How can I know whether my hatred of my birth sex is actually gender dysphoria, and not me being an ungrateful idiot?
>>42161252It's really difficult to believe that no cis person would really ever open this can of worms. If that were the case it should be very easy to determine whether one is really dysphoric or not, and there would be no point in ever doubting the conclusion
>>42161504Is it really that unlikely to be anything but gender dysphoria?
>>42152604>dysphoria isn't real, only euphoria is!most reddithon take i've ever heard.
>>42161945Just hop on hrt and you'll quickly see whether it really is dysphoria
>>42155973sure, hence the caveat "what comes with it".you can argue what that is, but it's clear that having a working dick or a glorious beard are not everything that being a man entails>>42161945it's not, especially considering we have no idea if the reasons i listed earlier have anything to do with your personal experience. that person is just a psychopathic weirdo.
this is not the place to ask such a question, but i feel like stopping hrt because of my brother's suicide and because i'm not really happy with how things are going. my brother was just a freshman kid in uni when he killed himself with a shotgun. he was both academically gifted and worked very hard (had a ridiculous amount of money which we found afterwards).i was sort of banking on him being the smart sibling in the family and then i could just sorta be a gay brother/sister/whatever and do whatever i wanted. but now, i feel compelled to take his "place" after what has happened and that taking estrogen isn't serious enough for that goal. i feel i should just stop because it's likely to interfere with what i'll be able to really accomplish later on in life.feels like taking e is a joke, basically.
>>42162396>the son who didn't troon out offed himselfwhat a twiste!
>>42162396There's a common throughline to many detransition(or repression) brainworms i notice and it's this:A link is created (asserted) between two completely unrelated concepts in an if A then B chain of reasoning. The "reasoning" used to support this is usually an unquestioned stereotype anti LGBT bias, most commonly the idea that people "choose" to be transgender arbitrarily.Example: "i don't have the same politics as other trans people, i just don't think like they do, therefore I can't be trans." (Assumes all trans people share political views)Another (more common) one: my interests/ sexuality are male, I have a male brain (or a fetish) therefore I can't be trans. (Assumes that interests have genders, that one cannot be a woman and also have a fetish, etc.)So, OP, I am sure others will point out the more obvious issues with the idea of detransitioning to replace your brother out of family loyalty, (it's not possible to do that) but what I want to point out is that your thinking itself reflects stereotypes and biases against women, trans women, homosexuals, and feminine individuals. (that they're not serious, competetive, etc.) Now, in fact, the idea that you will punish yourself due to your guilt over your brother's death is a fantasy (practically speaking you wouldn't last your entire lifetime in the mindset you're in right now), but the emotional trauma of your brothers death is forcing you to clearly see your own shortcomings, limitations, mortality. These are things we all have that can't be wished or "detransitioned" away. Men of course have emotional vulnerability and weakness too, much as they are pressured not to show it.Anyway, sorry for your loss OP. Focus on grieving for your brother in a way that isn't self destructive.
>>42162628>e seems to interfere with how much i care about status or winningthis is super stupid and a placebo, but you already have male brain architecture so if you really want to believe in this argument its still very weakmoreso you are likely just good at turning suffering into suicidal ambition and being dysphoric served as a fire under your ass and you consciously or subconsciously wanted to compensate. i assure you you will achieve much more if you let yourself be the workaholic estrogenated demon bitch you are meant to be instead of a repper who studies and works a lot. you can learn to use more positive emotions as fuel, you already are the kind of person who is hardworking, you're just fixated on very poor incentives. if you were a lazy bum cis girl shooting test would not make you an ambitious overachieveri hope you learn to view the death of others as a reminder that your time here is short and that you have to make the most of it. no, being happy and less dysphoric will not disrupt your perfect grindset life. nor will detransition lastingly give you a sense of control in the wake of an event like this. be reasonable
>>42162721>>42162809thank you for writing so much it's very, very helpful. thank you
>>42162396taking medicine isnt a joke. i dont think that sentiment really makes sense
I wasted my teen years repping and being a homophobic transphobic asshole, Id never pass as a woman, I am 6'0 (fucking kill me now), if I repress my existence would be empty and depressing but at the least i could get jobs, get along with my family, not worry about being antagonized by random strangers and still be in the same friend group with no problems. Ill just hope i die before im 30 (before 20 if im very lucky) because of my alcoholism
>>42162989hrt rep
bruh just start hrt its not that hard. depending where u live
>>42162989You’re already an alcoholic you can’t go lower than that lol might as well start taking e and manmode being 6 foot doesn’t ruin you as much you think transitioning is really prioritizing yourself over what everybody else thinks so take that as you will
>>42162989repping into cisvana is only possible if you get off of this board and stay away from tranny shit
Alexanna if you’re alive dm me
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>>42162697OP here, my reply was too long so 4chan do not let me add more things.I just want to make clear that my english while speaking isn't that good since I don't speak with anyone frequently in VC since a long time, but maybe in a couple days I will recover fluency with no problems.
