ive been really tempted to look for hookups since ive been very lonely recently but am unsure if its worth it or not.my main issue is that its probably gonna make my already weird attitude to sex worse. my ex bf was sexually abusive and im scared im gonna run into someone like himim also scared of being hatecrimed, but since i live in a pretty progressive country (australia) i dont think thats going to be much of an issuedo i look for hookups or not? does anyone have any tips or advice?
>>42140092As someone who has been in a similar situation, you really shouldn’t seek out hookups as a substitute for loneliness. If you’re horny, don’t wanna masturbate, and are ok with being emotionally detached, have a hookup like once or twice a month — preferably with someone who you might already know. But as someone who was sexually abused by an ex and went on a spree of hookups (like 12 a month for 3-5 months) after breaking up with him, I can only say that I wished I treated myself kindly and stood up for myself. You need to do the same otherwise you’ll feel terrible. Be safe out there <3
>>42140638how are you going to remain emotionally detached if you're having sex regularly with one of your friends?like you already have an emotional connection if you're good enough friends to do this with and then if you have sex all the time it'll just get stronger
>>42140092I do hookups but that's mainly because I have an avoidant attachment style from all the humiliation and failure I endured in my formative years, it's great because it lets me get my rocks off without having to date and hurt people, as long as you can keep feelings out of it and keep it casual, it's good.
>>42141643like how you don't fall in love with a prostitute/stripper basically.you can enjoy it, just don't expect anything extra from it.
>>42141994yeah but a stripper is not the same as a close friend who you would feel an attachment to even without the sex
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>detrans>family can't stop talking about it for days after the Christmas party>brought up old pictures of me while pooned out
>>42141550>Mtf >I like the way trans men and proto-trans men thinkDoubt
>>42141550>and proto-trans men
>>42116992reminder that it is better to live as ur born gender than to transition.
being a tranny is not worth it because of the power it gives other people over you. you become so easy to attack and every single retard out there uses you as an opportunity to argue about gender shit, your identity becomes a privilege rather than a given. when i went by male pronouns ive met so many people who at first were accepting of me and gendered me the way i wanted them to, but the second i did something 'bad' or something they disliked all of their support went out of the window. i know that its retarded and pointless to care about shit like that, but when people do that theyre not just 'using the wrong pronouns' theyre taking away a part of your humanity which to a normal person who never had their identity challenged in such a way sounds stupid but if you experienced it you know what im talking about. cis people dont actually see trannies as their preferred gender theyre merely humoring the charade and when you stop sucking their cock they see no reason to continue validating your delusions. being trans is too much vulnerability, i dont want to have a part of my very being to constantly be held over my head. i dont believe that a non-dysphoric person can be truly supportive of trannies unless theyre a gullible retard or a bizzare subset of a schizoteric conservative who thinks that lesbians have 'male souls'. try asking any "trans ally" why they support trannies and at best their response will be "well i just think that people should be allowed to do what they want!" THEYRE HUMORING YOU, no matter how many times they parrot "trans women are women!" or "trans men are men!" they dont actually believe what theyre saying. if ritualized sacrifice became socially acceptable tomorrow theyd 'support' it in the same blind, shallow manner.
Just so you know, there are a lot of cis f chasers in korea, japan, and china
>>42137772it's quicker to say than 'birth certificate F'i think it's an issue if your beliefs cause a visceral response to technical terms i think it's mental illness to apply sociology to biological matters
>>42141305>>42141309¿ I'm sorry but troons are treated much worse than both cis men and women?
>>42141412If mtfs are treated so much worse, why are they, as whole ass men allowed to enter female only spaces and claim them as their own?Why are they allowed to compete in women’s sports against women who are, on average, physically weaker and shorter?Why was that Dylan troon awarded “woman of the year” despite not being female?Why are menstrual products advertised using men who have never had female bodies or female lived experiences?Why do trans rights activists focus almost exclusively on mtfs?This looks less like oppression and more like yet another system designed to include men in everything and prioritize their comfort and safety.If you're so afraid of "oppression" and "transmisogyny", then sir, you can trim your ramen hair, stop watching porn and stop pretending to be a woman any day. Meanwhile women can't stop being females. And women who try, get mocked by mtfs and rest of the moids.
>>42142592the answer to all of these is people like you unable or unwilling to tell the difference between a man and a transwomanyou created an environment where every man wearing a dress is the social equivalent of a transwoman, now behold as a subtype of men take advantage by appropriating the labelthat last line hits hard, i mean a lot of the anti trans crowd is probably thinking it but most don't say it so clearly pretend to be a man or you are pretending to be a womanthe likes of mulvaney are on you and yours, own it, you lumped them in with us, you gave them social cover for their fetishes
>>42134255Getting the language wrong on purpose is so annoying. My dad introduced me as male at a Christmas party so when we were leaving this guy like dapped me up and said "I support you man". Using trans women to refer to ftms is retarded.
