How to get Japanese gf as a euro white boy, who doesn't at all speak the language?
you will get a gaijin hunter milf who somewhat speaks engurishu
search about women who learning German. I never meet any before, but there is some I think.
If you're 180cm+, older than 30 and willing to date a 30yo girl then it's baby mode. Go to Japan and talk to a few girls in english. A friend was in Tokyo for 2 weeks and saw a few concerts, he talked to a random girl there and they're now married.Now that their country is in fast decline they're like any other Asians and marrying some white dude from a rich euro country is the dream. I said 30yo because it's when jap dudes think they're useless so they are extremely desperate.
>doesn't at all speak the languageyeah it shows
>>221632930konichwa dude they are all tight asf anyway
>>221632789move there and learn their language and stay away from poojeets and k*rds
>>221632789gaijin bar with gaijin hunters
>>221633994Thx Pvt Gómez
>>221633994tsmt
>>221633994>gaijin huntersThose died out like 10 years ago>gaijin barIf OP wants to compete with Chad's from the US and Europe, this is a bad idea. Not many women there anyway. Best thing I did was hop into a random bar. Talk to the bar keep in broken japanese. People around you will notice you speak a bit and ask you stuff, if they are social and drunk enough. If you are a hansamu gaikokujin women will talk to you too.
>>221632855Hot, where do I apply?>>221632789Isn't that Gorean style chopsticks?
Couldn't you just set Tinder location to Tokyo and start from there. That is if you are serious and this is not just daydreaming.
>>221632855>a gaijin hunter milf
>take a picture of your BWC>print it and show it to her and point at your cock at the same timeAlways work
>>221632855I wish I was white...
>>221632789That woman isn't Japanese btw. She's from a Malayasian pop group called KLP48, her name is Hilary Riri.
>>221634507oh riri?
I fucked 6 girls in Tokyo and 2 in Osaka. You have to be an athletic tall guy with good fashion and then just go to nightclubs and if a girl likes you, just grab her and kiss her
>>221635273Liar
>>221632789Don't have such a dream, and get a Muslim gf in Germany.
>>221634027Haha what if they gave me too much to drink and I passed out
>>221634080Do strangers genuinely talk in a bar like this even to foreigners? Sounds fun but I can't help but wonder what they'd want to say. That happens here in America, but way less commonly than you think.
>>221634027This reminds me of those oni masks that depict conflicting emotions, in this case its pitying sadness combined with humor.
>talk to Japanese women on Interpals and Lang-8>actually attempt to learn some Japanese>mention you're visiting Japan when you sort of know each other>visit one
>>221632930>>221633024Geg.
>>221632789Be good looking. Knowing the language has little to no effect.
I only know a little bit of 告白 culture, does anyone have good resources for understanding more about Japanese romance and dating customs?
>>221634080>gaijin hunters>Those died out like 10 years agoif her bf or husband is a non asian foreigner, then she is a gaijin hunter
>>221632789First of all the girl in the pic is Korean.And secondly, if you really want it to be a permanent relationship and not just fuck some slut once, you'll have to learn the language, customs, and culture and live in Japan. You'll study your whole life and will still (secretly) forever be considered a gaijin so good luck. If you're not ready to do that, stop reading here and give up.If you're ready to do that, then you'll have to be aware what's expected of you as a husband in Japan. There was never a feminist movement in Japan, which means they still expect people to have a very traditional family. Women WILL want to have children. You, as the husband, are expected to be the "breadwinner" and provide for your family. You will need to work - a lot. You might even not see your family much because of how much you have to work. This is normal in Japan.So it all depends on if it's just a fetish of yours or if it's a dream that you're willing to change your entire life for.
>>221641837>you'll have to learn the language, customs, and culture and live in JapanI'm working on the language, I'd like some resources on the other two if you or anyone has any reliable reads, especially getting me acclimated more with keigo.
>>221641837The girl in the pic is from Hong Kong and she's part of a SEA idol group.
>>221641837This was true maybe 50 years ago when arranged marriage was still common. They have the same rate of divorce as western countries and the average age of marriage is 30 years old for women with in general a lower rate of marriage than western countries. You don't need feminism for women to lose interest in marriage especially since it was only really sustained via arrangement. There's like no single income households anymore since women can work in Japan, contract labor is becoming more common, and wages are low in general. I'm not even sure if they still do the human ATM meme anymore where they control the husband's finances and give him allowances.
>>221632789there's only 3 things you need to get a Japanese gf1. Speak Japanese 2. Have money3. Be able to live in Jpan long termAs long as you have those 3 you don't even need to put any effort because in any decent Japanese bar/club the staff will bring any girl you want to your table as long as you pay for drinks>be tall and handsome broignore any of these posts, legit 70 iq, handsome only helps for one night stands and tall i mean you have to be a legit hobbit to not be tall in Japan
>>221641837>Women WILL want to have children.baka-kun have you seen their birth rate?
