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>>40849413
>>QotT #1: How was your summer anon ?
GARBAGE!!!
Managed to put on some muscle and smoked some good weed though so it's not all gray
>>QotT #2: Any plans for fall ?
Playing the games I couldn't play this summer, now that I'm gonna have money again to purchase Expedition 33.
>>optional QotT: what's your favorite autumn activity ?
Uhhhh idkkkkk it probably involves eating or drinking with friends though

Also filters didn't pick up the thread I've got to match for /big/ too now baka my head

>>40849413
look at that gay jester lol

his gay little faggot dance lmao

gay as fuck

>>40849413
>we can cuddle while watching the rain now that summer is ending
I could use that...

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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that tomorrow at 21 GMT we will vote for the next two movies for Movie Night! If you want you can also give your recommendation by replying to this post

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>when will movie night take place?
its FRIDAY at 22 gmt

>where do we watch the movies?
on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/GYkt22nq

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

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>>40849413
>QotT #1: How was your summer anon ?
it was aids ridden gorilla dick thank u for asking
>spent most of it unemployed and broke
>met with this guy who i really liked only for him to ghost me bc he went back to his ex gf
>got hired for a decent paying job with good benefits only to be fired not even two weeks of working there
its a miracle that i havent killed myself tbdesu im just hoping that the fall/winter months will at least treat me right
>QotT #2: Any plans for fall ?
not rly im just gonna continue working for the meantime (found a new job but its only short term)
>optional QotT: what's your favorite autumn activity ?
binge watching scary movies and drinking starbucks pumpkin chai
i also like listening to my fall playlist while walking around campus but im not going back to school this semester unfortunately

>>40850502
> only to be fired not even two weeks of working there

How

Y'all, I hate my trans friend. I finally came out as bi and wanting to be a femboy to her, and she just laughed and said she knew all along. Her words, "I'm a gay trans girl, but you acted like the fruitiest guy ever. Like more fruity than the average gay man. It was really only a matter of time. Still love you though fag" She's great but really fucks with me.

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>>40850536
in my country we usually have a probationary period for the first three months of employment where u can get fired for literally no reason at all
the reason that they gave me was that i “didnt meet expectations” and refused to elaborate on that despite literally all of my coworkers thinking otherwise it was literally so sudden and everyone was praising me for how good i was adjusting at the job
apparently this has happened to multiple other employees

>>40849413
>/big/ and not /bigen/
Put yourself in the ground

>>40851956
no u

Tits in my butt

>>40849413
>qott1
First half was great and second half was abysmal
Basically a trans girl broke my heart
>qott2
Flying out to visit my mom in a few weeks
She offered to buy the tickets because of how depressed I've been lol

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>>40854280

im a dude, i have a fujo gf, i bought a dildo without her knowing. is that bad? should i tell her or is that more personal (me self pleasuring myself)

>>40855939
if shes a fujo then i guess shed be into it, but it is your business. if she doesnt approve you can still use it anyway

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>>40851956
>>40849747
I thought I'd entertain the suggestion from the previous thread, my bad for not putting also /bigen/ in it

>>40849948
They be having a jolly ol good time

>>40849413
>QotT #1: How was your summer anon ?
awful, plans with my so got cancelled, neighbours drove me crazy and I had to go back on temp meds at regular intervals, had to tell every professional that follows me that I was getting worse and had to go out of a program I was in, scared my so because they witnessed one of my crises, didn't even get to see my best friend like I wanted to and my sister only once and our cat is probably sick
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
at least it's getting better since the end of last week and I'm not struggling with thinking of kms anymore

>QotT #2: Any plans for fall ?
Finally seeing my so after 6 months, maybe exercising like I planned to before this awful summer

>optional QotT: what's your favorite autumn activity ?
....cuddling/covering myself in bed sheets while watching the rain

>>40854495
how'd she break your heart?

>>40850869
Well, you ARE a faggot so...

>>40856930
This is true, but come on man

>>40857358
nah ur being too sensitive
you're a fruitcake, own it

>>40857382
You know what anon, sure. I'll start being obnoxiously bisexual and faggy at all times.

