Don't give in to it. Cheating only gets easier the more you do it. Living 2 separate lives simultaneously sucks. It's fun to feel like a stud, don't get me wrong, but I don't think it's worth it in the end

>>29964282
i imagine i think it is a symptom of cities you have a peer group larger than the max tribe size and it not breaking apart into waring factions is weird. might be easier to change your friends than to find a new mate.

>>29964282
>Do you ever get bored in relationships
no
>just want to fuck someone else?
kinda, but then I remember that the best part about sex isnt even the sex itself but being with someone that loves you and wants to be with you and cuddling with them

>>29964282
Grass is always greener on the other side

When you're single, the only part of relationships you remember is the consistent sex, the fun dates, and the companionship.

When you're in a relationship, the part of being single that you remember is the independence and "freedom".

But make no mistake, OP. Cheating is a dumbass move that will not only ruin anything good you can or will have with your current partner, it will taint your reputation in front of everybody who finds out.

If you're not happy for your relationship, break up. If you're happy but want to fuck other people, figure out what's actually missing in your relationship. It's usually not another person

>>29964392
>it will taint your reputation in front of everybody who finds out.
unless you're attractive

>>29964414
Delusion.

>>29964282
what a shockingly unattractive face

>>29964457
this is cope

>>29964282
I do want to do that, and I usually do, and it's a compulsion that has ruined a lot of relationships for me at this point. Either decide right now to go poly/ENM/open or one of those we-still-fuck relationship setups or decide it's not worth it and resist because you have something real. I'm an oldfag that is also 100% guided by his dick and ruined a lot of good relationships by compulsively banging whoever was passably pretty and made themselves available. My body count is high but I've sabotaged every good woman I've ever had and now I have nothing.

>>29964502
does absolutely nothing for me with her tiny eyes set too wide apart... and that chin/jaw, eww

but hey, no accounting for taste

>>29964311
>it not breaking apart into waring factions is weird
the fact that you think humans are so devolved is wild.
fucking wild.

her boyfriend looks like a pussy lol. i bet hes gay

>>29964603
Your jealousy is seeping through the screen kiddo.

>>29964603
>FUCK the guy in that video has perfect skin, nice teeth, a full set of hair, a nice watch, is slim AND has a woman to his side while I am an autistic loser posting on a board about pornography... quick, I NEED to come up with something to bring him down a little just so that I can feel less insecure!!! Now let's see... uuuhhhh... h-he probably has sex with men!!!! heh good job me, I really got him with that one.

Can we just keep it 1000%? The only reason men even care to be in a relationship with women is for guaranteed long term pussy. so when you’ve banged each other over 50 times in every which way, you’re going to get bored, but it’s really dependent on the guy’s sexual market value if he’ll go ahead and cheat. Most men rather be miserable with their girl and have guaranteed pussy than risk losing their girl for a side chick that he’ll probably lose too. As opposed to rich dudes and chads could get away with this because they’re desirable and could easily replace a girl. Everything is great during the honeymoon phase of a relationship, wait for that 2-3 year mark to see the real version of your partner.

If my gf lives close enough to me and is regularly available at least two to three times a week, then its easy not to cheat. But if you're in a situation where she's a hour or so away, or your schedules just don't align its difficult not to cheat especially if you have a very high sex drive. It's not right, but a man has needs.

>>29964559
>retard who thinks humans are fundamentally different through history
You're not evolved, you're just domesticated.

>>29964282
That guy is way too good looking for her. He could do so much better than her.

>>29964282
pretty in profile but weird head-on

I thought what am I doing with this women I’ll never marry

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>>29964642
2-3yr mark hit, female friend of mine started cheating on her bf with me. When I told her I wanted her, she broke up with him. Yes it's a huge red flag for her and mine's future and yes he was my friend but it's real love this time i swear guys

>>29964934
Even you know this is bullshit in your heart and that you can’t respect her.

Your relationship has an expiration date.

>>29964959
I love her and respect her boundaries desu, and want a future. Working on myself rn cuz I'm kinda fucked up. She is too, badly. But I love her, she triggered something in me. I didn't have to audition for her affection, she came to me. We were good friends first before it rapidly grew into a bond that was too real and emotionally deep, it scared her. She's used to shallow minimal emotional investment with a friend group. Real adult love would mean growing and she doesn't want to do that yet, it's work and the prize of love is scary and has consequences. Mostly I think she's scared of hurting me.

