>>77212139
I haven't smelled a hot woman's asshole this weekend, so there's your answer. Another abject failure. Just need that feembrap

>>77212139
So I relapsed on nofap after 50 days and I slept only 4 hours and I want to kms today from how low test I am right now. I just had a coffee and went for a walk in the sun for an hour and it helped a bit but work stress is killing me as I start a new season of difficult gigs. How do I make a comeback? Not to mention that the reason I mostly fapped was because I stopped getting morning woods 10 days ago and I felt like shit. I think I went on a deficit as well. I’m a wreck right now so pray for me

>>77212140
I feel you anon

we broke up and im feeling down...

>>77212141
No fap is a cringe meme

I feel content, which is better than how I feel for the absolute majority of the time

>>77212139
A drug-fuelled blur filled with regret and self-contempt. I never fuck up so badly that I ruin my life, but I often make such bad decisions that I wake up crying, and the only way to cope is to stubbornly push it all aside. It's amazing how I have everything in order during the week and destroy it all the moment I leave the house on a Friday night. I hate how I can't stop.

>>77212141
So do you just spam this pasta in every thread or what?

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I'm getting chinese takeaway later today and sneaking it into a theater alongside some candy to watch the 4K release of Akira by myself.
Life is pretty good honestly.

I'm still miserable. Can't muster the energy to do anything worthwhile. Not convinced my business is worth pursuing. Considering getting drunk after nearly 3 years sober just to kinda feel something. Why did she do it to me?

yesterday evening right after shower I ended up lying down on the floor. closed my eyes and lied there for half an hour. dont know what to make of it.

>>77212268
Damn, sounds comfy.

>>77212139
>untouched, untasted, unfucked
Coffee please. Drank too much already this weekend. Social gains were worth it, and yesterday was a good day of family time, but my weekend is kind of a loss at this point. And my life's current ambition, to get so juicy that my wife gets horny/insecure enough to let me have her butthole, remains a distant smudge on the horizon. Haven't even had time alone with her in weeks - getting super frustrated.

But that's all ok. I'll keep on making my 1 step back, 2 steps forward, and I think this summer will yield some good time for sex. Just gotta keep on the path for now.

Will take it easy today and walk into the new week ready to rock. WAGMI(UHB)

Life’s been kinda tough and my path is a long one to reach the state of living I think I’ll be happy with.
With that said I simply never feel like smiling and sometimes people bug me about it “why don’t you ever smile” etc etc. will the whimsy just come back to me or what. It’s kind of annoying to get told to smile just because, when the chemicals in my brain don’t make me smile

Graduated high school 2010 and luckily have managed to never see anyone since then but last week waiting at the train I saw the name tag of a guy next to me and it’s the name of a guy who was in my grade. Of course I didn’t talk to him and he doesn’t recognize me thankfully. I saw the wedding band on his finger and the big company name he works for. We are still in my hometown but obviously he’s a success in life while I’m still living with my parents with a failed life. Now confronted with my past and want to kill my self even more.

>>77212395
Why not try and improve yourself

Another weekend not going to the gym. I haven't gone seriously in 2 years. I did fix other areas of my life though. One of these days I'm just gonna fucking go.

I have a lot on my mind but the only thing worth whining about here is that I cannot stand office politics. I was “invited” to a work meeting. I do love my bosses and company but this isn’t a forever job for me. I am grateful to them. This meeting is more of an opportunity to show up and bond than anything. But this meeting makes no sense. It’s for sales, but it doesn’t actually teach you how to sell or do sales it’s just about the services and products we offer. I either know all of that already or I can just learn it all from 10 minutes of reading. I don’t even do sales and never will, my boss literally said when telling me about it “you guys don’t do sales but. . .” And it’s weird to me because we have actual stuff to get done and other people are hounding me to do it. The meeting is an all day thing which means I would miss a day of work. So I called my boss explained that and asked her if it would be alright if I skipped it to get my stuff done. She said that’s okay but “it would be nice” if I joined. I am trying to leave this job for one with a better schedule and shorter commute so I can attend some night classes. But just the overall idea of this. I don’t get it. I mean I totally understand just me showing up and my presence and having to make some small talk is the goal there but that’s just it. That’s pointless to me. I feel that I’m part of the team if I’m doing my work getting it done and showing up every day as normal, saying hi in passing and occasionally shooting the shit with coworkers and bosses, talking weekend plans or about how the weekend went. I don’t understand why more than that is required. I’m getting better and more comfortable at socializing the more experience I get but some of this stuff I just don’t understand at all. It makes way more sense that I do my work to me than it does that I go to a meeting that has very little to do with my actual job. Maybe I really am autistic

>>77212148
what happened?

