why havent you been with anyone iyc
wasted my 20s with video games, neeting, jerking offliterally, did not do anything elseno notable memories, no parties, no education milestones, just a decade of jerking off and vidyanow i am 31 year old khv and i was stupid enough to take a degree with almost no females, so i cant even lose my virginity in university right now
>>221240765I'm a loser. a total fucking loser.
Neet. Loser. Waste of space. All of the above.
the reason has four letters and it starts with a J
I have a job and abs but I don't know any women
im poor and ugly
I am an unlovable chopped kissless hugless handholdless virgin incel fucked up chud chungus fuck my life man
>>221240765Most women are completely brainwashed, I just don't find them likeable at all and they aren't even pretty
>>221240765Mostly, I just don't want to.A partner involves leaving my cozy loser lifestyle where I work just about enough to sustain myself with some savings, burn my time through vidya, and never go out.For me, ever since my early 20s, a switch flipped in my brain and being alone is the default while being with a partner is the compromise.If I found a hot high functioning autist kv woman I would consider trading my current life for it, but mediocre pussy is of no use to me.
>>221240803I am past you rn
>>221240765women are insecure narcissists who consider their central right being having someone else kill their own unborn child for them under a medical euphemism, who will also respond with "the real reason is no one will fuck you/wants you, and you care a lot about being an incel", but I spent like fifteen years joking about being a "quantumcel" because I had never tried to get laid or had anyone try to fuck me, but then one day I remembered when I was a teen like 3 different women tried overtly to fuck me and since I don't want casual sex I had just turned them down politely and then I never cared enough to connect it to the whole muh incels thing for over a decade of my life while it was an active thing women kept saying. And the actual problem I have with "truecels" is they act like women/socialists and think they're entitled to anything and everything and get off to acting raped and pathetic, yet claim to be different than them somehow.Do you know what that's like? To spend your life around people who never make any attempt not to be completely fucking retard, and worship themselves over their shared wound-licking?It's unbearable.
>>221240820>>221240839>>221240946why makes you think women care about looks, wealth, career or status?
>>221240765>>221242111You glow so much its not even funny.
>resposibilities>waste your hard earn money on stupid gifts>emotional drama>sex is not that great after the first few timeshaving a gf is overrated
>>221240765because im an ugly ass dumbfuck who is broke.
Not a fan of apple generation
>>221240765I'm weird but it doesn't matter because I'm ugly anyway. I'm ugly but it doesn't matter because I'm completely socially isolated anyway. It's a series of things that makes the idea of having a girlfriend completely impossible. Even if I were to make my existence known to people, there would still be many insurmontable obstacles in the way of it.
>>221241151kek this is me
I did but it just showed how crippling being a retarded autistic incel til my 30s is for normal development. Ironically, being in a relationship has made me reluctant to ever be in another one because now I realise just how fucked up I am.
>>221240877jello
>>221240765I look like this and am dumb as a stone and weak as a straw
>>221240803this, but slightly older
>>221240765>school>no friends, just study, go home, do homework, play vidya, sleep, repeat>keep that routine for about 14 years>uni>make a few friends by sheer luck>go out but years of isolation made me realize how horrible I am in socializing>I'm that nice but weird and silent dudeNow, in my late 20s, I'm just scared. My friend group doesn't create any natural opportunities to meet new people and even if it rarely happens, I still feel anxious around strangers. They all seem normal and actually mature, even people younger than me.I could probably go to clubs and try my luck there, but I don't like those places. And girls frequenting those aren't a good gf material. Dating apps are even worse.Some people recommend singing up for some lessons. I did just that and ended up wasting half a year where our group consisted of a few guys and just one married girl. It just seems artificial to me. Why waste my time on an activity I'm not even interested in?
>>221240765I've been with a girl once, It was nice.
>>221244004You look cool tho
I'm scared of rejection and don't believe I deserve it.
>>221240765I have but we kind of broke up/fell apart
>>221240765I tried, but she's either using me as an ego boost or she has some serious avoidant issues. Given the time period and my efforts not being meaningfully reciprocated, the former seems to be the case.
