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Why would guests receive food? Just ask for it if you want it but don't expect me to give you food just for existing. In fact YOU are the rude one if you stay after ~17:00, so approaching dinner time. Just ask if you want to eat with my family or go home to your own family, but don't expect me to invite you for overstaying your welcome
My friends bill people on mobilepay for homecooked meals. I don't think this happens outside Nordics and Netherlands.
>>216199929>Why would guests receive food? Just ask for it if you want it but don't expect me to give you food just for existing.Typical Proteshit mentality, ladies and gentleman.
>>216199965Is this behavior a remnant of your communist mindset? You think people just deserve food?
>>216199929>*beeeeeeep* thatll be 10.37€ for the coffee and crispsYea fuck off
>>216199993Everyone deserves food as a guess, this is just basic human decency you fucking soulless prottie drone.
>>216199859In scotland its normally a snack like a sausage roll and some crisps or an irn bru
>>216200026okay comrade HIVan
>>216199948That just feels wrong
>>216199859Wheres the american and latinx map
>>216200070Are you really so rude that you don't chip in for dinner?
>>216199859They don't give you food in Atlantis?
>>216199859There are many nuances to consider. Can you really trust someone to prepare your food for you? What if it tastes like shit?
>>216200095Its just human decency, i wouldnt expect cash if a mate crashed at my place and wanted a bite
>>216200070People look at you weirdly if you want to buy them a beer. Meal is out of the question. I don't even jews are like this.
Swedes let their children's friend wait while the family eat dinner and Dutchies will send you a Tikkie to pay it back
>>216200118but I do expect cash you rude fucking asshole
>>216200122>Swedes let their children's friend wait while the family eat dinnerwe do this too. Why can't he just have parents with his own family?onlike southern europe, Dutch people work. So we don't have much face to face time with our family except dinner. So it's rude to take that away because you feel so special
>>216200122>Swedes let their children's friend wait while the family eat dinnerKek, I did that once. But not because of my parents. I simply didn't want their goofy ass inside my sacred space and I also was kind of hungry.
>>216200069Retard
If a friendd asked for money for something benign like a sandwich i dont think id want to talk to them again
>>216199965>>216200026>>216200184Pizzas on me fren
>>216200184t. everyone deserves food ... because... they just do comerade!!typical eastern european mindset. In the west we have capitalism so you work for your food
>>216200171Again, its basic human decency you nigger.>onlike southern europe, Dutch people workSo does rest of the world, you disingenuous retard.
>>216199859thats not where iceland is on the map...
>take a shit at a dutch house>get tikkied for toilet paper, water and deodorizer
>>216200264The guests deserve food, and Americans understand that too, especially in the south. Dumb nigger.
>come into dutchs house>need to pay for putting my shoes on the rack
>>216200280Kek, this.
>ring dutchmans doorbell>thatll be 20 cent
>>216200290communist east european fantasy mindsetgrow up HIVan>>216200265google "siesta" HIVangoogle the southron employment rate, HIVan
>>216200375Google human decency retard. You have no arguments left.
>>216200459What is decent about expecting people to feed you for just existing?
>>216199965>team blue christcuck beats team red christcuck
>>216200502...Yes?>>216200486You feed your guests. Its really simple
>>216200122No, normal children understand it's time to go home and eat with your own family. They aren't guests just because they came over to play after school. Autists and other tards don't understand that. In the nördics it's common to eat with your family, families aren't common in other countries where everyone's a street urchin.
>>216200520>You feed your guests. Its really simpleNo I don't. It's that simple. Just ask if you want food. Or bring your own food. But it's inhumanely rude to just expect me to waste money on feeding you just for existing. We are not communist and we never will be. Deal with it you polish HIVan
Even japanese usually invites you to table
>>216199859They are bad people so they chose prostetantism, no the other way around
>>216200523Not knowing what hospitality is, is real autism
>>216199859Just typical Protestcuck mentality. No wonder the most succesful European countries (Germany, Switzerland, Luxembourg, France, Ireland, Austria) are majority Catholic. Norway doesn't count because they got oil
>>216200580YOU expect me to food you just because you exist yet you call ME a bad person? Just because I actually work for my money and don't let you emotionally blackmail me?
>>216200591Yeah you should know, you're german
>>216200546Yes you do. If you don't you are a fucking boor and a rude person. It has fuck all to do with muh gommunism, you imbecile.>They aren't guests just because they came over to play after schoolYes they are.
