Are relationships supposed to be one sided? iyc>They only talk about themselves>You have to talk about them or something related to them>You have to ask questions and try to make it fun or interesting for them>If you share something about yourself, they are instantly disinterested and don't care>They don't care to ask you anything and don't want to know anything about you>The moment you stop making any effort, everything stops>They're sincerely not interested unless it's sharing something about themselves or their interests>When they are having a bad day, you want to be there for them. If you are having a bad day, they don't care>People who only ask how you are so they can talk about their problems >Friends sometimes need more support after a bad day or life-altering event. That is normal. But if you have a bad day or life-altering event, they literally don't care>People who can only talk about topics they are interested in, they don't care about yours >They will dominate a whole conversation no matter how many people are present. If it's a one on one conversation then it feels like it's 90/10.>Most advice about being a good listener and putting in effort is met with being totally one-sided >They trauma dump onto you constantly>People just talk about themselves constantly >If you are on a 2 hour date, they'll just talk about themselves constantly>You may as well be invisible >When you stop making an effort, everything stops, they never reach out to you
I ain't readin allat
>>215343013>girl written by Kai-san, AKA Maeda-sensei's #1 disciple.gifI love her so much, it's unreal T_T*Side_Note: Am EFL so i ain't readin noting you have written*
>>215343013Not reading the whole thing the answer is no OP. If it is that way then one party is too self-absorbed and doesn't actually care.
>>215343013you already mentioned she trauma dumps on you, this means she doesn't love or care about you, she's using you as a emotional tampon or therapist
>>215343013Normgroid out
>>215343013Nibba. Anime girls aint real. That's why she's ignoring you.
if you have the answer already why make a shitty offtopic thread about it
>>215343013You're honestly wasting effort on them. There are people who will reciprocate, and you'll know it right away. If they don't reciprocate at all ever, then it might be best to just stop talking to them and find someone who will.