>>77212431
i tried to fuck her butt and she kept telling me no but i kept trying

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>>77212139
Man I really wish I had the balls to go to a classy bar somewhere in my city where I could be a regular and talk to a bartender or other regulars, when I'm not attending lectures I'm either doing cardio outside, going to the gym and barely talking to anyone or just rotting at my computer at home, this whole weekend I was "studying" but I was procrastinating a lot more than anything, I can't get off this damned site since I have no other place to talk to people

Going to Bali Inodnesia in three weeks. Really excited since I'm scuba diving, dirt biking and climbing a volcano there. Had to get a Hep A shot today just for precaution

Hopefully I have enough good photos for when I redownload Hinge this summer

>>77212460
Quitter mindset. Go to her house at 3am with some red wine a bunch of astroglide and a buttplug. Have roses too. Apologize to her ask to make it up. Say you’re sorry for not listening to her and being selfish. Get her drunk, give her a foot rub, suck her toes, eat her pussy, take a few licks of her asshole when she’s cumming for the third time. Start fucking her, gently thumb her ass don’t penetrate just rub your thumb on it wet your thumb with spit first, pull the plug from your pocket make her suck it for a bit make her cum then but a pointer finger in her asshole while you fuck her pussy get a thumb in there and pull her backwards onto your dick for a while then out the plug in her ass go slow and gentle lick it a bunch to keep it lubricated then when she’s cum for like the 5th time take the astrologist stick it in her asshole squeeze the entire thing into her and about bit on the entrance then try to assfuck her go slow and easy remind her you only have a small dick so it won’t even hurt that bad make sure the door is locked because if not someone may open the door everyone walk the dinosaur

>>77212492
so basically rape. gotcha

>>77212460
Anon, as the guy who's wife won't give up the butt, let me tell you, better to have dodged this bullet now. I don't regret, but I wish, yah know?

>>77212430
Because companies don't want their employees to be a loose confederation of individuals who don't care about anything outside of their scope. They want people to be invested in the team, culture, true believers in the brand, mission/vision/values, products etc.. This is better for retention and productivity, because groups generally work harder when they're invested in the collective outcome.

Stupid? I agree, but that's why I don't work in corporate America. If you're already looking for a better job, ignore it. If you want to advance within a company, however, doing stuff like that will help.

>>77212430
stop overthinking that kind of stuff. I started to skip office christmas parties in recent years and I openly say that there is a clear line between private life and work and that I dont want to mix that stuff up. at the end of the day no one really cares and neither should you. maybe its just me being a lil bit older and having other means of earning money than my job so I am more inclined to say no. dunno but you should try it, its really liberating to say no to bullshit without giving a fuck.

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been a year on hinge by now and i've got 0 likes, 4 matches, only 2 of them replied, and 0 dates. still a khhv; it's never been so rigged from the start

in other news i started doing cardio again to train for some hikes in my japan trip next month

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>>77212753
Go to Kabukicho and bang 18yo hookers for $90 each.

>>77212431
She has Bipolar disorder and it went downhill the last couple of months. It got so severe that she ended in a mental hospital.

>>77212753
>using hinge at all
First gigantic mistake there

>>77212190
watched it with muh frens the other day only realised the shit about kei being a potential esper now after like 20 watches

cinnamon

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I'm 24 years old, and for most of my life I've felt unwanted, like I don't belong anywhere. Growing up in Mexico, I always had trouble fitting in. My brother taught me how to use YouTube in the late 2010s, and a lot of the content I consumed was in English (Smosh, AVGN, Ray William Johnson), so it was hard for me to relate to my classmates or talk about things with them. It would take me ages to feel comfortable around other kids. About 95% of the media I consumed was foreign, which created a barrier that made it difficult for me to socialize, leading to even more isolation.

In high school, I reached my lowest point. I developed a deep sense of distrust toward everyone, and I would only speak if someone spoke to me first. My only form of “interaction” with others was lurking this website or playing multiplayer games and chatting with people there. This isolation ended up fucking me up so badly that I started thinking very poorly of myself. I felt like I wasn’t really liked or wanted by anyone, and that if I were to die tomorrow, not many people would care. It also affected my speech, I became forgetful of my own native language. Even now, it can be hard for me to talk because I know what I want to say, but I don’t know how to say it in Spanish.

I think I’m doing better now, but I feel like I’m slowly slipping back into the same hole again. I work a dead-end job from home, and I wasted four years of my life studying a career I was never interested in. Since I don’t go to university anymore, I don’t really hang out with people much. I pretty much stay in my room all day, except when I go to the gym. I’m not overweight, but my eating habits have been out of control.

I look back at myself and the way I acted in my teenage years, and I blame myself for all of it. I thought that acting like I didn’t care or being indifferent would make me look cool or more confident. A huge portion of my life slipped away because of that.

