Bi(ish) guy here. Married with a wife. I've fooled around with other guys in the past, stroked and sucked and been stroked and sucked, Ive topped a few times. But I'm dying to try bottoming. Feeling cum inside me. I've used toys, but I've heard it's no where near the same.
>>2700450Are you me?
>>2700451I don't think so? Lol
you're a faggot, Harry
>>2700450Very cute feet but nasty ass.
>>2700450Nice feet and nasty sexy ass
>>2700450>I've used toys, but I've heard it's no where near the same.Very much so.Best way I can describe it.Toys are for you. They go at your pace, seek your pleasure, do as you wish, and finish when you finish. If you are uncomfortable you shift, if you are tired you stop.Cock, this is no longer true. You can absolutely have a loving, sensitive top that cares about you, and values your pleasure. But when he's in you, this is for him. If you are a bit uncomfortable, your options are shift slightly, or accept it. If you get tired, it doesn't stop. When you finish, he's still going. If you have a preferred pace, tough luck he's doing his preferred pace, or a pace he can maintain. You don't moderate thrusts around your breathing, you moderate your breathing around his thrusts. When he's done, you might not be, or be between orgasms. He is fucking you, and there's nothing you can do about it, besides make tiny adjustments to your positioning, or opening your mind and accepting it.And that might sound intimidating, but it really isn't. It's liberating. You no longer worry about this or that detail, you don't have to worry about how you're doing, all you have to do is be receptive and enjoy yourself, enjoy what's happening, enjoy what you're feeling right now, and do whatever small things you can to make it better. Your focus shifts entirely to what is happening to you, how you feel, and that focus shift is where the magic happens.Being cummed in is both amazing and underwhelming. If you are very lucky, you can feel his cock pulse and pump you full, but odds are good you will only notice by his behavior. It's way more psychological than physical. But then, he's done, and you feel it oozing out, which makes your mind go all fuzzy and you maybe get a little embarrassed, and it's heaven.
>>2700450Married guys who have gay sex is super common. I don’t know the percentage, but about 10% of the dudes on Grindr are married to women, and probably 50% are just closeted or both. I was in your shoes about 10 years ago. I ended up hooking up with a dude finally and got the shot fucked out of me. I had some post nut clarity, but the list came back after a few weeks. I ended up going down a risky rabbit hole and fucked, sucked or got fucked by about 12 guys over the years. A couple late night anonymous car play encounters, a few hotel hookups, a couple semi regulars etc. Probably hooked up around 50 times all together. Lots of stories in there.But anyway, I’m still married but have one other married guy I hook up with. We get together about once a month and get our gay out. Way safer. What I can tell you is that a real dick slamming your ass is much better than a dildo. I’ve tried lots of dildos and nothing compares. Dicks don’t tend to be as rough on your ass, so feel much better. They can still hurt though. The thing that’s the hottest is the risky taboo part. The doing something naughty thing is a real turn on for me. Raw anal is the absolute best. Meeting in parks or risky areas is a lot of fun too. I don’t get too risky, but the potential is there, which is enough. We just had sex in his wife’s Subaru at a trailhead the other day. On my back, legs up getting railed in broad daylight was a huge high. I like coming home with a load in my ass and feeling all wet and slimy. Pushing it out in the shower and smelling his seed while the wife’s in the house etc. It’s super degenerate, but gives a un replaceable high.
>>2700850Here’s a pic of my married butthole ready for his weenie to use for your visual reference.
>>2700458lol
>>2700850A third of the 60 guys I have met up with were married or partnered (another third divorced or widowers.) When I started playing when I was older and married, I was actually surprised by the number of guys like us.And I did the same thing... some risky situations, having sex in cars and in the woods. Home Depot used to be like a sex hotel for married guys until they started putting up cameras.And yeah, I played with toys but getting fucked was much better. Also fucking a guy who is into it (as opposed to starfish wife sex) was so much better.
>>2700840Just wondering, how does the wife not find out? I am married, two kids and always have been bisexual, My wife knows it but isn't happy about it. Long story short. I have a massage dude who i visit once a month and we give blowjobs and kiss and love eachother like men can do. My wife doesn't know but i keep it low profile. Not too risky because scared of hiv or something and if i give it to my wife, i would feel a lifetime of shame. So i keep my head around it. But...this is kinda a arranged deal that isn't sketchy. Nobody is figuring this out. But going too carspots, hotels, how do you explain late night visits?
This is gross unc
>>2700880The risky hookups. You’ll eventually get caught. That’s why most guys eventually stop doing that. At least the ones with some level of self respect. Find a guy who’s similar or compatible with you and stick to only them. It’s much easier, way less risky and you both can collaborate easier. The guy I play with. We’re friends now. We go hunting together, ride mountain bikes, go on trips together to do guy stuff. The wives are none the wiser. They think nothing of us going on a camping trip for a few days or traveling to a bike park out of state etc. They usually never even want to go. Well, stay in the camper or a lot of the time get a hotel for a night or two. Then get down and dirty and fuck like rabbits.
>>2700851That is hot! Does your wife know you like to wear panties?
>>2700880Mine knows, and is fine with it. I have three friends she knows and is something like mutual friends with. She's pretty low sex drive in general, so from the outset was understanding that I would probably need more. She's known I was bi since before we started dating back in college, and actually approached me with her conditions on her terms when we were talking about marriage.The original rules were she always knows when I do it, men only, and regular tests for stds to make sure I don't bring anything home to her, but since she's ended up being friends with these guys too, it's a bit more casual and chill than rigid. I do stick to them though.I know she reads yaoi, so on some level I think she's on board, not just tolerant. Got her to do a threesome twice with one of them, she seemed to enjoy it.
>>2700904No. I usually don’t. Just occasionally for fun. Honestly, it’s pretty silly pretending to be a girl, but I sure do like being fucked like one. Me and my friend are both in really good shape and naturally not very hairy. So that helps.
>>2700880The problem I found is that my sex drive was higher than most guys I met. I wanted to have sex three times a week but my wife had given up altogether. I looked around and found guys who wanted to meet up once a year to "scratch the itch", just wanted to hook-up once a month or once a week so I ended up with four guys who could meet my needs (two married and two single, all could host.)I also had two things going for me. The first was my wife worked retail, meaning nights and weekends. The second was she was not very sharp technically, so a little ingenuity on my part helped keep phone numbers and email addresses safe (that and I had about 2,000 contacts in my phone.)
>>2700917I don't find feminine men in panties hot at all but masculine/non-feminine men wearing panties just feels like a bigger taboo so it feels hot.
>>2700452Just a silly way of saying I'm in the exact same situation. And have a very similar past. Topped and oral a few times before I settled down, now have big time cocklust. Also wear panties regularly.
>>2701038Post pics in panties please.
40 and still look good in panties.
