>Judges me for not eating cake >says that I'm a pussy or something because I think I need to be on a diet or whatever >says that eating sugar is healthy and normal and everyone should do it once in awhile >judges me for being frugal and never buying anything>is obese and broke with no retirement planwhy do I have friends like this? I think I'm uncomfortable being alone and I need people and the only type of person that will hang out with me is a fucking idiot
i have a retirement plan and I'm fit and I don't say shit to this person about what they do
this type of friend is like the depressed alcoholics that needs you to be depressed and drinking a lot with them so that they feel like they've got company
>>77171190Are you a woman? Sounds like every woman I know with her friends.>YOURE BEAUTIFUL QUEEN DONT LOSE ANY WEIGHTThey don't want anyone doing better than them
>>77171190Australians all use "partner" and gender neutral language because giving out anymore than the minimum amount of information is dangerous. ANYTHING can and will be used against you. People have been fired for saying they have a girlfriend because they were in their 30's and this showed they were not good with commitment. You are either partnered or unpartnered, do NOT allow people outside your close circle to have any additional information.
>>77171204That's cool and I respect it. personally im a huge faggot
>>77171203I had to guess I would say she probably judges herself for standing in front of the open refrigerator eating sticks of butter and needs to project the feeling onto someone else and feel attacked
>>77171204going further, if i, a 35 year old man, said i had a girlfriend, somebody would imagine>girlfriend?>like, a girl? not a woman?>oh my god he's dating a child! he's a pedophile! a child rapist!>he raped a child! i need to tell everyone about this creep>"Yeah, be careful around anon, he's said some weird things about dating kids, yeah seriously he's said that he was dating a child"Australians take something you said or did, imagine a bunch of crazy shit that justifies why they are better than you, then can't tell the difference between their imagination and reality I said that a form, as in a piece of paper work, looked good>he was hitting on me!no, i said the form looked good>but it was inappropriate, making comments on the physical attractiveness of an object was clearly targeted towards meOK, this is what i've been talking about, she makes up these weird fantasies and then spreads rumors about me>I DO NOT FANTASIZE ABOUT YOU!you literally do>IM WANT HIM FIRED! I DO NOT HAVE SEX FANTASIES ABOUT YOU!i never said you did>YES YOU DID EVERYONE HEARD IT
>>77171211I have had very similar experiences at work. accidentally hitting on people that I'm not attracted to or interested in somehow, which I did not do, but I guess I did? because there it is.
>>77171211>>77171214getting in trouble for this sort of thing has led me to avoid certain personality and physicality types as much as possible, which backfire is in my face because now I'm being an asshole. to women. god dammit
I am exactly like that "hello HR?!" meme except I'm super ripped and I suck a different guy's cock every day and ive swallowed like 4 gallons of jizz
>>77171190you gained standards only as of late, let it marinatenow imagine cutting off people who do meaningless hazing rituals around ego or just outright passive aggressive bullying and meaningless squabble that turns into 3 hours of small talkinstead of constructive meaningful and worthwhile conversations they send you a text with "I saw you walking around at [x]" because they're lonely and you were the only good and honest person they had honor of interacting with for last 10 yearsOkay? you saw me walking around? good for you? and when you call them out on that bs meaningless drivel then you're labeled as "difficult", not that they're directly sapping life force from you with whatever meaningless ego measurement schemes their little autopilot brain works on... no, that's "normal". It is "normal" to try and exploit people around you, it is "normal" to do snide passive aggressive comments at your "friends", it is "normal" to abuse and demean people out of boredom and inability to change yourself....
why do normies think cakes/cookies are the most delicious shit sent by god himself? They feel offended if you find some other food more tasty
>>77171190You will be okay being alone. Its not bad. You should spend your time with people with an aligned vision and goal. Not people that are an active hindrance to your progress. If the only option is being alone, then embrace it. Dont be afraid. You will meet other people eventually. Your ascension should not be threatened by mediocrity.