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>>77212858

There's nothing worse that not feeling welcome in your own country. Idk if it is because I have white skin, or because I'm an autistic retard. most likely a combination of both. I might be finally moving to the US in 2 months, so maybe things will be different, I don't know how good I'll be at social gatherings considering how much trouble I have down here with that, being a kissless virgin dosen't help either.

I had 2 chances to start a relationship last year, but I let pass, the though of commitment and having to deal with whatever type of bullshit that comes with having a girlfriend really unmotivated me for some reason.

I don't really know where my life is headed know, but thank you for reading my blog post.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3ufGmccc-0

>>77212815
What else can you do?

>inb4 take up dancing/pottery or some other retarded hobby to try to talk to women even tho most young women don't do shit like that.

>>77212753
>>77212860
>Been using tinder for like 4 now.
>Only managed to get one date in all that time with a BPD bitch
>Thought I could at least hit it once and GTFO
>Fuck it up and got ghosted.
Guess I'll leave this shithole like a virgin.

>>77212460
Aha, now that I have see this >>77212790 I understand that this was meant to troll me. Tough beans, broseph. I'll never give up. Life is too short not to chase your dreams.

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>>77212139
Water for me barkeep
>Work for myself now
>Fucking amazingly flexible schedule
>Get to go to the gym when it's empty around 10
>Can't get myself to consistently work on shit that will keep the lights on
I'll literally have an easy 50hr projects and it seems I'll do almost anything to dick around on youtube or message girls instead.
Anyone have tips for productivity gains? I don't want to become a methtranny and take adderal and become dependent on it for life, so far I'll try to do coworking blocks through this app I found and listen to moosics. I've been able to work and work consistently before but I want to break past distraction, understand and feel WHY these things I want and choose to do are important.
I can force myself to go into the gym and squat 4pl for 10 but can't even type up some code or draw anime women, smdh.

>>77212895
Stop complaining and start improving

another month another fuck up
>randomly got closer to an old friend and we get on good enough terms to plan a trip together
>we actually plan one; definitely more exciting than the past solo trips I went for (eat localfood#34634, visit localsite#2665, explore localpark/beach/forest and try localgimmick#2134 with no one to share the joy with)
>but I forgot my fucking id and passport expired and only remembered it last minute with no time to fix things so I had to cancel
>guy obviously still wants to go and proposes someone else comes with him so he's not alone and I don't just lose all the money spent on the accomodations
>only person available is a guy everyone avoids and dislikes from an older group, they go together and now the buddy is saltily messaging me about how insufferable that guy is
sucks that now the "trust bar" with this person will be perma capped and that I missed out on an experience

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>>77212858
We're one and the same down to the growing up with English youtube/videogames and forgetting words in Spanish.
You just have to accept that you won't go beyond superficial small talk with 95% of people. There will be few that will indulge you in your autistic hobbies, and even fewer that you'll be able to bond over it.
But it's better to own it, than trying to appease to other's tastes.

If you want real friends to bond with, find a nerd shop or a group online. When it comes to interacting with normies, you just want to pretend you're interested and ask questions about them to keep the conversation going without being pushy.

The condom slipped off my penis when I pulled out and it basically ruined my relationship with the only interesting woman I’ve ever met. It sucks to be a loser with little sex experience at 31 years old.
She panicked and we’re barely talking to each other anymore. It’s been a week.
I'm fucking lonely again. Cant take it anymore

>32 yo KHV
>Never really craved love, constantly wondered what it was
>probably because I never really felt loved growing up, parents never told me they loved me or really showed affection
>never thought I was capable of love or heart break and just kinda gave up on it
>13 year old dog is going downhill fast, tearing up imaging a life without her where I cant hold her, kiss her, have her run to me with her tail wagging when I open the door
Guess I am not as broken as I thought. Shes the most loving thing on this planet. Depression and sobriety will be tested when I have to put her down

I'm never going to get over having a mediocre education, am I?

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>been dealing with hemorrhoids for the past month or so
>started to slowly but surely shit normally this week
>had my first normal shits today, went three times and they all smelled absolutely foul
>mfw

we're so back boys

I have given up on having sex with my wife and have begun a very fulfilling hobby of generating and whacking off to furry ai porn.

>>77212139
They're hiding the secret to a bigger peen bro I just know they are

>>77213181
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Just saw some average girl I know's post of her calendar on vsco of having three different dates with different guys set up for three consecutive days of the week, and more the next week. There's really no end to the hoeing out here is there? Even average girls have a roster of dudes paying for them to eat, it's crazy.

>>77212139
Walked around the city past the university’s and the clubs and bars and felt more alone than ever. If I had a gun I would end it

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I don’t even know anymore man

>>77212139
These threads have nothing whatsoever to do with fitness. Literally nothing. It isn't even hidden.