>>221244822Why do women afraid me then
>>221240765I wasted my school years and now I don't know what to doeveryone is either already with someone or has been with someone in the pastnow I just go back and forth between home and work so I don't even know how I'm supposed to meet women
>>221246044Have you tried beeing urself?
>>221246044Have you tried peeing urself?
Too lazy to convert to webmhttps://www.instagram.com/p/DXUxYAYidT8/
>>221240765Kill me
>>221244004you mog me
>>221240803I went to college, traveled, stayed in hostels, went to nightclubs and parties, and I'm still a virgin.Only 26 though so I still have time I think
I need to find a wife in the US, but like, without actually living there. How do I do it?
>>221246044Why are you in Binland now?
>>221247307The best option is using one of those language exchange apps and try to find an American woman learning Russian. The chances of finding that is very silm, but it doesn't hurt to try
>>221247382Ah, it's over then... should I just troon out then instead?
>>221247307assuming you're not wealthy you might have a chance with something like a Brazilian but probably not an AmericanWomen these days are brutal when it comes to expectations
>>221247534Does this apply even to ugly ones?
>>221240765I've had sex a bunch of times thanks to a bunch of books and blog posts I found online that taught me how to bamboozle females into bed.But no relationships to speak of. I am not really bad looking, just kinda lazy, timid and lack ambition. I admit it's my own fault for the most part.The times I got laid it took a Herculean amount of effort to step away from my loser habits for long enough to make a girl want me.>>221240803Such many cases. Picture related.This is why I always laugh at guys who claim they're neets and "happy" about it.Even at the shittiest wagie jobs you'll be happier because at least you have a little bit of purpose and something to do.NEETing is a slow-motion suicide.
>>221247745How do I stop myself from turning into this guy? I'm 26 and feel like it's already over.
>>22124822427 sameI hate women and their nature beyond belief
>another episode of gaslighting sub5sin the past atleast there was ignorance as an excuse, now we know as a fact on why some people have a successgul life and others don't.>b-b-but brooo i know a guyyyand i throw marriage statistics on your face, we have already been branded as chattel it's over
>>221248224Never be a neet. Take and keep any job that you can (while looking out for something better) and always be looking to save money and improve your situation economically, career-wise, socially.Don't play videogames, browse the internet compulsively (social media, youtube, 4chan, etc) and live in the real world.Easier said than done, but that's how it is. People who end up in this level of loser it's always because they're complacent and addicted to comfort.>but you're posting this in 4chan!!!!!!1!Yes, so?
I'm mediocre looking at best and not particularly social. I have decent job and irl friends but aside from seeing them from time to time I prefer being alone.Also I don't care much about sex so I don't see a reason to change anything.
>>221240765My self esteem is very low and I am quite a shy and meek person in general. Sometimes I am too aloof to understand what is happening around me and other times nothing is happening. Deep down many women disappoint me. There are many I find fuckable but I don't think I have ever felt romantic feelings for anyone.
>>221240765love and dating is gay
>>221240765I have, women actually like me and I have a kid despite being a chud. Even if a lot of women have dumb beliefs I still like them I just wish they wouldn't choose to be so short sighted and self destructive. They have a lot of issues standing up to their peers which I think they like about me since I don't care about confrontation or disagreement while not hating anyone.
>>221240803
>>221240765I love women imc
>>221249179Another Polish guy hereI am still a virgin but I had one or two occasions to "score", but I'm not after sex, I'm after a relationship and sex alone is a sinI'm 25, I have a WFH well paid job, but I still live with my grandparents in multigenerational house because I would be lonelier if I moved out by myselfI would be fine to move out if I had a girl but I don't meet girls But for me, I have always been poor and I had traumatic childhood with my parents taking drugs, so I always wanted to stabilize economically first and spent my past 15 years doing that by grinding the school, uni, portfolio, etc. Now I feel like I can finally breatheI think I should try Tinder or something. Because on the street I don't even differentiate between girls who are underage and not, so I wouldn't know who to cold approach.
>>221240803Just get a hooker, retard.
