>showed obvious signs of being abused as child (clearly underweight, poorly dressed, awful social skills, crying all time, awful behaviour)>literally no one did anythingDoes it happen in your country?I think this is normal in the UK and I can't look at normalfags the same way knowing that the vast majority of them do this. They do it with adults as well, I have seen them ignore blatantly awful stuff like man battering his partner in middle of the street.
you're still showing clear signs of being abused as a child (attention whoring on /int/), and no one is going to do anything now either
>>220843864have sex incel
you probably deserved/liked it
>>220843838yea, it's taboo to raise someone else's kidunless it's literal cuckoldry
>>220843838Yes. Goycattle are awful.
>>220843838In what ways did you get abused? I suppose you should have told your teachers that.>clearly underweight>awful social skills>crying all timeThese applied to me too, I think the reason nobody cared is because I was a very good student. My mom didn't abuse me, she was just extremely strict with grades and would frantically yell at me all the time. That was horrible, but I still think she did very well for a single mom of 3, especially since she has mental health issues too
>>220843838Is that why hundreds of thousands of girls are being sexually enslaved by muslims in the UK? People just look the other way?
>>220843838no one fucking cares about you sad life mate you can stop spamming it
>>220843838aren't you like a millionaire bro, stop obsessing over this shit years later
>>220844213Honestly bro it was not awful and there are plenty who had it worse but it was still bad enough I'd rather die than go through 18 years of it again.Stuff like not feeding enough to save a few pennies, not allowing to shower, no heat for same reason. Generally just crashing out over absolutely nothing and saying I was useless, monster etc which wouldn't bother me now but at the time really did.Lots of confrontations, shouting, threats etc, I remember carrying a knife before puberty cause was just straight terrified all the time. Lots of absolutely retarded decisions regarding life advice/school but this is standard parenting in UK so you can't judge it too much.Dad was an alcoholic, violent and left really young, not exactly sure what triggered it but social services were involved with all this. Was very clear he did not want me at the time.I'm sorry bro that doesn't sound ideal though it is good you did well academically. I have worked with many children from disadvantaged backgrounds and it is very rare they do well.
>>220844234This is not true if you mean white girls being captured. If you mean pressured arranged marriages I don't really know I grew up in a really white area but I would not be surprised if this is true in deprived parts of London.
>>220843838>>220843898you deserved it
>>220843838stop spamming the same shit nigga
>>220843838>(clearly underweight, poorly dressed, awful social skills, crying all time, awful behaviour)Isn't that just being poor?
>>220843838>I have seen them ignore blatantly awful stuff like man battering his partner in middle of the street.
>>220844494Not in London, but in Birmingham and Bradford it maybe happens (although it is between muslims, no whites)
>>220844722Kys
>>220843838Most people are like this, yeah.
>>220843838that describes my entire town, there was a disabled kid being beaten by his mum right outside the front door a few hours ago
>>220843838Rare flag
>>220843838>>showed obvious signssign-showing is foid behavior handle your shit bro
kek what a raped bitch
>>220844465I remember seeing a study that showed abuse didn't effect the success of a child but neglect did. Which isn't to say abuse doesn't effect someone in other ways such as mentally. I imagine it's because neglect is poverty driven and while abuse isn't usually.
>>220843838its possible you just don't rememberthe brain locks memories to protect us
>>220848400wait i misunderstood i thought you think you werent abused
>>220843838Blame everyone but your parents.When you have kids you’ll do the same & blame everyone else too
Unless you were raped you weren’t abused be serous
>i didn't get the latest iphone>this is abuse!
>>220843838It does. It's quite common for institutions to be powerless or just act powerless. Then, when a kid dies in such a family despite government workers checking up on them, everyone shits their pants and demands justice.>>220848162I guess I'm a case that would fit such a claim. Mentally abused by a bipolar mother, but was never poor. I finished a tech uni and got a good job but I'm damaged for life.
>>220843838samedon't know why everyone acted like there was nothing wrong with me lel
>>220848912>Mentally abused by a bipolar motherwhat did she do
>>220848939Said the worst possible shit you ever could to a kid, screamed for hours on end, exaggerated every minor mistake I made and escalated it into insane arguments. Then she'd act all normal like nothing fucking happened, not even acknowledging what she's done. Nothing I did was ever good enough, everything was a trigger for a shitstorm. I misinterpret peoples' intentions to this day thinking they're being hostile while it's just some random interaction because I was envrionmentally molded to see these patterns in an abnormal household.
>>220848162Just adding to this post. Technically neglect is abuse, I guess I'm referring to physical and verbal abuse rather than just abuse.
>>220849105i assume you're single because you find it hard to form relationships
Can't you buy the best therapists? You're a millionaire.
>>220849588Yeah, pretty much. I don't trust people in general. I also tend to not talk much to simple acquaintances out of fear of being judged. I was extremely lucky to acquire a few good friends who I can be myself around but that's about it.
>>220843838You know that nobody cared about child abuse before the internet? At least in Goystern Europe.
