There are equal amount of men and women so surely there is one woman waiting for you to find her out there.Why don't you go search for her? What's stopping you?
I was on my first date yesterday It was awful. I'm ready to no try again for few years
>>221582698I have a cute boyfriend. Never been interested in women beyond friendship.
>>221582730Stop being such a sensitive chud and try again. Life isn't waiting for you to recover.>>221582838Happy for you bro.
>>221582698Many women seem to be sinister people who lack a genuine good heart. Too many of them are not good people to grow with and I'd rather not deal with more grief when I can just remain alone.
shit ain't that simple, fucking normie
I'm severely mentally unwell and it's getting worse and worse. Combined with my physical ailings of late affected my self-esteem to levels I previously thought impossible. I will be 30 in October and I will be happy if I live to 31. People my age are married with a house and a kid with a second one on the way. I sleep, work and dream of ending it all. I have more money than I ever imagined since the job pays extremely well but I am frugal and have barely any costs of living so it just sits there. I think I'll just keep saving, transfer it all to my parents and rope.
im poor and ugly
>>221582698I did meet a nice girl once who turned out to be my last IRL crush, but that was nearly ten years ago.
>>221582698Why should I search for anything.
In 5 days we'll have our 15 anniversary
>>221582698I'm too old and bitter to have a relationship at this point.
>>221582698Nigga you know it don't work like that
>>221583000The state needs your semen
>>221582932stop comparing yourself to other peopleLife is not a sprint, it is a marathon
>>221582698>Why don't you go search for her? What's stopping you?because it takes a lot of effort and i think looking for ways of making money is more worthwhile
>>221583096Peoviding his fat ass with running allegories will surely do good
>>221583082Dude, are you like alright in the head?
>>221582698I'm a 32yo virgin living in a small rural town with zero friends, autism, bad teeth I can't afford to fix and a shitty part time job as a garbage man. There "might" be a woman out there who would be interested but I can 100% guarantee she would be some fat, desperate mountain of lard and I might not be a catch myself but I cannot pretend to be attracted to that. Plus I have dementia in the family so there's a big chance I'll be mentally gone in 20-30 years.
>>221582698Boring, shy and terrible social skills.It may sound like some cheap excuse but every time I go out the same happens.
>>221582698
>>221582932>I'm severely mentally unwell and it's getting worse and worse. Combined with my physical ailings of late affected my self-esteem to levels I previously thought impossible. You should see a psychiatrist. Professional help really feels like magic trust me. You can do it.>>221582910The problem with you is that you see women like some alien species, maybe because lack of interaction, maybe because of your superiority complex against women, maybe inferiority, maybe you consume too much anti-woman content or whatever, i don't know. But trust me most of women are in fact more genuine and kindhearted than men because of their nature.
>>221582698Because I'm not interested in used old hags and dating 12 year olds is illegal.
>>221582698I gave up after getting rejected for like the 20th timeI'm 33 now and I have accepted the fact that I'll die aloneI'm okay with it, I thought it would affect me much more than it didlife isn't that bad to be desu
If schizoid disorder is a spectrum then I'm pretty sure I'm on it, I don't want to form close relationships or emotional ties to people. I've had crushes but I've always just thought like wow this is annoying, and just wait for it to end. So being in a relationship has always seemed like a really alien thing to me. I often see people complaining about their partners, and I always just imagine that if a relationship got to that point, I would kinda just pack my stuff and unceremoniously leave, but that would probably be a bit of a dick move towards the other person so I just stay out of relationships. Even a hug feels like my privacy is being invaded. To be clear, I'm not depressed or sad about any of this, I'm perfectly content living like this, but it just seems clear to me that some things aren't really my speed
>>221583295You are being disingenuous to pretend that many women are not like that. Too many women are subtly spiteful as soon as they don't get what they want. I don't care about whether or not men are worse. You must also be a woman by nature of acting this way and making the comparison.
>>221582698I have nothing to offer a woman. Every time I try to fill out a daily profile and imagine what I could say to attract a woman, I draw a blank. The best I can do is "I will exist near you so that you'll be less lonely sometimes, and can contribute to households bills" -- anything further feels like false advertisement.
>>221582698>surely there is one woman waiting for you to find her out there
>>221582730greentext?
>>221582698i am ugly and incapable of socialising. every time i try to speak with someone my mind goes completely blank and i can only reply with single words or short phrases
>>221582698I had 4 girlfriend in my life. 3 replaced me with another manThe 4th and last one was a con artist who scammed me and my parents for 2 years and robbed me 10k€ that was the starting money for our future homeI only go for prostitutes every few months for 2h.Prostitutes are better run for my money, and much more honest than common everyday women.Women in western nato nations born after 1985 are all rubbish. Lazy, parasitic, have no hobbies, obsessed with money and social status, have no sense of loyalty, no sense of shame, no conscious.I've had women sending me pictures and videos of themselves masturbating, saying they wanted me badly, and then the following day go fuck some other guy, ex boyfriend that called them, or sent a text message. They all live in the moment, they can't thi k 1 week upfront, 15 days upfront. Living from paycheck to paycheck, ordering food everyday, ordering clothing from shein everyday, doom scrooling on tik tok and instagram
>>221582698>here are equal amount of men and womenall women want to only fuck chad thoughever.
