>>29509351
Probably very.

Honestly bro, don't do it. As a dude with a wife and a kid, thats been with dudes, chicks, trannies, pick-ups and one night stands, as corny as the meme is, nothing beats consensual, non-paid sex in the missionary position for the sole-purpose of procreation. Once you get your life right, you make yourself someone worth a shit, you hold out for a good woman, and actually go about building a family, you might realize that theres more to life than just busting a nut in a random hole. I'm not saying don't do it, but like, theres no bond, you didn't grow with the whore you're fucking, you just paid for her, and she is desperate. Its the same as anything else in life. Imagine a car, that was a piece of shit, that you built from the ground up, that you fixed, that you polished, removed the rust from, treated with love and care, if that same car was just given to you, it would be fun, sure, but you wouldn't carry the same pride and fulfillment from having built it yourself. Do the hard things, they're worth it.

>>29509375
>don't do it
>im not saying don't do it

fml. anyway, the better phrase to start with would've been "Honestly bro, it isnt worth it"

>>29509351
brothel sex is when you have literally blue balls and any 5 minute fuck would serve you well
now escort at a nice hotel or motel and a couple of hours to physically love each other
it's amazing, some of the sexual encounters I've had with those girls were better than sex I had with exes that were fully in love with me and I was fully in love with them.

>>29509351
Most will try to scam you in some way. Mostly stuff like getting you off asap, despite you paying for 30 minutes. It's pretty soulless and only good for older men who want to fuck younger women or just know what they want and don't care about feelings. Expensive escorts are better of course, but can be awkward, but it's miles better especially if she is putting some effort into it. The issue being that if you are a virgin it's hard to know what you like and what not. So it's usually not that fun.

>>29509351
It is pretty dope, I bang escorts all the time and all the girls are great, I don't have to do shit except be catered and be seen to.
It is really good, I only do it like once a month or every two months as a way of just relieving stress and recuperating.
One night stands are much more awkward and soulless. I only had one during my whole life and it was while I was on vacation and it sucked and I hated it.

>>29509351
went to a brothel in japan when i was 25 and fucked a cute thick japanese milf. honestly really enjoyed the experience just wish i had taken my time but i was really nervous. she was really nice and patient with me. cleaned me and gave me head. i got into missionary and had to cum really quickly so i slowed down and apologized and she told me its okay and i can take my time but i couldnt hold it and came.

overall nice experience, ill never forget my japanese mommy. also didnt feel any more soulless than a one night stand desu.

>>29509379
don't listen to that faggot, he's not married or has any kids

But from someone who actually is and does, you should 100% go for it man, you deserve to have some mind blowing sex before you get locked in to a marriage with some woman who could give a shit less about pleasing you once you're married.

>>29509351
Do you have to stick it in? Do you feel like it's a must? If not and if you still have to do something, then get a private striptease show where you are not allowed touching her. This way you prevent getting aids and you can pick an actually great looking woman to look at and not just another hag on drugs.

But if you can avoid it all together, then work on yourself first and get your own chick that you will actually give a shit about (and she would care about you too)

>>29509351
Sometimes it's awkward - 15%
Most of the time it's just ok - 70%
Sometimes it's fucking awesome - 10%
Sometimes it's even better than that - 5%

I've banged loads of hookers (never had an std either)

Thai hookers are consistently the best
Top tier massages.

Balkan hookers are the worst, those eastern block girls make no attempt to lie they just want you to nut and fuck off.

Black hookers are pretty damn good, always seem super happy to fuck a white guy.

>>29509375
Don’t listen to him as he is gay

>>29509746
I’ve always wanted to fuck a black chick just to say I’ve done it but they are more likely to have stds

>>29509752
Wear a fucking condom and shower afterwards retard.

