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Hey are you considered handsome in your country? Do women talk to you?
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No Im a bridge troll
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>>220963386
I have been asked out by girls a few times. Girls smile at me when they see me sometimes, but no idea, honestly.

I have had cute girlfriends, but they always mentioned valuing my intelligence and diligence, not my looks.
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yes girls approach me
I'm gay tho
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>>220963386
You're not cute
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>>220963386
I sometimes catch girls smiling or staring at me in public. I have noticed some girls being miffed when I don't ask for their contact info after a casual conversation.
I just don't know how to do it
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I havent talked to a non relative woman past the most basic conversation (same for relatives ngl) shit ever if they're blocking the way or something in probably half a decade
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>>220963413
How do you get a girlfriend
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>>220963467
In my particular case, I do it by 'not trying'.

Basically don't care about women, but interact with them if needed, when you go to work or whatever, eventually you will get one interested in you.

Granted if you want to have better chances, you will have to talk to women. I was pushed to do that by some peers at some point.

You will want to learn how to approach women by talking with them slowly, start by greeting them, and gradually learning how to talk about shit they like.

Personal advice, join groups of people with similar interests as you, then you might get to meet women who are interesting to you and vice versa.
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>>220963386
When I was younger in high school and college I would sometimes catch girls looking at me and often girls would smile at me as I walked past them.
Now I am fat and ugly and rarely leave my house.

Young guys here, take this advice from an old loser, you are better looking than you think you are. Don't waste opportunities like I did.
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>>220963386
I was. Yes. I didn't know what to do with that attention because I'm a sperg. Now I'm less handsome due to disease related weight loss and women don't spontaneously smile at me anymore.
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>>220963467
did you not read his post? be handsome.
>>220963531
kek this nigger is so oblivious it's funny.

it doesn't matter what you do. most people are too stupid to formulate and execute a coherent plan involving more than 1-2 actions in a sequence without direct supervision. you just have to roll a good character and let rng carry you through life.
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I get called handsome sometimes and I notice women checking me out occasionally. But I'm a kissless virgin because I'm somewhat socially inept.
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>>220963585
>fat
fixable
>you are better looking than you think you are
absolutely not. all people with no exceptions think they're much better looking than they really are.
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>>220963386
i think so
i get seen more as cute than handsome for now
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>>220964840
>>220964863
hellou!!!!!
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>>220964915
I'm not a fag and not feminine.
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>>220963386
BECKY
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And no x2. Working on it tho', wish me luck.

>>220963426
Straightest huezillian.
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>>220964976
>I'm not a fag
Don't care.
>not feminine
Good.
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>>220965973
On his behalf, an hero pls.
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>>220966120
What!!!
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>>220963386
No, I'm ugly as hell really
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>>220963386
i never had a woman even remotely interested in me
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>>220966249
ur beautiful
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>>220963386
I think I look okay but I'm short
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>>220963531
T. Chad
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people say i look handsome but i consider myself ugly
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>>220967518
you dont look like this
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>>220968506
indeed. he actually looks like Ilya von Einzbern from the popular multi-media franchise "Fate;"
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I used to model. I’ve worked for brands like Canali and Diesel
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I think I am pretty normal looking, but I dont think a girl has ever initiated conversation with me outside of some practical stuff like "can I take this chair?". When I talk to girls there is this weird sort of 3 second pause where after I finish my sentence, like they were totally flabbergasted that I would speak to them and they need to gather themselves.
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No, I'm very incel-coded.
People in my job that didn't interact with me thought i was a potential job shooter.
My bosses boss thought I was mentally retarded.

It do be like that sometimes. I do feel like people like me if they are forced to interact with me tho (i.e they work on the same office I do). I'm just a chill guy
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>>220963386
1)Yes
2)Yes
3)Yes means No
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>>220963386
no.no.
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>>220969994
ur beautiful
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I've always thought I was somehow unpleasant to look at, for 30 years I was convinced of it. Women have never shown interest in me anyway.
But in the last year I've had to start using Teams for meetings where you're kind of forced to see your face the way others see it, and I've realized that I'm actually pretty good looking. 9 times out of 10 I'm the most handsome man in there. Teams meetings kind of suck but they've really done wonders for my self-confidence.
(women still won't talk to me though)
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>>220963386
1 - No
2 - Only as they would to a brother
I don’t enjoy being alive
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>>220963386
I'm tall and handome but, I have gynecomastia and self esteem issues
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Handsome enough that all girls I slept with or had as girlfriends initiated the relationship. Also easy to get jobs and friendship, halo effect make people think I'm outgoing and competent.
But I don't have women smiling at me in public at all, maybe something we don't do here.