>>221583147>I'm a 32yo virgin living in a small rural town with zero friends, autism, bad teeth I can't afford to fix and a shitty part time job as a garbage man.>There "might" be a woman out there who would be interested but I can 100% guarantee she would be some fat, desperate mountain of lard and I might not be a catch myself but I cannot pretend to be attracted to that.https://www.youtube.com/@NeverGiveUp-Main/videoscope, this ugly swede just bred a normal looking Chilena
>>221583707To be fair I have no idea if I'm handsome or not, but I've gotten attention from those nerdy artist types, goths or smelly hippies, or some combination of those. I have to assume it's more to do with having long hair and dressing a certain way than anything else. But I guess what I'm saying is that there are niches outside basic stacies. I don't even know what I'd talk about with people like that
>>221582698I just came here to post that i have a very nice girlfriend (in my country) and i am very happy to have met her and sexed her and sometimes i feel like i dont deserve her because of the good things she does and because of how pretty she is so i give her lots of kisses and do nice things to her back :)
>>221582698I have two exes and I will gladly go the rest of my days alone. Fuck relationships, fuck women, fuck being social.
ugly + socially disabled + too blackpilled to want for/hope for/believe in that kind of thing
>>221582698>never felt any romantic resonance with girls/women>don't make enough money>short>still live with parents because housing here is stupidly expensive>31 so all the high-value women are taken>I don't like travelling and that's seemingly the main hobby for 80% of women lately
I'm below average in looks, not to mention autistic and poor. Women avoid me.
>>221582698Too many people live a life alienating others, because economically we hide others and their work behind money. This carries over into private life, which just makes people anti-social and unhinged. It turns dating from a search for human connection into this RPG where you max stats and use those to "purchase" ownership of another person. I think people are exhausted by this, especially women who are typically treated as the object of this purchase. It creates vapid relationships that feel almost the same as if you were still single. So why bother?The only way out of this is to dig deep and undo this commodification of human connection within your own psyche, and also find someone else who's going down the same path. Match qualities with people, not quantities. Only then will the relationships you find actually start to feel like they mean something again.
>>221584444well, at least you got some nice digits
I'm average looking guy Apparently my looksmatch is a 3/10 landwhale
>>221582698My looks are below average, my personality is boring, been rejected many times, and I don't think I have the time to focus in a relationship right now.
>>221582838asg mongobögen
>>221582698I keep getting ghosted and It makes me want to kms, not trying is less stressful.I am also extremely introverted and just don’t like interacting long periods of time with other people.
>>221585265Meeting new people online is tiresome because of the constant ghosting.
i'm not concerned about starting a family.mine were a bunch of selfish, violent cunts who are better off overdosing alone. like they've already been doing.
>>221582698>we are all incels here, look how sad we are, let's make gazillion threads about itThere are many events happening in each of your countries. Go there and meet people. It’s not that hard, and eventually you’ll find someone.Never understood incel shit. Especially from Americans who pride themselves in being soo easy to talk to and shit.
>>221582698>nice girlfriend>BrazilC'mon my nigga
>>221585854I go to events but hardly talk to others there at all. Then again no-one there initiates conversation with me either.
>>221582698I'm a 35 year old man with no romantic or sexual experience. No woman wants that.
>>221582698I simply prefer solitude.
i made a hinge yesterday and only gotten 2 likes (1 mid, 1 ugly). is it over imc?
>>221585377I get ghosted from girls I meet IRL too... we chat and laugh they give me their phone numbers and then block me the day after. I don't know what to do anymore
>>221587052You're doing better than me if you can actually chat to girls and make them laugh. Girls seem tense and unfriendly when I talk to them, like I'm going to harm them or something.
>>221583295>You should see a psychiatrist. Professional help really feels like magic trust me.Kill yourself.
>>221582698>Why don't you go search for her? What's stopping you?Well for a start i have a remote job and the only places i go out are the gym and the card shop though and second i develop a fear to not deserve love because i'm a loser and the fear one day i would wake up realizing i already become a monster
>>221582698I never had a chance and was already used to be the weird guy all my life, but in my experience most college educated young adults are fucking weird in a different way and only 30+ yos or proletarians still know how to behave. I think the pandemic fucked zoomers mentally. Everyone closes themselves in the first clique they manage to get into like kids in those american teenage movies but for real and as adults, what is even more bizarre. As I remember that this isn't how people used to behave back then. It's the discordization of society. What was hard for me before it's now fucking impossible
>>221582698Women like this dont exist in my country and i seethe in solitude at the fact
>>221586378seems about normal from what I've heard.A friend of mine has gotten zero likes in 6 months. Grim
>>221582698i hate women
>>221582698I don't meet any women>go to a social meetup walk yesterday>it's mostly couples>the women on their own have boyfriends/husbandsIf you don't have a gf by 30 you're fuckedt. 33 and will probably die alone
>>2215837062h??? Is this sex or a podcast?
