and while I'm not sure if she's the one for me God did answer my prayers. Also this was after having one gf years ago for like a month. Now I would say that my disgust towards women is gone as I see that men are the leaders and if you meet a woman you must lead her and eventually a family the right way
>>76692094Also I deleted my massive porn stash and have not jerked off to porn in weeks. I feel a healing in my heart and soul that I haven't felt before. I'm hoping to leave it in my past and proudly say Christ has saved me from my sin
>>76691972>I was 27 and a virgin, now at 30 ive been with 25 girls, had a 1 year relationship too.Did you have issues with your peener due to cooming with your hand for years?this happened to me
>>76692023It's pretty bad man. but I met my current fiancee and first ever serious gf when I was 25. my life changed drastically. I did fuck a few girls before and had some short lived relationships so I wasn't completely clueless, however. you're probably going to have to go through that initially if you want to start having women or a woman in your life. there's a lot of shit that you have to figure out first, and it's awkward and it sucks but then you learnI'm 29 now and my gf has plenty of friends that are single. having a job and being fit already puts you above the majority of guys. they all have jobs, but really let themselves go and are finished at 30yo. I guess if I started to care about women at 25 years old I'd be in a better spot to start dating girls my age than most of their peers. the bar is very lowin any case you need to solve your sex life it's one of the most important things after survival and independence
>>76692140>in any case you need to solve your sex life it's one of the most important things after survival and independenceI would disagree. Life and even relationship isn't about sex. Yeah it's a great thing, but you need to find what your purpose and calling is. If you obsess over sex and women, you will fall into a mindset of desperation and then eventually hate them because of your desperation. Enjoy every day and make an effort to talk to females of course. Don't do it with sex in mind, do it for courting for marriage.
>>76692153>Life and even relationship isn't about sex. Yeah it's a great thing, but you need to find what your purpose and calling is.but there's an order for things. that's like saying "life isn't about eating, it's about purpose".yeah sure retard but you have to feed yourself first
>>76692167What's it like having a 90 IQ?
>>76692167The difference being you don't need sex and many people don't get it. You need food, water, health, etc. People nowadays ruin the sanctity of sex with one night stands and meaningless relationships. Why do you think married couple who have had no or few sexual partners before marriage are much more satisfied with their lives than those who sleep around? It's become weaponized and perverted. People should seek a relationship first and a common vision. Sex is an added gift. I think this is a significant issue today moreso than ever
>>76692171better than being a 30 yo virgin
>>76692184>sanctitychristcuck
>>76688613>US military culture is going to copy russiaThey already have the "failing at military operations" down pat
>>76692192Not really.Getting your >I lost my virginity badgeTo a whore and being a 90 IQ wagie means you peaked long ago.
>>76692193>christcuckI never insulted you. I hope your heart is softened and Jesus changes you and blesses you as much as he has in my life.
>>76692184>you don't need sexmaybe if you're 80 years old or functioning on a steady diet of libido suppressing drugs. a healthy young man absolutely needs sex and a partner. you're not going to find purpose rotting in your bedroom alone staring at the computer, you will definitely find it however with a partner you can build a family with and the first step for that is fucking someonehaving one night stands and going to hookers and being promiscuous is the equivalent to having a healthy sexual life as being an obese glutton retard is to a healthy diet
>36>squatting 330>benching 240>got a job (manual labor but pays well)>around 100k saved>no gf (don't care)>started lifting 3 years agoJust fucking start and commit to it seriously you mongs
>>76692103yes, massive issues. both in my hookups and in my relationship. porn is at fault.
>20>275 bench>300 squat (been slacking)>in college + have job>have gf>under 5'10you can call me a normie but I was a scrawny autist who got into /pol/ at age 12 and only grew out of it halfway through high school.never feel sorry for yourself and never give up.also go to a church even if you don't believe
>>76692270how did you fix it please? go into every detail for us
>>76692325Liposuction.Then coming on /fit/ and being a big dumb fucking faggot.
>>76692325Stop watching porn and dont deathgrip when masturbating. Porn has really destroyed us dudes who who used it for decades and then suddenly became sexualy active. Do everything in your power to stop watching porn.
