how often do you go to dates iyc?
Haven't been on one in 12 years
No idea what a date is
>>22131691535 years of living. Zero dates. Zero friends. Zero jobs.
I haven't been in 6 years
Last girl I dated was a BPDemon in 2022 I dumped a day after the world cup finalsShe worshipped me but her lows were bringing me down and that's unacceptable
>>221317161whats dating a bpd like?>lowswhats that?
>>221316915I'm too old to fall for this scam
>>221316915>how often do you go to dates iyc?Never have, never will.
>>221317662Mood swings. When she was low, she'd call me in the middle of the night and say nothing so that I could talk and my voice would calm her downWhen she was high she'd video call me in the shower fingering herself and dirty talkingExcept one time I was at work and I had to dirty talk in a whisper while doing solidworks lmfao
>>221316915In my college and uni days, about 2-3 times a week. Often with different women and of different races (Malaysia is Truly Asia™). The 'dates' were basically going out to lunch or dinner together after class or studying together at the library. Serious dates were on the weekends where we'll go to the mall (this was the late 90s) and go watch the movies, maybe some light petting or fingering.
>>221318227>yeah now rub it real slow, a- huh? oh uh hello mr shekelstein. yes, i am beveling the edges on this model
>>221317080>died an unlovable chud award
>>221316915I don't, because I know it would be incredibly awkward. I literally can not talk, besides the basic "What do you study, where do you work at, where are you from"
>>221318480Gonna die early anyway due to genetic heart failure like all men in my family. But unlike my dad I won't leave a grieving family in financial trouble and debt behind.
>>221318438We're talking about borderline, not schizophrenia. Your expertise is worthless here, unwelcome even
>>221318543define early
>>221319165he's quoting what you'd say in that 'dirty talking while doing design' scenario, nepalfag
>>221317080based
Im 30 years old and ive been around imageboards since 2009 never understood how can someone not pull girls easilyYou just literally need to be yourself and somewhat handsome/tallIve been to plenty of dates but i always end up gfing the chick i like the most between every girl im seeingJust to flex on you nerds my new gf is a literal 22 years old 9/10 goth chick that loves analI cummed buckets in her ass two days agoAnd yes i still suffer in brazil
>>221317080>Zero jobs.Based swedNEETbuxers. I was born in a balkan shithole where thats impossible so instead im trying to gather money for van life and maybe get a fucking break a few years before it either improves or i kys
>>221320156>I dont underatand how you cant find a gf when all you have to do is being tallIs this the smartest brazilian? Walking through life in clownworld as a quadroon retard must be a breeze
>>221320232Syria isnt in the balkans mohammed
>>221320267You just need to be tall literal guy :)
>>221316915SOVL
>>221319753Mid 40's to early 50's at best.
>>221320156Try having a screeching mother who sets you up to be mercilessly tormented+having to shut down the function in your brain that makes you to have sex because your parents destroyed your lungs with cigarettes and you are going through hell and you dont want to bring a kid into the world by accident who will inherit this hell. Bonus points for girls wanting you more than other guys but your own refusal to engage is registered as incel failure.I spent 10 years in this site hating women and only recently i got some fucking space to get out of survival mode and realize i shouldnt have done that. Now i feel i dont even deserve to go to an escort specialized in virgins because of how much negativity i brought about in hate filled survival mode.
>>221320424Well at least you are getting out of that. Some people have it tougher and life is not fair
>>221320625Yea thanks boomer. ill record your wisdom so that it will go through the aeons.
>>221320706>wisdomThere are no magic words, it is what it is. You are not a kid anymore, you should know it will probably end in tragedy and defeat as for most other men me included.
>>221320156Oh sorry you were humble bragging, didnt read until the "just be handsome bro" so i answered seriously. Well its a waste of looks and big booty/thick thighs genes.
>>221320832Well you answered with boomer tier condecending shit and i replied. Sure my mistake for writing that in the first place, but you can piss off.
>>221320929Why so angry big boy?
>>221318227My BPD GF just asks for reassurance when she feels insecure. But it's also like walking on eggshells because there are times where I genuinely do not know what sets her off at times. She does not know when she will switch either. So it's not like she can tell me ahead of time or just before she "changes mood" to where I ended up getting interrogated like I am some captured international terrorist.
>>221321226I went to sleep and then i woke up.
