>be 32>first time having a gf>she is 26 WFH>been having sex every night>very fit now>can see my abs for the first timeis this the secret all this time, thats why guys in highschool were fit, cuz they were having sex, isnt this unfair, all the guys that have sex only increase theit chances more by being more attractive?
>>77122456>Anon figures out cardio makes you loose weightGit good at life nigger
>>77122524>Chad has arrowhead and wrathful as well as blackboard and throwback from skipping the first two blinds
>>77122456alot of success in life is about getting caught up in positive feedback cycles and avoiding negative ones
>>77122456>is this the secret all this timeunironically sex has little to do with fitness or even hormones unless we are talking about extreme cases. sex is purely a character thing. i had sex for the first time ever in my 30s as well. my gf was gorgeous and... i couldn't stay hard. after countless tries with pills and nofap and everything... sex still sucked. im in my 40s now and i never looked back. sex is not for me. i was and still am fit as fuck. i have abs. and after actually experiencing sex i have zero drive for it. it's all in the mind. if it works for you great.
>>77124412Booba
desu getting a gf that is positive for yourself is one of the best things you can do health wise. i've had a couple gfs, but only two that were "good" and like >>77123466 said it puts you in a positive feedback loop. while i was dating those chicks i didn't once think about porn, social media, drinking too much just because etc. it wasn't even a question of me giving these things up, i just never even thought about them in the first place.
>>77124412Anon has ED and copes about it.Sad
>>77124427>it puts you in a positive feedback loopYou're absolutely right, and this is also why incels/blackpill fags are so miserable all the time. They've locked themselves into a never ending negative feedback loop that only serves to multiply their misery.>I'm alone, so I must be a loser>I'm a loser, so I deserve to be aloneI'm sure most of them eventually snap out of this mindset naturally as they mature, but the longer you stew in it the harder it becomes to escape. They just need to learn how to take control of their lives.
>>77122456I have no idea what bullshit you're talking about. It has been well documented that having a partner, boyfriend girlfriend who gives a shit is a gains goblin. I have never been more fit than when I'm single and minding my own fucking business. As soon as I've got a bitch, I'm happy, I eat more, and I'm lazier. I want to spend time with her. I want to eat what she cooks, I want to have more date nights that may have more treats. Or I just don't track as closely as I should to my diet. As soon as I'm single again though, suddenly everything's back on track.
>>77124412i can't walk throught the grocery store without having intricate sex fantasies about every woman who walks past me
>>77122456yup, having sex with hot pussy gives you an aura too. Sex with fatties is worse than hard drugs though.
>>77124445TRVKE stay positive bros
>>77124447Opposite here. My wife is mega active and we lift and do hiking, skiing, swimming, kayaking. Way more shredded with her than before. Just get a non slug human partner.
>>77124421>Boobaindeed>>77124437>Anon has ED and copes about it.unironically coping is literally the only thing you can do about it.>>77124449>without having intricate sex fantasiessame, that's why i jerk off when i get home. i like having fantasies but i don't actually care to have a gf. the sex part of a relationship is like 0.1%. if for you it's worth the hustle then good for you.
>>77124479So you're schizophrenic and asocial?
>>77124479>that's why i jerk off when i get home.So your penis can work, just not with women, evem with pills. Therefore It's something mental, you were probably abused as a kid or something. Go to therapy or do shrooms o algo.>inb4. therapy doesnt workWhatever this anon is doing isn't working either, so might aswell give it a shot
>>77124509Love doing shrooms and plowing my wife for hours.
>>77122456If you have a lot, you'll be given more. If you don't have much, even what little you have will be taken away from you
>>77124412thats because you waited until your 30s to have sex.
>>77124509>you were probably abused as a kid or something.lol no. sex was just pretty mid. i didn't have fun in the relationship. i think no one wants to admit that relationships are 99.9% work. that 0.1% being the sex just doesn't really make it worth it for me. if it works for you then good for you.>>77124520>thats because you waited until your 30s to have sex.that's unironically very likely. i was honestly surprised the amount of shit guys put up with for the sex.
