>Wake up with morning wood>Lay there scrolling Twitter>Full erection for 20min with zero stimulation>Decide to fuck girlfriend>Lose erection as soon as I put it inWtf is wrong with me? I hate this. What can I do? I want to stay hard for an hour without trying.
>>76778740Performance anxiety. Get cialis so you train your brain (and dick) to stay erect as your penis is in a vagina.Also it's very difficult to solve this forever. Some people are just cursed, human psychology is a bitch.
>>76778740You just dont like her
>>76778740cut back on the porn and masturbation, my dude. you're training your mind to respond to a certain stimulus, which her vag aint
>>76778746Definitely suffer from performance anxiety. Don’t know how to stop it from happening
>>76778789you can't. This is something that comes from deep rooted trauma and personality. What you do is to get in such physical shape (enhanced by drugs) and hornyness levels that the override trauma.But the sad truth is that unless something big shifts in you, you'll always have it. And that's terrible but you don't have to renounce sex, you just have to do it in a way that acknowledges your limits.
>>76778789maybe try having sex on psychedelics
>>76779253I’m in great shape. Should I blast test or something?
>>76779516Interested in the thought here. Thinking it overrides the brain and is potentially a cure?
>>76779668I wouldn't say overrides more so makes it more receptive to change - at least I think that's why you hear stories both about people losing their shit on psychedelics (when taken in wrong situations/places or too much) and about people curing their depression, other psychological issues and whatnot after a trip. It's like therapy on steroids in a way, the brain is more receptive so if there's some negative thoughts or trauma that needs working through, one can really dive into that and find its root to "solve" and "let it go".So in this case I think if you have anxiety about sex and performing, if you take psychedelics you could both think about why that is happening and explore those thoughts, and then also have banging psychedelic sex to cement sex as something great and not to be anxious about in your mind. Ideally you should both be tripping together to make it a proper therapeutic/bonding experience (also tripping with people you vibe is just fun as fuck).Ofc. I'm not making any guarantees or whatever, and I would recommend starting with a low dose if you've never done psychedelics before - if you do that and stay in a comfortable environment and trust ur gf, you should have a good and fun time. If you want to be extra safe you can have some benzos on hand (but not necessary esp. with lower doses), just knowing they're there can make you more chilled out lol.Also on a totally unrelated note how is your cardio or general sex drive? Those could also maybe be a factor, are there cases where you can stay hard no problem? Maybe if u get ur sex drive high enough with some shit (idk what the cum/sex stack is off the top of my head rn lol) you could just skip the anxiety part by being horny enough.
>>76779785I’m in top shape on every metric. It’s really unlikely to be physical related unless I have a vein leak or something.I have times where I have great sex but then I’ll have a bad experience and that leads to anxiety and 10 more bad experiences that’s hard to break out of.Although I would say I’ve never really been a guy that can go for 2 hours even at my best.
>>76778748This and more likely this>>76778764And another thing, stop scrolling twitter as soon as you wake up you fucking degenerate.
>>76778740If you can physically maintain an erection, then you do not have erectile dysfunction. Your problems are psychological. Seek professional help.