Considering how much I know about the romantic and sexual lives of our friends through my wife alone, I can't help but be afraid a bit what else she or her friends know and whether there are things at all that women don't tell each other among themselves.

>>77212868
You're never going to meet a woman worth meeting using a "dating" app so what's the point kek

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Ugh, anon slouched upon the barstool at 10:20 AM on a monday. He fancied himself as pure and clean anime girl. As a consequence of accumulated external stimuli that he probably didn't even register as they registered with him during hus formative years, he had developed a deep-seated feeling that male sexuality is dirty and depraved and something he should be ashamed of. But if anon is a girl, he the prey rather than the hunter, so to speak. He's merely on the receiving end of someone else's dirty and depraved and shameful urges.

I want to be Aihara Yuzu and I want to be with her. Ultimately I'm straight.
Get me a tall glass of water - I must employ the gastrocolic reflex to poop out last night's whiskey-induced binge and ger my insides all pink and clean like Yuzu's.

Got rejected sexually by my wife again last night. First time I have tried in a long time. I don't know why I bothered since it's been three years since we've fucked and she won't even hug me anymore.

Good news is that I didn't really feel anything this time.

>>77213631
>he thinks any thread on 4chan has anything to do with anything anymore

>>77212868
>What else can you do?
Anon, this is 2026. If you didn't meet a good girl in high school or at the latest early uni, you're never going to.

University/college is the last time you will ever be surrounded by hundreds of young single women in your life. Once you're out, that's it. Your workplace is going to be a small group of people and maybe not any attractive/young women at all or they'll be already taken. Your friends group will be most likely the same, but social circles have been shrinking too.

Uni is the great filter. The reason is simple math. There is a minority of women who are capable of being in an actual healthy, committed relationship, and so because of that the odds are they are already going to be in one. They don't spend years trying out different guys, living on dating apps, going through six month relationships with lots of single periods. They're predisposed to find a decent guy they like and attach to him, and once they do that's it. So, they meet a guy in their classes, their dorm, in the city, and then that just lasts.

The flip side of this is the majority of women incapable of being in real relationships because they have no fathers, fried their pairbonding, no ability to identify a good man, attention driven, etc. This is who you'll be dealing with the majority of the time and you'll need to identify it early to not get invested and ruin your life for a year. If you missed the boat in HS/uni, you are fucked unless you're particularly rich, high status, but even then you can make a bad choice like many rich guys/athletes/etc do.

You have been born just in time for the worst dating market ever created in the west.

>>77212868
If I were single, I'd join a Church. A longshot is to befriend any older couples around you; old ladies love to play matchmaker.

>>77213692
This is the truth and one of the craziest facts. Of all my college friends, only I and one other guy married and only because we met a girl early. Everyone else is alone with zero prospects.

>>77212868
Import one and have little mixed babies.
>Inb4: "She would just be using you!"
They all do.

wasnt feel like working so I called in sick. thats what normies do as well, right? I am almost never sick and I feel like its unfair that other get sick days and not me.

>>77213742
Enjoy your day off, anon

>>77213742
>"Yeah, I'm sick. Sick of workin'!"

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>33 KHV
>Have a date this coming weekend
>Know i'm going to sperg it up and ruin any chance i have
Welp

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>>77212139
I had a pretty vivid dream in which Alysa Liu became my girlfriend, and then I pulled up to a (my?) mansion, where Jason Statham shook my hand to congratulate me and told me he's proud of me.
I have actual real life problems, but they temporarily pale in comparison to the emptiness I felt upon waking up and realizing it was just a dream.

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>>77213692
>tfw the only women in my small IT college are old Chinese women and a few tattoed feminists.
It's so over.

>>77212141
I feel like I can fk really good because of my gooning training. I have a mind muscle connection with my dick and can pretty much control when I bust it feels tantric. Food for thought... If I was a no rapper id prob bust in 2 seconds.... Gooning is a good thing if u do it right

>>77212395
Is he a success I mean.. a wife and kids isn't all that, it could very easily just be a prison of his own making dude like fantasy is necessary to mediate reality but u have no idea what is going on consider yourself blessed dude a failed life? What is a failed life? At least u aren't forced to work for a fat fucking cow bitch and some kids u hate to keep ur "man card" many men are trapped like this because they are unbelievably cucked. Be thankful you have nothing so u have all options open he might want to trade u places dude. And your health?

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First time in my life a girl showed interest me. I'm 27. Hell she even asked for my ig. We have been speaking pretty regularly for like a week but its been short and through. Now randomly it takes her like 3-4+ to responds. Then after that she responds quickly only to do the same again the next day. She seems cool enough so far but I'm so inexperienced that I have no idea what to do. It's gonna be my first date this Sunday. I'm so excited and scared. I've been working on my body/mentality for so long that I wouldn't mind if things didn't workout. But I don't want it to end just because I spilled the spaghettios. I'm so happy and so scared and soo confused anons.

