What is being in a good relationship supposed to be like?For me it always goes like this:>They like it when I talk about them or try to share things that might be related to them or pique their interest>Conversations don't flow naturally. It's just like a job interview where you have to try and care about their life, or talk about whatever they want to share, otherwise nothing happens>They don't care about my life at all>They only like it when I'm available for them>They only like it when I am there for them>They only like it when I am making an effort for them>They don't want to know anything about me>The don't care about how I feel>They don't even want to hang out with me>They talk about other women more than me, they just use me as a tool for complaining about their other women>The compliments and "I love you" feel really insincere, forced and empty, like there's nothing there, just empty words probably copied and pasted>They will share so many intimate and personal things, really vulnerable, then just leave because who cares >I guess they get bored? People only want excitement and highs>The painful moments and hurtful things really stand out when you remember them>"He's not yours it's just your turn" is accurate>Feel totally unlikable and unlovable >We stop talking and they instantly forget and move on because it didn't mean anything to them
>>221376217Sounds like you have a small penis unironically.
>>221376217Yes women are like cats.You have to be interested in them and be nice to them when it suits them fuck off and let them ignore you for the rest of the time.
like having a friend but you have sex and share the burdens of life daily and not only occasionally
i can smell fucking rhd audi s3 through the screen that disgusting makeup and pig red skin a d that wigger haircut on the guy.. unmistakable lower middle class angloid
>>221377451oddly specific description of your wife's boyfriend
>>221378182im truecel
>>221376217post tits
>>221376217Been with my gf since 2012. We don't do much of anything except relax at home, go for walks, play vidya and visit her parents like once a month for dinner. Neither of us have any friends and we're both perma-neets so not exactly the most normal couple I guess. Could not imagine living without her.
>>221376217There are no good relationships. People eventually get bored each other and function entirely off of the “I don’t want things to change” mentality. It becomes less of an emotional connection and more of a habit. All the annoying things about your partner surface through, all the good things become mundane and you stop noticing them.
>>221378358Why are you incapable of impregnating her timmy
>>221378448We're both in our late 30's and neither of us wants kids and even if we did it would never happen because she has endometriosis and her ovaries have so much scar tissue that they are completely incapable of it.
>>221378443That sounds like something my retarded useless piece of shit whore mother told me when my gf dumped me and I was crying my ass off in my room when she married a narcissistic piece of shit that made me fatherless and childhoodless. Go fuck yourself, asshole.
>>221378443nah there's lots of people who have been married for like 30 years and are still happy/excited, and their whole family is made up of good, well-adjusted people.it's really a mentality thing. it's easy enough to say it's like that when you act upon your belief that it's like that, fulfilling it. it's also that good, well-adjusted people beget good, well-adjusted people. the recent pop cultural notion of relationships is obviously pretty weak, and has naturally devolved even further into fleeting sexual arrangements with little in the way of coupling or romance, much less commitment and family.honestly it's mainly men's fault. at least 80% of women are simple-minded motherly domestic sorts, regardless of what they themselves think, and would easily be led into it.
>>221376217She looks like an albina monkey
>>221378358>2012>14 yearsShe hasn't pressured you for marriage?>>221378694>EndometriosisYou can still have children, same way PCOS women can have it.>>221378919I think women tend to be less invested in the relationship unless the guy in it is doing better off then they are.
>>221379789>She hasn't pressured you for marriage?Marriage is an old people thing here. Less than 50% of couples get married. She has never asked, I asked her once if she wants to get married and she said it's a waste of money and time. >You can still have childrenNo, even her specialist said that the chances are basically zero even if she has the surgery to remove scar tissue and then do IVF. Her ovaries are destroyed. And if that wasn't enough, the constant inflammation has pretty much destroyed her egg production. And the pain meds she's on just to deal with it are not compatible with pregnancy. But like I said, neither of us wants kids. We've had that talk.
>>221379996I ask because women tend to pressure men after a few years.
>>221379996well yeah most good things are old people things
>>221380057Yeah. We have something called "Sambo" in Sweden which is what we are. It's a legal couple status that is just as valid as marriage but without the ceremony, paperwork and downsides in case of divorce. Some info if you are interested. >https://d-jur.se/samboavtal/the-sambo-law/It's far, FAR more popular than marriage is.
>>221376217Being friends. And not the diluted anglo-saxon meaning of friends, I mean actual true friends. She's a girlFRIEND for a reason. The secondary requirement is wanting to fuck each other, and the rest doesn't matter that much. If you like each other you'll figure it out.My piece of advice on filtering mentally ill foids wearing masks to dates is to analyze their post-coffee behaviour. Caffeine sensitivity is very telling of BPD.
>>221378358How did you meet?
>>221381549Her mom and my mom are friends. Known each other since we were teens.
>>221381693Oh I'll just wait for one to fall in my lap I guess...
>>221376217First you need to be friends, then you needs to love sex with each other. That’s it.>>221378694Skill issue, wife has endometriosis and we’re on our way to the second.
>>221376217this is an extremely common problem but there is a well known solution
>>221376217I don't knowboth guys and gals only like me for a quick fuck.
>>221376217Do these 'people' not realise how unsettling they look with all the work they have done? Especially those weird teeth.
