[a / b / c / d / e / f / g / gif / h / hr / k / m / o / p / r / s / t / u / v / vg / vm / vmg / vr / vrpg / vst / w / wg] [i / ic] [r9k / s4s / vip] [cm / hm / lgbt / y] [3 / aco / adv / an / bant / biz / cgl / ck / co / diy / fa / fit / gd / hc / his / int / jp / lit / mlp / mu / n / news / out / po / pol / pw / qst / sci / soc / sp / tg / toy / trv / tv / vp / vt / wsg / wsr / x / xs] [Settings] [Search] [Mobile] [Home]
Board
Settings Mobile Home
/int/ - International


Thread archived.
You cannot reply anymore.


[Advertise on 4chan]


File: 1771590792513251.jpg (214 KB, 1348x1000)
214 KB JPG
All of them are married, have kids and have 10+ years of corporate experience. While I am a NEET in his 30s. Happens in your country?
>>
i dont have diploma idc
>>
>>221094539
You live in Turkey. You can't suffer.
>>
File: 1764769322447564.jpg (134 KB, 868x752)
134 KB JPG
late 20s neet. most friends have gotten married/moved abroad and have stable jobs. i have a remote job that pays enough to live a decent life despite shit constantly getting fucked over here. The goverment knows people are slaves and will obey and won't rebel so they keep imposing taxes and shit. We have 16 houirs loadshedding per day here sky high electricty bills.
>>
>>221094592
>moved abroad
It feels really fucking weird. Randos with mediocre intelligence have gone abroad from my college. It really is about luck and playing your cards right.
>>
>>221093878
I wasted my 20s by laying in hospitals or suffering from conditions that make finding gf problematic and now, even though I am ok, I want to kill myself because I don't know what to do and women in general aren't very understanding creatures on average

All of my "friends" drifred away by finding gfs so I can't even do anything social anymore
>>
>>221094640
i have the degree + funds to move aboard but I am too lazy to learn new language like German, and I hate studying + 9 - 5 corpo jobs.
>>
>>221094683
Have thought of immigrating to mainland Europe?
>>221094698
Why not try English speaking countries like UK, Canada, Australia and US?
>>
one of the biggest stoners I knew in HS turned out to be a commercial pilot, he's flying for ryanair now. Dude really turned his life around
>>
>>221093878
I don't even remember the name of anyone
>>
>>221094952
How are you doing?
>>221094975
What about you?
>>
Same except I'm still finishing a degree stuck living at home with my cunt mother until I'm done. Last year of my 20s. No one I know in BC is married or has kids except the ones that married codependency high school gfs. Everyone in Alberta I know has kids.
>>
>>221093878
I doubt South Asians make Facebook accounts for real life relationship. I had a Nepalese gf before, she once showed me Facebook account of her Nepalese male friend living in America, the profile pic had a suspicious vibe that made it look like it was taken in a studio to portray him “rich,” so I instantly realized it was a fake.
>>
No, i dont care about other people and their soi corporate lives. I'm glad to be a NEET.
>>
>>221094683
Move to Chechnya and convert to islam
>>
Most of my friends have always been drunk failures.
>>
>>221093878
can't you just ask your parents to arrange you a marriage?
>>
>>221095547
They're trying but women here want high paying IT employee husbands. It's fucking over.
>>
>>221095483
Well do you get NEETbucks?
>>
>>221094592
I was just like you till I lost my job last year. I sethe at my classmates who settled abroad
>>
>>221095582
damn foids ruined even arranged married society
>>
File: 1777090441542488.png (88 KB, 790x208)
88 KB PNG
>>221095611
No, I just don't have anything.
>>
>>221095716
Then how do you get by?
>>
>>221093878
I somehow clowned my way into an office job while everyone from my class is either a trashed single mom or some forcefully trad muh family person (they fucked up at like 21 and had a kid and it got them pinned down into that position)
Pretty cringe if you ask me
>>
>>221093878
Same, mid 30s so my life has already passed by and so zero reason to start working now. Neet until death I suppose
>>
>>221096022
My parents feed me. Im thining of just moving to a village in the future and getting some chickens or some shit. Himmler did that.
>>
I really don't think about any of my old classmates at all. I do sometimes think of my exes but the feeling quickly passes.
>>
>>221096067
Luck you. You can't suffer in Argentina with all that meat consumption.
>>221096077
What do you do to pass the time?
>>221096159
I am leeching off my parents too. Man, living that kind of village life is hard with the current inflation.
>>221096188
Are you a NEET?
>>
>>221096323
>Luck you. You can't suffer in Argentina with all that meat consumption.
*Donkey meat
>>
>>221096323
>Are you a NEET?
Kind of. Never went to school and haven't had a regular job for a decade
>>
>>221093878
Same and same
Mom meets mothers of my schoolmates in the playground while taking my niece on her playtime and ask them if they're married and they say yes, this is her child. Meanwhile my mom is with my niece
>>
>>221096553
Any future plans?
>>221096587
Any future plans? Thankfully most of my classmates don't live in the same city. So I am spared of this brutality.
>>
Can't say I feel envious to be honest. They're either working some shitty call center job or some shitty night shift retail job.
>>
My friend circle is pleasantly hikky or low-status.
>>
>>221097161
>Any future plans?
Not really. Find a cheap house in a village and raise some animals and focus on my hobbies. Any luck find a wife.
Why are you so concerned. Do you feel you failed compared to your peers?
>>
>>221097278
Lucky Finchad. You can't suffer as a fin.
>>221097336
Yes. Especially because I was kne of the smarter ones and had a very solid plan to have a career in IT. I just ruined myself due to bad decisions from me and my father.
>>
>>221097853
I wouldn't worry so much anon. Find something you can tolerate - maybe even enjoy and live your life.
>>
>>221094592
Why are you complaining, you will get a cute muslimah wife and can live comfily with wfh
>>
Of my high school classmates, I'm most likely the richest except one guy whose family was loaded (not for long tho, I think 6 people in my high school class became doctors)