>>220849105Same
>>220843838Female teachers get aroused when kids bully the weak and maladjusted.Ending bullying goes against the sexual pleasure of women
>>220849105My mom was like that too. It’s weird thinking back on it, she’d spend hours yelling at me over little things and blame me for everything wrong in her life
>>220849982Observing her behaviour I was able to establish that she'd act that way as her caffeine crash arrived, which is consistent with some studies I've read. Even simple legal stimulants such as coffee can fuck predisposed people over like that. I seem to have inherited that and feel the same effects, but I control myself better.
>>220849105Some moms are just like that really. Mine talked to herself all day about how everyone hated her and how everyone in the house wanted her dead over the pettiest of arguments, or whenever she was angry. I just think women are the loudest when they realize their life choices or how life itself didn't turn out how they wanted.
>>220844465I'm sorry, bro. That sounds awful
>til; poland and brazil were raised by my mom alsoAyy
>>220843838Most adults will just assume you're weird and move on because in most cases that's the truth. I too am a retard who can't socialize but I didn't go through trauma I'm just like that, and I try not to be mean to people. In the end it's the fault of the education system again because a kid can't know when something is wrong with them and their parents might not be able to raise them right, or maybe they don't have any parents at all. Countries just don't value mental health enough in the education of their children and don't care about their upbringing then when they grow up to be problems for society they say they weren't raised well
>>220849718are you a virgin or did you at least explore escorts
>>220843838i'm sorry you've gone through that anon but if you've never seen someone going through such a situation you might not understand that it isn't just a "do something" situation, you never know who the parents of the abused child might be and pretty much the same goes for the person abusing their partner, if you don't know who that is it might be better to keep quieti'm not saying that i'd personally just ignore but that's just how some people think and honestly i think it's understandable, i've seen close family members dealing with situations like a parent heavily beating their child for trying to intervene in a domestic violence situation but like i said, we never know what might happen after you get yourself involved in a situation like thissorry if the post came out a bit weird i'm a too tired to go back and check if it makes sense
>>220852074also i forgot to say this but it is a thing to see these types of situations happening when you're involved in one yourself and another thing to see these while not being involved, i feel that to someone who is a victim it might make no sense to see others do nothing about it but then we end up going back to the things i said in the previous post
>>220848912Yes I have noticed this myself working in healthcare.>>220849105I think the thing which makes it so bad is you probably didn't even realise you were 9n the wrong and believed that shit back then. You also have no choice really to just leave until 16 at minimum, more realistically 18. Whereas if you were raised normally and were dating a girl or something you could just walk away.>>220848162I don't know bro. I think they both have an affect. Sexual abuse definitely seems to be the "worst" and thankfully I didn't experience that.
>>220848938Yeah it boggles my mind. Most people here don't have kids or regularly interact with them so don't realise it.The first time I interacted with kids was on a childrens ward in a hospital and it just hit me how the actual fuck someone could mistreat them. Beyond pathetic degenerate behaviour yet it is so common and tolerated.
Not really. Americans are pretty fanatical about sniffing out child abuse.
>>220850907I don't think so having worked with kids, I think they know but just don't want the confrontation. If someone is just an autismo it's a reasonable conclusion but you can often tell. If someone is severely fucked up I would just assume it is the parents fault unless evidence suggests otherwise.]yeah you don't realise it's abnormal until you are older.You sound like a nice person I hope u are doing well
>>220843838Most of people are scum. The moment they sense any defect (weakness, abuse, lack of resources to extract) they will treat you like utter shit. Kids like this learn the way of the world extremely quickly. On the other hand, Chads and Stacies who've had everything given to them by good families and good looks continues completely oblivious to the world, completely unaware of the true natures of the parasites that surround them. For this reason they tend to have kind hearts.
>>220848162Yeah I'm fucked up. Narcissistic mother + Dad who wouldn't even talk to me before running off to be a cuck. I don't even know him as a person even though he was at home for my entire childhood. And I'm posting on here now lol so you know how it turned out.
>>220855402Except most are retards and don't realize most abusers are "nice" and "smiley" people to strangers and treat their kids like shit behind closed doors.
>>220855610Yeah but every education, healthcare, and social worker is made to take courses on how to identify signs of child abuse and take a mandatory course on how to report it and then agree to at they’re required to do so. Obviously it doesn’t always happen but we really go pretty far, as far as is systemically possible realistically.
>>220852074I have dealt with it at work and there isn't really any risk involved, it might involve some uncomfortable conversations or work but you're not getting attacked (by anyone who could harm you at least). In fairness, I don't think the teachers did have much power to do anything and I may not have been aware of it. I am disappointed in my extended family though.I have also dealt with violent situations on the street a few times which is scary and unpleasant but really it's highly unlikely you're going to die or receive life changing injuries. Like once it did get a bit sketch when someone pulled a knife on me but nothing more happened just a bit of shouting and threats and that was that. Personally would rather risk getting injured than walk and then make up some ridiculous BS to cope with being a shitty person. Not that I think I am some ultra virtuous perfect person cause I am not.
>>220843838Hm
>>220843838GymTanLaundrythen hit the beach and get some deep fried pickles. You do not suffer.
