>>77261657
if you have to announce it then you most likely arent going to do it. either do it or dont, stop being such a faggot

>>77261657
I'm 33 aswell but despite having being in a good place at work and doing well in the gym, i still feel empty. I even pray every night and read the bible but nothing helps. I had 2-3 long term relationships aswell but i have been single since mid 2025 so idk wtf is going on

>>77261664
What's your denomination?

>Monday
>not today
It's already over

>>77261669
Protestant. I converted from Hinduism.

>>77261657
maybe start at making your bed champ

>I will go hit the gym
I go everyday, I destroying my body
>eat healthy
Overthink about food 24/7, lost the pleasure in eating
>walk everyday
I live in italy, i have to, it sucks
>improve my voice
Have soothing voice, talk to no one all day
>stretch
Too much stretching fucked my cousin's ligamente
>read books
Read too many philosophy and existentialist books, now i know new ways to be depressed
>pray to the true God
The true god is a gadfly feeding on people's pain
>watch documentaries
Jewish slop
>Listen to the Bible
Jewish slop
>brush my teeth every single day
Enjoy flouride
>do some puzzles
Ok weirdo
>ride a bike
Enjoy getting hit by a car
>shop for cool clothes
Give more money to gay designers
>find a job
Sell your soul for peanuts
>leave mom and dad's house
Make a landlord rich
>trade some crypto
Enjoy getting scammed
>buy a car
Enjoying getting ripped off for a shitbox

>finally, FINALLY have my first girlfriend
Girlfriends are nagging and the sex isn't worth it

It's OVER

>>77261657
>I will go hit the gym, eat healthy, walk everyday, improve my voice, stretch, read books, brush my teeth every single day, do some puzzles, ride a bike, shop for cool clothes, find a job, leave mom and dad's house,
based
>pray to the true God, watch documentaries, listen to the Bible, trade some crypto
cringe.

>>77261824
>Protestant

See: https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/questions/what-is-the-true-religion/

>>77261657
Surely YOUR God is the ONE TRUE God

>>77261680
/thread

>>77261826
>start by making your bed
go back to your room little boy. The fuck kind of goal is this?

you won't do shit timmy

>>77261657
>Its Wednesday
>Im going to wait till next week
You're not going to do shit

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>33

Too late, buddy. If you're not at natty peak by 30 the latest, it's pretty much over.

>>77261657
>Monday will be the day
No it won't. Today will be the day or that day will never come

>>77262597
>>77261979
but I need to start monday so that I can focus 5 days straight and have my cheat days on the week end

>>77261657
>I'm 33
Go get tested for ADHD

>>77261657
not going to happen

>>77261657
Good luck! My only advice would be to start small and build incrementally over time. It's unlikely that you will have the willpower to implement all of these things at once. Don't walk before you can run, and if you're serious about it you will write down a plan of action for each of these goals on paper and think through how you will get them done. You won't achieve anything just by thinking about it.

>>77261946
Womp womp

>>77262049
(You)

>>77261657
38 here, started last year. Lost over 30 kg so far while lifting heavy and doing cardio. And while you could achieve all of your desired things, you will not make it if you wait for monday to come. Because monday will never come. It's now or never you colossal faggot. Kick yourself in the dick if you have to and get going.

>>77261956
This is just sad

>>77263253
there's nothing sad in Christianity

>>77263279
Certainly sounds like you've never read the Bible.

>>77263284
I did

>>77261657
>Monday will be the day.
Doubt.
>No more mucking around.
Unhealthy mindset.
>I will go hit the gym, eat healthy, walk everyday,
Big if true.
>improve my voice,
Waste of time.
>stretch,
Probably a good idea.
>read books,
Yeah, I bet you've got a shelf full of a bunch of delta gamma male horseshit.
>pray to the true God,
Waste of time. Aside from muh atheism, help your damn self instead of begging some boogeyman for whatever.
>watch documentaries,
Boring.
>listen to the Bible,
Can't be bothered to read a single book after all, hmmm?
>brush my teeth every single day,
WTF mate.
>do some puzzles,
Whut.
>ride a bike,
Incredibly based.
>shop for cool clothes,
>Yeah ok, learning to dress and liking the way you look is important.
>find a job,
It's starting to make sense...
>leave mom and dad's house,
...even more sense...
>trade some crypto,
Oh well, nice knowing you.
>buy a car
Learn to wrench.
>and finally, FINALLY have my first girlfriend.
My dude, if all you want is a girlfriend, you can skip all of that and just go out and start talking to girls.

>>77261680
This

>>77263406
Not believing in God is ultra cringe

>>77263406
>no job
>lives with parents
>33
>out of shape
I wouldn't even look twice at a woman like this, x that by 90000000000000000000000000 for women

>walk everyday
how do people not do this by default. are you hospitalized or something?

