Before and after marriage
>>77263236You could tell she was going to get fat by looking at her arms.
>>77263239was thinking the same
>>77263236God i hope so
>>77263236many such cases. sad.
>>77263236now post the obese husband
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After kids
>>77263957>mozzarella stick lover
>>77263236GrimAlso who? Just curious, I'm not into fat fucks. Just want to know why they decided to let themselves go
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>>77263963Usually happens after pregnancy, it changes your metabolism. Not impossible to bounce back from it, but burger food is absolute shit so it's easy to fall into getting fat in the postpartum and breastfeeding periods
>>77263957It only takes women a couple years to get to this point be warned
>>77264110I knew pregnancies could affect weight gain and metabolism, but I think too many women use it as a crutch to either stay fat or get fat. >"After my first two kids I could never lose the weight!"Bullshit. Plenty of women have multiple kids and even shrink back down to their pre-pregancy weight with the same body fat percentage as well
>>77264178The weight that is the most stubborn is the weight gained during breastfeeding. A good amount of weight gain during pregnancy is usually just fluid retention, but when a woman is breastfeeding she gets hungrier, the prolactin and stress encourages weight gain. Not unavoidable, most who bounce back get close to normal in 9-12 months, breastfeeding is over by then
>>77263236Been married 2 years and my wife has stayed in the same 5 lb weight range. I know kids would probably change that situation which is why I'm enjoying sex as much as I can now. I have no plans to leave if she changes a lot physically but I know I would mourn the sex life if it happens (we're both 28 so still a few more years before we really need to try for kids but I'm dreading the day, also know how quick women can let themselves go)
>>77264251Obviously shes not going to have a flat tummy and a small waist after birth (she's guaranteed to have it), but the belly can be lessened with physical therapy and core workouts in most cases.
>>77264272Have you ever considered that women let themselves go after having kids because the husband lets it happen? Having kids is a transformative experience for both parents and especially women, but there is no excuse for a woman to go from normal healthy weight to fat sack of shit because she produced a child. That right there indicates an unhealthy lack of coping skills but also oversight by the people around them. There are tons of healthy ways to deal with stress and you and your wife should know them before diving into having kids or you may end up regretting it.
Unironically this is why you should just put your gf/wife on Reta. Not a big dose just 1-2mg a week to keep her from exploding like this.