>>77212139
>Failed bar exam retake.
>effectiviely preventing me from getting a job that will pay meaningfully for another 5 months
>even basic law clerk jobs are rejecting me because I don’t have access to Westlaw for “free” anymore. Even though I’ve done them before.
But
>my Guardian Ad Litem stuff went well
>my friend connected me with his really cute female friend and I got a date w/her this week.

>>77213686
Bro u need to CHEAT and fuck bitches it's over dog. It's over.

>>77212395
whenever I hear stories like that I always have to think about that linking park retard. healthy, children/wife/family, multi millionaire, hangs himself. you never really know how happy or miserable people are deep inside.

>>77213692
This is one of the final red pills.
As a woman takes on more and more partners, she will compare new men against the best qualities of all previous guys; which means she will have a harder time pair-bonding and respecting you unless you're a giga-chad that is better than everyone in every way.
That is to say that a woman's standards actually increase with age, and your best chance of finding your equal is before she has anyone to compare you to.

>>77214559
Adding an example to this:
If she dated some deadbeat loser who was insanely confident, she will expect a successful guy to be even more confident than the loser

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turns out my gym crush is a single mom

>>77212556
>>77212565
Thank you guys, I found this insightful and helpful. Unfortunately I may be getting roped into attending. Some gay shit is happening with scheduling to where I’ll be in at different days. It’s retarded as hell, and as intentional as it sounds I know it’s not it goes way beyond my boss basically office is closed certain days where I then come in at different days. It’s just really fuckin dumb. I may straight up tell my boss it’s a social anxiety issue which isn’t necessarily a lie but it’s not the core reason. This is going to be 30+ people cramped into a really small room for 8 hours.

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>>77213686
Genuinely how does this happen?
Did you notice any signs this could happen before getting married? Not blaming you, of course, just wondering.

>>77214588
dude take control of your life. tell them you cant make it because something came up and thats it. 30+ people, no one will even remember you were there.

>>77212139
I finally realized how I was able to crash diet so extremely at age 17 and feel okay. I ate a ton of ramen. The sodium kept me from getting super dizzy and cramping. I was having 1-2 eggs for breakfast often no yolk, if I had lunch it was just some pretzel sticks like 100 calories and then dinner was 1-2 servings of ramen sometimes with cut up chicken breast added usually 0.5-1 of the seasoning packets and then I added my own seasoning (garlic pepper Italian mix etc). I had ramen easily 5 days a week for my first 6 months of that. It was that + walking a ton and I grew a little taller at the same time. It makes so much more sense now, I get how I was able to do it and only feel mildly lightheaded here and there the first few weeks and the main struggle of it being getting past the hunger

>>77213686
Women are so fucking retarded. I have this chick who a few weeks ago was all understanding of my busy schedule saying crap like “okay I get it figure it out and please let me know so I can see you” I finally have the time and hit her up and she’s got this nasty fuckin attitude you’d think she caught me fucking her mother up the ass. I relate on not feeling anything. In the past something like this would have me losing sleep wondering what guy she’s fucking and why I’m deserving of the cunt attitude for no reason. This time all I feel is that even if she were to switch up again I’m not spending my free time with someone who acts that bitchy out of nowhere with no explanation. I just wanna enjoy my time. I literally shrugged and laughed before hanging up.
Your wife is selfish btw.
>>77214430 isn’t wrong. But you need to do it intelligently. If you have kids together don’t do it because it’s their lives you’re risking ruining. But if no kids, just ensure assets are handled for minimal loss. Put some money away in secret. Even better just don’t get caught

>>77213742
It’s okay man. Everyone deserves a day off from work on occasion. Take care of yourself. I have had so many crap jobs treat me like utter dogshit I’ve become pretty entitled when it comes to taking care of myself.

>>77214596
Yeah I’m not going no matter what. It’s ridiculous. I don’t need to be there and I don’t want to be there. Coworkers sound excited for this shit and I’ll never understand it. It’s so dumb.

>>77213383
Go traveling solo in south east asia

>>77214622
Brother my friends will know that I will be spending that time balls deep ladyboy bussy if I do that

>>77214559
>>77214568
Yeah, I finally underwent the last step of the transformation to being a man when I had some mid girl basically lead me for a few months and get me to care about her by making me her emotional safespace while chasing dudes who were dangerous and would obviously hurt her. She would tell me how hot I am, how she and her friends would talk about me, how many girls had crushes on me, and she'd trauma dump all sorts of childhood shit and abuse on me. The usual Like my stories and whatever and say she could hang out but then never hang out.