>>221642532If you get married, you're expected to have kids. if you have kids, the woman's career is basically over, even after raising the kids it's a bitch to get back into work.
Are there any tall women in Japan?
>>221642844depends what you consider tall on a woman
>>221642844they existohtani's wife is a 180cm tall stacy for ex, but of course they're the exception not the rule
>>221642172I don't have a specific resource unfortunately, I can just recommend reading about things like history and religion to understand Japanese culture and social norms better. A lot of Japanese customs and sensibilities are rooted in those two things. Take the concept of wabi-sabi for example. It's originally a Buddhist teaching (or a derivative thereof), but it permeates aesthetic sensibilities everywhere, even every day stuff like interior design. I think knowing stuff like that is key to understand Japanese culture.>>221642226I see. Guess I jumped to conclusions, but the picture was definitely taken in Korea at least.>>221642403>>221642532I mean just cause a culture has certain expectations of people doesn't mean that they will always meet those expectations, especially in the age of globalism. Japan is still awkwardly wedged between traditional Eastern culture and modern Western culture - you could say it's been like that since the Meiji era I guess. But now it's like you said, the traditional family setup doesn't really work anymore, but people still try and fail sometimes. Women can work now, but it's still difficult for them because CEO-san doesn't take them seriously, and men doing housework is still considered a very strange concept. Perhaps it's a sort of transitional era, but they're definitely still clinging to traditional values.I guess you could be super lucky and meet a Japanese women who wants a Western husband to reject the expectations that Japanese society upholds, but that would be stepping out of line which isn't really tolerated.
>>221634329thiswomen see the extra, and unnecessary, time you spent printing out a picture of your cock, instead of just whipping it out in front of them, and will rightly conclude you're a high value man who puts in effort
>>221642869>>221642945Idk, around 170 and taller
>>221641837>>221642949People going too deep into jap culture and caring about fitting in like they were natives are miserable.Being chill, assertive, knowing the language and having enough money will make you more appreciated and welcomed than most natives.I know people who spent decades in the country and still complain about how hard it is to make friends and be accepted, meanwhile I made dozens of friends and a long term gf in a year there, just admitting I'm a fucking white boi with my own culture and personality. I've had japs asking me how to get a jap gf lmao. Even as an outsider that'll never be accepted I still have a better access than them to their own country because I know the language and am not scared to do what I want unlike most of them who are scared to live their lives.And what you say is applicable to any country. We all have very specific cultures with their codes, and anyone not from here is an outsider. Actually if you come from a canton that's 50km away from mine I'll treat you as a foreigner because of your cringe accent.
>>221643926turbo truke
>>221642949>>221643926And you're actually right about what you said I didn't want to be rude or dismiss you. But that's shit you can easily ignore. You will be accepted by everyone around you if they like you, jap or not.Japanese girls who are ok to date/marry a foreigner are already dismissing tradition anyway, be nice to their family and you'll be one of them as much as Takeshi could be.
>>221643926>>221644098Yeah, that's kinda what I meant, if you really want to assimilate you can kinda manage, but you'll have to work really hard and probably won't even end up happy, and you'll forever be considered a foreigner either way. Which doesn't have to be a problem if you ignore it, but it bothers some people who really value acceptance and stuff. It's not like everyone will hate you, Japanese people are way too respectful and polite to be actually rude in the vast majority of cases. It's something they would probably only think or talk about to their spouse but never speak out loud in front of you or most people.It's hard to generalise anything, you have hardcore/extremist nationalists in Japan, but you also have people who are way more open to the concept of accepting Westerners and enjoy Western culture. Most people are somewhere in the middle. You can get lucky, but you can't count on it.
>>221643744170+ barefoot is rare but not unicorn level, you can findhttps://youtu.be/OoQBk6dsihI
>>221644577NTA, I do not disagree with anything you say, but with those birthrates beggars cannot be choosers. I myself don't have a mission to bring sexual liberation to Japan, but at this rate something along that and "children out of wedlock" might need to change if they hope to keep up with other nations in upping birthrates.
>>221644712Ok, so decided, now I only have to learn the language, get a job and earn good money to find a tall not-whorish at least 7/10 Japanese wife
>>221645233There's definitely something to be said about that, but it's definitely not a free for all. The low birthrates are not exactly cause women are lacking men, it's more complex than that.
>>221632789Buy or rent?
>>221646026As far as I know, >>221642692 is a big reason on top of the financial burden having a family entails, assuming you're also overlooking the non-negligable oddity that such a dynamic is to the Japanese. What other reasons also factor into the equasion?
