What are your real life social skills and friend circle like in your country
Everyone I know has some sort of debilitating personality disorder and self-medicate with alcohol
I have Mommy! And that's all I need!
I haven't had friends for like 3 years now
>>218828126based>>218828077>social skillsI am good at my specific niche of b2b sales and managing/mentoring junior colleagues>friendszero social life.
>>218828077Never progressed passed small talk and longest friendship lasted 1 month.
>>218828077>friend circle2 friends who have much better life than mine>social skills lol
>>218828077>social skills and friend circle>>>/x/
>>218828126Based, but make sure to know mommy’s family too.
>>218828077i havent't had real friends since i was 12, that's almost 20 years ago, life's a joke
>>218828987>real friendswhat do you mean by that?
>>218828842You didn't even have friends as a child?
>>218829025friends that you hang out with outside of school
>>218828077I have a decent sized circle (like 5 or 6) of life-long friends from kindergarten and we are all close to this day, we stay together by playing similar games and living in the same city, if it weren't for them I may not be as grounded as I am and would have became a KHHV or whatever.
>>218828077>social skills>friend circle
>>218829054If they stop talking to you when you're no longer forced to sit in the same room as them for years then were they ever your friends?
>>218829089>5-6 friends>would have become a KHHVno. stfu normalnigger. you have no idea how or why these things happen.
>>218829113I definitely can, one of said friends only just got a girlfriend/had sex for the first time in his life at the age of 29, the only other "relationship" he had was in grade 5.
>>218829110Id hangout with kids in the neighborhood for years. Sadly I just gradually lost touch as time goes on. But even about 2 decades later I still think about them and how cool it would have been if they could have been life long friends
>>218829137>one of said friends only just got a girlfriend/had sex for the first time in his life at the age of 29How did he find her?
>>218828077My life is in vacuum since 2016
>>218829168Friend A had a gf, his gf had friends who were single, they tried to set up Friend B with Friend A's gf's friend, it ended up working out. But he also had to change himself, he was a bit of a slob and a wageslave, he quit his job, is going back to school, started working out, stopped smoking weed, etc.
>>218828077My friend group is almost like a group of misfits you would see in the movies. Most of us listen to rock/metal and have boardgame nights with a few drinks.
>>218829224Life fuel
>>218829137>had gf in 5th gradeso not a -cel of any description.
>>218829294I'm not sure what kind of relationship you think 10 year olds had with eachother, but for all intents and purposes he never had meaningful female connection/touch.
>>218828077I have decent social skills, I can make small talk and hang around people, but I'm very antisocial and I love being alone at home working on my things>>218828126Based
>>218829266it's ironic because he's balkan as well lol
>>218829235You have nice life and friends bro
>>218829324he had a gf so he was a normalfag all along. again, you are so far removed from truecels you have no concept of the utter and profound rejection by society that this lifepath entails. sex itself is just a rubber stamp formality that happens to you normalfags, the tip of the iceberg.
>>218829235This but we listen to jazz, funk and R&B. Also we play more with cards instead of board games.
>>218829368what an asinine comment.
>>218829393Cards are the way to go, no rules arguing and no losing pieces. Plus they are cheap..
>>218829430We kinda invented our own game that only we know the rules of.
>>218828077>What are your real life social skills They vary a lot depending on the day really, sometimes I'm normie tier, and some times autistic/very social fobic>and friend circle like in your countryGood enough
>>218828077I have 1 (one) friendMy social skills are very bad
>>218829398>make a series of asinine comments about a topic you don't understand>project and accuse your opponent of what you're doingthe irony is palpable. made all the more so by your obvious misuse of the term in >>218829349 , you keep using words you don't actually understand.
>>218829364It's not bad, although I don't see them as much as I used to due to work and stuff. We went to Krakow not long ago. It was very nice.
>social skills>friend circle
>>218829393>>218829430We started getting into dnd which has been quite amusing. I would love to learn MTG at some point though. We have also played a lot of Guitar Hero at a friend's house but I suck at it.
>>218829520I wish my friends would travel places with my. But they're either too bad with money to save for trips or not interested in traveling. Always so jealous of people that have friends they go on fun trips, especially to other countries, and get life long memories from it.
>>218829456As long as he's a good friend it doesn't matter.
>>218829622Maybe you could convince them to travel to more local places. We don't travel together a lot, but we go to a few gigs together which I enjoy. Most of my friends have gfs/wives now so I will have to find a lady to travel more with myself (yeah right eh? H-haha)
>>218829622Mine want to travel, but the money is the issue. I tell them that I traveled quite a lot for very cheap when I was younger, but they don't want to do hostels and take holiday time.
My social skills are I'd say actually really good with the right type of people but I'm really not a normie and in Croatia that makes the amount of people you can interact with fairly limited. Almost all of the dudes I hit it off with in one way or another are completely mentally ill and has made it kinda hard to form chill friendships with them.I only have one non mentally ill friend that I talk to on discord frequently and play video games with.
>>218829805>they don't want to do hostelsHostels are fun because you can actually meet people
>>218828077Fairly okay social skills through sheer studyZero friendsIt's as if I had a social energy bar that's always very low. I crave social events but I hate when they happen.I'm mindbroken
>>218829835I agree, many fun stories drinking with people I met that night.
>>218828077>social skillsAtrophied and dead.>friend circleI have """friends""" I see a few times a year. My friends from college have mostly moved away and my two best friends now have wives and kids while I'm an eternal incel, so it feels like they've entered a plane totally beyond my conception and it's hard to relate to them anymore.
