Do you have sexual problems in your country?Went to see an escort earlier and now my libido is totally gone because I couldn't maintain an erection with her.I just got too nervous and couldn't have sex. This is despite me not watching any porn for a week or so, so I was quite horny. She was very nice, I admitted my situation to her and we talked for a while. Did a bit of oral, she said I looked cute. She seemed surprised when I said I was a virgin but maybe that was just an act. We seemed to have a good rapport and talked about interesting things but again, don't know if she was just acting. She did seem quite engaged when she was talking to me and we kissed a lot which I liked. The more we talked the more I relaxed but I felt bad.I'm so pathetic. I genuinely feel worse in a way now. I wandered around afterwards feeling completely alone in this world and wanted to cry. 29 years on this planet and aside from escorts, I'm still a kissless virgin. Fucking kill me. I deserve to be a Wizard.Maybe it's a mental thing? I just don't think I can meet a woman and within 5 minutes be having sex with her. I'm trying to get a date with a woman I matched with on Bumble, hopefully, but still. What's the point of it all? I genuinely would probably blow my brains out tomorrow if my parents weren't around.I am so pathetic. In your country?
>>216289993mine is not having any sex
>>216289993>aside from escorts, I'm still a kissless virgin.So you fucked whores before this one or this was your very first?
>>216289993massage?
>>216289993this is what f*id's vaginarchy pushed you to believe the truth is you are probably average valid but every f*id has been grown to believe they are all a super worthy unique princesses but the truth is most almost all of them are just trash cunts that deserves to live on a leash on dogfood
>>216290052embrace stoicism, asceticism, monasticism, solitudereject worldly pleasures
>>216290077Cooming feels good tho that sounds hard
>>216290077No. I will commit rape.
>>216290089it makes you feel pathetic though
>>216290097Cooming your pants in the night is even more pathetic
>>216290093and face consequences
>>216289993Just use pills at your first timesWorks like magic and next times you will have stone boner even without them, don't know how it works desu Also modern pills work for 72 hours, it's not really a problem
>>216290103you think that it keeps happening to monks?
>>216290044No, this was my first.>>216290048She offered a massage but I declined.>>216290052I think I am at least average attractiveness and quite knowledgeable on a lot of things, just never had any confidence with women.
>>216290052Based
>>216290154why did you decline
>>216290144Yeah probably unless they cut off their balls
>>216290218you sure
>>216290154I had a similar experience. I got memed into it by 4channers here always saying virgins should for the "confident boost"I couldn't get into it at all cause the whore I fucked looked trashy and the whole things fake and just makes you feel gross and pathetic
>>216290236Well what do you think happens? I don't think God blesses their penis with dysfunction Cum builds up, your balls make it, eventually you coom yourself in your sleep
>>216289993I have off days but I also have great days too, maybe next time prepare some dick pills or take a lot of caffeine.
>>216290261and you think this is somehow pathetic?
>>216289993Just have sexPs. You just want love, you are a weirdo
>>216290278No, maybe a bit nasty and embarrassing but not patheticWhy do think wanking is more pathetic?
>>216290293i'm glad i don't live in your country
>>216290278Is shitting pathetic?
>>216290313Why?
>>216290309first of all it's something you're not supposed to do
>>216290313You literally live in monkey rape land lmao
>>216290154it's how our generation is risen. you don't think you're the only one, don't you?>>216290174shut up jeetyou people spend your entire time are inflating f*ids ego
>>216290327So I'm not supposed to touch my dick, but if I cream myself involuntarily ij the night that's virtuous?You're retarded
>>216290320y'all are demonic>>216290335embrace eremitism, hermetism
>>216290327There are no rules in life, my friend. Earlier today I wanted some snack I saw at the gas station but didn't want to pay for it, so I simply stole it.
I had sexual problems for several years would quite often be unable to maintain an erection during sexstarted taking cialis (a type of viagra) before sex . about half the time I'd still lose my erection and be unable to finish.Had to tell girlfriends " It happens to me sometimes, sorry about that. if I worry more it might get worse"Then I met my current girlfriend and suddenly no problems. Infact my libido is higher with her than with any of my previous girlfriends. it might sound like I'm bullshitting but in the first year we were together, there were quite a few nights that we did it and I came 5+ times. When I tell her that I used to have erectile dysfunction she doesn't believe me.There are a bunch of interventions for erectile dysfunction that are worth pursuing but one that can work is just finding the right girl.
>>216290350i don't make the rules
>>216290358there are consequences
Get a japanese escort.
>>216290447Is prostitution legal in Japan?
>>216290123I have considered trying viagra.>>216290196I just wasn't feeling it. Looking back, the nicest part was the kissing after we had been talking for a bit.>>216290240The woman I saw was quite cute. >>216290335>. you don't think you're the only one, don't you?Of course not. I'm just offering feedback for any KHVs here.>>216290359That's nice but what about those of us with no sexual or romantic experience?