>>77171190people assume i am autistic from our communications with multiple declined invitations to partake in snacks but know i will eat protein foods. if you are consistent people will respect your decision. fair day faggots are excluded.
why do you get so bent out of shape about someone saying partner? i dont personally say it, but i can see why some people do. people who are grown adults in their 20s, 30s or even older probably thinks that calling the person theyre with a girl or boy infantalizes them
>>77171443I don't hold any opinions about this. I just think the dog is funny
>>77171203what gets me is the fake concern they display>aren't you losing too much now?when their friend is still above her ideal weight
>>77171190>why do I have friends like this?There's a way to turn down calories that people are ok with and you aren't doing it. For starters you can reserve leeway by not eating before you meet people. Like if you go to "lunch" and don't eat anything everyone knows you're retarded because you knew about it beforehand. If it's a wedding or something you can have a tiny slice of cake and not be a downer.What gets me is binge eating fatasses who only pretend to be eating right around other people and suddenly don't want pizza when there are ten boxes in their trash can.
>>77171190Kek. My gfs "parents" are a lesbian and a trans man. They are giga upset my gf is not a lesbian and they get ultra mad when my gf talks to them and refers to me as "my boyfriend". Yes, they are abusive to her and their little test tube kid and to each other, oh and they beat their cat and lock it because the mom says she hates it (they got it as a toy for the little kid). They do weird shit like not having a toilet scrub (or brush or whatever, im ESL) and they wipe the squid marks in the toilet with toilet paper. Literal subhuman behaviour. They also starve my gf to the point of exhaustion, shes not even fat but they want her to be anorexic, gf says she cant wait to move in with me because she hates her parents with a passion.
>>77171190You "don't eat cake" year round just go burn 500 calories lifting. What even is a calorie show it to me on a magnifying glass stupid science charlatan.
>>77171430The only way you will see no meaningful results overeating is if you get pre diabetes and drink a ton of beer and liquor every day. Just get all of your muscles back to 100% rebuilding, rest days are usually a scam but you believe in calories so you're starting from fucking nothing.
>>77171713You're a nigger and you're a fucking nigger. Fuckin nigger.
I wish there were irl body improvement clubs
>>77171204>do NOT allow people outside your close circle to have any additional informationThis guy fucks
>>77171190Your friend is right though. There's a fine line between self-discipline and being coerced by our current international geopolitical hellscape agenda
>>77171190Tell them "sorry bro I'm not gay like you" just repeat that over and over again and then say "sorry man I'm trying to fk hos and they like this"That will infuriate the crab in the bucket.Just repeat that sht endlessly. "Yeah sorry bro this girl I'm fking likes me lean" just keep lying it's funny as fk. "Sorry bro I'm not gay I can't eat that I take care of my body sorry man" then pat him on the back and say " I'm not gay but I respect you" Just repeat that until they get mad
>>77171190I notice straight women say "my partner" instead of "my boyfriend/husband" a lot. Maybe they think being an assumed dyke gets them persecution points? idk
>>77171698>squid marksThat was the part I enjoyed the most
>>77171190one-off thing: no big dealregular thing every time you hang out: crab in bucket, move on
>>77171653it's in their interest to normalize fat as much as possible
>>77171653they think it would be easier to normalize fat across all of society and redefine the rules about what is considered healthy or attractive, then it would be to simply lose weight
>>77171693I would not eat the cake. I would say "no thank you. I'm not fat" and then I would spend a few minutes ranting about how absurd it is to have cake at a fucking wedding
>>77171713no thanks, I'm good. how about I create healthy habits and be consistent instead
>>77171204That sounds like a very sane society.
Sounds like jealous friends
>>77171698>gf says she cant wait to move in with me because she hates her parents with a passionCareful
>>77171211this never happened
>>77171698If you move her in, you better be sure that she is the person you want for life.>>77173911Digits of accuracyImmediately get her therapy. After a month of being in a safe environment her protections will collapse so that her mind can process the horror she has lived through. She will start having nightmares and remembering things from her past.You will have to take care of her for at least 1-2 years and have her do EMDR/somatic style therapy and trauma release exercises/yoga/fascial release. Additionally you have to massage her bi weekly at least to help her body loosen and realign itself.You described a scenario that sounds extremely traumatic. The faster after leaving their home that she gets on the program and works on her shit the less difficult it will be for her to recover.Good luck anon. Everything I recommended is either what worked for me or what would have been more helpful to do in hindsight as a person with an unfortunate family like your girlfriend.
