Especially, in NYC. Seeing all these tall, attractive, successful people out with their friends and girlfriends/boyfriends while I'm just wandering the city alone makes me so sad. It always leads to me getting trashed and taking a bunch of Kratom so I can blackout when I'm home and skip the rest of the day.Note to Jannie: Since I mentioned NYC which has people from other countries (but mostly French people) it counts as an international post.
>>220838229My weekends are very sad too
>>220838229Why don't you just strike a convo with a single lady? I'm sure there's lots
>>220838247Same as me? Lonely?
>>220838289I'm too shy. Every woman I've been with has approached me, but in NYC I can't compete with how attractive the average person is in Manhattan so they don't approach me here.
>>220838229Who cares what other people are doing, just go have fun by yourself. By far the biggest issue for me was how exhausting it is doing anything in that city. Walk 8000 steps, push through crowds, lug everything around in a bag, take the train and be forced to watch another nigga do his annoying "SHOWTIMEEEE", and do it all again when it's time to go home.
>>220838302get drunk and go out, problem solved
>>220838303I'm in East Village so getting around Manhattan isn't that hard luckily. I don't really need to carry much with me. Certain parts and times are ridiculously crowded though. Moving to NYC made me do a 180 and support mass deportation. Just way too many people.
>>220838314Like at a bar? I feel like most women go with their friends there. Am I fine to just go and approach them in a group?
>>220838344most do, so approach the ones that don't
First order of business is making friends. It all snowballs from there.
Kratom unironically destroys your psyche, stop taking it
Join a hobby club o algo
