Is taking your wife's name becoming popular in your country too?
>>217183107No, but I really wish I could. My last name is literally, "Gay" and my siblings and I have been harassed for it forever but my parents have made it very clear to all of us if we ever try to get it changed we're cut out of the will. Can't risk it.
Without mentioning the faggot in OPs picture name one thing thats wrong with taking your wifes name
>>217183131What if you changed it to another spelling
changing as a person is natural, but shaming others for not changing, or feeling victimized by growing apart from them, is wrong.
>>217183131>the willa timeshare in tucson and a dying cat?
>>217183134Some people are insecure and think it's disgraceful or something
>>217183131>My last name is literally, "Gay"You MUST marry a Focker girl
>>217183150Same difference to them. They've already cut out of my little brother for other reasons (alcoholism / no job) so I know they're not bluffing. >>217183194That's basically how I'll spend it if I ever get it but after having the surname for three decades it'd feel like all the past embarrassment was all for naught if I don't commit at this point. I would feel bad giving a kid my last name knowing exactly what kind of childhood he'll have with it though.
>>217183239I loved these movies even if they hit a little too close to home in some areas lol
>>217183131kek based
>>217183134It only makes sense if you're estranged from your family
>>217183107Never heard of anyone doing it. It would have to be a really posh name for me to even consider that.
feel like its good social capital to give your kid a pretentious double barrelled surname
>>217183107i think you should pick which ever is the cooler nameor do it like latins, both keep your original names and your kids get both (paternals)
>>217183107Look at his eyes.. he’s been broken.
>>217183505no it doesn't, it's the hallmark of being mixed race herei worked in a college every time i see some kid with a name like jayden collingwood-palmer i know it's gonna be some light beige kid with the biggest lips and most retarded face i've ever seen
>>217183131Hilarious and true
Why is taking your wifes name cucked? I dont know anyone who did it but whats the problem?
>>217183107That sucks, I will miss the Niggerfaggot surname
>>217183107>rich Orange county WASP whose parents were probably racist reaganites now bears the surname Jomhathat's the story of his entire people, not just of himself
>>217183131>Hey Gay!>Catch!
>>217183107God I hate that ridiculous faggot style
>>217183107Is this pathetic cuck still alive? I thought he killed himself.
>>217185847If human immortality was achieved, I'd give it to icuccczz first so he can suffer and fail till the heat death of the universe
>>217183639Kek
>>217183131Funny story,my mom’s cousin’s wife cheated on him with another woman so they broke up.Then his new girlfriend’s first name was “gay”.
>>217183107All I know is that his somehow makes it harder for men to gain custody of their kids, because the kids aren't under his name.
>>217186333>cousin’s wife cheated on him with another womanHot.
>>217183131Did they named you "Dick", too? Dick Gay?
>>217183134It is important for alleviating some amount of paternity-insecurity. Women have always had certainty of parentage when they create a child. Men do not. It's important for a man to feel like the child is his, and part of his legacy, for the family dynamic to work optimally. So the child must take the father's name, not the mother's name. That way, even if the parentage is uncertain, there is a sense that this newborn stranger has been formally adopted into the man's family. Even if the child does not bear the man's genes, it still bears the man's name; and continues his legacy in that way.
>>217183131>Michael T. Gay>"what does the T. stand for?" >"The"
No, I've never heard of such a thing.
>>217183131Sup mr gay
I've only known one man do it and he had no family he ever knew, literally.
>>217183131I knew a woman who's first name was Gay. She was around 70 years old when I met her ~15 years ago, and apparently she was named at the tail end of an era where that was still an acceptable thing to call children.
>>217183107the long house pheno
>>217183131yeah at this point as an adult "the damage is already done" so i would do as you. but man that must have been hell growing up. your parents are fucked up if you dont mind me saying
Imagine taking this hideous sow’s name as your own.
>>217193128ugly tattoos, fucking yuck
i wish i got my mom's nameI'm just a generic gomez instead
if i end up outside turdgay i will take wife's surname because foreigners can't pronounce of spell my long surname
That's not really a thing here, if you marry both spouses keep both their last names, and if you have a baby the baby gets both of your first last names
>>217183107My dad did it 30 years ago
>>217196352Though it's probably because prior to taking my mother's name my dad's last name was actually his stepfather's last name.
Taking names is not a thing here. I think it would be even better if daughters took mother's surnames too so that it follows genetics, y dna and mtdna.
>>217183150Like Gh3y?>>217183131Why do they care?
>>217183665Why would you take it unless you have some humiliation fetish?
>>217183107don't know
>>217183107>Is taking your wife's name becoming popular in your country too?It's faggottry. The only way this would be permissible in kekistan is if you had a kek worthy lastname like "Gaylord" or something similar.
>>217198066And your wife had a goated and cracked lastname like "Armstrong"
>>217183639it is hispanic culture, checks out>>217183540>like latinslike latinx*