>ASL22, m, new jersey USA>letter(s)Bi>interestsI go to see live music every weekend,Into mostly shoegaze and electronic stuff( Goreshit, Tagabow, Sewerslvt, Jane Remover, Alex G, Yakui The Maid, Pilotredsun),Studying philosophy and reading. (fave writers Schopenhauer, Fischer, Osamu Dazai, Steinbeck, Gibson), idc about analytic philosophy lolMovies (Lily Chou Chou, Threads, Zero Day, In This Corner Of The World),Anime (Texhnolyze, NHK, Lain, Haibane Renmei, GLT, Land Of The Lustrous)Video Games ( Rimworld, CK3, Dark Souls 3, Factorio, Xcom2, Metal Gear, Resident Evil), playing through Disillusion ST rnComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>letter(s)CIS M>about31, living in Eastern/Central Europe. Tall, caring, friendly. I am employed, single and live alone. Let me hear about your life, your interests and let's talk every day. >primary interestGaming, literature, art>other interestsLego, working out>looking forLonely MtF who wants to talk daily and form a bond. If you end up being close I'm open for more. Prefer GMT+1 timezone if possible. I can carry a conversation so don't worry.>not looking forMen, anyone under 18. Huge timezone difference.>(free space)I'm online a lot and tend to reply quickly. Haven't had an online friend in a while and I would prefer to focus on one rather than many simultaneously.>contactComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42159413> ASL21/MtF/France> InterestsArt, drawing, writing, storytelling, reading, music, politics, Minecraft, TF2, anime, manga> Looking forEuro peeps, people around my age> Contact4everneet
>letter(s)mtf 24yo bi, eu portugal>primary interestnintendo / pokemon / tf2 / retro gaming, makeup / clothes, cycling, programming / linux stuff (i am on arch btw), bed rotting, trans stuff>looking forfriends and chatting, someone from EU lgbt/tttt community ideally>not looking forrelationships, too much younger than me people or baby trans, weird people. just want some more online / irl friends>contact / tagmayaa.aaa discord
Androphilic trans girls, what is the ideal penis size for a man to have?
>>42160039vouch, im a tranny with 6 inches and i used to lie awake at night feeling miserable because i thought i had a "micropenis"
>>42157197for me? i'd say between 15 and 18cm is ideal for long term relationships
>>42158275That's actually kind of cool, imagine a hollow glowing tube that you could still cum through
>>42158019you're a short fella
>>42157197is 7,5" too big?is it over?
Groomers lost.
>>42162856>Obviously, that's the whole point. Nobody would take hrt if it didn't do anything.YEP! YOU HEARD IT HERE FOLKS! HRT DOES THINGS! THINGS! IT DOES SO MANY THINGS!It does stuff for your hair, stuff for your skin, stuff for your ASS and TITS, does some weird stuff to your balls but you won't be needing those where we're taking you now won't you little Timmy? It can also do stuff to your heart, and to the size of your belly, and to the structural integrity of your bones apparently, and of course it does LOADS OF FASCINATING THINGS to your brain, we've seen a lot of the results of that in this thread haven't we? IT'S TOTALLY CHILD SAFE!Doesn't do anything to chromosomes though.Welp, goodnight. And remember: Anyone could be me. Anyone.