>>40857394
based do that

>>40856555
>at least it's getting better since the end of last week and I'm not struggling with thinking of kms anymore
That's very good to hear, hope everything gets better !

good morning bigen

>QotT #1: How was your summer anon ?
meh, it gets really soupy outside where i am so i stayed inside a lot. got to travel a bit tho and went to the beach like twice. also i got engaged!

>QotT #2: Any plans for fall ?
going to berlin with my fiancé!

>optional QotT: what's your favorite autumn activity ?
halloween-themed amusement park nights

>QotT #1: How was your summer anon ?
Bretty gud. Didn't really do everything I wanted to do but I've had alot going on as far as home repairs and stuff like that.
>QotT #2: Any plans for fall ?
mushroom hunting and fishing and of course enjoying the leaves and the crisp air
>optional QotT: what's your favorite autumn activity ?
there's a very specific time period for fishing during the fall called the "false spawn" that's probably my favorite time of year. Otherwise hiking and mushroom hunting is my favorite activity

I want a person who is attractive that I can put my cum into whenever I want. I always cum in the toilet, or a paper towel. I wish I could just relax and let someone I love swallow it.

>>40858632
Brother you need to workshop the way you deliver this message

>>40858717
If my ability to get my dick sucked can be prevented by the truth, I don't deserve to get my dick sucked.

I wonder what would happen if I took a gay boy and a dyke and I put the gay boy's penis in the dyke's pussy and then fucked the gay boy until he had a prostate orgasm and a child. I think maybe bisexuals are the key to homosexual fertility.

If the dyke has a problem getting cooked by a homo with a dick up his ass, we can just get my bisexual wife to make out with her or sit on her face or whatever so she will still be turned on. Bisexuals can save the white race from homosexuality like this (by making homosexuals fertile and thus answering the gay question).

>>40858935
*cocked
Sorry, autocorrect

>>40850339
I’ve been in this for ages maybe I’ll actually check it out this month!

>>40855939
Tell her. She'll probably want to use it on you.

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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that at 21 GMT we will choose the next 2 movies for movie night!
You can give your recommendation now by replying to this post

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>when will movie night take place?
its FRIDAY at 22 gmt

>where do we watch the movies?
on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/GYkt22nq

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

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>>40857884
Thanks anon, it truly is nice when things get better, good god it's hard to remember sometimes when you're in the midst of terrifyingly bad things happening to you

>>40859110
wah, nice anon, hope you'll like it, don't forget to vote or propose a movie ! you don't have much time now for a rec, but maybe next week ?

>>40858889
only one way to find out

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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

The poll is now open, no further recommendations will be accepted.
The voting will stop tomorrow at around 4 PM GMT, so be sure to vote before then!

Here is the link to the server:
https://discord.gg/eQAcZ9eM

>>40849413
>>QotT #1: How was your summer anon ?
horrible. quit my job now i'm NEET again. I was on the verge of getting fired so I just left
>>QotT #2: Any plans for fall ?
i'm getting therapy
>>optional QotT: what's your favorite autumn activity ?
does looking at the trees with different color leaves count

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>>40862820
LETS GO WAR OF WORLDS

WHOOOOOAAAAAAAAAAAAA THEY WANT OUR DATA

DONT LET THE ALIENS EAT MY PORNHUB HISTORY AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

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why do so many breakup texts sound like theyre written by a hr team drafting a rejection letter? talking about “i wish you luck in the future” jfc i wish people would actually allow themselves to be human instead of acting like robots that were coded to otherpathologize everything

>>40865450
Chatgpt probably

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>>40865467
i dont want to be reminded that an alarming amount of people are relying on artificial intelligence to articulate their thoughts and words just bc they cant be honest with themselves
im starting to think ted kaczynski made some points im ngl

>>40863901
>i'm getting therapy
That's really good anon I hope it gets better
>does looking at the trees with different color leaves count
Yes ofc it does, especially if it makes you happy
>>40865480
>an alarming amount of people are relying on artificial intelligence to articulate their thoughts and words just bc they cant be honest with themselves
It's even worse than you think it is

>>40849413
>QOTT
bureaucratic hole the entire time and I'm not anywhere near out of it
>QOTT2
suffering
>optional
hiking and suicide

I’m mostly straight, but sometimes I get insanely horny about having gay sex with a young hot athletic guys in secret. It has to be in secret. It mirrors the way my male cousin molested me a few times when I was a kid. I am reenacting my trauma. The guilt and shame stemming from this even has been a dark cloud hanging over my entire life. Sometimes it makes me think some really dark thoughts.

