What are popular first date activites in your country?In the USA it is getting coffee. But I don't do that because I don't like coffee and I think that is too short. I prefer lunch. Dinner is too late and comes with unspoken expectations.
We don't have first dates or any structure or etiquette around courting. A woman either decides you're human or subhuman and then hangs around you to show off to other women. The content of the time spent hanging around you is insubstantial. As long as you are spending money or time serving her then you are filling the role of a human boyfriend