>>216200604? Guest can have as much beer as they want when they come over
>>216200620Imagine not letting friends eat toghether
>come to visit my dutch friend>need to bring a backpack full of food with me because he wont bother to prepare anything to snack on
>>216200626You are a true bro
>>216200523>They aren't guests just because they came over to play after school. >In the nördics it's common to eat with your familyThis is exactly it. We work hard and have busy lives so we have very little family time. Dinner is to be together with family. It makes sense that these freaks from countries where people don't really work like in southern or eastern europe are sperging out about this >>216200620You are deranged. I don't exist to feed you. >>216200646What's wrong with that?
>>216200546what the fuck is the point of bringing guests over if you can't accomodate them? nobody's telling you to let them stay the night, but not offering sustenance to someone that went out of their way to come to your place sounds petty
>>216200659its just very funny to me, here you always ask someone if they want to drink/eat out of politeness and sometimes you dont even bother to ask and just put food on the table so we can both enjoy some food togheterits one of these things I will never understand
>>216200119>People look at you weirdly if you want to buy them a beer.Because then you have to get the next round, even if you wouldn't want or you'd want something else than the piss lager from the tap. Much simpler to not have these social dances and just get the damn drinks yourself
>>216200659>We work hard and have busy lives so we have very little family timeSounds like cope.
>>216200675Just ask if you want food. >>216200701communist vs capitalist mindseteast europe vs west europe
>>216200764Not really, just holland and the nordics really
>>216200675>nobody's telling you to let them stay the nightwhat the fuck is the point of bringing guests over if you can't accomodate them?
>>216200778Look at the map. Red and pink are the core of capitalist europe. Southern and Eastern europe only survive on EU gibs which is de facto a communist system for them
>>216200806Explain ireland and scotland
red countries and pink countries are robots simple as
>>216200813Ireland is barely staying afloat. They rely a lot on EU gibs too. See pic rel. Scotland depends on UK gibs>>216200835It's called working hard and paying to keep your economy afloat
>>216200859>Scotland depends on UK gibsAre you retarded?
>>216200714No I can offer people something without expecting money, favours or something in return.
>>216200884Are you?Look up the Barnett formula. Scotland is a net benefactor (about 2200 GBP per inhabitant). England is a net contributor (about 2500 GBP per inhabitant)
>>2162009316million population vs 50 milliom
>>216200941Thanks for conceding
no clue how you go from wanting to provide something for your guests into working hard? into eu gibs?your shitty picture has countries on both sides
>>216200982We have to work hard to keep your economy afloat. Hence we don't have much time to see our families, hence dinner time is sacred so we don't want outsiders to intrude on our dinner time. I know you're slavx so it's difficult for you. Read again a couple of times if you don't understand and reach out otherwise
I think youre just angry because you cant afford food for your guests + we work way more than you do on averagesucks to suck
>>216199859>>216199948This is actually basedFUCK freeloader niggersStop being a punk
>>216201065yeah bro you work so much...meanwhile in the real world: 30% of polacks are unemployedIf you would actually work more than we do your economy would not be so incredibly bad
>>216200264Capitalism is gay and jewish
>>216199859I wish I was Nordic, fucking hate gibsmedat nigger mentality of Balkans
>>216199859It's custom to invite people over for fika here, don't know why /int/cels take this image as 100% fact.Besides, if you're just poppin up uninvited I'm not gonna cook you food. One thing to be invited over for dinner or to be an expected guest, then I'll give you food, otherwise, fuck off and go get a pizza or something on your own.
If I ever encounter outsiders which rarely happens i would invite them to eat together if they act good. My friend meet a croatian and next day invited him to sleep overnight and show him the surroundings, but this is balkan mentality indeed.
>>216201377Inviting someone over for a specific purpose is different from "I have shown up, I am your guest, give me food". That's what the image is about
>>216199859this is wrong for my countrywe wont feed the guest kid
The closer you are to the sun the closer you are to God.
>>216200916It's not what you expect, it's how other people experience it. People don't like to be indebted. And don't pretend you wouldn't whine if you kept buying someone rounds and they would never return the favor
I mainly cook using my slow cooker. So if a guest randomly shows up it's gonna be 8+ hours if he/she wants any food.