>>76688413>32, bw 170lbs>can bench 225>can squat 3pl8>still in college getting tax law masters>barely any work experience>decent 6 fig net worth with rich parents >recently broken up with gf Doing better than OP but still feeling empty inside
>>76692342How long did it take to get better? did you use any blue pills etc?My problem is I lose hardness when I put a condom on and enter a vagina, I stay hard during bare oral, and handjob, but can never cum.. I get erections and cum perfectly fine alone.
>>76692352What does this have to do with fitness?This board is a dumpster fire.
>>76692374sexual fitness, also guys need to see the negative side effects of getting laid late in life, this is never talked about
>>76692395>/pol/ is obsessed with the great replacement >/b/ is obsessed with porn>/lit/ is obsessed with not being a midwit >/x/ is obsessed with being an enlightened christcuck>/biz/ is obsessed with making it and having no education or skills>/fit/ is obsessed with no being a virgin while larping as non-virginsThe spectrum of autism.
>>76688413Salvage what, life isn't that serious and checking off boxes isn't going to make you happy.
>>76688562A Bloat LORD?
>>76688589The break up part may seem bad, but it was probably a big positive. Onwards and upwards anon, find yourself a 20 something who isn't a retarded whore
>>76688413Benching and Squatting is irrelevant - does not matter.Health, Wealth, skills and pussy counts. See if you have something you're really talented in.
>>76688587could be worse I'm 39 never had a job, no resume, never kissed a girl, no drivers license, no car.
>>76693659I don't feel sorry for you at all, I'm an unhealthy manlet freak and even I figured out how to get laid
>>76693952I look like a chadlite nowadays, I could if I put in the effort.
>>76693982That's what I'm saying
>>76688413>19>am pretty fit cuz its the only reason I leave my house>joining military >networth of 5k>never had gf >haven't had irl friends in 2 yearsc'est fini
>>76693612>find yourself a 20 something who isn't a retarded whoreDid you see that he is 33? How is he supposed to find a girl who is 13 years younger than him and on top of that be attracted to his wrinkles? He should find someone his age or at the very best 29-30 and settle for marriage and let the young women for young men.
>>76694727Fuck off cuck. If you are 50 year old male you should find 10 year old wife. It's based. In Islam they do it.
>>76688413>How could I salvage this?Seems like you're already doing stuff to improve your life. Just keep doing it, one bit at a time.
>>76688413Of course it isn't over. Keep lifting and you will be able to hit those milestones. Keep studying and you will graduate and get a good job. Stop posting sad frogs on /fit/ and go outside and you will meet a nice lady. Someday all of this will seem obvious to you in hindsight.
>>76688413You'll make it. You will all make it. If I see one of you niggas ever think about not making it I will personally come down to your motherfucking house and make you make it.
>>76694003>militarygood choice, anon. Getting out rn, but also joined at 19, easy time to make friends, travel, get a gf and save money if your not retarded. Was stationed overseas so that shit was dope, but I was also an incel loser before, you'll grow bro
>>76695566I'm an incel loser rn too. I go to meps Wednesday but I'm scared I won't pass :(
>>76688577US doesnt know how to produce soldiers. They think being mean to people hardens them. it does but in a bad way, it makes them anti-social, anti social people are the absolute last thing you want in the military, look at how much money is necessary to make Navy Seals effective, and they still screw up, the reason being they are anti social.Look at how little money is put into Euro special forces, yet they routinely outshoot and overperform compared to American Seals, Rangers, and Green Berets.Team work defeats everything else, there is no substitute for high quality team players.American individualism is a torpedo to an effective and efficient army.Americans need to go to church more, repeal civil rights, enslave women, and LOVE THEIR CHILDREN, enough of this moloch generation of boomers who hate their kids.
>>76696035Based
>>76691443qrd on requirements and tips to get into tower work?I love yapping in multiplayer games like Squad and speak excellent English and been thinking about ATC jobs a lot>>76691529you and all other sad fucks should join a Muay Thai or kickboxing gymgets you cardio and skills as well as a communityI know my mental got gigaboosted after a few lessons
>>76688413Get to it, bro. No time like the present.
>>76688413>28>law school dropout but will probably be accepted back next year>deadlift 515 lbs and bench 275 >work in medical sales and make decent money, net worth around 350k>have seriously dated 3 women and had around 15 to 20 onswould you trade places?