>>221582698>There are equal amount of men and women In the 20-25 range? No, its like 60 to 70% men.>Why don't you go search for her? Because she doesnt exist>What's stopping you?Theres no young women
>>221583882>bro just be a rich scandi eceleb with milions of views and MAYBE youll get some desperate thirdie who just wants your passportHes is super famous.Also its an exception. If it was so common people would not spam this guy on end
>>221585854>muh eventWhich ones? Because muh hobby groups and muh language classes. Hell even muh salsa classes are just men and old peopleYoung women just go on apps or date slmeone in college/hs
>>221582698>Why don't you go search for her? What's stopping you?too socially disabled due to avoiding interaction with others for my whole life I also realized I kinda want everything handed to me on a silver platter, and since that's not happening i don't even try just to spite life
>>221583882>eceleb found a gfWow, shocking
>>221585854Do you even know what incel means?
I blame it on the fact that I have always lived in a provincial environment where I felt constantly out of place. This, together with my ineptitude and inability to imagine an alternative path for myself, led me to spend my adolescence and my twenties in almost complete solitude, creating an unbridgeable gap in experience and an identity wound whose full impact I am only now beginning to understand.basically I don't speak their same language and I'm at an age where you're cannot be inexperienced and immature and you're costantly tested and judged, so I would need to fake and pretend and conceal to an extent that I just don't think it's worth it anymore
>>221593619>Which ones? Because muh hobby groups and muh language classes. Hell even muh salsa classes are just men and old peopleRunning marathons, events related to keeping the city clean, lengthy camping trips, or yeah, language classes, dancing classes or some random open lectures at universities. In fact, later is where you meet decent females who aren't random gold digging whores like on dating apps.
>>221582698i am in love with one girl who doesn't love me back. i am going to make another move in july and september. if it doesn't work after that i am moving to a new city and will have to give up.
>>221594586>Running marathonsKek i actually went to see a night marathon just yesterday in my area with above 15k participants. 80% of these were men.>events related to keeping the city cleanDone those too, same with the red cross stuff, only old people show up>lengthy camping tripsOk either you dont go out, or girls in georgia are absolute angels. Im one of the organizers of a hiking and camping group in my area, we have about 300 active members and not a single woman below 50>language classes, dancing classesSame as above, just boomers. Salsa classes are only young guys now because this meme advice has been used by boomers for decades>andom open lectures at universitiesOnly guys attend
>>221582698my city is very unwalkable. as a result, there are no community hubs anywhere. most people find their spouses in retail jobs or college.
>>221582698i got my first girlfriend at 26 with a 20 year old recently and it lasted a little bit over 2 months. she was way too online. basically a discord girl. instagram reels and shit too. she was really self-absorbed and didn't feel like a girl i could rely on emotionally or anything like that, like just totally not girlfriend material. she told me about her history with discord gooners in her dms etc. and evidently she valued that above a regular functional relationship because her complaint was that i wasn't like that in instagram dms with her and ignored all the other ways i did bf things for her. pair the lack of warmth or empathy with her saying she'll never have kids (and her reasoning seemed to be because "pregnancy makes you ugly" or something) and i found it hard to get into it with her. made worse by her having the annoying alt aesthetic she no doubt got from instagram/pinterest/discord, including a couple tattoos and face piercings. it weakened my attraction to her but if she were even slightly more wife-able or even long term relationship-able i probably would have been able to look past it (and assume she'd mature out of it)our relationship ended in instagram dms and in the final moments she put on like this weird sense of ironic detachment which was baffling, probably trying to get a good screenshot to show her friend who hated me. oh well. at least i can say i'm not the one who killed the relationship in the end, i actually tried.blog post
>>221597037a lot of younger women are really immature. i dont understand how older guys chase after them. besides looks, they care about the most trivial shit so they are undateable. even if you meet one with potential, they are not likely to be in the same headspace as you. at 26 you are thinking about kids. at 20 you are thinking about doing dumb shit for fun. also, alt girls can be a mixed bag. the one i met was a really funny girl who would do really good voice acting impressions. i genuinely though she was the one until she told me she didnt want kids. if they are alt chances are they had bad childhoods so its understandabledesu, i find that the most wifeable women are the ones who are just chilling. not obsessed with social media validation. you find a lot of them in retail jobs, maybe as managers. if theyve been working retail jobs for a while then they probably have the patience of a saint and work ethic of a solder, they make the best moms.
>>221597398true, but i think especially now none of these women ever mature. either because they can't, they don't want to, or they don't have to
I approached 5 women in the last 3 months and non bitIt's such a meme if you think about. If after 20 girls you get 1 number, and if after 4 numbers you get 1 date with a girl, and if after 4 first dates you get 1 second date, you ended up approaching over 300 womenGood luck lmao
>>221582698Im gross....
>>221582698I never really triedThere were some instances where some girls showed interest in me, but I'm not interested in them.There is this girl that I like, and I really tried approaching her, probably the most effort I've ever put into approaching a woman without straight up asking out for a date. But I sensed that she doesn't like me back so I backed off.
>>221582698I don't know how
>>221582932Anon what's going on with you? You can be better.
