Does this happen in your country?
>>220288883No, took 3 weeks or so of small talks but then I randomly talk about Morrowind and connect with a guy, it branchs from there. Still friends with the guy now.
>>220289872Sup unc
>>220289872did you make out with him
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>>220288883This could've been me and the only reason it didn't happen was because I grew up in the same neighborhood with two kids that ended up being very popular in middle and high school, so I was always around people.In uni a very similar thing happened, met a fairly popular guy we played some MW 2&3 on my first week there, who then introduced me to more peopleI've always hated socializing and the whole hubbub THO, so in the end it amounted to nothing and I eventually distanced myself from everyone /blog sorry for the text
>>220290186did you make out with them
>>220288883No I dropped out from a prestigious uni lol
>>220288883You're not cute
>>220290200No I only ravaged his ass on Outpost and Hardhat and Carbon with the P90 if that counts
>>220290284this is SO hot
>>220288883I still have friends from primary school and high school. Had some from kindergarten and uni but we're distant acquaintances now. I'm not even good at making friends, I'm very distrustful and distant until I get to know someone, which is a huge upfront curve that most people bounce off of.
>>220290504did you make out with them
>>220288883Nope. Got into the social club as soon as I got in and made friends this way.It's not like in the US where you gotta spend 50k to enter uni then get into a frat or sorority and make interested acquaintances. Here you get your social club card almost for free and get to hang out with everyone and people there are usually chatty and everything.I'm one of the chatty guys so I can't relate, but here's the advice I'm giving. If you can't make friends at the social club it's because you don't want friends to begin with. Simple as.
>>220288883The people who didn't make friends at university are the ones who didn't join any clubs or societies and just sat in their rooms. I made friends, then we all went our separate ways after graduation, sad.
>>220289872>>220290186>>220290504>>220291023>>220291055I HOPE YOU ALL NORMIES DIE
>>220291140When I was a kid I was too autistic to realize I was acting awkward or annoying. I simply brute forced friends until puberty hit me and made me realize I'm a cringe aspie. Nothing normie about that. Just a different tism proc.
>>220288883idk its like i have acquaintances but no actual friends. Its hard to describe but its like i get along with people and we talk and have a good laugh at school/uni/work and then we leave whatever place we share in common and i its like we've never known eachother. I never get invited anywhere, i never get randomly called up, i never get visited. When i leave work its like i stop existing and its been like that for most of my life
>>220288883I started being social in uni and it worked but stopped being social after it since there's no point in having friends.
>>220290200>>220290584lmaoWhenever I'm around people I'm always waiting until it's acceptable to leave without being rude to go home and be by myself. Just to shitpost :)Naked usually.
>>220290173you don't look like that
I have lots of friends, from childhood, middle school, uni, bjj buds, some randos that I happen to click.. I like people in particular, i just hate people in general
>>220294645are you that nigga who's like 27 with 13 year old friends
>>220294645>bjjDo Brazilians call Brazilian Jiu-jitsu just Jiu-jitsu?
>>220288883no
>>220288883No. Unironically the last legit friend I made was my freshman year of high school. Haven't been part of a pack in almost an entire decade.
>>220288883I've had regular conversation partners (I am quite selective about calling someone a friend) in high school actually because you were forced to interact with the same people for 3 years.At university I'm proud to say I ALMOST didn't get to know anybody new, because every class was basically different people, so you had to put a genuine effort to do that. In my first year, first month, first evening class for one subject I was sitting alone before the classroom. Then two other people came and sat there quietly. One of them kind of desperately striked a conversation with me, and then the other one almost sprinted to join it, these normies were sooo desperate for human coneection in a brand new city. We sat down together for the class for 4 months up to the final exam. After that they've stopped contacting me and found new actual friends who like socializing. I don't remember their names, it was a boy and a girl. The only other instance I kind of socialized to not make it awkward was the master's thesis class as it was a small 10 people group. I just participated in the chats before the class and that was that. Remember no name.So yeah, it was the opposite for me, as I had "friends" in high school but not after that. I also realized that I have no friends due to my own personal choices and attitude rather than people excluding me. I've noticed that after graduation and while changing jobs. In every work environment people want to get to know me, invite me for lunches, coffees, extra-work activities, but I mostly strike it down because I don't care and don't want to. It's up to me to change it - but I won't as I am comfortable with my lifestyle. I feel little connection to normal people, only people with some kind of autistic-like activities are interesting and relatable to me. I'm not on the spectrum though, have been tested for that.
>>220288883yes and it continues to happen in adulthood
>>220288883So many of my people in university behaved like actual children for the first two years, it's unreal.My coursemates were pretty okay though. The retards got filtered by the end of the first year
>>220295311>So many of my people in university So many peopleFucking eepy ass got me typing like an ESL
>>220288883What heppened to me was worse. I actually did manage to make friends, quite a few actually. With time tho, we started to meet/speak less less frequently, until we just became strangers to each other again. The fact the strongest bounds I formed were with people who moved out the country didnt help eihter. Now, having fineshed college last year at the age of 23, Im back at being a loner again. I guess some of us are just destined to be alone. Not that bad tho, I enjoy my solitude/no drama life quite a lot. But I do feel Im wasting my touth sometimes
>>220296581>youth*Sorry Im retarded
>>220288883I made friends effortlessly in primary and secondary school then in college I never made A single friend in over 3 years of assisting no matter how much I tried. It is pretty much impossible to make friends in college here if you don't share multiple classes with the same people (and always sit beside them and in the same place this is specially importnat if your class consist of +50 students each)
>>220288883No, I made a lot of friends but they left me after I was a spaz.
How do i make friends when I've never had friends in my life
>>220288883No I was a turbo weirdo in highschool, but 70% of the people there liked me a lot and the 30% who hated me, respected me at the same time. I didn't care about building myself a name during college though because I was focused on my government job and was only there to get a degree that I needed to have a huge promotion.
>>220289935I'm a bonafide zoomer, skyrim>morrowind>oblivion>>220291140I wouldn't call 3 weeks of corny small talks as normie, probably looked like an autist to half of them
>>220291023>>220291055what tf is a social club
>>220288883Nope. I became a student leader in uni and organized lots of activities. I led fun expeditions into the jungles, sea kayaking, mountain hiking, camping, community service events etc. It culminated in me organizing my batch's farewell gala dinner at a 5 star hotel. I got multiple ladies clinging onto my arms that night...>how?Simply volunteer to lead. It's shocking how no one wants the leadership position. Once you become the leader, surround yourself with capable people. Lead by example. Be Capt. Kirk.
>>220299463Err how do i join clubs when ive never joined clubs in my life and isnt a freshman?
>>220288883No, i made lots of friends in highschool but didn't make a single lasting acquaintance in uni, then i made friends at work again.
>>220299463I did this and do this and you know what?>unpaid work>extra stress>manager so technically cant ask out juniors out of fear of a me-tooLooks ok on my resume but I dont even need it
>>220288883i intentionally made myself uglier in uni to make sure no one talks to me, had long unkempt hair and beard
>>220288883no I attract normies like a magnet. It's like they can pick up on me being easy social points since I'm friendly and good looking.
>>220288883You do not look like that.