This wasn't the first time either. I've been very stubborn over my life refusing to just assume all women are like this. She's even a downgrade from the tier of women I usually get involved with she's pretty but nothing special. However I finally had to come to accept that ALL women enjoy leading men on because it just makes them feel good to have a roster. Anything she tells you or does with you that you think is special is basically breadcrumbed to you and she's done with other dudes as well. Hell, this most recent one even told me how many "fans" she had and would brag about how many guys she was involved with. Mid girls especially I think want rosters and want validation and want others to KNOW they have lots of guys lined up because it makes them FEEL like a 10 rather than a 6 or 7.

So once I realized that I went from caring about her to no longer caring what happens to her or any woman. They ask for this all. I don't care if she dies of a drug overdose. No longer going through life assuming women can be trusted and it's just bad choice/luck that across my adult life nearly every woman has been manipulative, a liar, selfish nor that it's my job to save them. Maybe there was a point in history where women were not like this, but every woman today has grown up with a phone in their hand since middle school giving them unlimited high intensity male attention 24/7 fucking up their perception.

>>77214425
The hot and cold shit can be good or bad. It can be good in the sense that she really likes you and doesn't want to come off as desperate as one example, or it can be bad because she's playing games and trying to get you to show desperation.
Remember that skill with women has to be worked for. If you make a mistake, learn from it; but there is nothing worse than having the mindset of forgoing women because "I need to be at x place in my life to start dating."

>>77214714
>The hot and cold shit can be good or bad. It can be good in the sense that she really likes you and doesn't want to come off as desperate as one example, or it can be bad because she's playing games and trying to get you to show desperation.
Either way you have to treat it like she's fucking with you and leading you on my breadcrumbing you attention to keep you in her phone harem. You cannot let yourself become in any way invested in a woman who's not 100% invested in you.

Reality is if a woman really, really wants you she will never be cold. I've been in the position where women really wanted me and they were constantly texting me, asking when they'd get to see me again, driving two hours to meet up with me. It made me realize how much of dating today for men is just trying to leverage the scrap of attention that a low interest woman will give them to try to raise her interest level while she's texting or trying to meet up with the guy she's actually interested in like this who doesn't want her for more than a fuck at best.

>>77214559
I think I gamed this system unintentionally. In my late 20's I started hooking up with a woman, and long story short she fell in love with me and we've been married for 15 years. I've seen a couple of pictures of her exes, and, man, I'm taller, better looking, and was in better shape than any of them. Finances were meh, but that's been fixed since. So she was comparing me to all her exes and I think she went, yup, not going to do better than this, better lock it down.

>>77214722
How old was she?

>>77214723
A few years older than me. I was her boy toy. When she came around and told me she loved me, I did the math and realized, yup, this successful hot chick is the best I'm going to do, even if she is a little older than me.

>>77214721
My thoughts exactly. Occam's razor tells us she isn't interested.

>be me
>friday night, getting late
>goto bathroom
>hear wife gooning bedroom on other side of bathroom
>walk in, and offer to help
>she declines, plays dumb
>total humiliation

>>77214573
isn't it a good thing your crush doesn't have a partner?

Seeing as the discussion has turned this direction, how over is it to be divorced at 34 for a man? Ive gotten a lot of compliments lately from the apps and even on 4chan but I still cant shake this feeling that I won't ever find another half decent woman.

>>77214739
My wife masturbates in the middle of the night if she can't go back to sleep. Common time for it is around 4:000am. I know this because she used to shake the whole fucking bed diddling her clit so hard. First time it woke me up I thought I was having a heart attack or something. When I finally figured it out I just kind of marked it down as something cute about her that I knew - she didn't want me to join her, she just wanted to relax and go back to sleep.

I blew it though. We were joking around once and she said the classic, "But I'm just a girl, I don't do that," and I just had to win so I told her she shakes the whole bed. Haven't been woken up by it since.

>>77214760
If you're attractive and financially successful at all, I'm told it's fucking fantastic.

>>77214760
The good news is it is way less over than it is for a divorced women of the same age.
If they don't immediately assume it was your fault the marriage didn't work, it can actually work in your favor.

>>77214763
Should say, aim young. You're in that sweet spot where girls like an older guy but not too old.

>>77214763
Apparently im good looking and funny, but money wise im smack dab average

>>77214784
but you're divorced? curious

>>77214804
She had an abortion behind my back and clearly had another guy on the side at the end. She admitted herself that she's retarded and ruined everything.

>>77214809
Aborted your child AND was sleeping around too? Wow... Women need the fear of god put back in them.
Sorry to hear, Anon.

>>77214809
Wow
I'm sorry to be hear this anon, nobody deserves that

>>77214784
Have you got two out of the four 6s?
>6 pack abs
>6' tall
>6" dick
>6 figure salary
All 4 is ideal, 3 is plenty, but honestly 2 is all it takes most of the time.