>>29964282
I consider myself lucky that I found love young, have been with the same woman for 18 years and we still sexually harass each other daily.

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been using this ones throat as a cumgully for a while now

dont even look down on the guy being cucked, some women are just trash. Myself included

>>29964282
The chemical "love" will fade fast. That's why so many ADHD zoomer retards are not able to have actual relationships. Getting bored and lustful is normal. The brain craves for that diversity of pussy for best chances of passing your genes.
In real terms it's fairly retarded to do. My gf of 7 years has low libido and constantly keeps telling me to go fuck some sluts, but even if it's not a trap to her, I objectively know that it will only cause trouble. Sure I flirt with someone here and there, but never gone past that.

>>29965213
What's the reason she says she cheats on him for?

>>29965295
ive never asked or honestly cared. If i had to guess I think she just saw a fantasy she wanted and pursued it. She DMed me first, it was just obvious what she was looking for so I gave it to her

>>29964559
changing employers every 3-5 years is reported to increase both standard of living and satisfaction.

>>29964282
Not really. When you're young, you don't value your relationship as much and you overvalue the prospect of getting new pussy. As you get older you realize that getting new pussy is a lot of work and often not as amazing as you thought it would be, and being married opens up options for you that you wouldn't otherwise have, like raising children.

I married a beautiful woman with really nice tits, tits that got even bigger after I put a baby in her. I can fuck my wife every day and not get tired of it.

I work with some cute girls with big tits. Do I check out their tits when they bend over sometimes? You bet I do. Do I occasionally wonder what their tits look like? Yep. Do I engage in a little harmless flirting with my colleagues? A little bit. But would I blow up my marriage just to fuck them? Nope.

>>29965306
What did she message you?

>>29965360
worked as a fitness coach, and posted a lot of body pics etc. she messaged in response to one some flirty shit about help with a workout. So I just asked for lingerie pics to know what im working with and took it from there

>>29964282
OP you are in a relationship with your hand.

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>>29964282
Was 7yrs in for me.
GF had got fat, really annoying and had basically accused me of being unfaithful for pretty much the entire relationship. Totally unjustly as I had always been committed, never even given another girl chat. Decided I didn't want to be with her any more but she wanted to reconcile.
I was working away and had a threesome with two hotties. Told her and told her I wouldn't be reconciling and got all the stress but to be honest it's about the same level as when I wasn't cheating.

>>29965414
so you retroactively proved her right
dumb move honestly

>>29965544
That's not how it works. He just left an abusive relationship with a bang. Good for him.

>>29965004
LMAO that shit is not gonna work out

>>29964301
That's exactly what I thought. I was with a chick for one year and half. It was my gf, we were in uni. I had opportunities. One big titted blue-eyed brunette from karate, and one big-titted blue-eyed brunette ruskov met in the train (we took the same train to go to different uni in the capital).
Sex with my gf was a amazing but rather rare and I was in love, but not her.
I thought I had to convince, seduce her, and maybe one day she was gonna fall in love too.
She never did, cheated on me with an italian and dumped me up like a turd (didn't confess the cheating, I learnt it later).
You see, today I greatly regret not cheating at the time.
Because I would have tried with two beauties. Maybe one of them would have given me a good relationship, who knows? I literally had their numbers, it wasn't some blurry possibilities. I thought
>Don't break what you already have, for the illusion of temptation
Truth was the illusion was my relationship with my gf.
Being faithful is good, but you must think about your interests. Being faithful to someone who doesn't deserve it is stupid and naive. My gf didn't think of me as highly as I did of her.
>you should have dumped her properly and try with one of the two big-titted blue-eyed brunettes
Yeah but I was in love, I told her many times if she wanted to break up, then we should. But she always backed up when I menaced to dump her. She was afraid of being alone. She had no friends but this one bitch who took her to Italy.
And you know what? Good for them. We were young. Life is to have fun and experiences. Not saying you should fuck every men in sight and she was right to cheat on me, but if you have the chance to go to Italy and meet some guy then yeah do it. Don't waste the opportunity just because you have a boring bf you won't marry anyway. If it is what you want to do, do it.

