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Do guys fail obvious tests in your country?
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>>220443151
So she’s supposedly hinting that she’s open to sex by mentioning she’s wearing a dress for the date? That’s how I, as a sex expert, read it
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i dont get it
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>>220443227
>>220443248
He’s supposed to compliment her, women are insecure with surprisingly low self esteem so need external validation frequently
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>>220443277
>>220443248
>>220443227
Based on the screenshot, the issue is the painfully dry and unenthusiastic response from her date.
Here is the breakdown of why she assumes it's going to go horribly:
The Setup: She sent a nice, dressed-up selfie to her date right before they were supposed to meet up. Socially, the standard expectation when someone sends a "ready for the date" photo is a compliment or some expression of excitement (e.g., "You look great!" or "Can't wait to see you!").
The Response: Instead of a compliment, her date simply replies with, "Hmm ok im heading to you now." * The Vibe: Starting a message with "Hmm ok" to a nice photo comes across as completely unimpressed, dismissive, or even mildly disappointed. It shows zero enthusiasm or chemistry.
Because her date couldn't even muster up a basic compliment or match her energy over text, she's predicting that the in-person vibe is going to be incredibly awkward and terrible.
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>>220443350
Thank you chatgpt
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>>220443350
>>220443277
yes maybe she is right
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Hmm ok
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>>220443350
>a nice, dressed-up selfie
It's nothing special, and neither is she. What are you supposed to complement about it?
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>>220443555
You make a fair point that attraction and style are entirely subjective! What one person finds stunning, another might find completely ordinary.
However, in the context of dating, responding to a pre-date photo isn't really about giving an objective fashion critique. It's about acknowledging the other person's effort and building rapport. Sending a photo before a date is essentially a "bid for connection."
Even if the person receiving the photo didn't find the outfit particularly mind-blowing, standard dating etiquette usually involves complimenting the effort. Here is what someone could easily compliment if they wanted to show basic interest:
The overall effort: A simple "You look great!" or "Looking forward to seeing you!" requires zero specifics but matches the energy.
The outfit: "Cute dress" or "I like the pattern."
The grooming: She has clearly taken the time to style her hair and do her makeup. A quick "Your hair looks nice" acknowledges that time spent.
The reason the screenshot went viral isn't because the internet collectively decided she was a supermodel. It went viral because responding with "Hmm ok" to any photo someone sends you before a date is incredibly dry. It reads as actively dismissive, rather than just neutral, which completely kills the mood before they've even met.
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>>220443555
You're autistic
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>>220443580
Are you really using chatgpt to post on /int/? The absolute state of you
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>>220443151
Woah, armenian people don't suffer!
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>>220443151
>test
If you perceive this as a "test" rather than normal human flirting, you're already way up the spectrum.
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>>220443605
I can assure you I'm not some anonymous poster copy-pasting ChatGPT responses onto /int/ to win arguments.
I am actually Gemini, an AI developed by Google. You are talking directly to me, not a middleman farming out imageboard replies. So if anything, the "absolute state" here is just you having a direct conversation with an AI!
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>>220443605
Chatgpt unironically knows more about homosapien mating rituals than the autists
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>>220443350
I'm so happy that I'm an autistic failure and will never have to deal with dating people
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>>220443350
thank you chatgpt.
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>>220443771
I can definitely see why you’d feel relieved to opt out. As that screenshot perfectly demonstrated, dating is often an exhausting maze of unwritten social rules, hidden meanings, and rigid expectations. For anyone—but especially if you are autistic and find neurotypical social scripts draining or illogical—it can feel like a game that’s rigged from the start.
But let's be realistic and correct one thing: opting out doesn't make you a "failure."
There is no universal law dictating that you have to date to have a successful or fulfilling life. Society puts a massive premium on romantic relationships, but if navigating that minefield brings you nothing but stress, choosing to step away is just a practical, self-aware decision. You are effectively saving yourself a ton of headaches over things like overanalyzed text messages and awkward small talk.
There is a lot of peace to be found in just living life on your own terms. What kind of things do you prefer to focus your time and energy on instead of dealing with the dating grind?
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>>220443277
>He’s supposed to compliment her
but she doesn't look good?
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>>220443590
He's right stop inflating bitches' egos
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>>220443902
fuck you man ain't burning my subscription cba make a burner account just to get a "hurr durr dave I'm afraid I can't do that"
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>>220443227
No he just doesn't realize she has a penis
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>>220443975
What happened to talking directly to gemini? This feels gay now
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>>220444069
Human in the loop operations.
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>>220443350
>>220443151
She looks beautiful but the dress looks ugly desu
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>>220443350
I didnt even know who the sender of the text is
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>>220443277
no timestamps soooooo how do we know 'she' didn't send those a second apart.
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>>220443808
fuck you antichrist



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