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I go to the nightclub and nothing happens, I go to the bar and everyone is with their group already no girls to talk to or friends to make. am i just a loser or something
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>>216585119
There's a club if you'd like to go
You could meet somebody who really loves you
So you go and you stand on your own
And you leave on your own
And you go home and you cry
And you want to die
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>>216585295
Sounds gay but yeah
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>>216585119
I go to the bar and the demographic is people in their 30's watching Seahawks or Krakens games
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>>216585119
Join a social group, club or activity. Meet people with shared interests and go from there. If you just awkwardly stand around places where people are at with their friends you will not make one.
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>>216585119
what ethnicity are you?( VERY important question)
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>>216585119
meeting people IN clubs is very hard. better to meet someone off a dating app or insta and take them to a club instead
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Women in clubs are all there with their boyfriends
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>>216585119
yes
you're meant to make friends in highschool and college, and keep them for life
unfortunately I lost all of my irl friends bc they became trannies among other stuff
>>216586612
>Join a social group, club or activity.
where do you find these ? I've always wandered how people just move cities and find a new group of friends just like that. it seems super difficult for me
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>where do you find these
Much easier than you'd think. Pick something you want to do and go from there. For example, I like playing Squash and I've always wanted to play tabletop RPG games, but I never had anyone to go with because I moved around a lot growing up so my friends are all over the place. Where I live now I did not grow up. I literally just googled squash club in my city as well as games club in my city. Found two things, checked them out, went and then over time you build up the connection with people and I've made friends there now.

It is a lot easier than you think, the biggest issue is motivating yourself and be willing to put yourself out there. It's only awkward at first and then you realise it's so much better than wasting your time on this shitty website. I wish I just did it sooner.
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>>216585119
No, it's just hell right now to be even a little bit extroverted. Everybody's socially retarded and society rewards it
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>>216586795
damn
ok you know what I might just try that



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