>>221583706>a con artist who scammed me and my parents for 2 years and robbed me 10k€>women sending me pictures and videos of themselves masturbating, saying they wanted me badly, and then the following day go fuck some other guyHoly shit nigger I've had these two exact same fucking situations too. That's fucking mental. How old are you? >They all live in the moment, they can't thi k 1 week upfront, 15 days upfront. Living from paycheck to paycheck, ordering food everyday, ordering clothing from shein everyday, doom scrooling on tik tok and instagramNoted this too. Couldn't express better.>>221594735This one is right too. There are no women my age anywhere at all.
>>221582698Everytime I find myself in the presence of a beautiful woman I begin to psyche myself out and tell myself there's no point in approaching because I'm ugly and unloveable and there are so many better man out there she'd rather be with.
>>221582698Because Im afraid of vulnerability and dont connect easily with others emotionally or intimately
>lots of beautiful women at work>starting to get to know some of them>can't risk my job>stay at home incel when not working
I'm 5'9, which is equivalent to 5'4 in NYC.
>>221582932Hello Rehab
>>221582698There was a cop in my country with +40 gfs/wives. Incredibly he managed to keep this a secret for a long time until accidentally fucking everything up. Anyhow, there's guys with too many and others with none since there's nothing left for them.
You don't have to live with a woman to be happy.
>>221582698because im ugly and broke
>>221582698I have autism, I'm short (1.86), I'm weak(I bench 90)
>>221582698https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mngtcfcaVrI
>>221582932>I have more money than I ever imagined since the job pays extremely well but I am frugal and have barely any costs of living so it just sits there.donate it to Vlaams Belang
>>221587052Thats due to femenismWonder who invented that...
>>221582698No theres litteraly zero women here. This entire country is dead
I'm overweight, have thinning hair and bad face skin. There is no hope
>>221594585I got my first gf at 25 and I never had to pretend or conceal anything But it's true that you have to start trying and interact with the world
>>221604544What if you do all of the meme activities people spam online without end but theres no women anywhere despite what boomers other baiters say?
>>221604575Get a social circle, someone is going to be friend with some single woman
>>221604599Already do have a social circle of fairly normie people>someone will be friend with some sibgle womanNope. None of them knows any women despite being litteral normies. You underestimate how segregated people are
>>221603160+ you're a faggot>I bench 90how many reps?
i almost got my uncle's friend's daughter pussy but i fumbled it like a tard
>>221582698MENA girls don't want me so I will die alone
>>221604617Except this doesn't line up with my experience at all. People I know have mixed genders social circles, I could fuck my coworkers, when I went to a climbing gym we were split 50/50, now I go to a gym and there are many women, even when I go playing boardgames there are (admittedly few) womenSo I'm either an extreme outlier or what the incels bitching online mean is there aren't any hot women ready to fuck them and initiating the conversation as well
>>221587052Yea I've found this is pretty normal. I just talk to girls and get their phone number to get ghosted quickly. I've found it's like a 1/20 chance that they will actually talk to you beyond that initial conversation. I also figured that I pressed them too hard as well. Women don't like being pressured into anything and will bail the moment you suggest having a date after talking with them for less than 2 weeks. I eventually got something by doing it but it took 2 years of actively trying.>>221594735It's just a meme to meet people at clubs and events. The only luck I have ever had with women is by going up to them randomly and making conversation to get a phone number. You would have more luck panning for gold than you would getting to 'know' a woman in some social setting, it just doesn't happen.>>221598584Try to ask out a girl at least once a week breh
>>221604773Shut the fuck up. 8.
>>221605351>People I know have mixed genders social circlesI dont. My coworkers are all men and there are very few womenI attend language classes, do volunteering, go to hiking groups and dancing classes and those are only men and boomers. There isnt a single girl below 50>what the incels bitching online mean is there aren't any hot womenAh yes the high standards of incels who want a date a girl thats more or less their age and not 70. Such high standards
>>221606275Just be yourself, if it is your destiny you will meet a woman, otherwise you will stay alone.Stop being so desperate, you torture yourself for no reason.Humans can't fight against their destiny or change their fate.
>>221606275Ok then me and the majority of society are the outliers
>>221604599>Get a social circleWhat store sells these?
>>221606333Youre not the majority of society. Even my managers and financial directors dont meet women ever.
>>221606492You start talking to people with common interests and go on from there. I have autism and I'm not really interested in others so I rely on the ones I kept from school>>221606547My managers all have wives/husbands. Most of my colleagues are engaged/had relationships
>>221606650The only interest I share with women is probably photography?But I have never seen a woman with a camera that was not also a phone so I can't take them seriously. Photography groups consist only of men
>>221606899You can talk about whatever if you're passionate and knowledgeable about it
>>221606650>I rely on the ones I kept from schoolSo does anyone else who has a gf. If you have no friends after school you are fucked.
>>221606899Loads of women are into photography, its become a very female oriented hobby in the last few years. My completely talentless sister in law also bought a camera and even now 3 years later she doesn't understand exposure triangle and fucks up her settings by accidentally pressing buttons ie fluorescent light WB, manual focus, etcIt's incredible how retarded women are. I have to help her fix her camera all the time and sometimes she follows a bunch of settings she found on the internet, then her camera acts weird and she cannot comprehend that it might have been the settings she just punched in causing it.
