>go to gym>decide to finally face fears and approach women>see cute girl with a bible verse shirt >”hey i like your shirt”>”thanks”>goes back on phone>”are you a spiritual person?”>” I believe in God but no”>mind goes blank>”ok nice shirt, see ya”>fist bump her and run awayHow do I get better at this?
>>76760775"What's your favorite Bible verse?"> "OMG Ezekiel 23- Soooooo relatable."
>>76760775cut the small talk and ask for number, also idk about gyms mang if things go badly then you might still have to see em constantly, esp if that's your main gym
>>76760775>approach whomen w/ bible verse shirt>"you can't resolve the problem of evil, can you?">"huh? what are you ta-">"exactly as I suspected, stay in yo LANE guurl...also get of the squat rack, gotta do my sets"it's that easy anon, that easy
>>76760807Don't make the number the goal. You'll just get a phone full of numbers of girls that don't respond.Get some compliance, then say something to make her feel like you screened or evaluated her and she slightly won you over, then either make a plan for a later outing or even better, find out her living situation (you can do this before since you're both probably regulars) and invite her back to yours or hers.Todd VanDeHey is the best pickup artist I ever saw for consciously recognizing, naming, and describing behaviors that for most are unconscious.I haven't studied this shit or even tried since before the scamdemic though.
>>76760828>>"huh? what are you ta-">"TIMOTHY 2:12, BITCH! Now vacate the squat rack!"
>>76760837*1st Timothy 2:12
>>76760831you can just remove/block number of ppl who don't talk to you, i do this anyone on social media who friends or follows me i just unfriend or block if they don't respond
Dawg don't worry about what you should have done or think you did something wrong. What you did is fine, just put yourself out there and get the reps in. Not every interaction is going to go your way but honestly what you did so far is very neutral and beneficial. Thinking and asseing what you need to say/do for next time is good, but don't get lost in the weeds either. The goal should be to work on your interactions. Think of it like lifting, when you first started lifting you got crushed under the 135 bench and looked like a goober. That's what's happening now. But after 100s of reps and consistent work you turn into a sick fuck that can rep 225 ez. Don't worry about being crushed under the conversation/interaction at first, just keep grinding big dawg and eventually you'll see progress dude. Legitimately you're doing the right things now by just doing the work of putting yourself out there. ygmi bro
>>76760775Next time instead of running away you should've farted in her face then did cartwheels away instead.
>>76760807>if things go badly then you might still have to see em constantlySo? Who the fuck cares?
You should cold approach girls who seem to be interested in you. A girl in a public trabsit contantlt glanging at you, a weitress that treats you better than any other client, a gym girl that trans near you or stretched in your view and smiles whenever notices you watching her, etc.If her phone is more interesting than you, then she will rather watch tiktok than go on a date with you. It's a lost cause.You still should approach that kind of girls knowing ij advance it will fail. It will teach you how to approach and reduce your anxiety whenever a real opportunity arises. When I started cold approach I would go for above 9/10 models. Most guys are afraid to hit on them, so they will take it as a compliment at a bare minimum, even if they aren't interested at all.
>>76760775>”thanks”>goes back on phoneYou're not attractive dude.
>>76760775stop trying to pick up girls at the gym if you dont want STDs bro
>>76761174>a gym girl that trans near you or stretched in your view and smiles whenever notices you watching herOh shit, that kind of happened to me the other day.>Stretching as I usually do>ABG chick comes along and keeps looking at me>Later, doing clean and jerks>Same chick is doing some ab exercises nearby>As I'm recovering the jerk, see her staring at me>As I'm adjusting the plates, glance at her again and she's looking right at meFuck... I guess I gotta chat her up next time I see her. Help me out bro, what should I say to her? I'm usually fine with continuing a conversation, but I can't figure out what to first say.
>>76761174>You should cold approach girls who seem to be interested in you.This is the part thar anons with have failed cold approaches get wrong. Talking to disinterested and probably already taken women is just going to get you labelled a creep.
>>76761247You are in the gym and she wears a religious shirt. You asked her an obsious question about the spirituality.Ask her how her workout is going? How long she trains? (A good opportunity to make a compliment that she look good and achieved a great result in such a short time). And just keep talking about gym and training.Tell her you are looking for a new chucrh because yours suck. Ask where she is going (you are not a creep, just looking for information and her guidance). Make it friendly and not too long. "Ok, I'm vooling off, i'll go back to training". Then just proceed with greeting her and chatting her up untill she starts smiling back whenever she sees you. Then ask her out. Churches usually has a shit ton of activities. Even shit like date evenings when they try to set up youngstersm so actually joining church could be fine if you can stand all that bs christian larp.
>>76761247P.s.: let's say you are just a friendly guy who loved chatting up different people. Imgaine some 50yo boomer just starting a conversation with a random guy about his car or ar about training. Pretty much it. Yes, with girls you make it more intimating and sexual and try not to talk about something really boring. But you and her are both interested in training and achieving results. So any topic in this area is fine. And if she looks excited about a specific topic, double down on it.-How's your workout?-Fine (still looks at her phone)-Wish I could feel so fresh. I'm too exausted to even look at my phone. Slow and steady wins the race? (You should challenge her, don't be afraid to insult her in a playful manner)-Yea-I should try that.If she still keeps looking at her just let her be and try hitting on another girl. Don't ever put one girl on a pedestal. Don't ever take her rejection personally.
>>76760775have you tried insulting them? my mate saw a girl with horrible technique on the rowing machine. he straight up said to her form is terrible. at first she was shocked but ended up giving him her number so he could send her some tips