I'm also probably the loneliest so who's winning really

>>221097853
sometimes I'm hard on myself like I feel you are right now. All I can say is that at the end of the day, the past is the past and you can't let it affect your present negatively. Just analyze it to try to learn from it and move on.
Also, you don't owe anything to anyone, it's your potential, not anybody elses.
>>
>>221097161
Not my classmates, my school juniors kek
>>
>>221098132
>>221097161
I do have a remote job that i got last year. But I'm planning on leaving it.
>>
>>221098061
It's really hard to recoup my life at this point man. I have a 9 year career gap. No worthwhile job will hire me. You don't get second chances in this country. It's brutal.
>Also, you don't owe anything to anyone, it's your potential, not anybody elses.
It feels logical but I deeply regret disappointing my parents man. They relied on my for their future and I messed it up.
>>221098340
What will you do after you quit your remote job?
>>
>>221093878
>occasionally check social media of high school colleagues
>all married or getting married, senior roles, have their own homes
>I still live with my parents as a KHHV and still no senior role
So over for me.
>>
>>221094640
You need connections, language skills and not being akward in social settings. Plenty of people get jobs over candidates with better resumes simply because they're more pleasant to be around at the office
>>
File: 1770688153340492.jpg (33 KB, 352x279)
33 KB JPG
>>221093878
Yep. I'm 30 and most of them are married or in serious relationships, have kids, adult careers they've been in for a long time, have homes or buying them. Meanwhile i have never dated more than 6 months, live how I did right after hs, live in my friends spare room in his pigsty of a house and am a NEET with only hs grad level job experience with a meme degree I've never used



[Advertise on 4chan]

Delete Post: [File Only] Style:
[Disable Mobile View / Use Desktop Site]

[Enable Mobile View / Use Mobile Site]

All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties. Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.