How often do women show interest in you in your country
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>>221628282everytime i go outside women approach me and my puppy if we're fair it's a 50/50 split between me and him
>>221628282Often. But should I feel worthy of it? I think that's a bigger question. Women pamper Chad as he was morally above anyone, and I experienced it first-hand.
Define "show interest". If they don't say it, what do they do when they are interested?
>>221628365You have to be triple retarded not to notice when women show genuine interest.
>>221628365>They stare really hard>Act really friendly or cold towards you, no inbetween>Blush>They nerveously hide themselves if they feel ugly and you're around>There's a spark in their eyes when you look at themThat's what I know of.
>>221628388Is that all you have to say? No actual information only "you just somehow know bro" ??
>>221628282I don't talk to people male or female
>>221628403This happens to me, I wont say it happens every day but relatively often. I'm too depressed to even care, I literally feel nothing
>>221628403Every time this happens to me it turns out they are not interested
>>221628450Nah, they probably were interested and then the guy opens his mouth or says something that gives them the ick and its over.
>>221628445We're kinda on the same boat. But for me is because I'm a complete bore of a person, who doesn't enjoy anything. I don't want to hurt them, even if I kinda innocent myself.>>221628450I guess the spark thing is the most decieving. You could just have astigmatism, like me. But I haven't failed in my guesses to this day.
>>221628414If you don't know then no women like you, it's that simple
>>221628282Many times, I always fumble because I am autistic. KV
>>221628282i dont know because i dont acknowledge women at all.
>>221628513Wait, were you talking literally about a spark in the eyes like some anime shit? How does that work. I thought you meant looking back with enthusiasm
>>221628562They literally got a spark in their eyes. Like in your animes.
>>221628545I don't think that's true, sometimes they express appreciation but always in a way that could be excused as something else, and then years later you learn from her friends that she really liked you but never spelled it out for you. Now, the ones that don't say anything and just show those "signs" the Peruvian anon is talking about always turn away from me or get offended for something that I did and I have no clue what was
>>221628450They're playing hard to get and want you to press harder. Everything is a stupid mind game with foids
>>221628656Everyone has that, it's just a matter of lighting and camera position. If you dont have that you have dry eyes
>>221628282They used to, but now I just work and go back home, and I don’t do much with my life.
tbf the only girl i ever chased ended up being the only gf i ever had, maybe im not as ugly as i like to believe
>>221628450>>221628743Same, lol
>>221628762Not really, you can literally see a spark in their eyes when they like you. It's because of their dilated pupils reflecting more light. They also treat you in a special way like for example. When a really shy girl, becomes talkative and outgoing. Or when an extrovert girl becomes shy and really submissive.
>>221628752Yeah so that's never working out for me. I'm too dumb and too used to screw things up to trust myself with those puzzles. I aint no detective. How hard is it to say "I'm bored today and you look decent, lets fuck?" Society would improve 1000 fold if people made life easier like this
>>221628282Fairly often despite the fact I dont go out much, most girls arent very bold but the ones that are very direct tend to come onto me pretty hard
>>221628743I can tell a woman likes me even if they never talk to me while ur autistic ass is beyond clueless and pathetic if women actually talk to you.
>>221628282i mean kind of sometimes yeah, but the red flags are too obvious so i back of the moment i see some sort of situation ship formingalso are we talking genuine interest or sexual interest?
>>221628815not genuine if there's no sexual interest
>>221628800>How hard is it to say "I'm bored today and you look decent, lets fuck?"There are girls like that but theyre usually crazy, women get off on being pursued and feeling special and they're a lot more involved in the fantasy aspect of sex and romance than the actual physical act of sex which is why most of their porn is all fanfics and romance novels. Women benefit from learning how to he direct with men about wanting sex, men benefit from learning social cues and knowing how to indulge women's fantasies. Jung spoke of this
>>221628800It's a part of protecting themselves and not having their pride hurt in some way. In my experience they don't play games like the other anon said, that's a meme. You barely have to put any effort if they like you.
>>221628802Ever considered that maybe you see what you want to see? Like wishful thinking
>>221628832i mean its a conservative country so sex comes alot later especially if you are a teenwell now that i am an adult , i wonder how things will go
>>221628856All women I ever "cold approached" went on 1+ dates with me.
>>221628867sex starts with eye contact lil bro
>>221628856Women also experience wishful thinking and they tend to do it far more than men which is why women go fanatically crazy about celebrities at a much higher rate than men do. Part of the fun of romance is pursuing thay wishful thinking and seeing where it goes, sometimes approaching that shy girl who you keep catching staring at you nets a girlfriend, sometimes its temporary embarrassment
>>221628365if you have to ask then they don't.>>221628743stop coping, it's unsightly.
>>221628893Some people second guess themselves you don't know what he looks like
>>221628848Women only need one pair of balls in a relationship and they aren't found between her legs, that's probably why you won't meet a direct woman that can casually approach a guy and tell him she likes him that's not hormonally deficient and brain damaged in some way.
>>221628856I'm on this one with Lithuanian anon. You know when they like you, you literally can feel it. And I didn't have dates like him, but my stacy cousin and niece have told me how their friends talk about me and so on, when I barely know them. My mom also gets a lot of questions from girls of my neighbourhood about me. Sorry for the humble brag, but it's that way bro.
>>221628923I went on less than 10 dates in my life and only had 2 gfs btw.
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>>221628923>My mom also gets a lot of questions from girls of my neighbourhood about me.Such things would never happen in AmericaOn sexual matters Latin Americana don't suffer
>>221628921You're right. I unironically got this teenage girl that I teached math a year ago, almost coming to my room, just so she can talk to me. She keeps making indecent proposals, but not directly to me, but to my mom. She acts shy as hell, when she's around me. She looks tomboyish as you can guess.
