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>did you get rid of all your friends after high school
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Well yeah not really voluntarily or on purpose. I moved half the country away right before my senior year in high school so I lost a lot of connections pretty much immediately.
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yea, haven't spoken with any of them since i finished high school. I remember a guy I used to walk home from school with (we even went to same elementary school), last day of school we said "cia" to each other and never spoke again. Truth is high school is extremely overrated, friends there aren't much different from coworkers.
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friends?
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>>220935000
>get rid
you mean deliberately? no
just parted ways
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>>220935000
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I didn't get rid of anyone, I just drifted apart, I moved cities so we had little in common
I do visit a couple when I go back to my hometown but that's doesn't happen often, I go every 5 years or so
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>>220935000
my friends from highschool are basically my only friends, it's a miracle I have any friends honestly. I don't think I've ever made a friend outside of a school setting
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>>220935000
Yes because i moved country and they were school mates at most. We never did anything outside of school because my siblings were disabled and i didnt have money. Still gonna move back one day but a different area
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>>220935000
They weren’t really friends since they didn’t invite me to anything
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>>220935000
Kinda? We met up again a few times recently but it also hasnt happened in like 3 months now and the groupchat is dead so who knows
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>>220935000
I'm still friends with a girl I know since middle school. We hangout with eachother in our hometown whenever we get the chance
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No, I have two close friends that I met in high school.
and I still have a group with "the gang" from HS, like 10 people, we still meet when they're in town, as many moved away at some point

I graduated in 2011
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>>220935000
>friends
>high school
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I left my high school class group chat the same evening I got my diploma. I hated that place. When some girl reached out to me five years later on Messenger to ask if I wanna come to the reunion I made up some bs excuse so I wouldn't go. That was also the last time I talked to anyone from high school
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>>220935000
I didn't have friends in high school, but i started uni strong with multiple friendships
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>>220935000
Yes. They knew too much.
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>>220935000
some still wanted to keep in contact with either to send funny shit or because they play cs and call me to play premier with them cause i'm good at it
the only guy i actually related to and who i'd talk with about personal stuff fucked off though, he didn't have any social media and was extremely reclusive so i kinda understand it, also he's from a jw family so there's that
i miss talking to him though, he's the second person i've ever felt this comfortable to talk with and the first one has been changing a lot recently so i don't feel so comfortable to talk to them as often as i used to anymore
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I didn't have friends in highschool
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>>220935000
yes lol
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>>220935000
I had no real friends until uni, before that they were just classmates
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>>220935831
oh my...
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I cut contact with them. Different paths. Learned during the pandemic that one of them had joined the army and died while on a mission abroad.
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>>220935000
why do i relate with 4channers so much
what causes this?
t. newfag
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>>220936797
we were patient zero you, your family and friends are next
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>>220935000
No, we have a class reunion every few years, and I have most of their contact information
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>>220935102
I miss high school so god damn much
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>>220937605
retard
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>>220937614
I peaked on high school
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>>220935000
all of them stopped talking to me except for one guy
I don't mind it though
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>>220935000
No exactly. I had a couple left. Kept trying to keep up the appearance of us being friends but eventually it got tiring and it was clear they didn't really care. Always had to reach out first and half the time I'd get no response. Eventually decided it would be a fun game to see what would happen if I decided to not reach out first and let one of them contact me first for a change. We haven't spoken in like 3 years now
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I still keep in semi regular contact with 2 of them. The 3 of us met up not too long ago and skipped the class reunion.
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>get rid
then you were never having real friends lmao (no, rpg clubs doesnt count)
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>>220935000
They got rid of me
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No, most of them, yes. Someone got rid of me for some unknown reason
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>>220935000
I had zero friends in elementary and middle school and worked hard to get good enough grades to get out of that environment and apply for a high school outside my district. I succeeded and had 3 really good years in high school. They were decidedly below average compared to your "average" good high school experience, but I had friends at school who would occasionally hang out with me after school and that was a huge improvement. We kept the friendship up for around 5 years after high school when a couple of the guys started getting girlfriends and they were very particular about what kind of friends they let their boyfriends keep. I among others didn't make the cut, and that was that. I am now a 34 year old virgin with no close friends.

So it goes.
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>>220935000
yeah, I'm 32 now so they're a fairly distant memory wouldn't have anything to say if I met any of them again, I'd probably only be able to recognize half a dozen of them
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>>220935102
>last words were CIA
aren't you supposed to be more subtle about this kind of stuff?
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>>220935000
My very best friend from high school died in 2017. We stayed besties in uni, we did so much stuff together, and we made common friends along the way, at some point we lived together. It was a true bromance. He lived in my hometown, sometimes I visit him in the cemetary. I'm sad now...
Otherwise all the "friends" I had in highschool, last time I saw them was at my buddy's funeral, and since they got in contact again only for me to call them fucking retards and faggots, because they truly are. Sometimes I dream that I brutally beat them to death. I hate them, they're psychopaths and they say I'm an asshole but I'm not the only one who says they're weirdly annoying or straight up losers (they are losers, fuck them). I had a gift of surrounding myself with toxic people but since I stopped abusing substances I finally see clearly and am not afraid to call people out on their bullshit.
I have new better friends now.
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>>220935000
No, they got rid of me
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>>220935000
Yes
>>220944020
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implying i had highschool friends
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I had friend when I was being bullied
I had friend when I was bulling
Easiest canon event to make friends
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>>220942734
kek. it was supposed to be cya
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>>220939885
Sounds familiar. I've lost comtact with 3 friends so far because they got GFs. Only have realy contact with one guy anymore since neither of us have gfs.
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>>220935000
I only had one proper friend at secondary school, and I kept in touch with him for a few years but then we stopped speaking.
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>>220935000
>friends
Never had any.
>high school
Didn't go to high school.
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>Didn't have any to get rid of
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>>220936367
same here,pal. Now that ten years have passed since my graduation,I'm back to having very few close friends
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>graduate
>don’t use social media
>all interaction is therefore gone
Welp
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>>220935000
Did I get rid of them. Or did they just move on with their lives.
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>>220935000
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Never had any friends. I tried and was even invited to hangout with some classmates but I had zero interest in the stuff they liked and just went home and played vidya instead.
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>>220935000
wanna hear about my high school love story?
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>>220935000
my closest friends are from university, i hardly talk to them now tho
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>>220935102
>last day of school we said "cia" to each other
O algo
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No. We see maybe once year. It's awkward now since I am loser of the group and they are all giga normies with careers, education, relationships, vacations etc. I don't relate to their lifestyle at all.
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Idk if they were friends since I never got invited to things. Two tried reaching out but that was during my worst neetcel failure period of life and I could barely face the shame of meeting people who had graduated and were working, so I ignored them.

That period of life was fucking shit.
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>>220949785
>Did I get rid of them
d-did you??
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High school was dogshit for me however uni was my peak
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>>220935000
Not everyone else get rid of me and now i'm alone with you guys...
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>>220954427
Gee what a compliment. Jerk!
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>>220935000
No, because I have never had friends until I went to uni



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