>>40864837
this

>>40865480
Sexy Fish

>>40867991
Unironically seek therapy for this.

I don't think I can vape anymore guys. I just feel sick afterwards.

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>QotT #1: How was your summer anon ?
Bike forever waiting to get repaired. Can't focus all summer and I kinda feel like crap. Anyways I still draw.
>>40850869
Is that flirting...

Any good book recommendations?

Just curious about age demographics: how old are y’all? I’m in my late 20s

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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

And we have the two winners!:

>Porco Rosso
>War of the worlds (2025)

So see ya later at 22 GMT!

>>40849413
>qott1
not great desu but met up with friends once and made some new ones so that was nice
>qott2
buying sextoys and eating chestnuts
>>40872164
31 and hating it

>>40871516
cute skirt poses
I really like how you're never afraid of vast spaces lay. I usually have a compulsion to fill everything with stuff so it's impressive to me that you can do it that way

>>40872145
The Man Who Spoke Snakish by Andrus Kivirähk
I would rec another that I've read but that one seems to be the only translated in english

>>40872164
about to hit 30

>>40866498
sorry to hear you're having a bad time anon, from someone who's done their fair share of self-harm and such, I really hope you get to have good times soon and it all gets better. You can have those things, don't give up

>>40872393
>I really like how you're never afraid of vast spaces lay. I usually have a compulsion to fill everything with stuff so it's impressive to me that you can do it that way
Idk what you mean.
Some of it is a bit still, such is the problem with wooden dolls to figure out pose ideas.

>>40872164
im turning 24 in december

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>>40872164
28 feeling like 30.

>>40872382
>>40872393
>>40872585
>>40872671
Huh we're all around the same age then. Wishing you anons a nice weekend

>>40849413
I'm pretty sure I may end up getting fucked by my professor and his wife... either that or they both have a strange sense of what it means to be a mentor.

>QOTT1
It was good, I didn't get quite as much reading as I wanted done, but got some other things taken care of.
>QOTT 2
School. FFS in about a month, with a second op in November. Here's to hoping for a speedy recovery.

Do any of you use apps? I've tried Grindr, but as a trans woman, it's kind of horrific.

>>40872507
I don't really know how to put it into words....
it's like you go to very fine details in parts but aren't afraid to leave others very blank, giving the whole a good sense of space and scale

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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that in 2 hours Movie Night is gonna start! Here is tonight's selection:

>Porco Rosso
>War of the worlds (2025)

>what the hell is "movie night"
Its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>where do we watch the movies?
On the official Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/eQAcZ9eM

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

>>40872164
36, maybe the oldest ITT lol

>>40873619
nope, im 39 :(

>>40871516
>Is that flirting?
I used to have a crush on her, but it just didn't work out. Now we're best friends and she's just British. Bants are her love language

bisexual "lesbian" orientationplay and cuckqueaning is so goddamn hot. ///0.0///
end of psa.

>>40873488
war of the pork

>>40869552
I don’t tell anyone what happened. When I was a kid, I told one of my friends, and he used the information to blackmail me. Apart from 4chan, I’ve never told anybody else and I don’t think I ever will.

>>40877942
thats really messed up anon, im sorry to hear that. be that as it may, a therapist would never do something like that. I really suggest you see one so you wont be carrying this pain your whole life

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LOL, LMAO...

Was talking to a guy seriously for the first time
Already fumbled him but it's time to come out now so I don't have to stumble through this later next time
Visiting my mom next week and gonna tell her, hope it goes well.
Feel like coming out as bi should be such a non-issue but it's way higher likelihood you're gonna be challenged for it or not believed

>>40872164
Turned 22 this summer !