>>221628796>They also treat you in a special way like for example. When a really shy girl, becomes talkative and outgoing. Or when an extrovert girl becomes shy and really submissive.I'm not kidding, every time stuff like this happens to me these are the only possible options:>I end up learning that they have psychiatric problems that could justify these behaviors>they are dating someone else or are lesbian>both thingsThe third option is surprisingly frequent.
>>221629011>psychiatric problemsnot real, unless you believe that being Godless is a mental illness
>>221628879>sometimes approaching that shy girl who you keep catching staring at you nets a girlfriend, sometimes its temporary embarrassmentMore like yet another permanent embarassment for the my personal record
>>221629011If it's like that. I knew a guy like you. He wasn't ugly or attractive, average height and kinda balding, but he gave me the vibe women saw him as a punching bag, someone they could play and make suffer, like terminally online people views lolcows.
>>221629053It's not like they are being mean to me. My life is just like that and I'm used to it
>>221629044>one human with a different genital not being deeply in love with me is worth keeping in my head
>>221629053a woman can only play you once, you are retarded if you don't learn and no shit, mental retardation shines brightly like the sun at noon in perfectly clear sky
>>221629088Yeah. I guess they see you like that, this guy that I told you, he was on the spectrum for sure, he was really innocent, but liked to complain a lot and barely showed any emotion. Some women like to hurt these kind of people for sure, they seem to project their bitterness on them, knowing they won't do crap.
>>221629117Yeah he needed to get a lot of social explanations about a lot of things, one day I spent like 2 hours explaining why this girl was playing on some guy and he seemed to Hardy understand.
>>221629094I never wanted anyone being deeply in love with me. And by now I'm almost not caring about always embarassing myself at every possible situation, but I'm still not at this level of desensibilization just yet
>>221628282They start showing interest when I talk about my feelings. They stop showing interest when I start sobbing in front of them
>>221629007Don't do it, anon...
>>221629162so can you stop mentioning things you don't care about especially when nobody asked?>>221629125complaining is a subvaginal trait, no wonder women like torturing him
>>221629007What happened with her?
>>221629216>I'm almost not caring>but I'm still not at this level of desensibilization just yet
>>221628282lol
>>221629196I am not doing crap, bro. My heart knows that something like that rarely brings something good, especially for her. I also barely talk to her. This is what I foolishly think, if she keeps her feelings the same way until she graduates from highschool, I'd date her for sure. Also her granny and mom literally told me that "It was good that she fell in love with someone like you" so they don't mind lol.
>>221628282theres this chick I thought showed interest; caught her looking at me.I looked back, she looked away.I hate women.
>>221628282Practically never.
>>221629217She asks for me from time to time, and that I should be more confident and go out more. Last time she wanted me to join some sport course that she was doing at my neighbourhood park.
>>221628282Never, unless im dating them already. It's sad when im not in relationship but now that im in relationship it's just good so i dont need to say no to them and hurt their feelings
What does it mean when women say you look cute or that you would look VERY attractive if you did [x] with your appearance but those women are your friends and they know you know they are dating someone else?
Why do these threads always attract the weirdest autists
>>221628903if you second guess yourself it's because you're ugly. I am tired of this retarded>I am special unlike those other losers I am handsome and could totally slay if I just did X bsthere are two options. either>you're fakecel and complaining despite getting laidor>you're actually incel and actually uglythere are NO handsome incels. period. the whole point of the incel concept is that your choices don't matter
>>221629376women tell their fat ugly friends that they're actually beautiful too. stop paying attention to what they say. it costs them nothing to glaze you.
>>221628365For me they just find any opportunity to be around me>park next to me>take detours to talk to me>offer to buy me food or drinks or make me a home cooked meal out of nowhere >ask me to follow them to help them somewhere secluded (dangerous, one of them asked me out after tricking me into following her)>take up any excuse to do things togetherimc o algo
>>221629444where are you finding these women who act like this?
>>221629451in any country if you are attractive.
>>221629444Also when they see you talking to other cute women in front of them women do this thing where you can tell they are mad as fuck and checking the other woman out almost as if the other woman is stepping in on her territory then checking to see how interested you are in herIts tiresome despite it only happening a handful of times. I wish I could be not lonely but also not deal with women
>>221629216I don't think he deserves it. He gave me the impression that he was raised like an orphan, no dad or mom in his life, I knew for sure his family treated him bad. But after I ghost him (he was getting really annoying) I realized how much of an abused dog he was. If I was in his shoes, I don't think I could've endure it.
>>221629451tafe, volunteering, work
>>221629424>your choices don't matterIf you think you're ugly you can get plastic surgery, no?
>>221629475>tafewhat courses? languages?>volunteeringfor what?
>>221629486the ones that young women join or donote that i picked those things to unfuck my life at that time, not for vagina
>>221629512>the ones that young women join or dosuch as? fuck if I would know>note that i picked those things to unfuck my life at that time, not for vaginaI can see how learning a skill would help your life, but how did volunteering help?
>>221629464I didn't have a family either, didn't stop me.
>>221629530>stop me rotting away at home>practice social skills>learn stuff>meet people
>>221629530>How would going outside and doing activities helpBeyond parody
>>221628282No idea. Don't care about those demons, their filthy lust towards me means nothing. Those are not humans with hearts and souls.TWD.
>>221630588what being raped by a russian does to a nigga
>>221628282they think im a loser and they are right
>>221628282Women?