>>221584444Checked
>>221582698Because nice women only exist in your imaginatin
>>221582698I tried dating in my early 20's. I was high on life, amazing self-esteem, I had money, my head was full of hair, I was happy, "incel" wasn't even a word yet, I was liberal and got along with most people well, I was social and went to parties and got drunk and sang songs with people, I travelled to other countries and stayed in hostels and met other travellers and tried hooking up with girls there too. Results were conclusive, zero sex and zero friendships. I concluded that I'm too ugly on the outside, inside or both to form meaningful relationships with anyone. Now I'm 35, depressed, fat, wageslave, bald and the negative voice in my head won't ever shut the fuck up about how much of a loser I am. I still enjoy travelling the world and I can get sudden bursts of motivation, "maybe I'm just a late bloomer, maybe I'll find the girl of my dreams any day now!", but it subsides quickly. It's just not meant to be I'm afraid.
>>221606650>Most of my colleagues are engaged/had relationships*had them in hs/collegeIts impossible to meet women after uni
>>221594735>Only guys attendI refuse to believe this. I’ve been to so many random lectures, and 80% of the attendees were women.Last time, I attended something related to business, and virtually everyone there was a woman. The lecturer was also a woman.You're making shit up now, unless you're a vpn fag from some muslim country.
>>221607529I met my current gf through a friend after uni
I’ve never met a woman I’m interested in. A girl in college tried coming on to me once and I just found it annoying. Eventually I snapped at her and I’ve felt bad about it since.
>>221607682>I’ve been to so many random lectures, and 80% of the attendees were women.Nope i attend them regularly too and its always mostly men with the average age being 50+>You're making shit up now, unless you're a vpn fag from some muslim country.Not really, idk in which magical land you think you women show up to hiking or red cross or random conferences bs but thats not real life.Pic rel is the average attendance for litteraly any kind of event.Classes (dance/cooking/art) are also just old people + young men whove been gaslit by boomers into coming
>>221607872Youre an exception and not the norm.
>>221607297Just go to thailand and get some cheap hooker or a trans
>>221608029Forgot pic. Heres your average event.Even muh salsa classes are like this
>>221608082Several coworkers got together on the workplace
>>221608235Never seen it happen in my 5000 people company (including about 1000 here). We have explicit training against talking to the opposite gender about nonwork stuff.
>>221608299Guess I'm hallucinating the 3 couples I see every week
>>221608299>>221608317>I am speaking to somebody living in another country, and their experience is different from mine>how can this be happening??
>first date>pickup the girl from her home>drive to the date location>she doesn't talk at all during the drive even when I try to start some small talk>we arrive at the location>she orders her caffee>she just says "it won't work" and leaves>left with paying her undrunk caffeeI hate women, they hurt me and worse of all they hurt my wallet.
>>221608377that's because you're ugly
I had a tinder date one time and she was one of those hambeasts with the face of a skinny girl The sad part is that I believe if she were to lose weight she'd be really good looking.
>>221608317>my uberratractive experience living in an extroverted country is surely the same as for someone living in wageslave central where the men to women ratio is 70/30
>>221608421you should've stayed with her and gotten her to lose weightyou'll get a loyal 10/10 who thinks she's got the best she could get
>>221608397I don't know about being ugly, she matched me on bumble so It's something else, maybe my voice.But it taught me a lesson, never trust women with money because they are worse than goyim.
>>221608462vocaroo now
>>221608484What do you want me to say indobro?
>>221608438Yet go ask other shitalians here and they'll start spewing the same bs as you. I was also virgin until 25
>>221608540>bbut its bsReal life disagrees with you. If this was true then why do women not show up on social activities? Why dont they show up to any clubs? Why dont they seek to mingle with the opposite genders instead of staying on apps?
>>221582698the kind of woman I'm attracted to does not exist in my country
>>221608578According to you
>>221608714According to reality of me showing up to every single one of those things
>>221608734Then explain how I did 2 years of rock climbing with mixed classes split evenly
>>221608505never trust women because they are worse than goyimbut in hebrew
>>221608755Because you live in a place that has young people.My rock climbing classes are 70/80% men with an average age of 45
>>221608790https://vocaroo.com/13pZjRWQmSkc
>>221608029>Nope i attend them regularly too and its always mostly men with the average age being 50+huh? whaat? okay. Maybe, it's really country dependent. But uni shit is a pure woman thing. At least here and in Germany, I studied there for 3 years.