>>216290471yes
>>216290447>i svffer in nihon
>>216289993I was khhv until I was 23 and before that spent several years jerking to porn daily so the first several times that I did anything sexual my dick was completely soft the whole time. Probably the first 5 or 6 times. Most people don't have this issue. Maybe it was because I fucked myself with porn and just had to actually get used to the real thing. I'd even get head totally soft and would say "sowwy" with puppy eyes. These were also gay encounters too because I'm a fag and I did think it was cute that it was embarrassing for me :3That said the issue basically resolved itself after those few times and now I get hard normally
>>216290545>>>/lgbt/
>>216290509dang now I want to visit even more
>>216289993>>216290154>>216290475do you actually want to have sex or are you doing it just to do it?
>>216290545>Maybe it was because I fucked myself with porn and just had to actually get used to the real thing.I'm trying to stop watching porn because of this. Also not masturbating as much in the hope it'll make me more desperate. Do you guys think I should go back and see her again?
>>216290581Do it. Or just get on tinder and hit up hoes and try it that way. After a few times I think your brain will just get used to the real thing and it'll rewire what needs to mentally be rewired
>>216290581Take a viagra wait a hour and you will fuck her full erection
>>216290545>These were also gay encounters too because I'm a fag and I did think it was cute that it was embarrassing for me :3GrossI don't get I hear people saying this all the time how porn gave them erectile dysfunctional but I've never had this problemIve watched porn for years and when I had sex found it easy to stay hard Do you go soft while watching porn?
>>216290608>tinder and hit up hoesI don't have the charm for that
>>216290657Definitely not. My hand is absolutely perfect. But if I look away I'll go soft fairly quick I suppose. I know most people don't have the issue. I've fucked around with some virgins and they got hard fast and were fine. Maybe I just have mild ED? But the problem of being totally soft the whole encounter stopped after a few times. Still, if I'm gonna top for example I need to get it in fairly quickly otherwise ill start to get soft and not be effective at topping which has happened multiple times unfortunately
I watch extremely degenerate porn all the time but I still get hard if a girl just stands close to me
>>216290370One biteEveryone knows the rules
>>216290715Same, a girl even sitting next to me can make me rock hard and I'll start dripping pre cum
>>216290575Good question, I'm honestly not sure. I think I do want intimacy more than pure sex. But I also want to try sex.It also feels weird having told someone I'm a virgin. Literally never told anyone that.
>>216290657>Do you go soft while watching porn?I do if I stop fapping. Not instantly. >>216290715>>216290760Is my brain just broken? I'm 29 and have watched porn most of my life at this point.Can it even be cured? I have stopped watching it for a bit now. How long does it take?
I think next time I get an escort ill do it off a website First time I went it was to a brothel which I didn't like cause it felt weird going into the bar everyone's eyes including the bartender were on me, and then I had to choose a girl in front of all these people
>>216289993>I am so pathetic.Correct.>In your country?No.You were nervous with someone PAID to have sex? That doesn't even make sense. I can understand if it was a girl you really liked, but nervous with a whore? that you might not even ever see again?I would call you pathetic, but that's not even the right word. This is just fucking sad.
>>216290370Yet here you are enforcing them. Weird.
>>216290612How long does viagra last? I don't want an erection for days
>>216290767Have you ever been skydiving?
>>216290871>You were nervous with someone PAID to have sex?Yes. I desperately wanted to get an erection and I couldn't. That's why I gave oral for a bit, I at least wanted to give her some pleasure if I couldn't get hard.I think part of the problem is I'm extremely soft hearted and sensitive.
>>216290767you got too many worms in your head and you're not even sure you want to do it. your dick is never going to get hard like that and even if it did it wouldn't be enjoyable.honestly your better off staying home and gooning, but you can take that anon's viagra advice and see for yourself.
>>216290895if you get the 100mg pills only take 1/8th im serious they are very powerful
>>216290944You put your mouth on a prostitute's puss???
>>216290944>That's why I gave oral for a bitdon't do that with whores dude
>>216290918No>>216290970But it's nice to just be with a beautiful woman, you know? I do wish I had a gf
>>216291015>NoYou should try it. It sounds weird but trust me
>>216291002>>216291014Yes. I thought women liked it. I know she's an escort but at this point it's not like I can have standards.Is that bad?
>>216291015sure. you can also just pay her to cuddle, kiss and talk. a lot of guys do that and she probably prefers it over fucking too.also don't give prostitutes oral.