>>77171190get less dogshit friends
>>77171211you have autism, keep making shit up online.
>women
>>77171190I say my partner because saying my girlfriend at 30 years old sounds cringe.
>>77171190>>is obese and broke with no retirement planHow about you tell him and not us? You do sound like a pussy, if you're getting bullied by a loser, guess what that makes you.
>>77171204>people have been fired for saying they have a girlfriend because they were in their 30's and this showed they were not good with commitment. And you'll post proof of this any nanosecond now
>>77171211This faggot doesn't even live here and instead does nothing but read /pol/ shitpostsThis does not happen
You have friends like this because your self esteem is so low you can only feel comfortable around losers. I have this too
>>77174673you should be saying "my wife"
>>77174981>I need to let the government know I'm in a relationshiphard pass
>>77175002yeah, sure, the government needs you to be married to know that
>>77171190Partner sounds alright
>>77174981t. borat
>>77171190>>77171211You are one delusional, self-absorbed retard. Whew lad.
>>77174666not sure if this is bait or not, but either way you're retarded.
>>77174673You say partner because you're a leftist idiot that's mind controlled by social media.>my girlfriend at 30 years oldWow you are so mature!Just met a retired electrician the other day, he introduced me to his 60yr old GIRLFRIEND.The only thing here that's cringe is (You).
>>77174673Why do leftoids always just change the words to try and deny reality? As >>77174981 says, the word isn't the cringe thing, its your failure as a man.
>>77174666Satanic digits on a deceptive post. See whats really funny about that shit is his insecure ass requires the attention and ego boost so much that he went HUNTING for those comments. Cobbled that video together. This was maybe the most beta bitch move he could do and it PROVES this shit bugs him.
I say partner because I'm crushing they/them pussy on the daily
>>77171211>going further, if i, a 35 year old man, said i had a girlfriend, somebody would imagine>>girlfriend?>>like, a girl? not a woman?>>oh my god he's dating a child! he's a pedophile! a child rapist!>>he raped a child! i need to tell everyone about this creep>>"Yeah, be careful around anon, he's said some weird things about dating kids, yeah seriously he's said that he was dating a child"my sides are fucking gone there is no way you wrote that with a straight face lmfao
why do you guys seem to think that your balls will explode if you eat cake or a strawberry or somethingthis doesn't seem like a reasonable approach to life
>>77171190I think the reddit response is to cut ties with everyone who doesn't contribute to your improvement like some sort of serf you're allowing to live in your mindset.Togi, of all people, pointed out how shitty it is to abandon your Day Ones to elevate yourself, saying that you're reward is to get to the top totally alone. God job.A best practice would be to manually deactivate your empathy for them, which gives you that sensation of inverse FOMO that de-lubricates your upward momentum for the sake of being liked or fitting in (a normal human instinct that stops us being antisocial), and replace it with love. Love won't make you want to be like them, it'll make you want what's better for them despite how much it hurts them, and it's patient so that their reluctance doesn't discourage you from helping them or yourself. You won't want to be like them, but that doesn't matter.
>>77171190Your friend is right, you're kinda creepy with your anorexia and stinginess.
It’s seems as though you’ve come to the realization that your friends are low IQ low class retarded faggots and you need to cut them off. My advice to you is to do it, it would be good for your gains.
>>77171698Save that poor cat if you can anon
>>77174666pedo tranny please go
>>77173422it's not
>>77171211End of the day, packing up my classroom (i'm a teacher)Head teacher for that year level, my direct boss, comes up to me"You know, it's be really nice if the desks were pushed against the wall before you left"so i pushed the desks against the wall before I leftThe next day the principal called me into his office and yelled at me for putting the desks against the wall because it upset the cleanersI explain that the head teacher told me to do it, she claims she didn't, and just saying it would be nice isn't the same as asking me to do it, and I really need to read the room better
