Would you get married iyc?
>>219330758No, I will sacrifice my life to science one way or another
>>219330758I need a wife for cynical careerist reasons (nobody at my firm gets promoted if they're a bachelor) but otherwise I'd never want one. I wish I could just pay an actor / prostitute a yearly stipend to pretend to be my wife (especially at work events) but there's no way I'd get away with it. Still, I've lived with women I've dated before and am really not looking forward to eventually doing that again. There's something in the female mind that just hates seeing a man content watching TV after a long day, but that's about all I have the energy for after wage caging.
>>219330758only to youx
>>219330873>I need a wife for cynical careerist reasons (nobody at my firm gets promoted if they're a bachelor)Professional life in the US is so weird.
>>219330758was planning on it but then he dumped me out of the blue a month ago
>>219330758only to a cute hapa girl
>>219330758only to a black woman
>>219330758Yes, unfourtanely I am not even at the point of having a gf>>219330891This happens in Germany too. Old people think there is something seriously wrong with you if you are permanently single
>>219330758yes if i find the right person (i won't)
>>219330758Unlikely. I don't think I can handle the responsibility and I'm an unlovable bitter chud with a god awful personality that's very prone to insecurity and neediness, and I'm only average physically on a good day. It'd be a loveless arranged marriage with a dead bedroom at best but more realistically I'd get cucked within the first year and i wouldn't even blame her for it tbdesu.
i loved and still miss single life despite loving my gf. she gives me a lot of space (and i, in turn, do the same) but even still, i don’t like having the emotional (and future financial) burden of another (and more) mouths to feed, alongside the general drag of having to sacrifice personal time to having date nights and goings out. i wish i could do some severance-tier shit and just off my brain to do the dating shit so i can time skip and enjoy my free time
>>219330758I cant tame a woman so i wont.In the past society was built around taming a woman for me but now i have to do all the work and i just dont know how to and i dont have the resources.
>>219330758I would like to but I also don't like being the centre of attention so I would probably feel uncomfortable during the wedding
>>219330758I'd only do it because most women will leave you if you don't eventually marry them (or even if you do nowadays kek).
>>219331106based
>>219330758When I was 14 I had a dream of marrying and having 3 children as well as a large house. 21 years later I am still a KHHV chudcel and have abandoned the idea entirely, some people are just not built for this.
>>219330758Yeah
>>219330758if love with a spouse is as bad and hurtful as with my parents, I'd rather kms
>>219330813I'm sort of doing this already.
>>219331147>yes if i find the right person (i won't)literally me
>>219330758i will not but i am getting mad pressure from my parents to do.>what are you doing alone in your house, you have nobody that takes care of youi have been doing fine since i moved out last year and i am only 25 ffs...why are boomers like this
>>219331133Old people want more wage slaves to pay into their pensions. Bachelors are a threat to them
>>219330758Only if she was a virgin and >>219331147. Otherwise it's a gamble where you either gain nothing or lose.
There is no reason to get married anymore. Half of marriages here end in divorce, and we’re far too busy wage slaving to devote time to our spouses/children. In the end, you’re just going to end up with very neglected and resentful spouses and children The declining birth rates will continue to sky rocket
>>219330758Yes but only to a German.
>>219332847It makes sense when you think about it. Why the hell would someone marry an annoying bitch that will probably cheat with you with Tyrone? Getting married is truly a humilliation ritual.
>>219333045Not to mention that a basic wedding can cost up to $40,000
>>219331178>unlovable bitter chudaint that all arab muslims? what's the issue here?
>>219333221this is what I dont get, why do people do this when they know the odds are extremely high of a divorce? Seriously humilliating to spend all of that money and invite people and everything just to end up getting a divorce in a few years.
For the simple reason no woman would want to marry a man if the only friends at our wedding are hers.
>>219333421I'm an especially bitter and jaded chud with a veritable mountain of baggage from childhood trauma (parents never loved me, dad wanted me to die, sister tried to yeet me off a balcony at 13, etc) and every kind of mommy & daddy issue under the sun. I can't trust women either and the sound of a female crying is the same as a rattlesnake's hiss to me because it was usually the prelude to me getting royally fucked by my dear female relatives.
>>219330758No, I've spent most of my life alone and I'm not sure I'd want to give up my freedom, I also don't see the point and don't see any benefit.
>>219330758If I find the right guy
>>219330873can't you just lie about having a wife?
>>219335560Literally fucked?
>>219335648Unfortunately no. They were all unattractive with dogshit hygiene too so it wouldn't have been a pleasant memory anyways. Don't fall for the "women are clean" bullshit that's spread by foids and men who've never seen the inside of a bathroom after a woman's done menstruating in there. Shit looks like a warzone.
>>219331133Old people think being single is a choice
Is singledom actually looked down upon in your country? In Czechia 55% of men and 30% of women under 25 never had sex, so almost the majority of young population stays single and you can't ignore or ostracize such group, it's too big
>>219335791I refuse to believe that's true in the porn capital of the world
>>219330758I would marry my love today if I couldUnfortunately she's no longer in my life and this hurts me
>>219336007Sorry to hear that mate
>>219336037I tried to replace her but no one's the same.Sometimes I think I should murder her current bf. No one would know
>>219330758im too much of a romantic and women are hedonistic materialists, so I play games instead
>>219332627I am literally in the exact same camp as you lmao. I view all recent interactions with people very cynically thoughbeit, and I just want to slink back into my hole when the day is done.
>>219336223>and I just want to slink back into my hole when the day is done.I was like that too.It'll come a day where you'll regret it tho
>>219330758I WILL become a hot top dom daddy.I WILL make a twink's bussy twitch.I WILL princess carry him to the bedroom.I WILL get him pregnant.We WILL have a shotgun wedding so we won't be living in sin.We WILL be happily married.