In the end its just a masseuse doing a job

I went to a brothel in Bangkok two years ago. In the lobby, all the girls came out and lined up in front of me, and I akwardly picked out one. She led me upstairs to a room, and after undressing and showering I let her suck my dick for a bit but it was so fucking depressing that I couldn't bring myself to fuck her, so I just came in her mouth, left her a fat tip and left before the time was up. Immediately afterwards was the closest I've ever felt to killing myself. I was incredibly empty and sad. I kept thinking about how the girl had to fuck strangers for a living and that the pimp probably took most of the tip I left her anyways. For the next few days I was paranoid about stds, luckily didnt get anything.
Every genuine interaction I've had with a girl was a million times better than that, even non sexual things like going on a date and flirting are so much more rewarding. And having sex with someone you really feel for is euphoric.
Some people can just shut down their whole emotional body and fuck a whore like someone who goes in for a haircut. Not me. And I say this as someone whos cooked their brain with porn so you'd think I would be somewhat desensitized. I'm glad I did what I did because it taught me a lesson, and lesson learnt: never again!

>>29509351
Escorts are just trying to steal your money while disrespecting you as much as they can get away with so you never feel content with what you get. They will rush you if you're on a high sensitivity day or understimulate if you're on a low sensitivity day to try to get you in a situation where they can pretend its ED or PE. If you show up on a middle day they'll just argue endlessly to piss you off. If you try to teach them how to do their jobs properly or guide them they will argue or just refuse to do what they're supposed to and keep making excuses. If they take the money before the act you're guaranteed to get treated 100x worse. Escorts and prostitutes act like they're the victims but in reality they just lie, manipulate, cheat, exploit, etc just like any other woman.
There is no awkwardness they're just abusing you because they can get away with it. Even if you decide to force your will and be willing to leave without wasting money right away if they don't show signs they will comply there's a good chance they'll try to call their pimps to try and rob you. Don't go to hookers you're the only one being exploited - not the hookers who play victim all the time. Not unless you want to go all john wick on them all. Just keep reporting them to the cops and make more problems for them while explaining the scam they do. If they don't get forced out of business then the gov likely lets them do that so they can exploit you both in your job and out of it by using the sex favor you should be getting for getting worked to death as bait.
tl;dr Don't even consider hookers or OF. There is only one option left and that's a massive revolt with a plan to take over and destroy this despicable system. If you don't wanna do either of those then at least start gathering or creating weapons for the guys who are willing to go for it. Do something other than trusting govs or criminals for the love of god.
You won't be getting any good sex this is our cross to bear. Fight.

>>29509746
>Most of the time it's just ok - 70%

>>29509746
>
I agree with much of this comment

I've probably fucked 8-9 different escorts within the past year. I'm in a country where it's legal so it's obviously a lot less sketchy then the US.

There has been 1 or 2 where I've really enjoyed the experience and been back 3 or 4 times.

The rest we're all a solid meh.

Don't regret it though

>>29509375
She aint desperate. She plays victim to scam and exploit you. Don't believe for a second that hookers are not horrible people and that they're victims in any way shape or form.

>>29509638
Don't lie to him escorts are awful human beings ya dumb bitch or pimp. They can't cater to shit. They are about as bad in the bedroom as humanly possible and will not listen if you try to make them good enough to be worth the money.
NOT WORTH IT THEY ARE SO BAD YOU'RE THE ONE WHO SHOULD BE GETTING PAID TO VISIT THEM.

>>29509747
Don't listen to it it's a pimp or a hooker who want to exploit you.

>>29509809
Not OP here but what about if you are really into someone from OF and you offer them to meet in private just to see her naked irl (no sex, no touching). Wouldn't that pay off from all the fantasies and wishes built over time watching her online?

>>29509813
What's the difference between hooker and escort? And what's the price? Which country?

>>29509832
You're getting played. Everytime. Being into something is a meaningless temporary thing that goes away. Also your fantasies and wishes will 100% get betrayed don't think for a second she is even 1% as good as what you forced yourself to believe. All are scammers and it's NEVER worth it.

>>29509836
Any woman is only as good as the guidance she got from a man and you have a full generation of women who get none of it or straight up refuse to accept it. It's not surprise they all shit.

>>29509351
Not American, it's legal here and that changes things.
The very first time I was 16, it was a bit awkward, I was afraid I wouldn't even get hard. She got into the room but then when she saw me and realized I was young she smiled at me, pet my hair and I went diamond hard instantly. She pushed me into the bed and started riding me, I lasted about a minute, kek.
But that was just a cheap brothel, in those it's over when you cum.

Nowadays I visit better establishments where you pay by the hour, you can fuck, cum, relax, chat, have a drink, then fuck again.
What do we chat about? I don't know, stuff.