>i'll start on monday, not today

>>77263413
I know a woman like that except she's 35 and I still want to fuck her. unfortunately she just wants "true love" and not just sex and I'm married, so she ends up getting pump n dumped by guys who are in a better spot to offer true love
man I hate women

>>77263415
Well, that's kind of sad bro. You're better than that.

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>>77263412
believing in jewish sky daddies is equally as cringe, this doesn't mean there isn't a creator, if there is one, it does not give A SINGLE FUCK about you, and when you die, your soul returns to the source, there is no paradise for which you suffer in this life to pay for.

>>77263294
I know you've never read it. That's why I said it sounded like you haven't.

>>77263412
As someone that is in church every Sunday, I could not care less about your religion. Christcucks come on this board every day talking about church fixing their lives, and losers like OP think praying will somehow fix their problems. Let me tell you jackasses, that saying God helps those that help themselves? Yeah. Believe in that. Because the pews are absolutely full of desperate idiots that think all they have to do is kneel down and beg harder. Fuck that. Get off your knees and go out and make it happen for yourself. You've already got the opportunities, 100% chance it's all been there for you all this time. What do you want, Jesus to come down from heaven with a silver spoon and force feed you success you didn't earn? That's not how any of this works. Get off your knees, dumbass! Get up and make yourself and the world better, and tell yourself it's for His glory if that's what makes it work for you. Kneeling at the altar waiting for His dick to appear before you does nothing.

>>77263421
Nice meme, did you steal it from r*ddit?

>>77263430
Not reading your heretical vomit, sorry.

>>77263431
no cogent response, just fallacies. I have already won.

>>77263432
I know, too many words in a row scare you.

You had 13 years to do all that. Your brain has seriously crystallized by 33. Not to mention you missed turning things around at your Saturn Return (Before 30). Its over.

>>77261657
Half these goals are absolutely retarded and cringe. This is bait.

>>77263431
>haha atheism is reddit fedora neckbeard am I right guys deus vult haha we 4chan based guys believe in jesus and bible xd
You are a living joke, loser.

>>77263442
>>77263440
>>77263545
I feel pity for you

I pray the Lord opens your eyes and frees you from your foolish course

>>77263555
Fuck off with your condescending fake nice bullshit. I bet you talk to your imaginary sky daddy like a schizo. Get a grip.

>>77263562
You do not wear the crown of life. You cannot save yourself from death, but Jesus can. He took the punishment in your place, if you repent from your sins.

Turn to God before it is too late.

>>77263572
And here we see a man who, not for the righteous glory of God, but for his own feelings of superiority proselytizes on an anonymous image board to an unwilling audience. He accomplishes nothing, converts nobody, and takes no risk in real service. He seeks not to bring a man to Jesus, but only to point to his hollow actions and say, you see, I did that, am I not worthy?

No, you are not worthy. You offer nothing of value to the Lord.

I'm liking where this is heading

>drumpf gets "elected"
>conservativism becomes more socially acceptable
>ultra conservatives crawl out from under their rocks
>christcukery on a board famously full of lost young men skyrockets
Goddam, I hope midterms flip congress to oust that fucker just so the godlarp can go away.

>>77263603
The reason why we are able to have our sins forgiven is because Jesus spilled his own blood to cover your transgressions, as long as you repent.

You may regret the sins you commited, but you cannot atone for them on your own, you cannot redeem yourself just by saying "sorry".

That's like committing genocide, and at your trial you say "sorry" to the judge. Is the judge going to let you go scott free?

That is why you needs to believe in the Son of God so that Jehovah can extend his mercy upon you.

>>77263613
Rejecting salvation is the worst thing you can do. Repent before it is too late.

>>77263614
This is a child's understanding of scripture. Have you not graduated to the teen youth group yet?

>>77263542
>this is bait
>better take it

>>77263621
You are a fool. We all fall short of the glory of God. That is why Jesus came. To take upon himself the wrath of his Father that we deserve. But if we reject him, then we will undergo the everlasting punishment that we merit. Anyone who does not believe the Almighty Creator exists will receive the penalty: everlasting death.

>>77263613
>Having a brain is being ultra conservative

The universe didn't come to exist out of nothing moron. Someone must have created it. That someone is who we call God.

OP I am in a similar position to you but 34. The feeling of “I can’t keep living like this”, at least you seem to have the motivation to change yourself. My life is nothing but regret, shame, humiliation, rumination, and self-hatred. My idea of “I can’t keep living like this” is that I know in my heart that suicide is truly the only option for me and the only way I will get out of this lifestyle. I’m never going to be able to forget or forgive myself for what I have done, how I’ve wasted my entire life and have no experiences.

>>77261680
This, so much this!

>>77263632
>The universe didn't come to exist out of nothing moron.
>but it's totally plausible for an omnipotent all knowing being to exist out of nothing.