>>42162941>hormone responsible for sexual dimorphism does things to parts of the body impacted by sexual dimorphismShocking, anon, shocking>yeah, we need to have you fertile and ready for breeding little timmy, you have to reproduce and make future workers and its above any other sphere of life you might have, you gotta understand not reproducimg is evil and bad and we need to avoid that outcome that's why well let you get raped by puberty because we need to get your sperm before youre allowed to have any decision over your body- wait, uh, no that sounds bad.. uh le globohomo wants you infertile!! Because uh.. 5 dollar estrogen!!
pooping hurts. I don't like pooping. my body is raping me by making me poop. that is why i poop in my chair. toilets make me dysphoric.
I think when SHTF and trans people are actually locked up in camps it would be really easy to force them to live with you so you can have sex with them. Which is nice. Maybe ill vote Trump a 3rd time.
>>42162941>It does stuff for your hairtrue>stuff for your skintrue>stuff for your ASS and TITStrue>does some weird stuff to your balls but you won't be needing thosetrue, also her name is Tina now and she's taking herself there>It can also do stuff to your hearttrue>to the size of your bellytrue>to the structural integrity of your bones apparentlykind of true, it's only really a risk without the replacement part of HRT. That's one of the reasons why puberty blockers or just AAs alone are unhealthy.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
why does it keep happening?
>>42162855Counter culture and being trans is sadly counter culture now instead of a medical condition
>>42162855Who is this fucking crossie wreck holy shitttttt.
>>42162855people have to use the bathroom. sometimes even daily. it's normal
>>42162855am i meant to know, let alone care, who this is?
>>42162855gender and sex roles are in flux in western society and some people, not having clear non sexual roles within their immediate circles, transition out of a misguided idea of what the other side is like & the sexual satisfaction they get from feeling desirable as that gender, no matter how absurd or off their actual appearance is from that gender. its entirely internal
>what is INTERGEN?INTERGEN is a general for intersex people to talk to each other about their experiences or just to hang out>what is an intersex person?Intersex people are those born with any of several sex characteristics, including chromosome patterns, gonads, or genitals that do not fit typical binary notions of male or female bodies>am I intersex?We are not doctors, please seek medical advice, but dont be afraid to ask questions here to maybe understand things better>are trans people intersex?Trans people are not inherently intersex, however an intersex person can transition if they want, “neurologically intersex” is not real as being intersex pertains to the sex organs or hormonal productions>how is this /lgbt/?We share similar experiences of discrimination and social prejudice based on sex and gender norms, even though intersex is a variation of sex characteristics, not a gender identity or sexual orientation itself—————————Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42106968what do you think of my theory that all homosexuals are neurologically intersex and therefore the LGB should all really be under the same intersex umbrella
>>42158524I think I theme dress too often at times, I’m embracing a rabbit arc>>42158552Terriblt
>>42158552I think your theory is approximately as interesting as a hemorrhoid. It has all the personality of a tall glass of Metamucil. It stands on even less evidence than the intersex theory of transsexuality and makes only slightly more sense than claiming a pee fetish is an intersex condition. It is as inevitable as it is boring that someone will come here to make this claim. Slightly less inspired than a particularly juicy fart, and somehow more embarrassing. Everyone here is dumber for having read it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul.
>>42162363>. It stands on even less evidence than the intersex theory of transsexuality and makes only slightly more sense than claiming a pee fetish is an intersex condition.my dude/dudettehomosexuality is quite literally intersex behavior and neurologywe can make homosexuals by manipulating the hormone environment in the wombit's inevitable that a more scientifically grounded theory will recognise the true intersex nature of homosexuality at some point
>>42162453Your ideas and theories are bad and you should feel bad
I feel like writing a lil short story. I want it to be fun. Im thinking hmmmmm.. a transbian human and a transbian robot (that looks human) i think it could capture the current zeitgeist hmmm obviously the robot has to be the dom. Hmmm..... i want it to be ontologically a terrible and terrifying read despite how short it is..