>>77214014
Just treat it like you're hanging out with a bro. Be calm, cool, and just get to know her. There's no pressure, just try having fun. What are you guys gonna do?

>>77212758
Alright give us the story anon

>>77214908
I'm 6'6", fit, big dick, will get six figs on my payscale within another couple years, blue eyes, handsome face. My only weakpoint of not being a 10 Chad is I hit a NW2 hairline before knowing there was treatment to get on to stop recession which I'm on now.

None of that matters. I'm 33. Generally speaking I don't even meet women anymore. I used dating apps for years but then realized that it just preselects for the sort of woman who uses dating apps. And, as soon as a woman "has" you, she thinks "well if I could get him, I could probably get a guy a little bit better than him..." My friends group are all married and having kids. My workplace I last worked at had two attractive women who were around late 20's, but they were already married, because generally if a woman is attractive and capable of being in a relationship, she's already going to be in one. I have no normal method of meeting young women anymore. Even if the cute cashier flirts with me I have absolutely no way of knowing whether she's a college student or like HS senior and could get me into trouble.

Unless you're diving for absolute bottom of the barrel women, your stats don't matter. Women who are 6's and 7's have rosters of guys who are 7's and 8's and also a 9 who who will fuck them once in a while they think they can eventually wear down to get into a relationship. You having a big dick, a six pack, being tall, making money, none of that matters, because ALL the guys she's talking to are guys she finds attractive. You're just another one.

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>>77214809
If it's any consolation to you anons, then know that your misery takes away from my own. After reading shit like that I no longer feel crippled by my loneliness but perhaps blessed even, that I managed to avoid so many bad scenarios in life by being an old male virgin whew.

>>77214927
I see why you were cheated on.

>>77214931
I've never been cheated on, no.

>>77214739
>>77214761
my wife just wakes me, or waits until morning with her ass presenting itself in the air

>>77214927
Your obvious insecurity drags down any possible virtues you might have.

>>77214938
I'm not insecure, no.

>>77214942
>hit a NW2 hairline
...implies otherwise.

>>77214937
I am envisioning a time-lapse from the side of some guy snoring away all night with a woman's ass thrust up in the air behind him. A cartoon sun comes up in the window and the ass starts crowing like a rooster.

>>77212139
My cousin called me ugly on saturday. Didnt eat a whole meal after that, nor worked out, i'm spending the whole day on bed thinking about her.

>>77214947
>list a laundry list of positive traits
>can recognize a single imperfection that makes me not absolute physical flawlessness
>"YOU'RE INSECURE"
Woman tier thinking. I'm a man. I don't need to pretend I'm absolutely perfect in every way. I used to also be very skinny and lanky too as a tall teenager and decided to get buff to improve myself in uni and it was a great positive benefit to my life. The beginning point of self improvement is recognizing areas that could be improved for yourself.

>>77214961
Malding

>>77214961
>didn't lift or play sports as a kid

>>77214961
>>list a laundry list of positive traits
Exactly why you're insecure

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>>77214950
Cock-a-doodle-doo

>>77214966
I played football.

>>77214969
>positives are insecure
Nah. I responded to an anon in regards to specific traits and their impact in dating.

>bro trust me im not insecure
>here are all the reasons im really a chad
Lmao

>i have to respond to every post because im not insecure and i must be right and i must have the last word like a woman

>chad triggers autists by being on their indo-chinese stop motion animation board
Every time.

>i'm totally chad guise
>that's why i cant get laid and am going to die alone

>>77215006
>come to bucket full of crabs
>get surprised crabs are in the bucket
>gives crabs attention

The real flaw is that you're retarded.

>>77214927
>nw2 hairline
I don’t get it, what’s wrong with it? It’s just the hairline of an adult man

>>77215029
There's nothing wrong with it, per se. It's that he listed out all these positives (all of them completely legit of course) but also knew his hairline type as obviously that's the one and only thing keeping him from being Chad9000 and scoring all the Stacies. Like, I'm losing my hair, but I don't know what the fucking pattern is labeled. That's some card carrying insecurity right there.

>>77215036
I mean I’m just trying to understand why he thinks a steeper hairline will stop a man from being handsome, since it’s a man they’re seeking anyway. Movie stars have mature hairlines all the time. Would a woman really go “oof, he doesn’t have the hairline of a teenager, I’m out of here”

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>>77212139
Do you theriouthly think I'm tho thtupid that I'd LITERALLY ruin a whole weekth worth of lifting jutht for one beer? I'd rather have a thalad.

>>77215018
Probably but I assume there are some good faith anons who can just have a discussion around one autist getting butthurt and looking for that attention I guess but you right.