Thoughts on AFABs?
>>42141582as a theymab im partially convinced that 90% of theyfabs are larping as nb and theymabs are truly nb because we are a lot less "quirked up"
>>42141651>>42141582of fucking course this person refers to herself as an "afab". she's doing the exact same thing to trans people that she did to autistic people. 1000% guarantee she's literally a cis straight neurotypical white LIBERAL american woman who's never wanted in her entire life not even for a single moment. so she has to co-opt the labels of oppressed peoples because she just can't even begin to handle the idea that she is not the most sympathized with person on the face of the earth. her tiny pea-sized brain just shatters under the weight of her unfathomable privilege
>>42141651the sad part of things like this is that there is now a growing body of research on social media expressions of mental illness and neurological disorders, and it's not so kindit could also result in worsening of care and support for those that might need it
>>42141582RAAAAAAAAAAPE! MUST RAPE!
>>42141582would rape. Maybe even several times.
>me deep in manmode telling the nurse doing my EKG that my tanner 4 gynecomastia just somehow happened and I'm not injecting estrogen
>>42140328it's none of their business
>>42140328I would prefer to not die of the tranny broken arm syndrome. I was refused further diagnostics until I stop DIY HRT one time and I am never repeating that again.There isn't an infinite supply of pro troon doctors available everywhere around the world.
>>42140328thats retarded. cissies are deranged and will deny treatment over seemingly banal reasons like HRT.
They might, or you might end up dead from your own stupidity because you cause a misdiagnosis.Not that it really matters, you're living your life afraid or angry. Sucks to be you anyway.Word of advice though, imperfect allies are better than nothing.
>>42140430You know they do that with everything right? If you're doing DIY heart treatment, they'll make you stop before they'll diagnose or take over treatment.
Is it true that if you keep a man's belly full and his balls empty that he will never leave you?
>>42142402Killing communists is an absolute necessity for the moral progress of civilization.More lgbt people were killed and persecuted by commies than by any other type of regime combined.Gay commies should be institutionalized right alongside the rest of commies. Maybe gay commies shouldn't be thrown off of helicopters on account to the fact that they're too retarded to understand what's wrong with them.
>>42142417I don't argue if I don't need to.17 years on HRT makes my instincts barely distinguishable from a cis woman. It's easy to be a cunt. It's hard to let it go.That doesn't man I don't stand up for myself. But it does mean that not everything i view as "wrong" necessarily needs to be argued.Does it really matter that he didn't perfectly put the laundry where he should've? Does it really matter I was right and he was wrong about the exact year of an event during a meaningless conversation? Especially in public?It's a lot of small things, rather than some big evident things.In public, I don't suggest or advise him stuff. If I want something known to him, I wait until we're at home. It's better for him and me that in public he's seen as the leader.I defer to his wisdom on matters that are not specifically about my long-term competence.I know more about cybersecurity than he will know in 5 lifetimes. But do I really know more about some nebulous social setting? Not really. So I'll gladly go with his idea(s) without much of a fuss.Again, it's the little things. I always surprise him with a kiss when he expects the least.When he's in his workshop, I fetch something small and tasty for him. Especially if I know he's having someone over for some work.I always make sure to leave him space for himself. This one admittedly is easy for me because I also need space for myself.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42142120no he'll still leave you if he senses even the slightest chance of an "upgrade"
>>42142155men can also cook for their girlfriends and keep them sexually satisfied lol. so who's reinforcing gender roles now you drooling retard. keep being a miserable cunt who can't stand the idea of men being shown love by their partners, but tell it to your 15 cats next time.
>>42142535Only women do that. Men don't look for 'upgrades' like they do, they look for "well my girlfriend/wife isn't letting me fuck so I'll fuck anything else that comes my way".
Do trans men like repper trans women that are total dorks, have few female traits (such as baby face) ((although overall masculine)) and are a bit clingy ?
>>42141657Hell no
>>42142117Okay I'm going to kill myself rn
Take your pills alice
straight women are stealing all the homocurious guys in 2025this is war, fags
I'm a grown ass man and thinking about asking out a trans woman has me overthinking and anxious the way that asking out a girl did when I was 13.It is for this reason that I continue to date cis women and don't talk to trannies irl.
Germany is so progressive that they will stop hondosing trannies next year! No more hrt for you! Every German tranny will be forced to diy or become an ugly German man.
>>42141327I'm sorry, I thought you were a liberal.