>>216201930you are incredibly autistic and anything you say is purely hypothetical because you don't have any guests to invite>inb4 b-but muh employment ratecouldn't care less
>>216199859We give you tea and biscuits
>>216202793That map is whack, Muslim hospitality is well known around the world so lots of parts of the UK should be in the blue section
>>216202793Here you get coffee and biscuits/pastry. But I guess thirdies expect a fully home cooked 3 course meal.
>>216199859Do people really just give you food for coming over? What if you're not hungry?
>>216199859Since when did Atlantis get unearthed
>>216199859People could use a little less eating these days.
>>216199929>billions must pay for hospitality
>>216199859>>216202793Biscuits are food so I don't get this eighter. If the map would have specified what sort of "food" they are implying then this map would have looked differentAlso>>216201930If that was the case then that's not considered a "guest". A guest to me is always an invited party and not one that just shows up uninvited or unanounced. Invited parties should ALWAYS be offered some form of the right amount of food depending on the hour of the day.
>>216200026SAAAAAAAAAAAAAR
Thirdies actually drag tourists into their homes and forcefeed them.
>>216201377fika isnt what people mean with meals
>>216203645But are we talking meals or are we talking food.Cause all it says is food.
>>216203781fika is literally mostly just coffee and 95% its just coffee
>>216203548>Invited parties should ALWAYS be offered some form of the right amount of food depending on the hour of the day.Waarom? echt niet, triest figuur
>>216203853Maybe in Finland. Fika is usually coffee + some kind of pastry, cookies or some form of sandwich/bread.
>>216203914shut the fuck up you lyin motherfucker
>>216203934Sorry anon, I think whoever invited you over for fika is a cheapskate if they only offered you coffee and nothing else.
>>216203965>Sorry anon, I think whoever invited you over for fika is a cheapskate if they only offered you coffee and nothing else.
>>216204009Okay now I see why they only offered you coffee. I don't invite brown people like yourself over for fika.
Thats pretty tame, they eat jam with meat
>>216199859Then wtf anomaly am I because I stuff my guest's faces with tons of food to the point they're full, every single time.
I think northerners got it right. They always give you a plate of what they have here but I always felt ashamed while eating people's food as a guest. It always felt wrong and I never really enjoyed eating food as a guest no matter how good the food was. These people are at least honest and everybody just fucks off their to own way. Nobody is offended, nobody has to feel guilty about eating other people's food. It's perfect
>>216204232Why should people feel guilty? The people who visit me are friends and family. Of course I give them plenty of food, it is a pleasure. Reversely, when I am visiting them I also enjoy what they are offering. My sister and I (we live separately) even go to the supermarket together when we visit each other and have fun with buying all the shit we're gonna eat. Food brings people together! Just enjoy it while enjoying each other's company, Türkbrü
>>216204331Spiritually brown
>>216204232the thing here is that no one expect anything as a guest
>>216204331Family is different. When I visit close family members I just act like it's my house. It's okay. Eating anybody else's food just doesn't feel right. >>216204390If you don't offer anything to your guest here, people will talk. I'm not only talking about dinner. If you don't offer coffee, tea or some kind of snack to your guests, your reputation will be tarnished instantly. It's a social suicide >I went to anon's house the other day and he didn't even offer me coffee!
>>216204353More like spiritually Americ- oohhhh... I see what you did there, kek.
>>216199859I doubt it's that cut and dry based off those random lines but >Hang out with white American at their apartment>They eat in front of me and don't offer me food>Go to Grenadian, Jamaican, Italian, or Nigerian friends home>They always offer food to eatWhy are germanics so stingy?
>>216203906I said invited parties. If you are uninvited or unannounced (family or not), you DON'T get food, period. That's how I will do it at least regardless of national tradition.
>>216199859wtf Englandyou used to even give your hated enemies the Yanks an entire weeks worth of rations while you were starvinghttps://youtu.be/SyYSBBE1DFw?t=838what happened to the hospitality?
>>216204680>you need to feed me for free because I wasn't smart or polite enough to eat beforehandWhy are non Germanics so selfish and imposing?
