ITT: just thirdie things>family completely forgets about elderly grandma>everyone is either busy working or simply doesn't care>I have to waste my 20s taking care of her (taking care of her meds, going along her to med appointments, helping her walk, cooking, cheking her pressure and sugar, making sure she doesn't fall etc)>can't go out without constantly worrying>can't have privacy>can't have any non-remote work or finish college>can't have girlfriendgenuine grimshit, this shit destroys your soul, it's just worrying 24/7the worse part is that she of course needs more care the older she gets so you just know it only gets worse and worse from now onwardsat the very least my mother gives me some money to buy the necessary stuff but that's itI know this sounds like some neet dream but the reality is just bleak, I appreciate my grandma and everything but I feel I am losing my sanity every passing day, seeing my old highschool classmates already graduated and marrying messes my mind and I am starting to feel like a schizonot to mention she doesn't have the best personality, always fighting over random shitmy life doesnt feel my own, it only spins around hermy only cope is just playing vidya, daydreaming about different lives I could've had and killing myself once she is gone. anyway, any other grimshit stories about thirdie situations?
Why not just stick her in a retirement home?
>>217222572that has nothing to do with being a thirdie at all and isn't even as bad as my situation because you have an end in sight. I was saddled with younger family members who won't be able to take care of themselves, my curse will effect me until my final day.
>>217222572My mom's cousin would take care of their grandpa when he was alive. After he died, mom's cousin got three kids and basically sent them to my great aunt to take care of as a way of paying him for taking care of father.
>>217222572just add some mercury next time you make her a cop of tea
>>217222672of her father*
>>217222649>that has nothing to do with being a thirdie at all firstie family members tend to be more helpful to each othersome of the backstabbing you see here in the third world between family members is straight up evil incarnatebesides firsties have a gorillion help programs that can help out in this situations>>217222672i wont have kidsI will die a virgin
>>217222642who is willing to pay for that? it isn't freebesides, she always mentions she doesn't want to get abandoned in some retirement home. I would feel very bad doing it
>>217222774Firsties would just stick her in a retirement home once she started getting uppity
>>217222842Just discuss it with your family so they can pay, or everyone can pool together some money to pay. I feel for you, Anon, I too wasted my 20s having to wrangle a geezer and it fucked my life up
>>217222774they have been through programs and the therapists are awful, to treat mental health properly in this country you need to have a whole other nest egg set aside besides your main one. or be fine with never saving any money.
>>217222898>everyone can pool together some money to payeveryone will make up excuses as usual>Anon, I too wasted my 20s having to wrangle a geezer and it fucked my life uphow did it end up working for you? did he die?
>>217223016>did he die?Yeah>how did it end up working for you?I became mentally ill from dealing with his bullshit for too long
>>217223084>I became mentally ill from dealing with his bullshit for too longdid you at least manage to get laid?
>>217223700I have never had sex
>>217222572just thirdie things>can't get a job at 23 high school dropout>employers think im too old>employers require a college degree for a minimum wage job>family constantly compares you to cousins with slave jobs like nurse and low paid waiter>family shames me for it due to crab mentality ingrained in the genesfirsties will never get this
>>217224114>23>too oldgrimt. 27>>217223795at least any female friend? last interaction with a non-family woman?I am on the same path already jesus
