Can a loner man in his early-mid 30s change his lifestyle to hang out with younger people and party and fuck college sluts if he goes to the gym and doesn't get fat?
>>77219099Yes. You can do this by joining the right run club if you’re in a big city. Source: I’m 35 and I do this.
>>77219099it's most likely too late
>>77219099if youre a loner in your 30s, you really think that you can just flip a switch that youve had your entire life and suddenly become some life of the party chad?
>>77219109EWWW WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT ! I AM GONNA VOMIT
>>77219114asian succubi made for big white cock
i am 39 and i started working out this year for health reasons not for appearance i gave up on my appearance
>>77219111You don't have to be that at all. You just have to fit in well enough that they tolerate you. Which you should be chilled out enough by mid 30s to do.I have experience with this.
>>77219117blonde is repulsive - do people really find her attractive?brunette chink could get it though
>>77219117SICKLY LOOKING PATRIARCHAL SLAVES THATS WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE TO ME :3
>>77219099No, not nowadays.It was possible in the 00s though.
>>77219133gb2/pol/ pinko
>>77219143HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA
>>77219099Are you employed and regularly bathed? Women will fuck you if you entertain them and don't come off desperate.Do you have your own place? College girls will want to stay there to pretend they dont live with their parents, and date you to establish they're more mature than other girls. Take a class. Hang out on campus. It's almost as easy done as said.
>>77219154Then you're the creepy old guy on campus, congratulations.
>>77219099That's called a mid life crisisGo start a family bro
REMINDERThe op (kekke) is a 38 year old trooned out wog from australia. He doesn't work and literally does not go outside. His life revolves around spamming 4chan.
>>77219109>>77219117>>77219121
>>77219099yeah. just give off scumbag or sugar daddy vibes
>>77219109>it's most likely too lateposted like a true virgin
What’s these Ai ass replies
>>77219192kekke spam
>>77219099>partythe synagogue of satan is on their last legs
>>77219157yes, only to everyone that wont fuck one. The BPD and trainwreck girls dont care. They hate themselves, no matter how hot they look or how well they are treated and fucked
>>77219099you can't it's cope all the attractive big booty females will just laugh at you
No OP. If it was that easy, we'd all be doing it. Just think of it how when one door closes, another one opens. Look up the bingo clubs in your area, they're always welcoming to new players.
>>77219133the dprk is nice but I've always been afraid to be anything but a consummate professional while there. one of the female guards at a museum pecked me on the cheek once. I'm in control of my libido but there's a forbidden fruit effect whenever I am there. also, I love how they are so icy, well-educated in the cities, and professional/militaristic. chinese party members and female military are similar, and they are not forbidden unlike dprk women (well, when inside of the dprk, that is). even if the rules changed and I were allowed to sleep with them, I would be too scared of getting in trouble. they exist outside of the dprk at their restaurants/money laundering fronts, but I never had any luck taking one out after their shift.I think it's appealing to /fit/izens because we appreciate hard work and dedication to something. dprk females are serious, driven, and tough, which is the diametric opposite of western women.
>>77219194ketoschizo and his imaginary antagonist -type situation with you and this kekke fella
>>77219283>If it was that easy, we'd all be doing it.its not easy, most people talk themselves out of it like this guy. you being one of the few with the cajones to try will get you a girl.
>>77219099Sure, but you need access to college girls.
>>77219099In the same boat but seriously considering doing a gdp-inspired business but actually legitimate. Still unsure why this isn't common practice though, don't want to get myself into trouble somehow.
>>77219099I have almost nothing to my name, I'm not particularly handsome, I'm in my 30s now, and I've still managed to bag a few uni-aged girls recently. In my case, it really only works because I have a cool career as an artist. You've gotta have some sort of differentiation factor or hook. Work on it. That gets you in the door and, often, into their pants. Just note that they won't stay with you if you don't have your life together. So if you're just looking to get laid, that's the play. But you should ideally work on other aspects of your life and seek out someone you can build something with. You'll be much happier long-term. Hope it works out, man. Keep up posted.
>>77219099Technically, yes. But one, there is no sadder sight than seeing a middle age man desperately hang onto his youth by hanging around with 20 year olds and partying with them.Two, you're likely some hyper autistic fat retard that watches cartoons all day so you don't know how to actually be social
>>77219326How'd you meet them though?