The idea that you would let your guests sit without at least a drink here is impossible. Even if it's an electrician or a plumber or a complete stranger. Food is pretty much mandatory as well, if you don't give them at least something it's considered quite rude.Same thing with going out to eat. We fight for the bill. If you have a guest and you let them pay it's shameful. I'm a foreigner here, much richer than the average person and it almost goes to physical fights sometimes to let me pay. I can't say "I'm richer than you, I have to pay" because that would be deeply insulting. I have to sit there and argue some other point or if I have none just get angry and sometimes fight. Half the time I go out here I'm not allowed to pay for anything, I'm just not. And something absolutely insane happened the other day. A fucking delivery guy who had become slightly familiar with me fucking tipped me. I live on 5th floor with no elevator and always go down to meet deliveries because they're just not paid enough to climb 6 flights of stairs. He noticed and after paying him he gave me ~$3. Said "a tip for you". Obviously we had to fight for 5 minutes about it, both insisting. Anyway dutch and nordcucks are ridiculous. If you send me a bill for some shit homemade coffee whatever bland slop I politely ate while sitting in your shitty efficiency apartment I'm gonna hit you in the face.
>>216204703dat vroeg ik toch ook niet achterlijke sjonniewaarom denk je dat andere mensen recht hebben op mijn eten?
>>216199965Not at all insecure Catholicuck, it's the exact opposite in Protestant majority New England>>216199993We're nice, it's called hospitality, we want you to have a good time and feel welcomed, we don't invite people we hate and want to skinflint into our homes if we can help it.INSANE how overtly socialist countries are talking shit about "remnants of a communist mindset" while pretending not to understand the pan-European concept of hospitality.It's not like they can't politely decline and leave whenever they want to.
>>216204849Or just ask me if you want food? Is that so difficult?
>>216200132I'm not at all bothered by paying you, just as I wouldn't be bothered by giving you food if you came to my place, the only thing that would bother me is having to ever see you again after you were so rude and petty and hateful.>>216200119What about muh high trust ethnocentric social welfare culture?
>>216204888NO, I don't care if I eat or not and wouldn't even note not being offered food, it's just a BIZARRE thing to be OPPOSED to is all.You're not even NEARLY poor enough to be acting like this.It's like the European getting offended about tipping and going on a rant about living wages thing, but dialed up to 1000
>>216204955Well I'm not gonna give you food for just existing. Ask me if you need food but stop being a bitch. You sound like an immense faggot
>>216204787>If you send me a bill for some shit homemade coffee whatever bland slop I politely ate while sitting in your shitty efficiency apartment I'm gonna hit you in the face.Calm down before you punch a wall and injure yourself over these hypothetical scenarios.
>you NEED to give free food to people just for existing>even if they don't expect it in your culture you NEED toaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand you're a bot. Kys clanker
>>216204602U need to go back
>>216204990You ignored what I said to repeat your tantrum which does not apply to what I said. You should stop being a dishonest and manipulative person.
>>216204845Not what I said ot implied but misconstrue however you want if it makes you sleep better.I'll make it simple for you:* Invited parties = guest = preferably and amicably give them food NOT because it's your obligation but it's the principle and custom that makes sense all things considered.* uninvited/unannounced parties = NOT guests = no food should be given because this is bordering intrusion.
>>216205053waarom praat je engels tegen me kankeraappraat nederlands heel gauw>>216205040Or just stop being a homosexual. You don't deserve food just becuase you exist.
>>216204955>You're not even NEARLY poor enough to be acting like this>he thinks it's about the money and not the principle
>>216204955Your tipping culture specifically is cancer though
This autistic thread reminded me of a story a fried that housed a dutchie told to me. Apparently when they tried to give him food he kept refusing and started hyperventilating and became beet red in the face because he "didn't want to owe money". Incredibly buck broken people to whom the very concept of hospitality is foreign.
>>216204787>We fight>physical fights>obviously we had to fight for 5 minutes>I'm gonna hit you in the faceYou seem mad, you sure these customs are good for you balkbro? This is why I praise Tengri we don't have these faux-polite giftgiving tangos: nothing to do with politeness and everything to do with status-establishing social games. If not initially, they devolve into those eventually
>>216205075Niet mijn eerste taal en je gaat mij zowiezo niet verstaant. geboren op Aruba
>>216205155Someone make a 'jak comic out of this.
>>216204509who will talk? the guests or the hosts? ira the same here, peiple talk, only we talk about rude and unpleasant guests who start to make demands and they wherent even invited in the first place?
