What were your early 20s like?
I don't remember
>>217550499my 20's were spent in Hyperabad and it was very anxious. Luckily my visa came through and am now happy in Canada.
>>217550499i did three years for repeated burglary
>>217550499Finishing studying, working, going to army, working again
without sounding like a chud explain to me why shouldn't she enjoy herself if by the end she gets the happy life anyway
Highly motivated to do well in. School and lots of optimism about how I would become. Now I'm nearly 30 and a fucking loser who is borderline suicidal
>>217550499future wife material
>>217550548why aren't you in Ukraine then?
>>217550557I don't need to explain anything.I will avoid sloots like her and her problems will never be my problems. The end.
>>217550557Oh, we all have to deal with our existential condition. No shame on her. It's just a lot of guys see themselves as the lesser but reliable alternative and it sort of takes the romance out of, well... romance. Lol. Anyway, thanks for coming to my TED talk.
>>217550499Link to the post? I want to see all the coping simps.
>>217550557-> >>217550587
>>217550612This was the op
>>217550499Why do y'all act like you can't have sex with hot dudes too
>>217550709do you have functional plumbing?
>>217550709>>217550709I'm not going to get sodomised by a faggot
>>217550765you could sodomize the faggot THOUGH
Sexlessness, joblessness, loneliness
>>217550499Cold, extreme depression, working like a dog, hardship, intense poverty, witnessing scenes that traumatized me, and going to sleep most nights very hungry.
>>217550581Why aren't you?
I was homeless in Belgium for about three years until I lucked my way into travelling to the US, and I've been here ever since.
>>217550772I don't want to sodomise anyone, because I'm not a faggot
>>217550819Lucky mf made it to the us
>>217550803Man after reading these reddit posts it really drilled in what I was already aware of. There's just no compatibility. What I experienced out of life is so drastically different than what so many of the women my same age did. I'm not jealous or bitter (anymore), but there's simply no chance of ever seeing things eye to eye nor would I ever be able to accept the knowledge that the financial security and stability that I had to desperately fight to obtain is something any romantic partner would take for granted. I know a lot of guys just date some girl who had lots of fun "adventures" and accept that role as a provider and "safe" option for them. But I'm too prideful. I don't think I'll ever view the opposite sex without an inherent resentment. It is what it is.
>>217550869>I don't think I'll ever view the opposite sex without an inherent resentment.i think that's natural and it would be weird if you didn't. you just have to be care not to let the resentment consume you.
>>217550869>I know a lot of guys just date some girl who had lots of fun "adventures" and accept that role as a provider and "safe" option for them.I would rather die. I would rather date a string of sugar babes in their aesthetic prime, as expensive as it would be there's no chance of me losing half of my wealth.
>>217550883>you just have to be care not to let the resentment consume youThanks anon. I think i have reached a happy balance. It's not something I think of too much these days, only occasionally. It's not a searing red hot hatred, not the kind of frothing at the mouth anger you see on incel forums. Just a kind of cold and detached disappointment I suppose.
>>217550869>I know a lot of guys just date some girl who had lots of fun "adventures" and accept that role as a provider and "safe" option for themI have a friend like that who has dated single moms even older than himThe most brutal part is that both his dad AND granddad taught him to be like thatA bloodline of beta providers
>>217550499I hope each and every woman suffers hard in their life later. I hope they get cancers and such.
>>217550904Have you ever tried to talk him out of his conditioning?
>>217550919Well he'a very fond of both of them and we once had and argument over something minor and career related (he got pissed off at me saying that pursuing something out of passion was dumb) so it's seems like a bad idea
>>217550936what's his reasoning for not dating younger women?
>>217550904Man that's depressing asf. I knew guys like this and the messed up part is their wife actually resents them. They really truly despise the poor beta man who they end up with out of convenience. I had a teacher in high school who redpilled me about this early on. It was mostly girls in that class, only me and 2 other students were male. One day when it was raining outside she turned the lights out and said we are just going to cancel the scheduled lesson and watch romantic movies.She explained an old ex boyfriend who was very exciting, fun, and badass, etc. And that he promised her once whenever it rained he would come to her. But then he left her. And then her current husband "tricked" her when she was still sad over the breakup and how she always misses that ex bf. The thing is her tone of voice and the way her face scrunched up in pure disgust and hatred when she mentioned her husband at the end of that story. It really left an impression on me. All the girls in the class approved of her story and empathized with her but I thought it was really disgusting behavior. She basically just gushed over some other man publicly to all of us students and showed open disdain about her husband. Her husband wasn't a stranger either, it was a small community and we all knew him and he was a nice guy who would participate in events and stuff. I just thought it was wild how humiating that was. Sorry for wall of text.
>>217550944Oh no, it's that he's convinced women only go for walking ATMsHe dated an older single mom because that's what he could land
>>217550826You're an incel who's on the internet complaining about how bad women are lol lmao
>>217550499I met my gf, now wife.honestly, reading a biography on hitler rn and his late teenage years/early 20s sound like mine. lazy, egotistical, not wanting to work or do anything difficult. It was eye-opening the moment I realized I was behaving like a narcissist. I don't recognize that person anymore
>>217551008where else would he complain? it's almost 2026, isn't the internet the most obvious place to go to for that?
>>217551008yet I still have more dignity than faggots
>>217550499I've been disabled since I was 19 years old. I've spent the last 10 years of my life in doors while my parents work themselves to death.
>>217551046Why does dignity matter when you don't even leave your house
>>217551070Sorry to hear that anon. Is it due to an injury?
>>217551215I was incredibly unlucky to develop diverticulitis at the young age of 19, as it's generally considered to be a condition that affects older people. I almost died from several infections as well some other medical complications.
>>217550828I don't consider myself lucky. It's pretty hellish here compared to Europe.
>>217551292Jesus christ anon that's seriously unfortunate. I'm glad you survived and hope you can keep positive and find things that make you happy.
>>217551309I've talked about it on /int/ before, I'm sure you'll find discussions about colostomy bags in the archives if you or any other anon goes searching for it.
sad and lonely
>>217550557Because... because... BECAUSE I WANTED THE SAME THING BUT COULDN'T AND NOW I'M BITTER OK?
>>217550499Western women are a fucking meme
>>217551298Would you rather be homeless in Belgium or have an avg wagie job here? if you had to choose
>>217550499Maybe Islam isn't such a bad thing
>>217550499>>217550638As grim as this is, realize that for at least a few more years, there are women in a certain few cunts that are still for the most part conservative and only want to sleep with a man they'll marry. Most of these cunts are also brown or yellow cunts where women get excited over an average white man. To her, you can be the hot guy she obsesses over, and the first and last guy she ever sleeps with.>but muh mutt kids>but muh social stigmaSociety is only getting faker and gayer. You're only becoming more of a gagged slave. The happiness standards of prior generations are no longer available to you. Cope and seize what's actually within your grasp or endure a future that's even worse than you thought.
>>217550499First job, first love, moved away from home to be with with her, both working working and working to save for a house.
>>217550499I was single then. Went to a shitload of parties. Back then I had the energy. Did military service then too. Good times but I'm happier now tbqh
>>217550499Basically 20 - 25 was one long drug and alcohol fueled fog
>>217551336What area of the cunt tree is that? Looks dismal.
>>217550499i actually fucking despise women so much it's insane
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>>217551712How could you afford it?
>>217551432Islam is a false and evil cult
