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>dad dies unexpectedly in my early 20s
>im the only person in my family who works
>older sisters and mom begin to financially harass me as the expenses accumulate
>i'm legit barely making any money but offer to help if older sister also works
>mom feels uncomfortable asking older sis to get a fucking job
>financial situation continues to deteriorate, brother-in-law of another older sis offer to take everyone into his house except for me and bum older sis
>i am legit in tears at this point, never would i have imagined things to turn to absolute dogshit so suddenly and have no connections outside my family

Story gets worse from here. honestly too agitated to write it all out. good night anons. will update if thread isn't dead by morning
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>>215378216
cool non-international blog post, faggot
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>>215378216
Just ditch them
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>>215378216
>NOOOOO my life is ruined because I'm literally FORCED to entertain toxic people stealing money from me!
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Ditch them
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>>215378216
my boss said he would fire me if i didn't stop giving money to the leeches in my family
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set boundaries, don't be a doormat
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>>215378216
You can't even provide for your mother? That's pathetic. And you're really going to let her stay with a young handsome man? Bro he's going to stretch your mom and sisters out. That's hilarious, it really sucks to be you OP.
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>>215378246
it's because he forgot to say "happens iyc"
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>>215378305
oh youre one of those self destructive faggots who has to whine about how hard your life is constantly despite having a clear and achievable way out

he's just sick of listening to your shit
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>>215378216
Pimp your older sister out to black guys like in the hentais I watch
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>>215378216
You gotta set boundaries anon, like canadanon said, you can't let yourself become the doormat. You're the one earning so you have the power. You need to confront you sister and your possibly your mother and make it plain and simple she has to get a job. You need to clearly communicate all your feelings with them and If possible you gotta guilt trip them too.

It depends on their personalities but, divide and conquer is basically the only thing I'm great at
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>>215378376
*So, I'll help you
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>>215378324
This is wrong, a young man who’s just getting established shouldn’t have to support his older family members. Have some humanity.
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>>215378216
I misread "life" as "wife"
I need to take a break from this website
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>>215378216
That's a harsh situation you're in. I was in a tough spot myself, close to being homeless, but I managed to get out of it, and now I provide for my parents.
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>>215378337
>having a clear and achievable way out
Abandoning family?
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>>215378216
People talk about millennials And zoomers being bum parasites on their parents, but nobody talks about the bum parasite boomer and xoomer parents
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>>215378216
pretty grim
could be worse tho
im 31 and bed ridden due to health issues
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>>215379259
could be worse, i'm 5'2'' balding and indian
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>>215378216
don't kill yourself anon, please
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>>215379180
>Retarded parents fuck up their children
>This is somehow the child's fault
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>>215378216
You are in america
You could be a millionaire in 2 years cleaning toilets for a couple hours a day
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>>215378216
leave them and cut them off, they'll be forced to provide for themselves.
t. did the same thing after dad died at 22
>>215378324
>asking a young man to support a gibs family
subhuman take, he needs to cut them off and force them to take care of themselves.
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>>215378216
>being in contact with your family after 18
We don’t do that in SWEDEN!
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>>215378216
It is sad, our mental framework has made it next to impossible for people to imagine women being in the wrong, they've become like niggers (Home grown and imported) at this point with how much they expect to get from you and how poorly they think of you. They've literally declined in cognitive level, only able to think of benefiting themselves instead of how their actions affect the wider world.
>>215378376
Guilt tripping like he describes probably wont work on them. It's like the uk hotel migrants, interviews that ask them their thoughts on leaving devolve to them Using racist as a magic word that gets them to give them the easy life. Or indian call center scammers who dont view their ruination of lives as bad in any way. You've shown weakness to them, you're weak and deserve to be taken advantage of in their mind, guilt and shame are not motivators, just fear and violent threats which dont seem to be an option. I think you have to leave, If you have a car at least you could at least try out the car life.
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>>215378216
>dad dies unexpectedly
Shouldn't have taken the vax.
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>>215379290
>i'm 5'2'' balding and indian
Vax status?
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>>215378249
>>215378283
This.
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>>215378216
update your blogpost faggot
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>>215378216
>>dad dies unexpectedly in my early 20s
????????????????????????????????????????
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>>215383014
OP was in his early twenties and his father died suddenly without any warning such as a prolonged illness or ominous threats from the mafia.
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>>215378216
>>215378367
Mom as well
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>>215383049
sorry im retarded, i thought the dad died in his 20's
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>>215378216
I'm sorry to hear that anon



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