I really don't understand christcucks. I guess it's just because I wasn't exposed to it when I was young, but the concept of someone walking up to you and telling you all of this retarded shit and you believing it with no evidence is hilarious to me.

>>77263978
>I really don't understand christcucks

Faith is not a virtue that is in the possession of all, but only those who have a sincere heart. I will pray for your soul.

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>>77261657
>monday's the day
>No the next monday
>No let's start at the first of June
>no wait summer's too soon I'll start in fall for sure

Wish you the best anon. Just remember the time you've already lost and the chances that came with it; you can't it get back. Stop letting it slip from you

The problem with me is that i've tried all my 20's and i feel like there is no reward because of no gf. And no i'm not obsessed with having a gf because i had a lot of relationships and i know the pros and cons. My problem is that everything seems meaningless and the more i try the more depressed i become knowing that i'll never be perfect. I don't know how to fucking explain it but i've lost my purpose guys.

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>>77261657
sure smells like pussy in this thread

>>77261664
Emptiness is a feature not a bug, god isn't real it's a fantasy of completeness. Temporary fulfilment is the only kind because emptiness is part of the psychological system that drives us to pursue higher abstractions generated by ideology that we are born into. Once language comes into play lack is born. We are eternally separated from ourselves by language referring to ourselves with language which is limited and can never describe or capture fully. This is a retroactive fantasy to bring meaning in a meaningless world. That's ultimately a good thing because it means you are free to choose what you want to do in life.

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>>77264117
u are such a massive faggot

>>77264109
Life is meaningless and this is unbearable it is mediated by fantasy that if you finally do x it will complete you in some manner or satisfy you. Recognize that at best it will bring temporary fulfillment because that's how desire operates. Instead of ruminating and circling the drain pick something you actually want, don't ask god for permission, the "right time" is often procrastination and a way to extend the time you get to enjoy the shrosingers cat like preservation of a fantasy (if I didn't try yet I can't fail yet my fantasy or x is preservered) this is the start of ritual, an attempt to guarantee an outcome where there is never a guarantee there is no guranteeor of meaning out there no "right way" no "Jewish people running the world" sorry you are on your own.

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>>77264131

>>77261657
Same here except I'm 37.

>>77264139
1. We enter language and the symbolic order (culture, law, identity, social structure)
2. Language splits the subject because words can never fully capture our being
3. This creates structural lack — we are never fully whole or identical with ourselves
4. Lack produces desire
5. We search for wholeness through love, success, identity, aesthetics, recognition, ideology, fantasy, etc.
6. The Big Other (society, God, authority, institutions, public opinion, ideology, imagined guarantees of meaning) tells us what is valuable, desirable, and who we are supposed to be
7. We desire not only objects, but recognition from the Big Other and from the desire of other people
8. We believe some object/person/status will finally complete us (“If I obtain X, I will finally be whole”)
9. But no object can resolve structural lack, so satisfaction is temporary
10. Desire then shifts onto a new object, restarting the cycle
11. Fantasy stabilizes this process by giving desire a narrative and keeping us invested in pursuit
12. Repetition, symptoms, anxieties, and compulsions emerge around unresolved desire
13. Psychoanalysis reveals that lack is not a mistake that can be fixed, but part of the structure of subjectivity itself
14. Freedom comes not from becoming whole, but from relating differently to desire and no longer believing in a final guarantor of completion

Period

Social relationships are the only thing that matter in life. It doesn’t matter how fit you are, how rich you are, how many material possessions you have or how well you are doing “on paper”. If you don’t have a wife or girlfriend or kids, and have few to no friends, you will never be happy, period. People love to act like they’re a lone wolf, they don’t need anyone, they idolize Ted kaczynski living in a cabin in the woods alone, but the fact is very very VERY few people can actually live like that. A life missing social relationships is more or less a wasted life. You rarely see people without social relationships who are happy no matter how rich and successful they are when they go home to an empty mansion alone or go on vacations alone. It’s quite normal to find people with social relationships lacking other successes in life to still be happy because at least they have their friends and family to go home to and see.

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>>77264153
>>77264154

>>77264155
All I'm saying is all the stupid shit that I see anons going through 24/7
>My life has no meaning
>Belief in God isn't satisfying me
>Girls will solve everything
>Jewish people ruined my life
>I'm a loser and I want people to like me
All this shit all that confusion and lost in the shit of life and feeling completely black pilled doomer fucked up in the head, being lost as a young man all of that can be solved with this esoteric knowledge that builds upon hegel, Jung, and defeats neitzche this is actually applicable but ur all too dumb to understand it and u'll pray to God or pray for something to happen or like see numbers and say "she will smile at me today and when she does that three times I will ask her out" not even knowing ur going down lacans cycle step by step usually into madness because you have no idea wtf is going on

I don't want to be a dick, but it will be really hard to accomplish your goals like this. You have to start slow. Pick one thing to start with. That's way too much to do at once from nothing.