Did getting fit make you more confident?How did exercise affect the rest of your life?
>became stronger than anyone around me by a large margin, but also found out I have pronated feet, short calf insertions, minor knee valgus, wide hips, lordosis, frenulum breve, pectus excavatum, flared ribs, slight gynecomastia, non symmetrical ab insertions, non neutral teeth posture, receded maxilla, exfoliative cheilitis, accented sebaceous filaments, negative canthal tilt and that I'm a manlet as wellthanks /fit/
>>77235144feel free to start
>>77235163You need to surround yourself with better people
>>77235180that shouldn't be an issue, considering that based on his list of defects I'd wager everyone is better than him
>>77235144once I found out my physicality is catching up my level of violence. my aggression often goes unchecked and I realize I'm truly not a good man that I thought I was because whenever im irritated, I tell people to go fuck themselves, call them out on their bullshit or even dare them to punch me, very reckless.
>>77235163Forgot faggot, jew and brown from your list.
>>77235253verum per musculos
>>77235163Have you considered ever rerolling your character?
>>77235144>Did getting fit make you more confident?Not while working out 4 times a week but my improved physique is just a bonus to my confidence now. havent seriously worked out in 6 Years now tho
>>77235144actually adds an air of superiority to my actions, like i'm unconciously saying 'You're a seedoil-fed goblin and it shows' Don't know if thats good or bad but it improved the way i carry myself
>>77235193Kek
>>77235144It made me arrogant and gave me a superiority complex.>>77235163Kek.
>>77235144Only in the sense that people seem afraid of pissing me off now so what I say goes (within reason ofc)I often deal with drunks and other societal vermin at work, it's much easier to get them to fuck off now whereas before they would escalate things to the point of challenging me to fightSocially I still have assburgers so nothing has changed
>>77235144I get hit on more frequently which would be cool if I wasn't married. I also get to mog my friends, coworkers, and students in any physical activity with my mediocre build. I now hate how i look all the time though and go through bouts of depression because I never seem to get closer to my goals. So it's kind of a side step tbqh.
>>77237022>I get hit on more frequently which would be cool if I wasn't married.you're a good man anon. Most guys that are attractive talk to their wives/gfs and just let them know they'll have other women.
I’ve been fit before I got morbidly obese. Trust me,being fit is like being on top of the world.I’m on a journey to get back right thoughhttps://youtu.be/p5qFCejvGj0
>>77235144Maybe not getting "/fit/" exactly.But getting better at a sport helped cause I've had multiple girls (and guys) come up to tell me how cool I look. Had one girl tell me she always looks forward to seeing me when we happen to show up together.So that helped.What didn't help was the fact that no matter how many times it happens I can't stop spilling spaghetti all over the place immediately.
>>77235144>Did getting fit make you more confident?yes, but mostly indirectly. it was more like the compliments and attention i received from others as a result of getting fit made me more confident. though, i will say that as a guy who grew up stick-thin, insecurities i had about athletic competition and going shirtless disappeared>How did exercise affect the rest of your life?made it more orderly, improved my diet, made me less concerned about getting on in age. as downsides, it also fed my hypochondria and has made me more insecure about a handful of things i normally wouldn't give a shit about
>>77235163I bet you dont have half this shit
>>77235144Basically this post >>77235163 but unironicallyI realized I'm not perfect and I stopped judging other people. If somebody wants to be a fat fuck that's their decision, I won't look down on him or treat him any different.
>>7723514 (OP)When I first started working out, people did start to compliment me more but mainly from gay men which sucked. After going consistently for like 3 years women have started to take notice. One girl at the bar approached me one time and told me she thought i was big. Nothing ever came of it but I am still happy to know women take notice. One thing I realize is that compliments are like ratios. If a 3 have said you look big then 10 other women have said it behind your back. Also women are more likley to want to keep talking to you even when you are boring. You got to realize that male inflation is real so exercising constantly makes your chances better.
>>77235144yes 100%
>>77235163Add retarded to the list because being a manlet should've been obvious before you started working out.
Every now and then, some women give massive signals to me now. Like they'll just stare at me and not look away until I acknowledge them. It's pretty nice. Certainly helps with confidence. I'm potentially going to start a harem with a bi girl I met off hinge who is obsessed with me now. Fuck it. And I'm still like 19-20% body fat. Ways to go before 12%.
>>77235144This question comes in two parts so I'll give two answers;No I was still an insecure little faggot who needed female validation like 90% of this board. After accepting I'm just big boned and let myself go like an off season bodybuilder I have more confidence because I'm not starving like before but also escorts killed my need for female validation.As for seeking validation from women which this entire thread is about; don't.If you need confidence with girls just get a hooker, it's like being on stage and performing. After enough girls you rented (cause you're not a faggot who goes to clubs looking to get laid) you've built that confidence because girls are no longer a mystery so you can talk to her normally and you're not motivated by sex and validation, so you cut through the problem women too. It worked for me
>>77237453Cope
It justified all my actions and everything I will do
>>77235144yeahI don't even train that much but diet when I'm too fat or too weak and willing to show up for workouts 1-2 a week to at least keep strength when I'm not in the mood to train hard does wonderspicrel moreover strength and the cardio from warmups and sets alone is just great to have since I always feel capable of stuff like they're just a matter of timeit even makes jerking it to anime feet feel more dignified somehow
yepgirls are shallow as fuckgot all my attention after i put on 20kg of muscle
>>77237243>But getting better at a sport helped cause I've had multiple girls (and guys) come up to tell me how cool I look. Had one girl tell me she always looks forward to seeing me when we happen to show up together.This happens to me a lot. Desu they're always specifically praising my clothes and style but it probably wouldn't happen if I was a nerdy fat slob.
no not in the slightest, i even did boxing for several years, and im still the same friendless weirdo, they smell this shit. Now people dont fuck with me as often and when they do i can threaten them with violence, but thats it and it rarely happens because i try to stay out of trouble and am still pretty meek by default
yeah but in a weird shallow way. I'm at a hotel with my family this weekend and went to the pool and got stared at by multiple married women because their husbands are mostly fat or shapeless slobs who gave up years ago. I'm not ever properly big, just lean and toned and that didn't take much effort which is somehow a blackpill wrapped in a whitepill if that makes sense
>>77237467>pussy chasing pussy
>>77237225Thanks anon
>>77235144>Did getting fit make you more confident?Yes, it did.>How did exercise affect the rest of your life?Improved every aspect of it. Getting fit is one of the few things in life that has zero downsides. Getting in shape carries literally zero cons. Some people whine about how they don't have time but once you get used to being fit, you'll seek it out and make time.
>>77237226You're gonna make it, bro.
>>77235144Lifting decreased my anxiety big time. The mental gains came before the modest progress on my body. I don’t really know how to explain it but I’m more at ease mentally and stuff that would phase me does not phase me now.