>>42158002which do you self insert?
>>42158002this nigga fell in love with ChatGPT, yall
>>42161579In this story i make the exception if inserting as the sub, but overral im not really self inserting per say since im more of a dom hehe. In a story like this im rrally self inserting in multiple characters to get a feel for their souls and so they write themselves
>>42158225Kind of unrelated but I’m glad I clicked on this thread because it made me remember how I used to be obsessed with Yuko because of her being the same exact height as me
>>42162106Hhow tall r u? ..Whatever it is just know my astral height is taller!!
Homura editionPrevious: >>41924395>QotTWho's your waifu/husbando?Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2FFAQ:>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.>Do you have presents ready for me Santa?Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42162044What specifically was he bad at?
>>42162184His cock goes limp and he's a lazy fuck who complains about having to use his finger/tongue
>>42162274nta but wtf i'm sorry nona that sounds terrible. i can sympathize with ed stuff but not wanting to put in any effort with oral or anything else is wack.
>>42162284
>>42162274Sorry to hear that. Set aside the ED issue, there’s really no excuse for being a lazy lover, in my book. As with most things in life: you get out what you’re willing to put in. Goes for both partners though. >complains about having to use finger or tongueCould be that he feels inadequate for having to resort to this to satisfy you? Might be worth doing some work on that. As for ED, might be head issues but also might just be fitness. If the latter, put him on a cardio regime. It’ll be good for him.
what do i do at this point its horrible. won't be able to get on t for years still
>>42162895i know
>>42162868Oder t online, take blood tests from private clinic, profit. Do voice training to cover voice drop, girl mode.Longer you wait the worse results you get
>>42162914found a place online now, will try to ship to a friends house, thanks
cant believe poons still believe they can become men if they dont grow the balls to do diy and instead just get cucked by the government
>>42162924good thing im growing balls now then
I hate it, if we all had the same sexualities then sure, the world would be a little less colourful, but imagine how much suffering would end, the sheer amount of people not killed for loving a certain way, having a certain gender, how many families would not hate their members for being themselves It fucking sucks and there's so many misconceptions about it, and others making genders up for fun, the watering down of being gay to just liking dick, the fetishizations and all, it sucksThe world would be better without this, without more suffering for certain people being different
>>42162811Are you illiterate
>>42162754You're retarded if you think heteros live honest and happy lives. To be heterosexual is to deceive yourself and dehumanise the people you love. They are not alive in the sense animals or children are, for instance
>>42162847>to deceive yourself and dehumanise the people you loveNot true at all
>>42162831>opinion on lgbtness>I hate itI don’t care what you have to say after that because you made it clear where you stand lol
>>42162885I'm bisexual ffsI'm saying that if we didn't exist, there'd overall be less suffering
Appealing to the Male Fantasy QOTT: What is your male fantasy?Previous: >>42078964
>>42162758is one not allowed to wonder?
>>42162742i don't notice a size gap in any races. other than latinos (smaller). my experiences with asians have only been chinese or japanese though, no koreans.
>>42162761If you wanna get in contact lmk
>>42162781sorry but im good, was nice talking to you though
>>42162766"latinos" is too broad, mexicans have tiny willies but south americans of any race can treat a gay boy to much better dicking. whether theyre fully italian from argentina or fully african from ecuador or fully indigenous from bolivia barely matters
did anyone else eat their discharge and blood and pretend they were eating a girl out i did it all the time as a kid but i havent been able to do it for 2 years bc of t. > inbw 'ew why' it's the closest i'll ever get to eating pussy
>>42161421One day you'll realize that assuming the worst of everyone is very counterproductive to being happy. Or not, maybe you'll be miserable forever.
>>42158956as an mtf i've definitely done this and also tasted my vaginal discharge
>>42158907yes. didnt know anyone else did
>>42158907Thanks for making me feel nauseous lol.
>>42158907My pussy actually smells so nice so I jdut sniff it but I don't eat any