>>40873241
>Do any of you use apps? I've tried Grindr, but as a trans woman, it's kind of horrific.
I got on grindr recently, and I don't think I've got it as bad as you do as a cis man but it's pretty bad desu.
Other than that I don't believe in dating apps, I just wanted sex so no I don't use apps

>>40879958
i'm trans and i really like grindr when i want a quick hookup
i just let people dm me, instablock any uggos, men over 35 and men with dicks under 6 inches and i pick the 4-5 hottest guys out of the bunch, chat to them for like 24 hours to make sure they're not psychos and then meet up an get my insides pulverized

demons at the door

>>40865450
Yeah I had a gf break up with me and in person it’s not much better. They go full HR in person too. Like just tell me what I did wrong there is no company liability to protect here

>>40865480
ted kaczynski Was right about everything

>>40872164
I’m 30

>>40879504
Hopefully it’ll all turn out well. Wishing you luck anon.

>>40879971
I wish hooking up with girls was this easy.

>>40873241
>I'm pretty sure I may end up getting fucked by my professor and his wife... either that or they both have a strange sense of what it means to be a mentor.
Elaborate. I want to hear more about this.

>Do any of you use apps? I've tried Grindr, but as a trans woman, it's kind of horrific.
Yes but I'm a guy and I just use it similarly to >>40879971 when I need a new male FWB. I don't bother to block people unless they send me multiple crazy messages, I just ignore if I'm not into it.

>>40880459
fuck trannies they're all desperate for cock and validation

>>40880741
Only difference from regular girls is how open they are about it

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>>40880741
>>40882606
maybe 2026 is the year when i should be starting my journey of celibacy and modesty

>>40883424
I give until mid-February before you're back on the dating apps

>>40883498
do u not believe in me :’(

>>40885308
I believe in your insatiable thirst for validation

>>40883424
Nah fuck that. Sex is great

>>40872318
>>40873488
Porco Rosso is so good

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>>40885433
usually i agree but after experiencing a breakup this summer + being on a sort of casual sex spree as a means to cope i realized its not what i want atm and deleted all of my apps
my friend suggested that i should “explore my kinkier side” more bc thats what i enjoyed with the guy i was seeing and so i made a fetlife but after talking to a couple of self proclaimed doms i realized how much i fucking hate how i talk so currently i am on my lonesome and if a guy i like that likes me who also happens to match my freak i might as well put a ring on it

Bi guy here, never asked or talked about this but I want to know your opinions. Why do you think there are so many bisexual men that are or say they are bisexual but not romantically bi (myself included)? Is there actual evidence for this being a thing or is it a cope and if you could reprogram yourself/get over internalized homophobia you would find guys romantically interesting? Try as I might I just can't do it, men are only hot to me in a porn setting and even then it's more of a conceptual thing/bottoming turns me on. I hesitate to just call it a fetish but it may be. If I'm at a club/on the beach, I never look at men. I've been alive for 32 years and I've never once had an actual crush on a man. But could I be in some sort of deep denial? Or is the sexual/romantic split genuine?

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>>40880432
honestly id much rather risk coming across as manipulative instead of cloaking my language in falsely comforting hr speak just so i can avoid hurting the other persons feelings as much as i possibly can while also avoiding my responsibilities for the other persons feelings the best i can bc u know what at least i say whats on my mind and that i wear my heart on my sleeve

>>40887603
>Why do you think there are so many bisexual men that are or say they are bisexual but not romantically bi (myself included)
because they crave a sense of normalcy (especially if they have any sort of proximity to any majority group)
in a world where we face discrimination just for who we are we often seek out ways we can be accepted by majority groups (this is how u get “nlogs” and “pick mes”)
for reference im a straight trans woman and im stealth (i rly only disclose potential partners) bc i dont want my trasness to impact how other people see me; i want them to perceive me as a woman first instead of someone who is “trans”
id imagine it is more or less the same situation with bi guys that prefer women; they want to be perceived as “”mostly straight”” instead of bisexual if that makes any sense

>>40880437
Well the solution was dogshit but otherwise yeah.

