Anybody here actually in a happy relationship with a woman and doesn't have a negative image about them in general unlike the rest of the userbase?
>>219340090nope.I was actually really good looking and attractive in my early 20's. but bad experiences made me give up on serious relationships + had blackpill mindset thinking women couldn't love you etc. Now I've seen a bunch of genuine loving couples and had my faith in love restored but it's too late I'm too old that shit has to happen in your 20'sdon't be negative/defeatist when you're young, give it your best shot or you'll spend the rest of your life regretting what you hadn't done
>>219340090>Anybody here actually in a happy relationship with a womanhappy relationship yeswith a woman no
when men judge me it doesn't turn into mean-spirited contempt at least
*looks at divorce statistics*if you haven't internalized a "negative" (scientifically accurate) notion of what a woman is, I don't know what to tell youjust don't go on reddit or 4chan in a few years whining about how you're living out of your car and how you haven't seen your kids in months or years etc
>>219340090Not in a relationship but I usually like women
>>219340090You're letting screeching incels paint a picture of the majority. You shouldn't.
>>219340090I used to be married to a japanese-brazilian but she died from a brain tumor
>>219340420if you marry an east asian woman as a white man the divorce stats are below 20%take the rice fairy pill before its too late
Yes
>>219340141The BP will always come to collect ALWAYS
even if I took the time to find a kind woman, the world is not a kind place and kind people don't fare well in it, if you don't raise your children to be narcissistic and self-centered these days they'll be abused by society
>>219340090the fact that women exist is the root of my personal misfortune
>>219340141>I was actually really good looking and attractive in my early 20's. but bad experiences made me give up on serious relationships + had blackpill mindset thinking women couldn't love you etc. Now I've seen a bunch of genuine loving couples and had my faith in love restored but it's too late I'm too old that shit has to happen in your 20's>don't be negative/defeatist when you're young, give it your best shot or you'll spend the rest of your life regretting what you hadn't doneLiterally me.Dated probably the only girl I loved throughout highschool till college 16-22 and had a massive heartbreak from that cheating whore. Only found a new gf two year later just to realize I couldnt keep faking loving her so I just broke up after 3 years together... Now i'm 30 and don't think i'll ever have a true love again. I've seen couple girls but they're all shallow and usually all pretty ran through riding the dick carrousel All the shit and cheating i've seen and personally took from women just made me really apathetic I can't bring myself to trust these hoes. I literally met religious girls that were supposed to be faithful and good caring loving women but when you got to meet them and their masks come down its just desheartening.I wish I could erase everything I know about women and just be naive about how they are to maybe put myself through a relationship again
Women are easy to hate if you pay attention to society
>>219340090I've always hated my parents relationship. I think the reason I've avoided being in a relationship was being afraid I would end up like my parents. My parents are complete retards that should have never had kids.
>>219340090yeah but i do have the problem of having no platonic friends
>literaly every important philosopher ever says women es cagada >some horny anon thinks he knows betterLol. Ironicaly I only have good female relatives in my life, but I cant close my eyes to reality
>>219341009statistically>neuroscience studies of married couples show only 15% are in love - most people fall out of love>and those are the ones that aren't divorced>and of course many were never in love to begin withbut>actually being in one of the rare long-lasting in-love couples is the single strongest predictor of well-being known>a study on happiness found that every single person in the happiest tier of people was in a loving relationship>the harvard study on happiness found that men from abusive parents or rough childhood basically needed to find a loving woman in order to be happy as an adultthe main problem is that there's basically two drives - a romantic, pair-bonding, intimacy seeking drive and a promiscuous/lust/animal drive. the two are in conflict and feeding one suppresses the other. most people reinforce the animal drive too much in their youth which damages their ability to pair bond later, so their relationships don't last. this is also born out by statistics>among men, the minority who did not start watching porn at a young age (did not watch regularly at 20) have a dramatically smaller risk of divorce (like 13% vs 50%)>among women, those who've never had casual sex are much happier in relationships and much less likely to divorce. a lower number of lifetime partners also correlates with a happier relationship later onso there is really no solution except for this to be common knowledge and taught to kids/teenagers in a clear, cause-and-effect way. Currently they're taught 'sex-positive' nonsense and promiscuity is just assumed to inevitable. and also its important to not dismiss their romantic ideation as childish/naive. romantic drive suppressed = inevitably will turn to promiscuous drive.
>>219341106>>among women, those who've never had casual sex are much happier in relationships and much less likely to divorce. a lower number of lifetime partners also correlates with a happier relationship later onTry even suggesting this idea to a modern women lmao. 90% of them shame redpills for looking for this type of woman
>>219340141how do you focus on studies then? Isn't career first before women/love unless you have rich parents or something
