>make plans with coworker>"sorry man, I decided to fix my boat that day">make plans with college buddy>"dude sorry but something came up at work, maybe we can meet up in a month or two">make plans with parents>"looks like we're going shopping today instead"Are people iyc dependable? Or are flakes a global phenomenon?
>>217185969maybe you are a very unpleasant person
>>217186019This is a possibility. However, they're the ones that initiated the plans.>"hey OP, want to go do x next week?">"yeah sure, thanks for inviting me"If they don't want to hang around me, why invite me at all just to cancel last-minute?If I had a nickname, it would be "blue balls"
That's why you throw events and invite several people. Parties, drinks, dinner etc.
>>217185969That's why you don't initiate or participate unless it's pretty sure the event will happen.>>217187418>nobody shows up
>>217185969No one is dependable anywhere. The plus side is that being dependable yourself puts you miles ahead of everyone