>>29965661
You only have one life. Being 40 or 50 won't be the time to do it, if you get married and have children. I should have thought like a freeman and fucked these two big-titted blue-eyed brunettes. It's like 40% my fault for staying faithful to someone who didn't really care about me.
The part I'm not guilty is that this bitch was too afraid to be alone, and let me believe something was possible while being dishonest and cheating on me in the end.

But this kinda taught me a good lesson. Don't lose time and energy for people who aren't worth it. Be it family, friends, hoes, stars, anybody. Think about yourself. Be good with people, but only lose time and energy for people who truly live you, care for you etc.
Of course I NEVER met the two big-titted blue-eyed brunettes again. Because I probably broke my phone with their numbers inside, and you meet people when you're young. Once you get an adult routine things are different. You still can meet people but not the same. And people gradually find a husband/wife, haha.

>>29965667
So my conclusion >>29964282 OP is: cheat if you feel insatisfied in your relationship. Don't cheat if you're happy in your couple. Now the question is:
>would you be tempted to cheat if you were satisfied in your relationship?
Some piece of shit would cheat anyway. But if you're tempted because you see better things outside, then do it. Or dump her for someone else, I don't know but if you feel this shit is going nowhere, don't give a damn about it. In the end, it's always the same thing. We wanna believe in love and Disney shit but the relationship was doomed to die anyway.
Really, me getting older realized more and more that things that you thought highly mattered actually didn't.
You must seek happiness. Happiness doesn't forcely revolves around your actual relationship with your gf because we're not in middles ages anymore.
Think about you, your future, your career, your dreams, your projects. Do that when you're young. You won't do this at 50. Don't stay with a girl you're insatisfied with if what animates you is taking photos of foreign countries or having a YouTube career or idk what.
If you have the opportunity to meet people and travel, do it.
>>29964642 #
TRVTHNVKE
>>29965616
>>29965004
Brother you're so cooked. I recognize this moment you start bullshitting yourself about the other one not being mature enough, finding excuses for her to be a piece of shit etc
>it's just that she's afraid
>she's not ready yet
>she's insecure because her last boyfriend abused her
>she grew up in a dysfunctional family
>she's depressive
>blablablabla
She just doesn't care about you and will dump you like a shit on the the walkway.

>>29965720
>>29964642
>TRVTHNVKE
ehhh I care more about the cuddling, if I just wanted to fuck I could hop on grindr and have a different hole every night

>>29965213
You are fucked anon, not only morally. Once their relationship inevitably dies and her infidelity is found out you will be getting blamed due to sexual assault and all that shit. These bitches are crazy. Good luck

>>29964282
Cheating is fucking low, I have dumped girls to fuck another the next day but never cheated.

>>29965729
That’s YOU. In general men want to fuck as much new poon as possible with having one main girl that they actually enjoy being around. Go cuddle with some men.

>>29964282
My gf stopped putting out, so yes. I think if you are unhappy in the relationship then it's normal

>>29964282
Yes, it's normal. I must admit I've even fantasized about fucking another girl while fucking my gf which is shameful but it's just how it is.
I've never cheated, because I consider what I built with my gf more important than whatever my cock wants. It's though because I do get opportunities I have so violently shut down, I even changed gym because I got a crush on a girl that was sending me strong signals to be approached.

>>29964282
No, I’m not a beast that solely thinks with his dick.

>>29964282
>Do you ever get bored in relationships and just want to fuck someone else? Is this normal?
Yes, and I its extremely normal. When you're desperate, everyone is attractive. When you're in a loving relationship, very few people will appeal to you. But the idea that in a relationship that no one else will be attractive is illogical, and I think on par with cheating. You're being dishonest with yourself and your partner if you don't talk openly about it, and I found it strengthened the relationship because we could be honest when we found people hot. Its actually fun, and disarms insecurity because you know your partner won't cheat because you're open about what you do and don't find attractive.

Whether you 'need' to have sex with other people though is very situational. I think the only time its fair is when you openly communicate to your partner and they're involved through the whole process. IMO I think the lack of more open sexual interactions are because of men, who lack the maturity to discuss these things, and typically latch onto unhealthy ideologies like religions and cultural expectations to find some sort of self identity. Women I find are a lot more open to discussing it and experimenting somewhere on a spectrum (watching videos, watching others but no contact, touching others... full sex, ect) but you have to be a man who can discuss it logically and openly and most men can't do that so they resort to the lazy method which is cheating.

