>mum told me that i should start thinking about moving outIm only 24....
>>221523286When I hit 24 my dad sat me down and told me I can live with my family as long as I need or want with no conditions. So while I still live with them I do my best to give back to them.
>>221523342i pay rent for my room. thats the only thing they provide anymore
>>221523286I moved out at 19 into a tiny apartment because my parents were selling the house and moving to Mallorca for their retirement. Fun fact: I am 32 and have never visited them since they moved.
>>221523672ultraboomers
I moved here at 28 and my mom calls me to tell me that she's sad that all of her children moved out guess where I'm from
>>221523514I buy my parents like household appliances and give them money when they need them.
>>221523672Guiri fatigue
>>221525405>guess where I'm fromnorth africa
>>221523672Lmao king
Im turning 30 in a few months and i still live at home with my single mom who's starting to show signs of dementia, while my sister couch surfs and gaslights everyone that we treat her rough while she abuses my momgonna eat a bullet when my mom dies or suffers too much from dementia idk yetI got 14k in savings so yeah im fkedMy boomer retired dad only calls me to ask me if i have work yet, then makes me feel bad and tells me how he had no trouble finding work in his time, he's slowly wasting my grandpa's inheritance as we speak
It's not good for mental health to live at home past 22.
>>221525950Grim, i worry this is going to be me in a few years I already feel like shit living with my parents at 27. Can't imagine doing it at 30 I'd go insane
>>221525970What's the alternatives if you aren't rich? Living with a bunch of strangers in tiny over priced rent cuck shed isn't good for your mental health either
>>221525980Go do something just anything, go do a course of welding, any skill that atleast requires some trading, i did landscaping and now i compete with eastern europeans who work 10 bucks an hour here
>>221525980watching them get old sucks
>>221526106Its not even them getting old but watching them lose their hearing abilities and becoming more forgetful is breaking my fucking heart so much damn
While his parents are alive, a good son does not wander far afield
>>221526079I've mostly worked in restaurants so I'm a pretty good cook , but it's not a real "career" or something i can really do for the rest of my life I was considering doing tefl or a teacher's cert
>>221525980I'm turning 30 at the end of this year and still stuck with my raging bitch mom. Last chance of moving out was in 2020 when covid cucked me. Already went insane just kinda hoping she'd die already.
>>221523286>>221523342I'm 25 live with grandparents and mom and siblingsI have my own room and I even changed the door recently to a more soundproof door like people have to an entire apartment And I have privacy all dayAs for money I recently got a remote ok paying job and I only pay like $100 monthly for actual monthly expenses, but I also buy other things for the house when needed, like for example my grandpa recently told me that he always wanted to view stars with a telescope so I'm going to buy it for him I could move out if I wanted to but I don't have a reason for it aloneI am trying to date now for the first time and if I find some gf I might consider moving out. But for now my priority is just saving, investing, and either buy my own apartment or land or outright a house
>>221526298>And I have privacy all daycan you meet sex?
>>221527018Except for that, but I don't know any girls to have sex with anywayBut if it ever comes to that we can go to a hotel or wherever And I will move out if or when I find the right oneAnd if I don't, I'm also ready for it. I'm actually pessimistic, but am putting myself out there
>>221523286I moved out at 18 like both my siblings and most of my friends. Guess it's getting a bit rarer these days but rent is still cheap enough (I pay €434/month for my 43m2 apartment) for most people, even NEETs. Love my parents but could never imagine living with them for longer than that. Like, moving out is the first and most basic step to becoming an adult. At least here.
>>221527586And do you still live alone?
>>221528141Yes. Almost 15 years now. Same apartment and I don't see myself moving anytime soon, if ever.
>>221523672>>221527586Can't suffer in the nordicks
>>221523286>30yo>can't afford an apartment anywhere despite earning more than 90%of the country>don't want to sell my soul to banks in a 40 years mortgage>unironically planning on building a second floor in my parents house for me
>>221523286Still living with mom, it saves me a ton of money, and im honestly afraid of 20 year long debts so until i have saved enough to be 100% certain i can pay said debt no matter what, i am not leaving.Also what if the housing market crashes the moment i buy? id rather wait and slurp the dip
>>221529391>Also what if the housing market crashes the moment i buy?But what if you end up on the streets
>>221523286You planning on living forever?Move the fuck out you old ass bitch.
>>221523672When I got my first job I stayed at home to save on rent, saying 'its only a year, look at all that money!'After a while, I started saying 'its only money'
>>221529603I've got 1 month of my apprenticeship left before I can make normal money again
>>221523286The other anon warned you. It is always like this>you are a man now anon>you should pay rent now anon>you should move out anon
>>221523286Sad.My parents said the same thing. Somehow I'm still here. In my case, they didn't want me to move out per se, they just wanted to exert power over me.Turns out they are Narcissistic Parents.
my parents mostly just ignore me, other than to sometimes half-heartedly suggest I get a job (i'm 25).
>>221523286I heard in Germany if you go to the jobcenter you get a free apartment + utilities + $500/mo in spending money.
>>221523286 That's fucked up >>221523342That's wholesome
>>221525950>starting to show signs of dementia What signs?
>>221529879Constant soft sabotage that you don't even realize they are doing, slowly poisoning their victims their entire lives.
>>221530743Yep. Didn't realise it until I was in my mid-twenties.
>>221530646Keeps repeating questons, forgets her basic stuff like car keys, asks what day it is multiple times, gets angry when you mention something about it
>>221523342the only rules my parents have are that you move out when you are married
>>221523286>>221523514do ypipo really
32 year old I don't have anything I live with my parents soon I will be 33, I don't know I kind of gave up, let life do its thing I don't care I don't fight fate anymore
>>221534402sorry to hear man. hope things get better for you.
>>221523286you're still a baby. tell your mom to fuck off
>>221525405saar please come back home
>>221528377you should be taking as many loans as possible if you have a consistent income. its literally free money
>>221535583jewish hands typed this post
>>221523286I'm 24 and live with my parents. I'm an incel though and it's a big house in Warsaw with a large front yard and backyard that let's me do gardening and have my own crops in summer so I will probably never move out