>>221608923I go across the border to trier and its the exact same.Basically women especially on the luxembourg plebbit keep complaining about men on dating apps but refuse to do anything or do any kind og social activity>inb4 bro drive 5 hours to attend conferences to try to play jester in front of bored women
>>221607682No, he’s not bullshitting you. Gender relations are not the same in the west and that includes how people spend their free time. Having been to Georgia I can understand why women would attend such lectures in greater numbers than men but I couldn’t imagine that here in the US. It’s like going to a church event; it’s going to be mostly boomers but when it’s anyone under 40 they’re 100% going to be male (or married with their husband).The smiling and bright American facade is also deceiving. It’s not that we’re being inauthentic all the time, but rather because our culture is painfully individualistic you don’t have to expect deeper association just by being nice. There’s a palpable distance people keep from strangers even when we give our stereotypical smile. That has A LOT to do with dating here. Easy to talk to =/= getting along
>>221608827It was in the oldest shitalian city, average age 50
>>221582698I once found a cute gf but I then I became too inward-looking
>>221609110Still better than a wagie hellscape with zero young women whatsoever
>>221604599>Single womanMan I've been friends with single women and they don't help you get date either. Or maybe I'm terribly ugly.
>>221608755To add on to that, if you dont believe me i can find a pic of any rock climbing club here and youll see its only guys and old people with your occasional high schooler
>>221609228Your population pyramid shows the usual 50/50 split with some more young males just as every other European country>>221609326You can be friend with some guy who knows a single woman
>>221608915idk you just sound kinda old I guess
>>221582698I'm somewhat sick and I have a lot of debts to pay.
>>221609431Ok, here I googled Luxembourg rock climbing
>>221609444>Your population pyramid shows the usual 50/50 split with some more young males>more young malesProving my pointCase in point: the largest rock climbing club in the area>70% men and old people>20% old women>10% litteral kids and high schoolersNothing inbetween
>>221609459That's because I am old dude
>>221609505Even if a cherrypicked promotional picture theres 4 women for 10 men
>>221609505I don't know why normies are obsessed with bouldering. I have no interest in it whatsoever and I'll be damned if I try a hobby I don't care about to try and meet women, running is fucking boring so I'm not joining a running club either.
>>221609689Not like theyd show up to a running club tbf. Even marathons here are absolute sausage fests
>>221609873Personally I don't care I just do the hobbies I'm interested in, if I meet a woman then it's just fate.
>>221609537Ok whatever, you literally can't find young women despite having a younger population than Italy (which also has more young men than women), you win
>>221609956>despite having a younger populationThat just means theres a ton of people in primary and middle school.There no women between say 18/35.Again i can post any gathering, any ngo, any club, it will be just men and boomers
>>221610027As you can see there are more males than female in your brakets. Yet somehow I still can see 18-35 aged women walking the streets. Crazy
>>221610153>still can see 18-35 aged women walking the streets.Because you dont live in a wagie hellscape that every woman leaves when she turns 18
>>221582698I'm in good shape physically, am fairly attractive and yet am an almost 31 year old kissless, handhold-less virgin.Why?Because I don't talk to women.
>>221610990>Because I don't talk to women.Why?
>>221611071There are just non that I encounter in my daily life anymore, and I was too much of an autist when I was still in university and around them. Quite grim desu.
>>221582698None of the women in this country are suitable for a relationship, mentally.
here we live in a cage of our own creation here where it's cringe to compliment people, show interest in anything or advertise yourself. So only very confident/socially skilled people or absolute bogans too retarded for societal rules can get past it and get laid, but if you do you get tons of puss but everyone also craves direct attention but it isn't acceptable to do that. So everyone just fucks foreigners because it bypasses the rulesLike I don't think I've ever had anything reciprocated or any interest shown by an Australian woman, they've even been bitching about a 'man drought' for decades.
>>221611676Never had any woman show interest in me ever
>>221592634Trvke
>>221582698Don't know how to talk to women. Also women are whiny and annoying quite often
How do you go from not being around any women plus incredibly shy and can't chat to the opposite?
>>221612601>Also women are whiny and annoying quite oftenThis
>>221585854*csssk sip*
>>221582698The thing with modern women is that mentally wise they're just big children and have extreme high standards. They demand some tall, handsome, rich, educated and funny partner when most of them only tick one of the boxes themself (most of the time it's their formal education/diplomas). Other than that they're the most dull persons to be around. From my expirience older women are much more pleasant.Sometimes I wish I was gay desu. Or maybe I should just become a hag chaser.
>>221613285*mentality wise
>>221604599Boyfriend free girls don't exist
>>221612899Ever thought about transitioning?
women can't love the way I do
>>221613771Troon trying to groom a senstitive young man. Many such cases
>>221614317:^)
>>221607682This, I have no idea what the nafriturk in Brussels is on about.Meetups/events/lectures are full of women, though I will say I get equally turned off by the "super boss girl" type as much as the whorish one
>>221592634>If you don't have a gf by 30 you're fucked >t. 33 and will probably die aloneWhat? I just turned 34 and it's incredibly easy to get 20-25 year olds, even more given I have money, world experience, etc.
>>221614639Yeah but how many good are good partners
it's hard to interact with women without coming to the conclusion they are driven by evil impulses, probably beyond their control
>>221605269This is like the top 0.001% of nafrican wimmanz
>>221582698Only women who show interest in me are landwhales, swampmonsters, hamplanets and single moms.
>>221614577>Meetups/events/lectures are full of womenThey arent. Meetups especially are susage fests. Events and lectures are big retirement homes. No girl below 55 attends those.