>>29965720
>>29965667
Good shit anon, thanks

>>29964282
It’s “normal” from an evolutionary standpoint for men at least you want to have more of your genetic material spread among a greater number of women

Will it make you enjoy your life more? I don’t know. I did it in the past for novelty, and I got the enjoyment of novelty, for the price of a home life filled with strife and a nasty breakup when I was found out. It doesn’t feel like it was worth it, but the version of me who walked the more “noble” path might be filled with “what ifs” and longing. I might have stayed with that person I was kinda meh on without the cheating, and I’ve found partners I’ve liked more since.

You’ll probably find enjoyment and regret in whatever path you walk, as in all things.

>>29964642
>The only reason men even care to be in a relationship with women is for guaranteed long term pussy
no, its the fact that women can give you kids, literally everything else about marriage is a meme, including women

>>29964282
>Do you ever get bored in relationships
yes
>and just want to fuck someone else?
yes
>Is this normal?
it is normal

it eventually goes away if you're strong willed
I'm a legitimate manwhore when I'm single but I've been faithful whenever I've been in a relationship and those lasted years even.

>>29964934
When you are with a woman who cheats, it tells you she has the ability to convince herself that what she is doing is right.

She cheated to be with you, she will cheat on you to be with someone else later.

>>29964530
this is so true. I had a girlfriend that was bi, and she was down to explore the avenue of poly, but due to me being a clown I made her insecure. I would occasionally have sex with co-workers, and her blond broad of a neighbor that it'd seen for the 4 years with my ex. Even those links had their best before expiration, and they weren't even that freaky.

but hell, I moved on and had a lot more freaky sex. Just not what I wanted the most.

>>29967045
unfortunately though, the peace we had established in that relationship was 10/10.
- she was an hot asperges

>>29966319
This is the enlightened take. Almost 100% of the people on this board are weird incels and don't have what it takes to be in a real relationship. Real situations are multifaceted and hard sometimes. Occasionally you're going to imagine the grass might be greener on the other side. Being a good partner requires you be strong enough to take that feeling and galvanize yourself. Work through the struggle. Find out why you feel that way and see if the both of you can find a way out of it together. There's always going to be moments where you doubt and ruminate on what ifs. Choosing to be faithful is a denial of the self for the sake of someone else. A sacrifice of potential to build up a relationship you're choosing to be in, and be PRESENT in.

Godspeed anon.

>>29964603
And yet you will always be the color of poop, raj

>>29964934
I would fuck that penguin.

>>29964282
Yeah all the time. Especially with my gfs friends, Idk why but i always had this fantasy with every girl i dated, of fucking her friends. I did date 2 girls at the same time once, it felt good like >>29964301
said to feel like a stud, esp when i went from fucking one to then going over to fuck the other one in the same day. But it gets tiring very quick, and if youre trying to hide texts/calls and come up with where you were etc, its just not worth it. Plus i dont think its good karma or w.e when i did that shit, i had the worst year of my life in every aspect, and to this day i believe it was karmic punishment for being an asshole and cheating on girls.

>>29965661
what kind of russia-brain is this bullshit? it isn't stupid NOT to cheat. it's stupid as fuck to stay with someone who doesn't even love you like a cuck and wait for them to cheat on you. you should have moved on when she didn't reciprocate. cheating is for retarded people. life is better without betraying people's trust for a little thrill. but you wouldn't understand trust if it slapped you in the face.

>>29964959
He can't respect himself, either. They are a perfect match.

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>>29965720
>She just doesn't care about you and will dump you like a shit on the the walkway.
I hear you, and what you described in meme arrows does kinda sound like me. But I've met her family and she's a virgin. I'm important to her, she's said, the drama from the breakup was just a lot. It's worth a chance.

>>29964832
Their is not a "fundamental" thing behind humans, everything is on the surface and humans being "domesticated" makes us not what humans were in the past.

Yes, yes, yes. Its been 20 years married, bored, same sex, same partner, same complaints, same criticisms on both sides. Found another couple and me and the other wife started banging eachother regularly. Been about 2 years now. God damn it scratches that itch. Ill post back when my life blows up. lol

>>29967563
>and me and the other wife started banging eachother regularly.
for what purpose? does your wife not have a vagina?