>>216289993>I deserve to be a Wizard. No you dont POSER get lost ywnbaw (w stands for wizard here)
>>216291085if she is a professional whore from Eastern Europe depending on her age she has already fucked 10,000 different men
>>216291085Just don't be surprised when you get weird bumps and blisters on your mouth
>>216289993>>>/r9k/
>In your country?I never experienced love when I was young because I had a shitty childhood socially and then COVID nuked my Junior and Senior year when I was planning on making moves. Then I had college and work where I did nothing but that and working out for ~3 years before I launched an ill-fated plan to join the FFL because I was tired of having to deal with constant social pleasure to start a family when I had no means to. It was the happiest I ever was.That failed, and now I'm stuck trying to start my life over for the third time, except I can't get anywhere because there's no places to meet girls and any girls worth their salt don't really go outside anyway. I had a great GF once by accident that would've been life material but all it did was made me realize what I'd been missing out on and made everything worse as a result.And even when I plan on cruising for women given I've researched sex pretty extensively, work and other things get in the way. Like, I hope I can go out and cruise at the clubs on Halloween but I'm 95% sure it's not going to happen because I'll have to work some shitty late shift given I'm one of the handful of adults at my shitty wagie job.If that doesn't work out I'm just going to 100% commit to my autistic pursuits and give up on anything related to women. I would've killed myself long ago if I weren't close with my family and I weren't religious (which is also a big reason I'm still a virgin, I have God looming over me and inflicting me with existential dread every time I get close to anything approaching a sexual situation or even think about it). I'd just be content being an autistic coomer who refuses actual sex like Salvador Dali (minus the shit fetishism ofc).
>>216291085Stds dude....
>>216290358Ick a spick
Anyways why is this thread repeated over and over? I don't understand the purpose
>>216291385>I don't understand the purposeFor an international board, sexual experiences in foreign countries can be interesting or enlightening depending on the subject matter.It's also a place for sad sack anons to vent.
>>216291419Yeah but it's obviously botsI'm pretty sure I've seen this thread word for word (minus my own posts itt)That's what's weird
>>216291473>Yeah but it's obviously botsIn all fairness you could say that for anywhere on the internet now. It's not an issue exclusive to 4chan nor the bigger social media sites, it's everywhere now.
>>216291473It's probably nothing to worry about. If I were you I'd just take my prescription medication and go to bed and not think about it.
>>216291102>>216291144>>216291259Ehh she seemed clean and smelled nice. She was a bit younger than me.My life is so pathetic at this point I might as well give oral.>>216291123Got to 29, close to Wizard status.
>>216289993No. I just have sex with my 3rd wife this week.
>>216291495My memory is good I'm right. The whole schtick about eating out a whore this exact thread was here like a couple months ago
>>216291549You make sure to pack her lunchbox for school tomorrow too?
My plan is to not watch any porn for a few more weeks, avoid fapping as much as possible, and also try practicing mental exercises in an attempt to make myself get an erection when I see an escort again. What do you reckon guys, good idea?
>>216289993hahaha you sad cuntimagine still caring about this shitmieux vaut en rire qu'en pleurer
>>216291597>The whole schtick about eating out a whore this exact thread was here like a couple months agoIDK I looked up his latest post about nofap and getting hard on the archive and I got nothing.Either way, he's not the first nor last actual guy here I've seen who's talked about eating out whores, I can't fucking imagine doing that shit with how much about sex I've read up on. I'd only ever eat a girl out if I thought she was serious wife material.
>>216291763The whore thread pops up routinely in some form every month I've noticed. Different variations of itIt may not be exactly word for word but i vaguely remember someone I'm that thread giving a similar story It's a bit unbelievable when you think about itSome socially anxious incel eats out a prostitute. Sounds like a made up story
>>216290359>finding the right girl kek, that's one of the hardest things to do after a certain age
>>216291818>Some socially anxious incel eats out a prostitute. I've heard this a few times in different contexts from different flags. Some of them probably are bots, but there was one I remember well about a guy who developed a weird kink for eating out Jap whores that was 100% real.As an incel myself, I find it weird that some of them develop a tatse (pun intended) for that with fucking prostitutes, I find it insane.>Sounds like a made up storyWe are also on 4chan where greentexts and blogposts alike are always taken with a grain of salt as a rule of thumb
>>216291818I'm not a bot or lying dude.
>>216291544No you are not close to wizard any longer, you will never have the powers, youve lost your only chance
>>216292302I did consider waiting until 30 but I cavedStill, I thought escorts didn't count?
>>216289993>Do you have sexual problemsworse, I have financial problems.
>>216292378>Syrian>financial problemsI for one am shocked by this revelation
>>216291676you will fail without dick pills guaranteed
>>216292868I would love to clean toilets in the USA.
>>216293027Why?
>uoooh i cant have the sexxo with literal paid fucctoys because no emotional connection and fake.4cels should not fucking lecture anyone about masculinity this is gay as fuck.
>>216293395because you never had sex and it's a stranger and most likely will be going in with no confidence.its up to you if you want to risk throwing money away again. If you want a better chance of success take the dick pill and your dick will be busting out of your pants before you get there. They only way for it to go down is to ejaculate
>>216293591>Pinoy thinks his opinions about whores matter
>>216293591Some of us men don't have confidence.>>216293702Well if I tried again it'd be the same woman so I'd be a little bit familiar and less nervous hopefully. I think I might give it a few weeks, and try again, hopefully I can de-porn my brain.
>>216291676Yeah... don't I did that because horniness was getting in the way of my life and after a while my libido completely and utterly disappeared It was what I wanted and now I'm pretty much a mental eunuch but it doesn't sound like something you want