I've been on a few with one girl this year but I don't think things are going to work out because our lives are too incompatible. Still planning on seeing her in a week because she's fun.
>>221321363>My BPD GF
>>221316915I went on 1 in my entire life. 30yrs old
>>221316915I don't go to them. I don't even buy them. I like cashews more
>>221320156this low-inhibition and low IQ monkeyzilian is right. you have to have a rapist mindset to pull chicks
i went on a date with bbw last week
>>221316915I can't ever go on a date because I have a phobia of eating in front of other people that makes it impossible for me to swallow.
>>221319165nepalese reading comprehension
>>221321363Don't make kids with her. My BPD mother ruined both my father and me. These women are unreformable without meds.
I hate women
>>221317080>i svffer in sweden
What's the point of making yourself so vulnerable and stuck in oneitus mindset when you can be friends with lots of girls who want sex from time to time?
>>221317080>never worked>still lives better than 99% of the worldCan't suffer in Sweden
>tfw actually became 35 khvI guess this is it then
>>221316915Rarely
>>221316915Had 2 dates last month with a woman who asked me outAsked out a fatty this month and she accepted then ghosted meIt's tiresome to chase them
>>221316915Never been on a date. Never known any women who wasn't my mom or other relatives. Normie life is alien to me.
>>221317080>>221318480How can that be possible, when I love this beautiful soul?
>>221316915If you aren't a dangerous bad boy who make them feel strong emotions don't even bother dating here.
>>221316915Does it count if only one person was aware that's a date?
>>221325788>khvif that h is hugless and not handholdless im going to freaking hurt you man like really freakin bad!!
I'm on my way to one as a matter of fact.I'll meet my girlfriend and we will eat sushi, I 'ate sushi but I luv me lass.
>>221325788So so tiresome, the worst thing is it leaves you with to find the actual good women. I was speaking to some Italian bimbo for ages, finally got a date then she just stops replying. Weeks later I see her in person and she's acting awkward, see her again a couple of months later and she's back to the flirting, trying to get me to engage again. These women really must have no lives because they waste their own time too
>>221316915Does it count if it's date night? That's every Saturday. Because I haven't been on a "real" date since like 2009.
>>221330175>will compromise for a crumb of cuntywnmi
>>221317080Same except I have a job.
>>221317080I don't undesrstsand how you got the zero jobs part. I'd live like that if I didn't have to pay for food and rent myself
>>221317080based contemplative life appreciator
Sometimes
>>221316915if you're ugly and awkward at the same time it's literally impossible to have one
>>221317080BASED
>>221317080Based. Can’t svffer in Swedistan.
>>221319906>>221322867It's the judaism mention to me, anyone who brings up jews unprompted is a schizo to me>>221321363Not to give you advice since I dumped mine but you have to be a lot more assertive with them
>>221318543you should knock up a refugee girl and leave a little mulatto chudling behind
>>221325319My cuban friend says ticas are very easy to talk too
ive never been on a datein highschool my uncle tried to set me up with some coworkers daughter but i pussied out 9 years later and still have never exchanged contacts with a girl eithersuch is the american way
>CrackI cant keep up with these zoomers anymore...
>>221339756https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BGrfhsxxmdE
>>221329854No point in saying "here". It's like that everywhere.
>>221318543One thing for youThe Sinatra solution
>>221320424You cant change the past but now you can decide your future, whether you continue to dwell on these difficult times is your choice.
>>221316915Never been to one but now that I'm entering my 30s I also believe it's not even worth it, women are genuinely despicable
>>221317080>Zero jobs.How? you're required to search for a job to receive neet bux and also write the names of the jobs you've applied to, every week. Are you saying that you've applied to several thousand jobs or did they just give up after a while? I've been a neet in sweden as well but not for that long
I greet you my fellow truecels.Do not worry about interacting with women.Stay pure, eternal life will be ours.
>>221341294No job searching for me. Had enough medical papers to avoid all that and when I turned 30 I applied for sick pension and got it approved instantly. Now my 16k kronor plops into my account on the 18th (or nearest bank day) every month until I turn 66 or whatever.
>>221341483>medical papersDid you get them for something stupid like adhd?
>>221330156It is handholdless...
>>221341503Autism (diagnosed at age 9), general anxiety disorder, panic attacks, some physical stuff, asocial disorder/asociality and more. Enough that Samhall told me no instantly back in the day.
>>221341037Based