>>77124509He's in his 40s its too late
>>77124549>He's in his 40s its too latei don't know if it's too late but i do feel sex and intimacy for a guy like me would be an acquired taste. i would have to seriously work on it. it boggles my mind how guys arrange their entire lives around sex. keep fighting the good fight guys.
>>77124525>0.1% sexIn my autistic calculations sex with my wife takes up 0.6% to 0.7% of my time alive. Given that I spend around 24% of my lifetime being awake around my wife (remember, 30%+ of your life is spent sleeping), that makes roughly 2.5% of the relationship with my wife being having sex with her.>97.5% [corrected rate] workLol no. Relationships do take work, and that is even beyond the work demanded by having children, earning money for more than just yourself etc. But in my case for example, a sizeable chunk of our relationship is having simple fun together>cuddles>gym>occasional going out for dinner while the kid stays with granma>laughing to lame dad/mom jokes (when I'm down she always manages to cheer me up by being silly)>playful banter>sexually provocative touches and plays that don't necessarily lead to intercourse>the occasional wife's tears over something either too beautiful like a masterpiece art or too sad like some sob story movie (she has a soft heart), and nesting herself on my armpits as she laughs at herself for being a crybabyBut I do agree that many (most?) relationships are not worth much beyond sex, because most women in 2026 suck, and sometimes the women who don't suck end up with douchebags
>>77123466this so much, today i greeted a lot of people and had a good vibe and when the hot girl passed by i went talked to her and got her number, you gotta harvest the energy
>>77124412I relate to this. Except that I had sex for the first time at 22 (already late) and after struggling with ED too.Then I never did again, and now 15 years have passed, I don't think I can do it to be honest.Also >>77124667describe his relationship with his wife, which is great, but my brain is convinced that having a relationship is like having a guard (the woman) that is waiting for your mistake to punish you (by breaking up with you).On another note I've been trying to fuck a fleshlight and it just hurts my penis. I can't imagine what a vagina would do to my penis today.
>>77122524kek. I have never felt such rage as when I lost a Balatro run due to mindlessly playing a royal flush instead of my leveled two pair.
>>77124723>On another note I've been trying to fuck a fleshlight and it just hurts my penis. I can't imagine what a vagina would do to my penis today.You are supposed to use lube, you maniac.
>>77124412Bro its easier than ever to get prescriptions to your door. You dont even talk to anybody just answer survey questions on your phone. Stop being a coping faggot.
>literally had sex late as fuck in life>always watched porn and thought sex was suppose to last at LEAST 40ish mins>first girl I finally got on her back and I just wear this bitch out for a good hour just cause I was mad horny and my refractory period was non existent due to my dick literally saying 'we ain't stopping' >see this girl for like 2 months before she out of nowhere breaks up with me basically even though we didn't put labels on what we were>reason was 'you just last too long and i'm exhausted the entire next day' >ask /fit and find out I"M the asshole because normal sex lasts 20ish mins and I was apparently putting this girl through torture I'm actually kinda nervous just because I'm so sex starved that I think I'd do the same thing to the next girl.
>>77122456>sex increase test>more sex more test>more savage the sex more test>try to rape her That is why bitches talk to murders and crazy dudes
>>77124756That's quite the i.q. you have.
>>77124525>that relationships are 99.9% work. that 0.1% being the sex jThat's because you're not attracted to them. Relationships are like 50% sex, 40% hanging out and having fun, and 10% work. If all you're doing is work then what's the point?
>>77124751Good sex she wouldn't mind. Likely you were just pumping away so she didn't enjoy it like she should. Most sex that "lasts" is just making out with a few strokes here and there. If you're going at it it should last like 10-15 minutes, then take an hour break and go another round.