Funny story, there was this Russian that got mad when I told her I like Russia because of the snow (which is true, politics aside I like Russian nature, lake Baikal and the like) and she thought I was trolling her and got turbomad for some reason and proceeded to hatefuck me. Still blew my mind out.

>>29509375
I've been married, made a child with her, and a few years later divorced for some retard slightly taller than me (she tells me the height isn't a factor, but he's literally worse in every other way). It doesn't matter in the end, deep down they're all whores, some just go at the process differently.

why is it illegal often in countries to BUY sex but not to SELL it?
seems like it would be better to go after the source instead of endless cases of horny men if prostitution is such an issue

>>29509864
The govs are letting it slide while they pretend to crack down on it because its a good method to exploit the underpaid workers to get even more of our money back. It's safe to assume there is ppl teaming up with someone on the opposite site of law aganst the working class. This will not stop until we revolt.

>>29509874
It will not stop until all of us start seeing through all the scams. And even then they'll keep trying. We don't need to just see through it we need to reverse scam them.

>>29509801
same
I couldn't even nut desu was at it for an hour

>>29509351
hoes can be really soul sucking
If you have any doubts about the experience at all, don't do it because you will get inside your own head and not be able to live in the moment
On the other hand if you're really excited, aren't the type to think very hard about anything, or genuinely hate women and not in the ironic /v/ way, you'll probably be fine I guess.

>>29509351
I was single after 7 years of dating and decided to try it. It honestly sucked. The girl was objectively cute, but it felt so fucking hollow. I distinctly remember being inside her and just thinking that "she meant nothing to me. If she died the next day I wouldn't even care", and "what the fuck was I doing?" as I thrusted. It barely felt like I was actually there.

I'm not particularly glad that I went through with it, but at least now I know that it isn't for me. To be fair though, I tend to get in my own head a lot, so maybe you'll have a different experience.

Oh, I also tried a tantric massage in a different place, and I had a way better experience with that. Nothing "must do", but I didn't regret trying that one.

>>29509864
The literal answer is that the person selling the sex is the woman.
The justice system is in fact not equal, and society believes that you should not punish women for debasing themselves into selling sex.
I know that you want to go after the pimps, but I could not imagine a more annoying class of people to go after. Try proving that shit in court. It'll be all he-said she-said. And the hoe is not going to testify anyways.

>>29509905
That's why we need a way to protect ourselves from them and ways to attack them aswell.

>>29509832
Paying some random bitch escort levels of money just to see them naked and nothing else is next level cucking bro.
You're the exact kind of person who needs to experience a hoe or an escort so that you can get your soul sucked out and have a hard time even nutting.
Once your illusion of women is broken you can finally stop putting them on a pedestal and treat them like you would anyone else.

It's going to suck, trust me. But you can always begin a love-filled relationship afterwards and pretend that shit from earlier never happened. Guess how I know.

>>29509892
>>29509801
I feel like if you're a virgin its really shit for various reasons.
But if you've had sex/relationships before and you're going to whores for a genuine emotional connections you're going about it all wrong.

Escorts are there to provide a service the same way a doctor or chef or builder is. You treat them like human beings, be kind and friendly, enjoy the service you're paying for.

Get your nut, compliment the girl for doing a good job and say thank (same as you thank the chef for an excellent meal or your builder for doing a great job on your kitchen renovation or some shit) and just be courteous. Shit like "I hope you have a nice week". Basic co-worker pleasantry stuff.

Approaching them like you're doing something sordid and feeling sorry for them and yourself is not gonna do anyone any favours.
You wanna nut, you wanna fuck a girl, but you dont have a girl right now or you're too busy or value your alone time or whatever, then escorts are great.

I met a stripper and got a private dance, black girl. She's studying at university to be a vet, very chatty, had a laugh about work as she asked me about my job and I asked her what its like to be a stripper etc.
Fucked after for extra pay, then we got drinks and talked some more because we just couldnt stop laughing.
She insisted I only had to pay for the private dance and the drinks because she was off shift at that point anyway, I insisted absolutely not and paid for the sex said she should just think of it as a tip. She kissed me on the cheek and I went to go get some takeaway with the boys before heading home.

