Fuck you all how the fuck am I supposed to find friends as a ugly autistic man who's only interested is scifi and Mecha
i been telling you young bucks about this for years. Some little fags talking about going into "cocoon mode" I said "NGMI"
>>76863816Go to a war gaming shop
>>76863828So what’s the answer, oh wise oldfag?
>>76863828>>76863836>>76863839There isn't really a wargaming shop nearby me and I am just a ugly autistic man who's 22 and never had friends outside of highschool. My "friends" saw me as a lolcow because I would have panic attacks, stuttered and such so I started lifting and still wasn't liked.
>>76863842>>76863816Go to texasI saw this bald roided muscular chad with a beard buy gundams
>>76863842Who cares lmao.You may think that’s a generic and nothing response but it’s more in depth. People like confidence.Buy your Mecha and mini figs, don’t be a scared little autist about it. Be a proud autist.Don’t sperg out in public of course but if you cower doing things you like people will notice and make fun of you. The key is to not give a fuck.Also battle tech > gundam
>>76863816Force yourself to talk to ppl.Only way out.Takes a while.Took me 2-3 years in a job that requires lots of human interactions.After that I could have e normal conversation.
>>76863828Kek>>76863816Want to be friends OP if yes throw me a way to contact u off-site I also like scifi and mecha
>>76863816The prettyboy lifestyle isn't all it's hyped up to be. There is no such thing as an ass without farts, and I'm filled to the brim.
>>76863816News flash autism niggerNo one wants to be your friend. Friends are largely over rated. Learn to small talk and get over it.
>>76864128Confidence is nothing without charisma, knowing what's funny when to say what, how to move talk, social ques. both are skills you cant fake. If you just confidentially ask out a women it fails, because you don't know what the hell you're doing and why it's creepy, same with making friends.
>>76863816There's a literal retard autist janitor at my work that has a more active social life than anyone I've ever met. He's an hyper ugly chud phenotype, but has tons and tons of friends and is always going out and doing stuff with them.
Let's forget this place is ruined, this thread is probably bot crap and noone will care about this post for a second.What is a friend? When does someone you know become a friend? How much contact do you need to have to stay friends? The answer to this questions and the likes of them is: friend is a word and nothing more.What people know as friends are just other humans and even animals doing their own thing that you interact with to various degrees of "depth" and "dedication".Why state the obvious? Because many seem to dream of this fantastic people that strike your boring life down, stay with you forever, are ment to work with each other and will be there for you and enjoy your company naturally. Just like with dreams and careers, this is pure bullshit.Just because some autist loved math all his life and dedicated every waking moment to work on it and "change what we know" doesn't mean you need something like that, that not being like that means being/doing/having less or that the exception to the rule applies or matters to someone like you. Same with friends. Yeah, some retards fit together since they were 10 and they are still playing tag somewhere in Poland at their 80s, they share everything and care for each other. So fucking what? Build and work on your own stuff.Having said this:
>>76863816You'd be surprised how poor social skills have gotten and how little you have to try. I see so many people playing the perpetually annoyed introvert to try to give themselves the upper hand. Make them giggle and they're puddy in your hands almost instantly.
>>76864399You are yourself right now. You are doing stuff and experiencing stuff in the present. And people experience you in the now, and in their memories of you and ideas of what you'll do. But everything they get from you comes from what you do now.So, to others, you aren't what you possess, nor your thoughts nor feelings. Not even your body. You are what you do.And, upon a bit of analysis and thought, it applies to yourself as well. You aren't the flesh puppet nor the "stab the cleaning lady, I'm hungry, I like dick" you hear in your brain, nor your GameCube. You are the dude reading posts on his toilet.So drop every notion of who you are, what you think, how you think, what you like and what's your worth and, almost magically, become the person you need to be. Not who you want to be. Not who you think is cool or should be. Just that person that will be able to do what you need right now, and get what they need, and accomplish their goals. Disregard everything else, ignore your brain trying to pull you back into the illusion of self, do it all right.Go out, meet others, treat them well, share, listen, meet them where they are and don't try to change them but help them evolve by themselves. You will make friends."I like this thing only autistic people that can't socialise like!" If you throw it all away and still like that, go meet people lile that. Go where they gather. How come medieval fair friends and couples meet and get together? they just go and try and get it.And then again, you don't need to be "interested" in a thing to do it and share experiences. You need to exercise. Get onto some sort of club, go out and try to make your own fun out of it, learn how to be social without monologuing and doing small talk that goes nowhere. Say a joke, comment on random trash you see, butter them up, maybe you like camping and never done it. Figure it out. You don't need to force people to look at your butterfly collection every time, I promise.
>>76864404You will have folk that will be your friend and tell others "yeah, that butterfly anon", and you will drink with them, play pool, go fish and whatnot anyways. Your life doesn't need to be 100% that thing you like a bit more than the rest of the things.Don't stress yourself if the people that like your stuff aren't there for a while.And even iYou can't eat mecha and sci fi. Go take cooking classes, talk with random ladies, be nice to them, maybe you'll fuck them on your Gurren Lagann bed or however you write that. That's life.If you have a kid and is into Transformers instead are you gonna sperg out? No. You show him what you like, see what he likes and why, try to enjoy it for what it is and share experiences you will cherish tomorrow.
>>76864406You will have folk that will be your friend and tell others "yeah, that butterfly anon", and you will drink with them, play pool, go fish and whatnot anyways. Your life doesn't need to be 100% that thing you like a bit more than the rest of the things. If people that like your stuff aren't there yet don't stress over it.What if you meet some and are psychotic cunts? better to have good people aroundYou can't eat mecha and sci fi. Go take cooking classes, talk with random ladies, be nice to them, maybe you'll fuck them on your Gurren Lagann bed or however you write that. That's life.If you have a kid and is into Transformers instead are you gonna sperg out? No. You show him what you like, see what he likes and why, try to enjoy it for what it is and share experiences you will cherish tomorrow.
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I don’t want to get into Pokemon cards because of the weirdos it attracts but I don’t know how to get into hockey/lacrosse as an adult
>>76863816You're not the only one bud. Try seeing if your hobby shops have events/build nights. My local one does weekly meetups.
I lift and have a wife and kids and my only hobby is video games, the wife has never understood why I like them so much. I’m just a vidya autist at heart that would rather play games than do anything else
>>76863816Personality's a skill just like going to the gym. If you immerse your self around people and stop being a neet, you'll pick up personality. You're only 22, you have plenty of time. Just be open to new experiences and failure, not ones that'll fuck you over but new experiences that normies do.
>>76863836>>76866050>Trying to pull him into obsessive nerdshitFuck off. No. He should stay far away from that.
>>76866104It's only obsessive if you make it that for yourself. I do this and still have a good career, social life, and relationship.
>>76864403>make them gigglehow though, my humor is as dry as the pussies of any woman that talks to me
The only way to make friends is through repeated interaction with the same people.I suggest picking a random normie hobby and keep going to meetups or classes until you click with somebody. I went from having no friends to having a few good ones by joining soccer five-a-side. I actually like playing it now despite hating it at the beginning.
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