>>221250694>I'm after a relationship and sex alone is a sinGuys like you, that attach romance to sex and think their first time has to be "special" are retards.Everyone that ended up being a 30yo virgin thought just like you.Romantic bullshit is a psyop to make men weak towards women and easy to manipulate.In the old times fathers would take their sons to a brothel as soon as they hit 15 or 16yo to get all this stupid bullshit out of their heads.This is how they prevented foreveralone incels and simps.Have in mind that most girls lose their virginity by ages 14-15. Any girls your age have been sucking and fucking like rabbits FOR OVER A DECADE. And here you are putting them on a pedestal by saying that these innocent angelic princesses deserve a relationship and you have to treat them like a gentleman or some shit.I strongly recommend you to save up some money and hire a hooker (only once or twice) to remove all these stupid fantasy delusions out of your head and have a real sense of what sex actually is like.Seriously, grow the fuck up and just fuck. Most women don't deserve commitment from men. Unless you find the rare virgin, just use them for sex because that's all they're worth.
>>221250694>>221252342>Have in mind that most girls lose their virginity by ages 14-15. >Any girls your age have been sucking and fucking like rabbits FOR OVER A DECADE.
>>221252379Not gonna rant more, but I get seriously disgusted at the cursed world that I've been born into.But even more repulsive are the men that give women what they certainly don't deserve. They are the cause of the problem.
>>221240803literally me
>>221252342I 100% agree with pic related and with what you said, and I've repeated itHow am I supposed to ever have a serious relationship if I'm a khhv at 27? All the women my age and younger have been sucking and fucking since 13Unfortunately I can't haremmaxx because women find me repulsive. "Luckily" I'm a nerd so I can make money and use that to fuck brapzilian models
>>221252342>>221252379>>221252865I'm just not really after sexI want a wife and family, or at least a girlfriend with a potential of marrying her, before I would be interested in sex. I don't want just sex.And my mentality is that if these times are too a-cursed and I won't find a girl like that, then I don't mind being alone until death and giving my life to God instead In my mind it would be nice to find a girlfriend like that, but I'm fine if I don't. And I'm not putting women on a pedestal, and I don't have rose tinted glasses. I don't know what times you're talking about where "fathers took sons to brothels" but that sounds postmodern as fuck so it couldn't be earlier than the 20th century which has already been rotten.I've never really been that interested in money and sex. Maybe that's why I'm not successful because I just don't have a natural drive for it. It feels fake and I can't genuinely participate in that
>>221253313Christcucks are pathetic
It's not even on the table frankly. I hardly ever even encounter foids in the wild. I'm sort of a homebody for one, and unemployed. when I go out walking in the evenings, there's hardly anybody around (let alone young single women), even in the busy downtown area of my town (less so in summers when there's events, but even then it's chancey.) I guess one of the local grocery stores has a couple cashier gals (the others don't), but what am I going to do, hang around Aldi harassing wagies? they're busy enough as is.clubs and churches are pretty niche in this day and age, there hardly are any of the former. I don't know man, it'd be nice, but unless I went into debt and moved to a big city and started waging and partying and going to college and shit, I see little opportunity (generally, not just romantically.) I struggle to imagine what others, especially my peers, are doing - I look around my town and I don't see enough opportunity to keep its population afloat, there just isn't very much going on - its very strange. people are always driving somewhere, but everything's closed, with exception for gas stations and a handful of restaurants (but they can't all be going or returning from there. society can't be built on the back of Kwik Trip.) I really don't get it, or what I'm supposed to do. I'm still hopeful though.
>>221240765Because I was the way your pic was. Had plenty of opportunities but never wanted them. And I don't regret it, I still couldn't care less.
>>221240765I've been with 14 females and I have a female's cat laying on my bed right now, she'll be here later to fuck me again while the cat watches.
I have
>>221240765Missed my chance and now I don't care. I treat it the same as all the missed opportunities in my life
>>221249179>Just be warehouse worker bro youll be CEO in no timeYea sure
>>221256312You’ll find someone my friend
>>221240765Girls who were into me were all fat and/or whores.
>>221241151something like thisbut it also has to happen naturally and organically, no dates, no "looking for someone", no unicorn hunts - all this shit is a humilation ritualjust a common space and two d20s that we both feel romantic attraction at some point and gravitate towards each otherand no, I won't go out of my way to find these spaces, they just have to be my natural surroundings, work, some event, anythingnothing less, miss me with that gay shit
im incel chud
