A friend of mine, a 41-yo kissless virgin, decided to turn his life around and start having SEX, at last. Don't know his true motivations, maybe he is scared of loneliness in his senior years. As of this moment, his Giga-plan includes buying new Chad-tier clothes, going to dancing classes, some dental work and studying a TON of 2000's-era pickup books. Let's discuss his chances for SUCCESS in this dating market:PROS:- He's not ugly, basically, Steve Carell's equivalent. I've seen multiple bydloids many tiers less handsome who had women.- He likes to dance, got crazy moves, and can be pretty unhinged and reckless at times- Very high IQ (130+), however, that might be seen as an impediment in itself- Genuinely kind (as opposed to me, a salty cynical chud)CONS:- Spent his 20s and 30s locked in his bedroom (god knows why) playing vidya. Rarely communicated to anyone outside of his tight (3-4) group of friends. So, social skills are not that good, esp. not Bydlo Chad extravert-worthy.- Never had a job, not for a second, even. He was a true NEET at first, than inherited some money and smartly invested it in crypto, so he's not poor, he's got maybe 3-4 lifetimes worth of money (he spends like $200 a month atm). Because of that he has some twisted ideas about Normie people lifestyles and can be seen as not relatable.- He dislikes "30-yo couguars", so his goal is 25yo hot babes, which is hilarious, considering his age and background. Naturally, he likes blondes with huge milkers.- Lives with his mom, but grudgingly acknowledges that he would have to rent an apartment "for shagging only".>inb4 it's youNope. Any advice is appreciated, I will pass it on.
A 41 yo man should not live with his mom
>>220555269Yeah, but it's cozy, free and she irons his underwear for him and folds it nicely.He's really THAT type of person.
Don't have sex as a goal, it's counterinuitive, but a guy in his situation should first get to socialize and learn how to not be a completely awkward sperg. Go to social events like language exchanges and talk to as many people as possible, attractive or not, female or otherwise, just talk talk talk, about anything, getting a bit tipsy helps in the beginning but learn how to do without.Try to build an authentic appearance, copying styles is fine in the beginning, get clothes that looks good but also actually reflect your personality, don't overdo it.The dancing is great, social dancing is a genuine good way to get girls, I'm surprised he didn't get any pussy yet just with that.>>220555269It's better to leave home at 18 and steal someone else's house after murdering them, right?
>>220555314Man is living his best life and wants to ruin it with the cursed knowledge of foid insides. Anon knock this idea out of his head asap!
>>220555384I agree that if you gotta push this level of extra effort just to get laid, it's not worth it. A $200 silicone pussy is better, cheaper and it does not talk.>>220555325He dances on occasions that other people create. Surprisingly, he can be pretty grabby too, lifting chicks in the air by their asses. It's just that he never presses on to score.
it IS you
>>220555544I am a 41yo fat married chud, so no
>>220555212>dancing classesUnless you want to get mogged by couples and dance with other 30 year male old virgins, dont do this
>>220555269Source?
>>220555727common sense
>>220555573Shieet, that's a valid point. I will pass it on.
>>220555212> his goal is 25yo hot babescan he drive? can he afford a nice car and watch?
>>220555826No driving license, obviously.Afford nice car and watches - probably not at the moment, but he WOULD buy it for mogging
I suspect he's after something like this
>>220555212i think if he goes out drinking and dancing he will eventually meet someone. i don't think he gets to be too picky about looks. if he doesnt want to be lonely, help him find someone he's compatible with, maybe they go on a few dates and eventually move in togetherits possible
>>220557288Who knows, maybe there are tons of dumb impressionable female students out there who are after a Daddy figure
>>220555742What does premium sense have to say on this subject?
>>220557372some women definitely go for thatas long as it comes off romantic instead of creepy
>>220555212this bouta be me in 14 years
>>220555212FORGOT TO MENTIONDue to the lack of stress from work and femoids (and healthy 12-hr sleep) my dude also looks at least 10 years younger, so 30+.It might be an asset too.
>>220557792Does he work?
>>220555212Those last 3 points are a huge red flag and explains why he's still a virgin. The guy may be rich but he's a manchild. A perfectly healthy man who's never had a job is not a man. Even if he has the money he should have found some chill office job just to have an excuse to get out of his house. That alone would have solved his problem of meeting women. He could have invested money into some business and made something of its own. Sitting around doing nothing just because you're financially secure is what pensioners do. Also, he lives with his mom? Retard alert. He's old as fuck and has the money to buy a house. He's not some broke student who's waiting until he breaks into the job market to get some money and move out. I don't even need to comment on the 30 year old women thing. Clearly he is a porn addicted loser. If he wants to get women the actual thing he needs to do is get a fucking job, move out of his mom's house and lay off the porn and the internet in general. His brain is gonna reset in a few weeks. Not whatever the fuck this desperate shit plan is
>>220557887In my country the only free 30yo women left are the divorcees, the crazies, the fatties, the uglies, and a sad combos of anything above.
>>220555212>Lives with his mom, but grudgingly acknowledges that he would have to rent an apartment "for shagging only".based
>>220558106Tough luck nigga. He should have thought of that way earlier then. Either way, what I said still applies. If he wants to meet people he should get a job and move out. Not take dancing lessons fucking kek
>>220555212Even if theres no actual advice here, he should be very grateful to have a friend like you.
>>220558106Your friend sounds like a delusional manchild so I doubt that even any of those would like him until they're super cockhungry femcels lmao
>>220555212>inb4 it's youWhy would it be me?
>be white>still doesnt go to asia to get laid like a cheat code in GTA
>>220555212>Spent his 20s and 30s locked in his bedroom (god knows why)It's either porn, depression or both
>>220555212Too late for him, gib up
>>220555212>>220557792I will be this age in about a year or so but I am ugly and old looking, hate dancing, am completely inhibited, awkward, clumsy and dumb.Also became too cynical and lost all my youthful charm and energy. I have been working since 2008 but still poor. I had preferences in women in my youth, but at this point I would take almost anything. I know I can't get with 25yo hot babes because they want rich/charming/experienced guys which I am not, and it would be '"creepy" for some being this old. More mature women tolerate inexperience but want young guys which I am not anymore. Your guy has better advantages and I think he will make it. The fact that he has initiative and plans ahead is crucial and already part of the solution.
>>220555573Myth. Those things are 100% women.
>>220559527What kind of women go there?
I'm not ugly nor an incel but I was a virgin until I was 30, I was just a shut-in. Women don't come and knock on your door, if you do nothing as a man, nothing will happen.
>>220555212This might sound odd, but I recommend that you have him spend some time at a retirement home.I volunteered at one for a few years and it completely altered my perspective on not just love, but life. It sounds obvious, but if you truly want to find love, physical attraction is not the most important factor in a relationship. It's maybe 3rd or 4th on the list. So if his starting point is the womans looks, he's in for a rough ride and he will likely regret it one day.
>>220558224Getting a (((job))) may seem very counterintuitive and crazy for someone with enough monies for several lifetimes on their hands.Will you stii be a wagecuck if you had your own equivalent of those monies (like 2M for the comfy life in the EU, I presume)?>>220558575I am firsthand experiencing the transformation of a bunch of 30yo wife's female friends in said cockhungry femcels, lmao (they are even crazier than you might assume).So nothing is truly impossible.
>>220555269stfu hes doing great no point to go live alone and waste your money
Also, there are no HOT prostitutes here in Berarus, only old or ugly hags. At least, they are NOT readily available like in Moscow, you have to be super-connected here to even get a chance of 5/10 pussy, blegh!Getting some cute prosties to check if it's even worth it would be a reasonable move, but alas!