>>221614785Are you a landwhale or swampmonster yourself
>>221614799Do single girls below 55 even go outside or exist
>>221607035>My completely talentless sister in law also bought a camera and even now 3 years later she doesn't understand exposure triangle and fucks up her settings by accidentally pressing buttons ie fluorescent light WB, manual focus, etci like riding a bike, couldn't name most of its parts. who cares
>>221614835Idk about the UK but in france they dont exist outside of paris/lyon/nice
>>221614835No. I'm in a Volleyball and fitness meetup and apart from two grils in their teens I'm by far the youngest (36 years). I thought about joining a book club, but apperantly most of the women there are 50+ years old.
>>221614669Almost all of them are wife material, low body counts with one actually having 0.I'm the degenerate damaging them for the rest
>>221614799How is France that bad? When I lived in Toulouse it was pretty well distributed (though it's been several years since then).
>>221615061Why can't you all date people your own ages there is a serious drought for them
>>221582698I'd have to be extremely bored to even consider that. There's 0 upsides to having a girlfriend or wife in 2026.
>>221615129Those women (+30yr olds) are rightful property of 40 and 50 year olds.
>>221615110Women just dont want to waste their times when they have hundreds of men vying for them on apps.I live north of metz and theres no young women anywhere.
>>221615129>>221614669what's the point of dating an old woman when whe either can't have babies or can have a high chance of birthing a retard
Im 5'9 and people just naturally seem to dislike me
Because I live in England
Too much work having a woman its like having a dog you have to give her attetion and take her for a walk but the dog its cheaper and more loyalIts not worth the trouble i already live in the 3rd world i dont need more things to make my life difficulty
>>221615236Height doesn't matter. I have a 170 cm "tall" friend and he fucks more than I do at 186. He's just manically confident because he's a looksmaxxing body dysmorphiac who thinks all women love him, so through brute force and sheer RNG he just finds bitches to bang.
>>221615308>thread about getting a nice girlfriend>oh my friend is a fuck boy, hope this helps!
>>221615191>MetzYeah, that's what I figured. Toulouse or one of the big cities are much better for this kind of thing (with their downsides obviously).
I've never had an issue with females growing up, I was quite handsome but fore some reason I just never had a gf. Right now the idea of having a gf seems like torture for me, I want to be alone
>>221615343That's only because he's mentally ill. Longest he's held a woman down was for 1 year if that counts. I'm just saying looks don't matter.
because i'm 179cm
>>221615584height*Looks do matter but anyone can go to a gym and wash their face once a day.
>>221615387Not really, i used to study in aix-marseille and it was the exact same, outdoor groups were all guys, language classes wereball guys too.Dance classes were just full of old people and single guys, same with church
>>221615599I dont know if you're being ironic or not but literally nobody cares, you're not a midget.
>>221615663I know. I've never been called short but every one of my mates who is above 6ft has tons of female attention and can get matches of dating apps whenever. I've literally never had that
>>221614577I dont live anywhere near brussels, muhammad. And you have no idea what you're talking about. No woman below 50 would ever show up to bs such as hobby groups or lectures.When they want to do stuff they go with their girl friends and when they want a hu they just pick one of the hundreds of people oribiting them onlineLook >>221609873 , >>221609537 . Not a single young woman in sight. Only guys and boomers
>>221615343>>221615308Since were sharing anecdotes i have one that is very relevant especially when people say>broo your standards are too high just pick your looks match Well I come from a large family (very religious so we have lots of kids)>2 brothers and 3 sisters>all the guys in my family are khhv, never had a date despite having fairly normie lives>meanwhile all the girls are married or engaged with kids or kids on the way (youngest one is 20, oldest one is 24)>all found their bf on apps/online>one got married to a rich and very attractive russia guy working in oil>another one to some very attractive and wealthy guy in hk who litteraly flew her out there 2 months into the relationship>the last one got gifted a house in Montreal for her 1 year relationship anniversary with a guy she met off bumble>none of them ever worked nor will they ever need to
Because I'm a balding shy guy.
>im meant to find a girl whos ok with 4chan or quit 4chanseriously?
>>221582730You gotta try again. My 2nd attempt went much better
I can't force myself to hit on women in public.. Guess I gotta bring alcohol with me constantly to inject myself when necessary.Sounds not so good
>>221582730Ever thought about date raping? GBH is relatively cheap and easy to get.
>>221582698>Why don't you still have nice girlfriend in your country?Because what i really need is a nice cute negrita girlfriend in my country to enjoy life...
>>221582698because all of my friends and male relatives who are in relationships are all unhappy wrecks, save for my cousin who managed to find a literal unicorn of a woman, who rarely talks and does everything expected of her without complaining. >just find one who's like hershe herself said, in one of her rare chatty moods that she's very much aware how different she's compared to other women and she never met any female like herself, which further destroyed any hope I still held about women. the rest of my friends have been utterly destroyed by their partners and each time I'm with them, their aura is just one big gloomy HELP ME PLS clusterfuck. they always whinge and complain about how their needs are always neglected and they're called being selfish for wanting to do something they enjoy for a change and they always get browbeaten into submission, but for some reason they decide to remain with their partners and I really cannot understand why. is this love? no, I don't think it is, I think they're just afraid of getting left behind, so they stuck to whatever they have and put up with it.