I don’t want to sound blackpilling but I’m almost 34 and I just don’t know how to close the convo with those girl to get a date out of. I was talking to this 20 year old girl yesterday and while she was smiling and being responsive I just told her ‘enjoy the rest of your workout’ instead of trying to get her socials or something because in the back of my head I was like ‘I’m gonna see her again so if she rejects me I’m gonna be the gym creep’. Another 23 year old last week same thing, we were chatting in the gym and when I asked her what she is listening to she gave me her fucking AirPod. Again I didn’t ask for number. I have like 10 more examples just from the last month. I just feel that the current dating market is high risk low reward and you have to be lucky on top of being at least 5’10 with a good face and car just to get a mid 20 year old. But never give up and put yourself out there. Is a numbers game
>>77219099If you're way sicker yeah.
>>77219336The apps, primarily. Occasionally, in person. I just went out, for example, to a take-out place the other night on my way back from a night out with the guys, and the girl behind the counter asked me out while she was making my food. Think she was maybe 25. But most of the time, you've gotta be the one grinding it out on the apps and shit. It's very time-consuming, I will say. Especially if you have limited experience. But you've gotta get experience somehow.
>>77219346Most apps like tinder or hinge or really any of them default their age rage to five years maximum, so they're not even seeing you unless they deliberately changed ir.
>>77219348>>77219346Don’t even fucking bother with dating apps
>>77219306what he meant is that it's externally easy, not internally easy.internal things on your mindset and frame of mind can be the hardest things, but technically they are the easiest to overcome because you have near-complete (aside from chemical theory of the body and mind type shit) control over your mind.so by "getting girls is easy" what is meant is that if you go put yourself out there and put yourself into situations where you are around women and ask them out without fear, then statistically you will get some positive "yes" answers from them. joining local hobbies with college-aged people in their 20s isn't difficult, and depending on your education level, you can work at a research facility or as faculty at a university or near a university or in a college town or college city and go to local bars and clubs and activities.you can also just go make money and be a sugar daddy to women who want more money. if you go out clubbing with younger friends, and take good care of your looks, there are women who will be into you. if you look like you're 60 or something and go alone with no social proofing, then you're going to be toast. people put the cart before the horse. for one night stands, it doesnt really matter. but consistency is the name of the game if you want to continually meet new types of fun people, at any age. building friends comes first. it's "easy", just show up and socialize. but for OP, the loner part is what is going to be his kryptonite. fixing being a loner is "easy" externally, but in his mind it is difficult.women sense desperation, and they sense if you are doing things for ulterior motives. so if you just want one night stands, be direct and flaunt your cash, wealth, car, fancy apartment or house. if you want people to actually like being around you, develop shared interests, build friend groups, and go out with the intention of enjoying your time, not with the express intention of scoring, and the women will follow.
>>77219348Duh. You're not going to match with a younger girl who doesn't want to match with an older guy, in the same way you're not gonna get the number of a younger girl who isn't into older guys.
>he just keeps talking to himself
>>77219338> ‘I’m gonna see her again so if she rejects me I’m gonna be the gym creep’.no shit. the reason you're having trouble with these women is because you subconsciously realize they are a "captive audience". captive audiences are people who work at places you frequent or who do a non-shared activity at a place where you also are, such as at a gym. it's difficult to get with women like this because you can damage the group social dynamics in the location, or even get yourself into trouble with management.if you see these women enough and talk to them enough where you get past normal pleasantries then you can ask them to get coffee or they'd be interested in meeting up at some other point, but play it very cool such that there's no pressure and if she turns you town then just never mention it again.once you're aware of this dynamic, it should be easier. but it's not effective using the same conversational and social modus operandi in a captive audience situation versus in a more free location or circumstance. there's a difference between someone in a grocery store compared with someone working at the register. there's a difference between a regular at your gym versus someone in your hiking group. people treat the gym as an extension of their job or household, it's a "captive" place. I have only gone out with people from the gym after we became actual friends first (intention was not to go out with them, it just happened). people here will go for girls at their gym, that's fine and good for them, but you're playing on hard mode. if you want to meet girls in a gym to date quickly, go to a different gym that isnt your regular and use some free trial or day pass lol and say you're traveling or make up some bullshit excuse such that if things dont work out then you havent fucked up your gym social dynamics.
>>77219361>>77219350>>77219338>>77219326All of this cope.Just be attractive and women will come to you
>>77219364>replies to posts saying that meeting women is easy by saying they are copeyou're just a blackpilling, illiterate retard