>>42141067pure cringe. We always existed and always will, you furthest way form normal. You should be forcibly transitioned to gain empathy for us as the thing you value about yourself taking away from you. Psychopath like you need to go through empathy training to learn the value of human life. We have done nothing but exist you are the root problem and your obsession to oppress is rooted from your own insecurities
>>42141327yes it means you everything you say is a lie and should be ignored
>>42142486>I want to forcibly mutilate your genitals and inject you with hormones, but you are le psycopath!!kill yourself>>42141146>>>reddit
>>42130475>There's a reason g*rmany, no matter what, ends up producing authoritarian collectivism. Lighter or harder, on a spectrum, sure, but authoritarian collectivism nonetheless. This predates the nazis too. It's just how g*rmans work.Ancient Germanic legal systems were very individualist for the time and had some very early parliaments and direct democracies. That's what the Thing was. It's frankly bizarre when anti-fascists try to essentialise/demonise races like this.
I realised I dont even want to troon (I do want to be female), I just want to dieI might be 19 but theres genuinely nothing Im looking forward in life, nobody in my life now to anchor me, nothing going on in my life, and no reason to continue living or even waking up day to dayAnd there is no guarantee trooning will even do anything worthwhile or change my social and economic standing for the betterI just want to roll over and die forever, not even any afterlife or reincarnation, just a permanent blank unaware nothing until the end of timeI cant handle anything anymore and I dont like the idea of living for another 50 or 60 or 70 years considering how shit I am at handling my first 19 Anyone got a method that doesnt involve guns?
>>42142024Yeah old age. I've been wanting to die since 10ish, almost 40 now. Get on the right meds and get Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Do something with your life. Try anything. Join the fucking circus. Anything. Eventually you find something that brings you joy. maybe meet someone while doing that. It gets better but you have to actually try. Otherwise, naw, jump off a bridge with a pretty view like every other loser. Go down a coward. Go ahead. No one misses losers. They just hate you for making everyone else take up your slack. You'll be hated more in death than life
>>42142180>Join our death cult PLEASE! I swear it'll fix all your problems
>>42142131similar story for me. there wont be one day where everything suddenly gets better, it'll take a long time year by year. one day we'll look back and say things did get better
>>42142024I feel the exact same, and that's actually most like the only reason why I even have troon thoughts in the first place
Sex and money solve many problems
How can you tell I'm a woman?
>>42142310The vagina duh
>>42142310The attention whoring
>>42142310The vagina and because your psychology reflects the social conditioning/privileges/pitfalls AFABs get which they never seem to shift. Even if they look like that Buck chick, they still talk and act like a woman.Even if MTFs don't hit the uncanny valley that gives away they were formerly of the dude, they still act differently, cause they don't have the conditioning.
Tea edition>QOTT What tea are you drinking tonight?>QOTT2 What is your favorite tea?>QOTT3: If you're a coffeefag or energydrinkfag, why?Last thread: >>42066735
>>42142633Ive been clocked before and they just told me to take e to which i politely declined.
>>42142528for fun and to combat dooming obvalso i'm on pto
>>42142714pto?
>>42142771paid time offchrimmis vacation
>>42142354>Good luck bro. I hope it all works out for you.Not even on anon board I can get called nona :((It's over.On a more serious note: It will work out. I want to live. And I'm quite functional in other respects. And very patient as a personality. So I can't easily be let down.9 more days of repping...
If you need filters and makeup and certain angles with chokers and tuck jobs, you don't actually pass. So what's the point?
>>42142508Mine are internal but do go off.
>>42142374you really think the girl on the right isnt edited?
>>42142374passing is not that complicated and u still pass if u need those things or if u only pass from one angle, then for that angle u pass
>>42142595She's just short
>>42142601Just move through the world as a2D projection of yourself from a specific angle, duh
Are there transgirls that want to do this? stuff their face with ultra-processed junk food while zoning out on mindless video games like overwatch or league of legends?
>>42139520>I hate slop games>Minecraft
>>42136394
>>42139520>minecraft isn't slopi hate you so much
>>42136394She's getting a bit too big but that's still really hot>>42136447Upgrades
>>42142556no such thing as too big
why are ftms so cool and awesome
>>42140094What do you see in them
>>42140104coolness and awesomeness
They're okay. Depends on how fem brained they are. If they actually have the self awareness to recognize they are being a trifling ho when they're supposed to be a chill dude, and so try to correct...they're okay. The ones that are basically women that have uglified themselves or by some miracle actually cause a spit take because they pass physically, are just as annoying as dudes who are whiny pussy bitches, and should just go back to being holes because at least they have some use. Whiny pussy bitch dudes have no use. AMAB or otherwise>Bonus roundI feel bad for the MTF though. You guys have to be convincingly fem, which means all the annoying parts too. I think my favorite MTF I ever met, physically passed but emotionally would still shotgun a beer with the bros.Cool chick.