>>40886639
Assuming you’re a cis male anon: it sounds like you’ve had much more sex than I have and are making the right choice for you. I have poor social skills and am not very conventionally attractive so I don’t get a lot of those opportunities hence taking all the ones I get. I always get astounded when I hear stories of people who can just have sex whenever they want, feels like another world

>>40888673
im a trans woman dummy!

Holy shit how did penny end up the servers only mod? Shes insane. Every shitstorm leads back to her. She is the worst possible choice for mod. Literally anyone else would have been better. For gods sakes wu give it to someone else.

>>40889106
I’m glad I’m not the only one that despises her, she comes across as so smug and condescending.

>>40887603
>>40887853
I'm openly bi but I legit just have no romantic interest in men. Even for one night stands, I'm happy to snuggle with women all night, but with men once I'm no longer horny I just have no interest.

>is the sexual/romantic split genuine?.
Not only do I think it's genuine, I think it's important to be clear about it and not mislead anybody. I'd never want to lead on any of the guys I've hooked up with and make them think there's potential for more.

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>>40849413
>QotT #1: How was your summer anon ?
Nothing surprising really, pretty boring. I’m about to finish college

>QotT #2: Any plans for fall ?
Maybe try dating, idk. I’ve been single for too long, I need some affection

>optional QotT: what's your favorite autumn activity ?
“Walking in some park while listening to music, I guess.”

>>40849413
>QotT #1: How was your summer anon ?
Spent half of it poor as dirt.
>QotT #2: Any plans for fall ?
Ex is texting me again so probably gonna do that for another 2-3 months
>optional QotT: what's your favorite autumn activity ?
anything fire related

>>40887603
I'm the other way around if that's any help, I can't see myself romantically involved with a woman ever unless she's at least bi and openly queer too

>>40889106
She's not the only mod, she's one of four and a vocal person regardless. We just like funky colors in here

>>40849413
>QotT #1: How was your summer anon ?
I just lost like a shitload of weight inadvertently (10 days straight of hiking) and finally hit the goal weight I've been trying to reach for years (165lbs @ 6'1"). I need to maintain twink status and prevent my fatass from overeating...
>QotT #2: Any plans for fall ?
University classes and hanging out with people. Maybe if I'm lucky I can get with the guy I'm crushing on

>>40893475
Damn keep staying in shape anon good for you!

>>40894345
Thanks fren. It was a field school course for my degree so it was nice to know that I had it in me. I actually REALLY enjoy hiking, but walking in the city kinda blows... I'll have to figure out some sort of cardio that I like.

>>40893475
I'm having the opposite experience (in a good way). I've been dating a Russian girl who cooks a lot, been eating a bit healthier food and more food than normal. Gained some weight and it was bothering me for a bit but I realized I can bench 3x5 205 lbs now, which means my 1RM is probably 225 lbs. When I started exercising I could barely lift the bar lol

>>40880432
are you a man? women get killed for rejecting men. men commit mass murders for getting divorced and broken up with

I love cisgender bisexual women so much, it's unreal.

>>40887603
sissy fetish

page 8 bump

>>40896513
Naw, not a man… Well might be trans, but I’ll never chop my boobs off. You still make a pretty good point. The girl had previously only dated men so she was probably pulling from “break up mode.”
>>40899165
Cute

>>40892865
I assume they meant she is one of the two who isnt admins, with the other one being diana. The fact that she got mod just by being the server owners best friend is problematic enough. The fact that the only other non admin mod is her girlfriend is another. The fact that she repeatedly has done things that should have gotten her banned, yet she did not get banned due to being the server owners best friend is a big fucking problem. Friend nepotism destroys communities. Shes literally bipolar and just lashes out at people at random. She should not have any powers in the discord at all.