Was fun in my twenties to see girls drop spaghettis when trying to get my attention, doesn't happen much now that I'm close to 40, maybe I look more approachable now.
Another big change is that now women from 18 to 50 give me mires, for a long time it was only the ones in their twenties.
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>>220970685
ur perfect bby
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People tell me I am but I don't see it. I'm over six feet and kind of muscular but my hairline is a tragedy. Still, they can't all be lying
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>>220972529
i see it
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>>220970945
meds
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>>220963386
no
yes
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I got 1 (one) date last year from a girl who approached me and it went nowhere
I installed bumble recently (the worst dating app of the big three), got +100 likes in a day, and asked out 3 girls. They all said yes and so I had 3 dates in a week

So idk if I look better in my photos or if chilean women are very boring and refuse to approach
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>>220974726
you handsome devil
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I've posted my picture on /int/ and people tell me I am but idk I hate my facial shape (oblong)
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>>220977381
ur beautiful
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>>220963386
im seen as more cute than handsome
yeah most of my friends are women
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>>220977423
maybe it's your dimples
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>>220963386
>>220967518
You're not cute
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>>220963386
I am not ugly
>Do women talk to you?
Does the cashier telling me the price count?
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>>220977460
howd you know i have those
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>>220980313
all cute guys have dimples
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>>220963386
Probably, in my country. My fumbles are through my own retardation
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>>220963386
There are two kinds of Chads.
The "Chad-adjacents", who get laid through a combination of grooming, charisma, and boldness. And "true Chads", the ones whom women actively put effort into trying to fuck.
I am tired and fat now, but I used to be the second one.
There's nothing that will give you a lower opinion of women than to see their true nature: I could be unemployed, I could say "socially incorrect" opinions, I could actively demean, ignore, belittle, and mock women, and the only thing in their minds was my cock.
Whenever a woman tells you any man can be "creepy", they are lying.
If she's attracted to you she will lick a pig's anus for the privilege of having sex with you.
Women will ditch all their so called "principles" for men they deem attractive enough.
And they cannot, will not control themselves.
I can assure you, if women and men swapped strength, women would rape at a higher rate than men. But they would gang rape a select few amount of them.
They are not fit to lead. Their genitals control their thinking too much.
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Yes to both
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>>220963386
Yes
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>>220963386
Yeah, they like femboys :3
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>>220963386
It usually goes like
>girl thinks I'm hot and approaches me
>realizes I'm an irremediable sperg
>loses interest
>I spend years coping/trying to move on
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>>220986986
same
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anons itt
how can you be sure girls really look at you and not you being delusional?
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>>220963386
I was considered handsome during my early 20s to late 30s. I was very fit due to taekwondo, swimming, canoeing and hiking. I was also the student leader in uni and was seen as the silent but dependable leader type of person. I had a quiet assassin aura, so much so that male students from other degree courses will literally ask my permission to date any girl in my course, like I'm some sort of a Mafia Don. I kid you not. In reality, I was very introverted and put on an act to fit in. I was channeling Captain Kirk and Mr Spock at the same time and this was misconstrued as above. I got hit on a lot by girls during my uni days and it got to become an annoyance when I wanted to study and score in exams.
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>>220963386
I have never got a compliment or be given an easier time for my face
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>>220963386
When I was in middleschool I was groped by women my age.
I was too young to understand what it meant.
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>>220963386
no
I'm not unsightly, but I'm still unattractive
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kuJyJ1ZVhYs
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I'm average but since plenty of women tried initiating a conversation with me out of nowhere I'd say they think I look attractive enough. Until I open my mouth and reveal how autistic I am that is
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>>220995434
ur perfect
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>>220995608
W-what?! Sh-shut up! Baka
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>>220963386
Yes and no, it's all about me wanting to look good or not. Women talk with me when I look good, but I like to approach them as a homeless looking man so I can use my charms. When we see each other again and I look good, they'll think I look even hotter than I actually am. It's almost guaranteed that I'm getting laid when I use that strategy.
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>>220963386
Yes and yes. My wife gets pissed when another woman talks to me.
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>>220995715
deal with it, stud
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>>220963386
>Hey are you considered handsome in your country?
Honestly I have no clue

>Do women talk to you?
I've had some very attractive women having interest in me and getting nervous. Which for me is strange cause I feel like a pathetic ugly loser. When I see myself in the mirror I think I'm handsome but then I see some pictures of me and think I'm ugly (in some other pictures I look good)

So I have no clue... I may be good looking or I may be a horrible fetus, who knows.
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kind of but i'm autistic



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