It was just a normal, genuine human interaction because I treated her like a human being. Paid her for her time and service and had some banter. Its not some kind of soul stealing practice

>>29509929
I think it's less about trying to find a genuine emotional connection and more a personality type that's prone to overthinking.

>>29509899
exact same experience as you with the escort. I don't regret I did it thoug at least I won't die wondering "what if"

Posting for central-Europe:

It’s a transaction, not a fairy tale. Don’t expect romance, illusion, or some “night of love.” You get what you pay for. Young girls (18+) = looks, older ones = better service.

It won’t fix the emptiness. You can’t buy connection. Don’t kid yourself. It’s just sex, nothing more.

There’s a risk of catching feelings (= fall in love). Don’t. If it happens, cut contact immediately.

No loans, no “extra” money. No tipping. Small gifts are fine. Let me repeat: no loans, no support money, nothing!

Don't be a hero. You’re not saving anyone. They’re either broken or independent and don’t need saving. Leave it at that.

Society will stigmatize you. You can’t change it. Accept it, ignore it. Society is rotten anyway. Seeing hookers isn’t the problem.

Average price in Germany

100€ 4 30 Minute, 150-200€ 4 60 minutes. You pay extra for anal, no condom sex, kissing etc. there's no limit.

>>29509835
There is no difference.

>>29509823
IDK what escorts you get bud, I just dm their ig pages and ask for rate. Just make it clear what you want from the get go and they will give it to you.

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>>29509351
Yes it is, I've only been 4 times to different places in my life, all woman. The best was one Dominican slut I fucked in Miami. The rest where soulless Latinas

>>29509864
It's hard to tax.
The service offered needs no equipment or overheads.
The government has a hard time getting itself involved.

It's just a more expensive way to jack off, not much more than that.

>>29509974
I want to not get scammed. I want to not have to pay for sex considering sex is supposed to be free. I want the appreciation I deserve for going along with a horrible system that scams so many of us, underpays us and even implicitly agrees that men are supposed to pay even though we have already given 50% of our money indirectly by allowing women to come get paid while they do nothing at work but get in our way and annoy us? And don't even bring up bonnie blue all we ever wanted was a fair relationship with a girl of our level and not women who are 1s and 2s acting like they 10 and demanding I pay for their time even though they should be paying for mine at this point.

>>29509809
Wow you sound like a whiny unpleasant cunt.
Maybe if you weren't such a fucking bellend you'd have a better experience.

>>29510012
I had a bad experience because I said nothing ya dumb cunt. It's precisely because I wasn't an unpleasant cunt that I was treated like garbage. If i'm gonna get treated like garbage despite my tolerance and niceness then obviously it's time for me to start treating you like garbage in return. Fair is fair no? You shouldn't have been shit to me in the first place monkey.

>>29510008
https://www.vivastreet.co.uk/

For the uk folks.

Almost every asian advert is just some stock asian picture off the internet.
But the girls that open the door are generally pretty hot.

>>29510021
And it wasn't just once either. Literally for as long as I remain good ppl take me for a fcking weakling. Well then if you want to exploit me or pick a fight bitch a fight is what you'll get.

>>29509351
That entirely depends on the woman and why she's doing it, the best time for me was in another country on vacation with a 20 year old who had a 6 year old kid at home and said she just liked white men which based on the sex was probably very true even though she was definitely also doing it to give her kid a better life. She was very grey mouse (except L
latina) and nothing special but really got into it and had circumstances been different I probably would have had her come by every night I was there. Comparatively to some though I have been lucky because the worst was when I overpaid for a handjob while making out and fingering her, which I still enjoyed quite a lot and she seemed to have orgasmed before finishing me off but otherwise was all business. I wouldn't recommend the second type of experience for your first experience with one but you never really know until you're in the situation. Probably the best thing to do is go to a country where prostitution is common and find a girl that seems to be interested in you and negotiate from there.

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>>29510021
Awww are you on a high sensitivity day today you fucking melt.

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>>29510030
The reason why you're having a bad time.
Is because you suck.
Lol

>>29510041
You just made 0 zense. That sounded like the most low iq bait ever. Since you can't make an argument you gotta talk illogical shit? You're not even on the level to be talking to me monkey all illogical comments will be ignored or destroyed so go ahead and yap pussy.

>>29510047
pussy ragebaiter npc number 2. nice try make a point next time weak shit.

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