Do you get sucker punched in your country? Caught off guard and left sputtering like a retard?That always happens to me, always always fucking happens to me. My problem is that I'm just too chill, I'm a chill guy and it's a fault. People will just fuck with me, drop little power plays out of nowhere and since I'm not a quick thinker I can't do shit at the time. But I remember, I always remember and that's how they win. They take up real estate in my brain because I have to remember who they are, categorize them as my fucking enemy. Literally rent free.
>>219816496https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WOCntkuIXds
>>219816189Nearly every single day in school I ended up going home feeling like this. It's basically just the sensation of growing up and learning human dynamics. You will find most people are not "chill guys" for a reason; it's a very passive way of living
>>219816640i think thats how some behave, if you dont act or insult back you are the weirdo, for me now i only look at them with a cold look and straight face nowadays. Because i understand now why some behave like that attacking or going defensive first and for them behave like this is normal, maybe they are like this not only with you but their families, other friend groups, school, etc. that they somehow granted the idea 'acting' like this is okey.Ive seen it, not only but others getting shit for no reason, maybe they want you at the lower you at the same level than them, but one resist to that, wich i see good. Some i know that behaves like that dont even think at the end of the day or take some time to think about something they you dead dump impulsive.
>>219816801Being on guard all the fucking time is exhausting, I can't do that. I just have to tank the first blow, it sucks for the first few days but then at least I know to be prepared for the next time.
>>219817008You have to act back or else you're a pussy, my problem is that I just can't think of anything at the time, so I just look like a dumb faggot. Theres a multitude of things I could have done but none of them came to my mind. Even stonefacing like you said would have been fine, it just sucks to be caught like that, and I never know until they do it.
>>219817198we have 'sayings' smart or no for any talk confrontation oportunity to attack back and most them arent bad words just like checkmate for the other end, maybe start there
>>219816189No. I rarely go out and when I do I don't talk to anyone. I try to make it seem like I don't even exist
>>219817530God, I fucking wish. Maybe a bit extreme but it definitely seems way easier than dealing with people. Most of the time it's not a problem but there's always that one asshole every month or so.
>>219816189No because i dont hang around with problematic people and even if i do i dont engage with them too much and just leave or keep my distanceYou sound like a retard who wants to fit in a group lol.
>>219818133If by problematic people you mean the average random dipshit American sure, faggot. I grew out of the fitting in phase in middle school, I was just minding my business. That's why it's a sucker punch.
