>out taking photos for my art class>see perfect spot for a photo, but there's some girl in the shot>tell her I have a strange request, say it's to photograph the spot she's at but she can't be in it>she says it's not a strange request to her cause she's actually a photography major>ask for her opinion on the other photos I took>we start talking about art, classes we're taking, careers etc>she shows me some photos and stuff she took, I show her pictures of some paintings I made, we talk about it some more>she offers to show me the stuff she's been writing in her journal>conversation going well, she's laughing at my jokes and stuff>I can tell she's genuinely into the conversation from her body language/expressions, i.e. no signs of discomfort (I'm not autistic unlike half this site)>think alright fuck it, she seems cool and she's attractive>ask if I can have her number>she gives it to me without hesitating>say "maybe we could hang out sometime yeah?">she says "yeah that would be great actually">we talk a bit more, she says if I text her maybe she could find some old paintings she made and send them to me>conversation wraps up, I leave>text her later that day, ask if she wants to hang out on Friday>never get a responseHappens in your country?
too much texti already had 9 beer
>>216288158>Happens in your country?No because I dont even bother anymore, it's just a waste of time at this point
@grok summarize this
>>216288158Msny such cases
Yeah that's how dating exists in the non-online world. It's fun once you get the hang of it and stop treating every person that shows interest in you as your future waifu. Much more satisfying than online dating imo
>>216288158Damn man, sorry to hear that :/
>>216288395>does everything right>never even gets a responseif this is the good side of dating, I don't want to know what the bad side of dating is
>>216288158>I can tell she's genuinely into the conversation from her body language/expressions, i.e. no signs of discomfort (I'm not autistic unlike half this site)>text her later that day, ask if she wants to hang out on Friday>never get a responsenot only you do have autism, but you also have Dunning-Kruger
>>216288468This happens to you a lot?? Let's get some more details man
>>216288543I'm not the OP?I don't date much anymore, but when I did I started getting better results when I became jaded and started treating women as an afterthought
>>216288543OP here. I've only asked out one other girl before and the situation was a little similar. She was in my class and liked talking to me (she moved seats so she could sit next to me and stuff). I also got her number and would text her sometimes. After about two weeks of talking to her I got up to leave class and saw she was waiting for me so we could walk together, and as we were walking I asked if she wants to hang out sometime. She said she had a boyfriend.
>>216288834I think they might see you more as a friend figure if this happens often . Also you should know women need attention and their thoughts change with time . And by time I mean even in a span of days and hours . Most probably you are just unlucky in these cases , and also might have come off as being extra friendly which they don't like. Don't forget nowadays everyone is an attention seeking whore .
>>216289118I wouldn't say it happens often, like I said I've only ever asked out two girls before. I think I definitely came across overly friendly with the girl in my class, but it wouldn't matter either way cause she legit did have a boyfriend. The girl I asked out a couple days ago I don't think I seemed too friendly though, I mean I asked her out within like 10 minutes of meeting her. >Also you should know women need attention and their thoughts change with time . And by time I mean even in a span of days and hours .I think this is honestly probably what happened. I think she liked me in the moment when she was talking to me, then the bizarre mechanics of the female brain kicked in and she randomly changed her mind later. At least that's what I'm guessing.Also ironically I think some girl I'm friends with had feelings for me before but it wasn't mutual. One time she invited me to her apartment and said her roommates weren't home. I think she wanted to fuck but she's kinda emotionally unstable and slutty so I chose not to pursue that and we ended up just smoking niggerweed and watching cartoons and talking for a few hours lol.
>>216288158might as well rope at that point
>>216289330Sorry OP, I immediately regretted that post. I don't want to face karmic retribution anytime soon
>>216289344Don't worry I'm not gonna ack. I'm gonna go back there tomorrow and see if she's there again at the same time of day. I think she said it's her normal spot for journalling.>that's a bad ideaI don't care
>>216288395>stop treating every person that shows interest in you as your future waifuthats really fucking hard though, saying as someone that's been alone forever.
>>216289393Honestly, how would you rate your looks?
>>216288158bad luck, it happens at least you had a positive experience when meeting her IRL
>>216288158>I can tell she's genuinely into the conversation from her body language/expressions, i.e. no signs of discomfort (I'm not autistic unlike half this site)You are autistic like half this site
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>>216288158If you see her again tell her that ghosting someone instead of just saying no is cowardice and you expected better of her.
>>216289410I don't know honestly. Maybe a 5 or 6. I'm not very good at rating male faces I've found though. I've seen guys I think are average looking and girls will see him and immediately be like "woah he's so chopped". Another time some girl was telling me about how hot her ex was and showed me a picture and it was just some regular dude, maybe a little above average but idk.
>>216289285Ahh man sounds like you let go off an opportunity . Either way getting attached to that bitch would be worse , so ig it was for the better . About this latest encounter you had , don't mind too much desu . I have been in similar situations once or twice and at the end it's just the female brain that changes in minutes . And you genuinely don't wanna be around a bitch who switches up this fast .
>>216290108you're literally indian you just rape them
>>216288158maybe she died, or is playing hard to get, anyway you are in that weird spot. You already showed your interest, if she doesn't reply forget about it, move on.
Would it be a retarded idea to try to call her
>>216290284Would be based if i actually did , but I don't .
>>216288468you should see the incurable sores that break out on my penis head and shaft.
>>216289393Go Anon! You walk straight to her and demand an answer. Raise your voice. Do not leave before she tells you why she didn't respond. Women like to be pursued
>>216290814I'm thinking it would be romantic if I use her number to track down where she lives and show up with flowers and a gun
>>216290795It took me a full minute to understand how your post was an answer to his question, which is very funny to me
>>216288158Her boyfriend was busy ploughing her holes while you were scrolling through your camera reel
>>216290872Feel bad for her boyfriend if she's out flirting with random guys
>>216288158Fell for it once again award. Congratulations on wasting your time on another retarded broad.
>>216288158>text her later that day, ask if she wants to hang out on FridayThis is where you fucked up. You have to wait a few days, and then message her
>>216288158I once nearly hooked up with a girl in South Lake Tahoe but then she just stopped responding. (After I had slept on her bathroom floor no less!)
>>216289513>Faceblind >I'm not autistic though Jej
>>216288158She just wasn't interested enough.Exact same thing happened to me. Met a girl out of the blue, talked for a few hours like a date, things were going really well, gave her my number and never got a reply.It is what it is. It hurts, accept it and move on.
>>216288158>>text her later that daythis is where you fucked up
>>216288192Anon remains a virgin.
>>216292819Why don't you have a good looking gf
>>216292819If he was good looking it wouldn't matter when he texted
>>216288468Bad side is being rejected after going out with herMUCH better if she does it before
>>216292819Theres no winning that stupid game, just text whenever you feel like it
>>216288158Have you tried being tall, handsome and rich OP?
>>216288158>>text her later that dayNah man....nahDon't do that again
maybe she just died, don't worry