>>40900084
Page 9 bump

>>40849413
>QotT #1:
I live in the souther hemishpere so it was a comfy, cozy winter for me. I enjoyed it!
>QotT #2:
Likewise, it'll be spring instead of fall for me. I'll stay inside and enjoy an out of season but globalized pumpkin spice latte or two
>optional QotT
Eating comfort food unironically

I have a question for you in return. I'm pretty sure I am bisexual so I won't ask "Am I bi" but rather I'll ask whether anyone else here has a similar experience to mine
>attracted to women almost exclusively
>attracted to some FICTIONAL males
>can get infatuated by some males IRL but only for fetishistic reasons

Sexual solipsism can be defined as the cognitive and social phenomenon in which individuals, whether straight, gay, or bisexual, are unable or unwilling to recognize the plurality of sexual orientations and instead project their own orientation, desires, and fantasies as universal. It manifests in statements like “I’m straight, but I have this fantasy, every straight guy does” or “I’m gay, but I have this fantasy, every gay guy does.”

This is not merely sloppy phrasing. It betrays a deeper failure of imagination: the inability to conceive of a sexual world outside one’s own internal compass. The person assumes their desires are the template for all others, as though sexuality were simply a private mirror into which everyone else must be gazing.

And here’s the bewildering, infuriating part: one might almost excuse this in a straight majority, where heteronormativity has conditioned people to think their own experience is “default.” But for those in a sexual minority, gay men, bi men, who should know better, who should feel in their bones the experience of being othered, excluded, misunderstood, it is astonishing to see them lapse into the same solipsistic blindness. If you have spent your life as a minority fighting against being projected upon, how could you then turn around and project your sexuality as a universal law?

This is not simply ignorance, but a profound lack of empathy. To deny that other people’s desires might diverge radically from your own is to flatten the richly varied landscape of sexuality into a dull, monochrome copy of yourself. It is a refusal to grant others their subjectivity, their difference. Sexual solipsism, at its core, is narcissism disguised as common sense.

>>40903125
And so, when a gay man says “Every gay guy feels this way”, or a bi man insists “Everyone’s at least a little bi”, it’s not just an innocent generalization, it’s a betrayal. A betrayal of their own hard-won awareness that orientation is not universal, not interchangeable, not reducible to me, reflected endlessly in others.

In short: sexual solipsism is the failure to grasp that the axis of sexuality does not always run through the self.

>>40903125
>>40903133
lol you're right but I don't think it has anything to do with us. The crazy people outside of /bigen/ posting about everyone (or nobody) REALLY being gay/straight/bi aren't the same people who post here.

>>40898359
Me too

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Fucking nerds

>>40898359
>>40903956
well I like you too, random anons. in a better world all guys would be bi

>>40905360
Bi4bi is the most fun world

>>40905395
the ideal world, really. fuck i hope we all get to go there some day, straight guys always have me feeling awkward about my fantasies

>>40905527
I have a bi gf and who's into me being bi and it's been fantastic. We are super open about fantasies with each other, even if they involve attractions to others.

Hi guys n girls, bi zoomer guy here. How do you cope with a massive romantic crush on a guy you only know over the internet? We talk all the time and have a ton in common, every other thing he says makes me want to suck his dick bc hes so cute, but he lives in another country and I don't know if hes even bi or gay himself.
I get the right answer is probably "move on, find someone else", but my attraction is almost totally romantic and emotional for this guy specifically and its really hard to find people you click with so well. Idk I'm basically looking for sympathy ig.

>>40888673
>I always get astounded when I hear stories of people who can just have sex whenever they want, feels like another world
She's a woman/bottom, so that explains it: it's as easy for them to get dicked by men as it is for us to get milked of our money by women.

>>40906233
It's more just being into men. You can be a top/bottom/woman/ftm/mtf/man, doesn't matter, if you're looking for men to fuck, you will find them.

>>40872164
I am turning 22 next month
Also how can I stop feeling like I am wasting my life? I have my own place I am renting with my longterm gf, have a good job with people I like, have a somewhat fluctuating social life, hobbies and personal goals I am working on and my own business
But why do I feel like I am running out of time/wasting my time? Is it because I haven't kissed any guys??

>>40906297
>Also how can I stop feeling like I am wasting my life?
Not gonna be able to help you with that one lel, especially considering you're doing way better than me at the same age