>>221618755Is she not boring
>>221582698Clairo sums up the modern woman pretty good desu. Pleasant to look at, but once I made the mistake of listening to an interview with her. Complete lack of charisma and no interesting thoughts or insights.
>>221610601You have the same insignificant % differences you spastic
>>221616045grim
>>221582698Yeah I just really don't want to pretend like I can love someone who had sex out of wedlock or supports abortion or is a socialist, and I also really am not willing to pretend to believe in God or afterlives or souls or horoscopes or whatever for the tiny minority of women who might, and I am not physically attractive or rich because I hate other people and work as little as possible to live to contribute less to the evil things the government funds and also so I don't have to be around other people as much.
>>221616045That sounds like a serious parenting issue
>>221582698I have a tiny penis. Chances of finding someone who likes that are lower than winning the lottery so why bother?
Listen i got out of survival mode so now instead of hate for women i feel guilt for the hate and damage i done. I dont think ill even bother to lose my virginity to an escort, thats hypocritical. I still cant go through all the shit ive gone in my life cause of shit female(and male) relatives.Plus i know this is a psyops thread and you want me to have a stake in society via children. Not gonna happen. Not gonna bring children in this shit world. Not my problem.
>>221619934Pics or didn't happen
>love licking my gfs pusy>gulp down as much of her cum as i can>for some reason feel slightly nauseous after sexanyone can relate ?
>>221602089Rehab lives in Germany iirc. His accent isn't fr*nch or Flemish/Dvtch it sounds arabo-german
>>221602089>>221620472Who is rehab?
>>221582698Nobody never came into my doorstep and i would find a away to escape that situation.Iv dodged so many times girls interested about me its comical.
>>221620406Maybe because her pussy's juices are basic and your stomach is acidic. My gf gets the same after she swallows in the morning so with an empty stomach
>>221583485we truly possess a cursed blessing
>>221583485You just described perfectly my outlook on life, damn
>>221605414I haven't asked a girl out in 5 years lmfao, and only ever on dating apps never once IRLI am 30
>>221582698I don't think shoving me into anyone's life would be an improvement for either of us, so I don't even bother trying.
>>221622010They would have lost interest quickly, trust me
>>221582932>people my age are married with a house and a kidNot in [current year] Belgianbro
>>221582698Something about that facial expression really pisses me the fuck off. And it continues to piss me off everytime I have the misfortune to look at this thread when I scroll the board.
>>221624256least then i would have something new to consider
>>221624616Goosfraba
>>221582932You can go to a psychiatrist, but or more so to therapyI thought it's a meme too but forced myself to go just to seeBut I guess you need a good therapistI started Gestalt therapy a few weeks ago and I'm going every week. And my rule is to just never censor myself. On some sessions I talk about what I have already known, but in others I'm in a brand new territory of exploring things I've never explored before myself even.I am giving it a go until like August, but so far it's already making me feel better. I was also prescribed 75mg pregabalin by a psychiatrist (I've only gone once in my life so far) and it also makes me less anxiousNow I am trying to date for the first time in my life despite being a thin manlet. I was never interested in sex itself but with a relationship, but never felt confident enough to try. But now I do for the first time. Not just due to therapy, also to having a better paid remote job. But nevertheless I recommend. Just go to some therapist who you feel matches you from physiognomy and description (maybe a male would be better than a female) and just literally admit to your most embarrassing shit or just say whatever is on your mind and it's his job to explore. And also it gives a nice weekly anchor as a summary of the week.Anyway what do you have to lose if you want to k*s soon anyway?
>>221582698my life was kind of fucked up for a while, and I havent met anyone good enough and availableits usually one or the other unfortunately
>>221582698Not that I don't want to, I just can't be bothered. Girls are, in my experience, unnecessarily mean when rejecting an ugly man. If it was a simple numbers game then I'd still put myself out there, but there's a limit to how many times you want to hear "ew" when you send someone a snap of your face. The pain of loneliness is less than the pain of constant and cruel rejections.
i don't even get the "friend" part
>>221614799>Meetups especially are susage fests.I always see people say to visit websites like meetup.com and go to events, yet I can only imagine they giant sausage fests they would be.
>>221619905Not really. Thats just your average male vs female experience
>>221583706What do you mean a con artist ? She sell you shit arts you have to pay for sexo ? I don't get it
>>221628665Kek meetup is just single men and old people.Truth is any woman regardless ofbher looks and personality has dozens if not hundreds of orbiters in her phone. So why would she bother to meet people irl?
>>221582698Because women are degenerate creatures not capable of true romance
>>221629844Yeah, basically the same conclusion I came to as well.
>>221630645Yeah, basically the same conclusion I came to as well.
>>221582932>I'm severely mentally unwell and it's getting worse and worse.>Combined with my physical ailings of late affected my self-esteem to levels>I will be 30Are you me? Except that i'm 27
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