>>29965213
Found her insta. Gonna DM her and see what she says about this post

>>29967056
it also pays dividends in the end because ruining a good thing for fleeting pleasure is always a net negative in the end
I learned that the hard way unfortunately.

>>29964934
I wish you luck anon but statistics are against your case
I did also date a girl who was dating someone, she basically cheated on him with me, and guess what.
I didn't delude myself with her tho so it wasn't that painful but lol, I should have seen it coming, it was faster than with the previous guy, and the next guy was cheated on a shorter period even, I guess by now she cheats on their bfs the same night they get together or something

>>29967576
Of course she does, shes really quite attractive too. This other girl is super hot as well, just a different body type. 20 years of the same thing is a long time. 20 years if a long time of not having a new connection/desire/novelty.
This is just me though, not trying to convince anyone of anything, just saying I had the same thoughts as OP.

Yes yes and yes.

I was a manwhore before i met my ex. Got in a relationship for 2 years. Early on in the relationship i was very, VERY tempted to cheat and was getting opportunities left and right to do so. Funny how women seem to have a fucking radar when you finally become unavailable and suddenly they all come around begging for dick. It was really hard for me to resist but I did. Sometimes I regret doing so cause some of those girls were seriously hot af, but ultimately what matters is i didn't corrupt myself and I think that holds a certain level of importance and i'll tell you why.

While it didn't work out with that girl, it taught me what it feels like to really be in love with someone. She also had a lot of trauma regarding getting cheated on and she would tear up just at the mention of the subject. It broke my heart seeing it and told myself damn I could never do that to her.

Sex when you're in a relationship or with someone you love is so much better than randoms. I know that because since that relationship I haven't been the same when it comes to casual sex. In fact after her I was with this chick that wanted something open. It was the best relationship i ever had because we worked really well and communicated even better. Ironically enough, she never ended up stepping out of the relationship since she was happy and satisfied with me, however I ended up doing so myself since about 3 times and as hot as those hookups were, they felt like empty calories, meaningless, i could have gone without them cause I had her and that was all that mattered.

If you're an incel, then the thought of going out there and fucking other people and feeling wanted is gonna be tempting. However if you're able to get laid whenever and you're not some idiot pleb that isn't capable of deeper thoughts, then you'll realize that sex is sex no matter who you're fucking and if you can't attach meaning to it, then it ultimately won't feel nearly as good than with the on you love.

>>29964282
It's a normal desire. Acting on it makes you a piece of shit though, so don't do it. Stick to your hand and your imagination if you need something else.
What the fuck happened to captcha and why did I have to play a guessing game for which pictures don't fit? This website just gets worse and worse.

>>29964392
The grass definitely seems greener... I've watched the joy my wife used to have slowly fade over the last 9 years due to her mom and her brother's constant bickering and arguing. No matter how much advice or solutions I give her, she just pushed it off to the side and doesn't actually listen to what I have to say. Then she'll talk to her friends about the same issues and then tell me how her friend gave her some really good advice of what to do, and that advice is always the same advice I had given her.

She's a completely different person now, there's no joy or laughter being around her anymore. I can't remember the last time she came home from work and said she's had a good day, and I've started to find comfort and happiness when she's away at work. There's never a happy moment when we run errands together, there's always something she's complaining about, or someone she's talking shit about. She holds grudges and can't just let something go. She's become a bomb that I have to defuse at the end of every day and I've grown so numb and emotionless. We almost never have sex anymore because I just can't flip the switch, the feeling of everything I do for us is pointless because it'll be the same shit tomorrow, to being in the mood.

I'm tired of being the emotional support punching bag. I'm tired of not actually being heard, I'm tired of her always choosing her family over us. I'm tired waking up every day knowing no matter what I do or say won't matter. I'm of being asked a question, and then being turned into the villain if it's not the answer she wanted to hear even though it's what would be for the best. I'm just....tired...

>>29967831
Have you talked to your wife about this shit? Sounds miserable. I can see this happening in my future, but thankfully my wife is not a total retard so if I tell her how she's acting she might actually adjust herself. But she also goes to therapy, and her therapist doesn't suck ass - attended a few with her - so I might just be lucky.

You've gotta find a way to actually get your dipshit wife to understand how she's acting to you. She wouldn't like it if you treated her like an emotional support crutch.

Just don't cheat. Bad karma, it gets you in the end. I know from experience.

>>29964311
Just kys