>>216205216haahahahahaha kaaaaaanker neger hahahahahaahterug naar je eigen kanker land gauw
>>216200375you're retarded + reddit spacing kys
>>216205244fuck off polish HIVan freak
>>216205233Your lack of a rebuttal shows your true IQ AND EQ
>>216205535negertje
>>216205559Next time, don't send me love love notes. I wanted real answers but I guess that's too much to ask... like the food you won't give even if I ask
>>216205292no, rope yourself
>>216205634stop met onder onze vlag te posten als je een neger bentje geeft ons een verkeerde naam zo, mensen zien jouw vlag en denken dat je een nederlander bent
>>216205202>everything to do with status-establishing social gamesExcept it's genuinely not that, and people go far far out of their way to maintain that it isn't. Probably too far. If you're the person in your friend group that hasn't paid for a year then maybe just maybe you'll catch some shit over it. If you're really poor here and in a village and get a visitor people are genuinely happy to bring out whatever they have, they'll skip a meal for it. Even if they know they will never see the person again and it's only them and nobody to show off to. I'm not sure why people from your culture can't wrap your mind around the fact that basic hospitality is normal and it's not some psychotic scheme to climb a social ladder
>>216205709Ga nooit nederlander worden maar ben geboren en getogen met de nationaliteid, dus niets kan doen maar cope:DBtw, jullie kroketten zijn kankersmaakeloos. Niet te vergelijken met die in de caribieënm
>>216205897boeit me niks negergewoon opkankeren
>>216200523>Scandicuck calling anyone autistDo you not have mirrors in your house?
>>216203548>Invited parties should ALWAYS be offered some form of the right amount of food>Why, well... uh- it's, THEY JUST HAVE TO, OK? THAT'S HOW WE DO IT IN BROWN COUNTRY HOMELAND
>>216204680>Americans>Germanic
>>216205085>tippie:|>tikkie:O
>>216202902I dont drink coffe now what
>>216205155those westies go to poor shitholes receive free shelter and food they film the host for their tiktok vlogging and never returm the favour
A full blown meal, noI will put some chips on the table and give you beerDo you niggers randomly have extra portions of dinner laying around in case a visitor knocks on the door or what?
>>216199929>Oh hey "John"! Thanks for coming for movie night in 2 hours, just sit on the couch while I prepare dinner and then dine by myself in the kitchen while you wait for me.
>>216207961We have like 30 plates in the house just in case
I don't give food to guests because I never had any guests in my home in my entire life.
>>216208076One thing is plates, other is planning. You have to know number of participants in advance, before you start cooking, at the moment you're buying the ingredients. A good soup for example would be going for an hour with ready-made broth and proper bone broth itself requires ~12 hours to be fully done. And even with less involved dishes, If someone shows up after you started cooking, you can only improvise with something like sandwiches or whatever is stocked in the fridge, if you don't constantly plan for more than could be eaten, essentially wasting some food in case no one unexpected shows up.
>>216208648Brother. You always have some cured meat or something simple in the house. Give them some vodka, rakija, or beer. If you're making dinner ask if they want to stay. If not you give them whatever you have on hand and some alcohol.
apparently as the gdp increases people become soulless cretins like the dutch flags in this thread, it's also happening in my country
>>216210173new gens are all inundated in the same atomizing propaganda they feed them with in the west
>>216207961Mom always makes a million fucking dishes every time we have guests and gets furious if guests don't announce they're coming at least 3 days in advance. And then I have to eat it all.Nobody is getting shit from me when I move out, I'm not gonna jump around like a headless chicken just because a vaguely familiar person might be visiting for a few hours, this is fucking ridiculous
>>216210598Polska you don't have to do that. Just be nice to your guests and give them food and a beer. It doesn't have to be so complicated, your mom is a bored housewife probably, it's a big part of your life. It doesn't have to be yours.
>>216199999Checked >>216200273Kek
>>216199859it's in our trad to give food, the trad is called after Martin Luther
>>216200931Shut the fuck up, you retarded nigger.
>>216201123We have fastest growing economy in Europe, you fucking imbecile. Any other intelligent retorts?
>>216199859when I visited Russian families they forced me to eat. it's not for me
>>216201033>I know you're slavxI know that you are a nordoid sub-human who never washes his hands after shitting. Oh, and your country is going to the shitter. You haven't contributed much to the world anyway.
The Sweden thing is mostly bullshit though. Real Swedes discussing giving kids food when they're over: https://www.familjeliv.se/forum/thread/79194805-det-har-med-att-bjuda-barnens-kompisar-pa-mat
invited guest: offer everythinguninvited guest: offer drinks or snacks/fruitsjoining dinner at other people's houses feels weirdalso making someone pay for joining dinner or drinks is insane. I guess it's a northern thing and would be considered 'spiesser' in the light red areas.