>>77215029
It's a minor flaw to illustrate I have every positive trait that anons think make dating EZ Mode and only one minor flaw and yet dating is more complicated than adding up a bunch of numbers to a High Score.

This post >>77214908 assumes that success with women is a matter of adding things up and you win. It tends to be an extremely common mindset among these threads in general because autists think that human interaction can be boiled down to some sort of equation they can work out rather than being social circsumstances. Reality is that you can have every positive trait that anons here lack and think that if they only had X suddenly they would be drowning in women and nothing would ever go wrong again, but it doesn't actually matter if you have no method of meeting single young women to make use of it. And, even then when you do, mid women have rosters of above average men and feel no pressure to pick one until they're about 30.

>>77215039
he's brown

I’ve literally never seen a naked woman but I’m gonna blame social media, dating apps and men with low standards

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>>77215056
Anon, I'm gonna ruin your life by telling you this, but, google "naked woman".

>>77215064
Eww pixels. No thanks. I'll stick to my Chinese cartoons tyvm

>>77215047
Anon, I don't know how to make this more clear. Unless you're ugly or some kind of weird ick-giver, an above average dude catches all the pussy he's capable of landing. It literally is as easy as adding up the numbers. You may not score every chick, but there's no shortage.

Your hairline obsession and incel talking points tell us everything we need to know about why this didn't work for you, though

>t. Added up the numbers and women started falling at my feet. It really was that easy all along.

>>77215093
You're the only person here obsessed with my hairline picking it out of the entire post in which is was not the point. You can use women buzzwords like "incel" all you want but it's just obvious projection like all your posts because I triggered you and you're an autistic /fit/izen hoping that if you up your numbers you'll finally get those social milestones you missed out on all this time, but reality is you won't. You're an autistic loser who doesn't understand the real world and instead LARPs on an anonymous image board thinking real life is a series of numbers. There's more to life than just getting laid and you'd know that if you ever were. Your retarded viewpoint comes from never getting any women and mine comes from getting lots and finding out that none were relationship material and it's actually more difficult to find a quality person than just sleep with lots of women and your numbers equation doesn't help with that.

But, I'm being retarded again like this anon said >>77215018 I'll let you satisfy your autism and get your last word that no one takes seriously. You're my obsessed crabslave at this point and I can make you keep refreshing this tab continually.

>>77215130
>refreshing continually
Nah. I'm going to bed soon. My last word is that I'm this guy >>77214722. I played this game and won it years ago, and it was really easy. Like, really, really easy. The moment I wasn't an overweight dyel and learned to kind of dress like an adult, women started hitting on me. I'm not some smooth talker or something, nor am I overly handsome. I'm just a hair above average, and that was all it took to land my choice of women.

Every post you make here screams ick. Yeah that's right, I used a woman-word to describe you. I can do that because I'm not insecure, and it's the correct word for what you are, apparently. That's the only explanation for why you can't get any.

Go think about that.

>>77215130
In the slight chance that you're not trolling you really are a spastic. I hope no woman has to waste their time on you

At least on weekends I spend the entire day doing my hobby of sports refereeing. This past weekend I spent basically all day Saturday and Sunday doing it. When you include commuting time, I was gone from 9a-6p both days. And being very tired at the end of each day, even though I was just at home alone I didn't have the ability to think of anything negative.

But As soon as the week starts again, I am back to being miserable and suicidal because I have nothing to distract me from my horrible life. When I'm refereeing, obviously there is significant mental focus required to do it, and then add in the physical exertion and fatigue, so when I'm doing it for an entire day I don't really have the time or ability to focus on how miserable and worthless of a person I am. I don't have the same luxury during the week, so I go to my horrible job and think about how pathetic it is, I go to the gym and see how much better happier and more attractive everyone around me is, then I go home alone and do nothing else.

How can a loving god let humanity go on like this? I already know it's the "gift" of free will

>>77212196
you didnt get her pregnant
and if you did,
glowies

>>77215259
I'm trying to convince myself to love God but he sounds like an asshole. I need to get into the Christian circle because it's 2026 and the dating market id fried.

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>>77215159
>normalfag who went with the flow and "lucked out" by marrying used goods before dating apps caught on telling you how modern dating works
Every time.

>>77215685
>used goods
I wasn't exactly crisp and pure myself, lol. You guys gotta get out and get laid some - it'll fix a lot of your problems.

>>77214937

mine has only done something like that one time. She was working late night shift, texts me asking if she can fuck.... uh yes... she gets home, we fuck... she.... smells different. Could just be extra musty from working over night, but also it immediately occurred to me that she could have fucked another dude and was fucking me to have plausible deniability on cheating.

Also found plan B in her car one time. We had fucked but that to me is the even bigger betrayal if she was taking plan B because we had fucked without even bothering to run it by me.