How do I tell my girlfriend that she has gotten fat and I want her to start eating healthy and go to the gym? I heard that trying to change your lover is a bad thing to do. But is that true even if its objectively good for her?
>>76703226Start fucking other chicks, she'll get the message
>>76703236This.Alternatively you can tell her that you are concern over her health. Such tapid weight gain can't be healthy and she should check her health, take blood tests for hormones, diabetes, vitamins, elements, take hair test for element, etc.
My gf is fattier than she should be. She knows it and is extremely self-conscious about it, but won't make any change. I wonder what mental gymnastics are at play here.
She wouldnt tell you if any part of your physique started slipping, or finances or social value or frame. She would just quietly find another guy in the background while keeping a beaming smile on her face to you every day. And tell you you're perfect and she wants to spend her life with you (but is just too tired for sex right now) before abruptly waking up the next morning saying she can't do this anymore and will be breaking up/divorcing you. And within a day you'd see her under the other dude or dudes' arm(s). Still amazes me how men cuck out in 2025 with "how do i tell my gf/wife she's getting fat" type shit when she'd dispose of you as an afterthought the moment it inclines her to
>>76703262you don't really understand the massive war machine of validation behind every woman. >her single friends>her married friends>her family>especially her mother>especially if her mother is a cunt>her coworkers>male "friends">faggots>traditional media>podcastsit goes on. if she's liberal then it's even worse because they're even more predisposed to that but the only difference between liberal and conservative women is that the conservative ones won't burn coal openly.
my wife is 65kg and i her she looks like she's put in weight every few weeks just to keep her perpetually paranoid about it. i told her soon after we met that I'm not attracted to fat women and they disgust me. we've been together 11 years now. stop being gay
>>7670336115kg too much. If she‘s below 160cm, it‘s 20kg too much.I saw photos of my lady as a young girl, and of her mother and father. Concluded that it will be fine. And is. She hits the gym twice a week at least. Pic related is basically her body, since 2009.
>>76703380she's 168cm which makes her 22 or 23 bmi which she had maintained since i met her. underweight is actually unhealthier than overweight so you want to sit comfortably within ideal bmi, not borderline underweight.
>>76703394>underweight unhealthier than overweightI don't know that I believe that. At the extreme ends, maybe, but at the borderline, not so much.
>>7670339422-23 is a bad way to measure health since it doesnt consider anything like height/fat vs musclebut 20bmi should kinda be around the 18% bodyfat range, anything above 20% is bodyfat is rarely passable18% bodyfat is the ideal, not underweught, not overweight, peak fertility health sweetspot.
>>76703226whore
>>76703226is it hard to call her fatass? must be some delicate ugly nerds in love.
>>76703414the mortality rate for people in the underweight category is significantly higher than overweight, that's just a fact.
>>76703495Haha
>>76703226Invite her to the gym and cook for her
>>76703495At the extreme ends, maybe, because of malnutrition. We're talking about if it's healthier to be a little sticc or a little thicc.
>>76703226I will never stop laughing at every single one of the stupid faggots who make these posts
>>76703226ive been working out and eating clean my whole life. my wife started making excuses and eating cheese cakes immediately upon getting married. she's went from "hot" to "fat" in a year
>>76703348That's not the case here. Nobody is validating her. She just wishes she was thinner and feels threatened by thinner girls around me, yet doesn't take a single significant step to improve.
>>76703262>I wonder what mental gymnastics are at play here.she knows you 92+% won't leave her at her current weight. she wants to eat more because food is pleasurable but she's anxious if she gained another 5 - 10lbs what do the odds look like then.she's guessing it'd be like 67% chance you stay with her. and if she realizes it's 85+% you won't leave her she'll be happy with that and bulk another 10 lbs. and repeat. until you actually leave lol.
>>76703593>Invite her to the gym and cook for herI can'tmy gym doesn't have a kitchen
