Do you svffer from borderline personality disorder iyc?Yes, I've been diagnosed twiceI feel angry all the time
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>>220358204I think you need a dr.perky
I've been diagnosed with obsessive compulsive personality disorder but I disagree that it's a mental illness
>>220358255What's life like for men who look like that
My fiance (who I have kids with) probably has it. It really is kind of like acute, disordered feminity, feminine hysteria. If you consider autism to be the male version, disordered masculinity.She externalizes a lot of feelings as anger/spite. It used to take my by shock how quickly she could flip a switch and turn on me like that. We broke up a couple of times after things got too crazy. But I always ended up coming back as I couldn't stay away from the good parts of her, it's just a very volatile situation.Over time I've met her anger with my own anger and basically won every battle, and she does it far less now. You can train the borderline out of a bitch by just going to war with her whenever she wants to start shit. I'll never know if this is the right relationship but I've come to think that perfect/ideal relationships hardly exist and you just kind of end up with what you want or need and sometimes that comes in a bizarre package.
>>220358280A lot of what they call an illness/disorder is just a normally occurring human personality trait that is advanced to the point of potentially causing maladjustment or instability in life. If you think about it a lot of "disorders" are more like character classes that might have come in handy in a very roles-based human tribal society.Depressive men, for instance, make for very good warriors (and risk takers in general), as they care far less about losing their own life, or even taking another, and have a tendency to throw themselves obsessively into things like that to make painful thoughts go away.
>>220358280I'm sorry to hear that. I had a colleague once who I strongly suspect had OCPD. He wasn't fun to work with, but I imagine it wasn't very fun being him either.
>>220358325There's nothing masculine about autism kek